coastalbender Posted February 5, 2019 Report Posted February 5, 2019 Whatever my "preferences" are, what I like is what he wants. Tops usually like some mouth first, so I am thrilled to suck before getting fucked. But I don't have to. Now, that being said, I do always ask to suck after he blows his load up my ass. Never been turned down when I offer mouth cleanup service. If he happens to get hard again, bonus. 1 Quote
catcher4you Posted February 5, 2019 Report Posted February 5, 2019 It’s up to the top. Most of the guys like a bit of oral first, some even like getting rimmed. But I have one buddy who doesn’t like getting sucked so we just get right down to fucking when we get together. Either way, it’s all good if his cock ends up in my hole. Quote
dreamsofblue Posted February 6, 2019 Report Posted February 6, 2019 Depends. If the dick is dirty, I'll clean it up before I put it in my ass. If not then it depends on the top and mood. I also try to clean the dick after the top is done. The only times I don't are if the top doesn't want me to or if it was in a condom. Rubber tastes gross. 1 Quote
RhodyCumhole Posted February 6, 2019 Report Posted February 6, 2019 If he needs some help getting hard, then sure. Go to town! If you're going to get a load in your ass, you better be doing some of the work. If the guy is already hard though, I hate it when he makes me suck his cock. At that point, oral just gets in the way of getting what I really want (and most often, what he wants too), I mean, dude, just fuck me already! Quote
soulpioneer Posted February 11, 2019 Report Posted February 11, 2019 When I top I certainly want my bttm orally servicing my cock, and deepthroat gets me so hot im swelling by that time and ready to plough that asspussy! When fully engorged and throbbing...like him to enjoy sucking/throating that cock before it goes ballsdeep in his hungry ass. Its awesome for the bottom too as his excitement swells with your own. I'll let him suck as long as I want it....til I'm ready to to fuck. Then that ass is mine! 1 Quote
rawsatyr Posted February 11, 2019 Report Posted February 11, 2019 Nothing is DULLER than a lazy bottom who just hikes his (just average or less-than-average-looking) ass up in bed like a lazy dog, expecting to be pleasured! As a 'late-convert versatile bottom' who 'flips' positions occasionally, I know how to seduce a few bottoms and bring out 'the top in them'. How to press the 'buttons' and how to 'talk dirty' to bring out another side to an otherwise predictable game... The worst players are self-declared 'total bottoms', who are so jaded typically all tweaked out, running on empty after three days (off work) with no sleep, with several sex apps and watching porn, assuming 'the customary position' limp-dicked, expecting the ENTERTAINMENT from the NEXT top to bring all the action... into their dull sex-lives. I could get more excitement beating off to porn! Or watching animals fuck! lol 1 Quote
Poz-Mcr Posted February 11, 2019 Report Posted February 11, 2019 Similar to what others have said, when I top I need some other stimulus than just a hole in the air waiting to be mounted. The art of 'foreplay' is often lost these days. I've always needed a 'connection' with any guy, whether he be a bottom or a top - and part of that is to spend time exploring each other. There's nothing worse, for me anyway, than to just be expected by a lazy bottom to get hard, ram into a hole and cum - that might work for some, but for me it's a sure fire way of bringing the meet to an abrupt, very unsatisfactory, close. 1 Quote
beanna Posted February 11, 2019 Report Posted February 11, 2019 I always try to suck a tops cock as hard as possible all for the purpose of it being rock solid to penetrate and shoot its load in my kunt 1 Quote
aargosbot Posted February 12, 2019 Report Posted February 12, 2019 It depends on the top. Most tops like to get sucked first before proceeding to fucking. For me it's a ritual. Undress the top. Go down on him, suck him hard and end by him fucking me. There was only one guy that was rock hard the moment I walked in and didn't want me to suck him. For him getting sucked was love making and he preferred nsa fucking. I haven't been bred by him but he is keen to breed me. Quote
HardaddyMA Posted February 12, 2019 Report Posted February 12, 2019 Oral foreplay is very important in my way of training and using my sub. As this DOM gets older and sexual encounters are much more about quality than quantity: the eager worship of my submissive feeds my need to dominate, and as others have stated, being able skull-fuck my ‘victim’ before enjoying him anally only re-enforces the power exchange. But in addition to that, working a sub thru the specifics of “Sucking THE COCK” by instructing him to be aware when slowing down, and holding THE COCK all the way down, lapping the drips of pre-cum off my gaping cock-head: all stimulate the need and desire to please in my sub and obviously feeds MY need to dominate and control. And, since I am what my regular subs used to call ‘a heavy leaker’ once that pre-cum starts, a focused and aware cock-sucker can taste every gush of my male-hormone-laced pre-cum, which only stimulates the sub’s hungers and desire to be used completely. In fact, my current boi- who is fanatical about worshipping THE COCK with his lips, was quickly moaning and becoming more animated while lip-locked onto MY HARD-ON and gulps down EVERY drop of my pre- as if it were a powerful shot of the cum my horny sub-boi now craves. His talents and COMPLETE focus on pleasing THE COCK with his lips- (even though he wants to be claimed anally even more) stimulates me to have tantric orgasms- the energy and power of my pleasure quickly communicates to my boi thru my cock. After this intense, prolonged and powerful a build-up of our sex-play- my boi’s ass is wet, twitching and begging for THE COCK his mouth has been making love to for the past ½ hour- which makes THE FUCK even more satisfying and intense! 1 Quote
chargedodger Posted February 12, 2019 Report Posted February 12, 2019 Always depends on the top and whether he needs or wants oral pleasure.It is TOO intense for some men,other dearly LOVE it as foreplay!If I am topping hell YES to it!If I am going to btm then its my chance to tease,arouse edge and excite.:) Quote
VicBCtop Posted February 14, 2019 Report Posted February 14, 2019 Oral is not necessary before anal sex but it is necessary After anal sex. Clean my Stick 2 Quote
Phallarchist Posted February 14, 2019 Report Posted February 14, 2019 4 hours ago, VicBCtop said: Oral is not necessary before anal sex but it is necessary After anal sex. Clean my Stick It's not a suggestion or a request. It's the Law. 1 Quote
coastalbender Posted February 25, 2019 Report Posted February 25, 2019 On 2/14/2019 at 12:48 AM, VicBCtop said: Oral is not necessary before anal sex but it is necessary After anal sex. Clean my Stick Yes, clean your stick. Please, please, may I clean your stick? Quote
TTFN Posted June 13, 2019 Report Posted June 13, 2019 On 2/14/2019 at 12:48 AM, VicBCtop said: Oral is not necessary before anal sex but it is necessary After anal sex. Clean my Stick i always clean the stick Quote
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