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Figure I'd put the opposite thread out there as well.  We've all had our annoyances with regards to bathhouses and sex clubs.  Let's try and get a discussion going about the benefits of these places.  What are the positive (no pun intended) aspects of these places?  I'll start it off:

1.  It removes the "glass veil" of the mobile phone screen - the person you see is the person in the flesh; no guessing as to what they are really going to look like.  I think the only surprise would be what they may be packing under the towel.

2.  You realise you may have broader tastes in men than you thought.  Similar to the above, you may see a guy in person that, if you saw his photo on an app, you'd pass him by.  In the flesh, though, you sometimes discover this hidden sexual energy that could lead to some amazing fucking sex!

3.  There's little secret as to why everyone is there.  You rarely have this dance of "is this a date, is this a hookup, what is this" that you sometimes get when meeting guys elsewhere.  I'm not exactly going there to read a library book, after all (that may be showing my age a bit).  

4.  Honestly, it's a great way to relax.  Once I'm in, I usually head straight to the jacuzzi and just kick back for a bit.  Gives you a good chance to check out the options as well.

Will be interesting to see what some of you hot fuckers can add to this.

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You know there are going to be guys there. Will your type be there? Maybe not. If you spend enough time, you'll get what you are looking for, be it topping or bottoming. Just takes time. I don't have to worry about cops busting the place, like an ABS/Theater. Most guys there are usually open to barebacking. Many different places to have sex, including dark rooms, gloryholes, private rooms, and sex equipment. 

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1-There’s still a sense of thrill to bathhouses and I love the anonymity. 

2-They tend to make me a lot more uninhibited, and bring out my inner exhibitionist.

3-Some of them have good installations, and I do like to just relax in the hot tub, watching porn, slowly stroking some random guy.

4-Dark mazes and gloryholes! Letting anyone slide up in my ass. The frenzy when you start putting on a show and everyone starts fucking.

5-Steam room orgies! They don’t always happen, but when they do usually everyone’s playing raw and I can get a couple of loads. 

 

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2 hours ago, TravelGuy4Bareback said:

You know there are going to be guys there. Will your type be there? Maybe not. If you spend enough time, you'll get what you are looking for, be it topping or bottoming. Just takes time. I don't have to worry about cops busting the place, like an ABS/Theater. Most guys there are usually open to barebacking. Many different places to have sex, including dark rooms, gloryholes, private rooms, and sex equipment. 

Funny that, in Oregon as long as you are in a booth, it’s considered a private room and consensual sex between adults. The local ABS where i live shares a parking lot with the State Police Department, which is right next door. 

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What I like about bathhouses like Steamworks in Toronto is the creative combination of private-public sex you can make for yourself and other raw players. You want 1-1 in my room (with door open!), by all means! You want bb sex in the corridor, hell ya! You want bb sex in any darkroom or gloryhole, get your ass ready! Want group bb sex, just start with a couple and build more bb guys in! It’s about truly enjoying men’s bodies and their fluids, relaxing, de-nutting!

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Hey LetsPOZbreed

 especially agree with 1-3 

I liked the bars back in the day because you knew what they looked like - and there are a lot of guys who may not take a good photo but have that certain something that makes you want to bend over and or tell them to bed over- although at the bar there was always the question of are they here to cruise or just out for a drink with friends 

But the baths that question was answered... that and of course being at the baths eliminates the question of your place or mine 

although now, sadly, with some of them there’s is the question of will anybody be there?

 

and Ottpoz - what I like about the baths is they normal make everyone more uninhibited 

And while I love to watch- there is something about a dark room or maze- where you can’t see anything- but you can hear it all...!

 

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1. I like the instant feedback and knowing if someone is interested (or not) so I don't waste time.

2. I like being able to observe and figure out who is into what (top, bottom, versatile, oral, anal etc).

3. I like being able to switch roles. Online I am a versatile bottom but if I am in a topping mood, the anonymity of the bathhouse allows me to do that and I know I will get all the ass I want there.

4. If the weather is cold or dreary, it's very nice to hang out, enjoy the sauna and the steamroom - and get laid too.

5. I find the steamroom to be great relief when my sinuses are acting up.

6. In the bigger cities, bathhouses tend to stay open 24 hours, or at least are open non-stop over the weekend. You don't even need to book a hotel!

7. Some bathhouses offer full meals, which can be quite tasty and priced affordably.

8. Often you can get a nice non-sexual massage at a sauna on very short notice.

9. Because guys are moving between cabins, darkrooms, showers, steamroom and sauna, it's harder for them to be glued to their phones.

10. Hygiene: Most guys shower before and after sex - this and having paper towels available really cuts down on STDs.

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Baths are my exclusive places to have fun.  Apps and on lines is not efficient like a tub.  The time wasted in setting up on line trick and of course they flake or give a lame ass excuse you could have easily got or given several loads.  Too many bridges burnt on line so I go where the serious men who want to play in real life versus fantasy on a screen. Just my opinion. 🐷

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46 minutes ago, Chargedup said:

Baths are my exclusive places to have fun.  Apps and on lines is not efficient like a tub.  The time wasted in setting up on line trick and of course they flake or give a lame ass excuse you could have easily got or given several loads.  Too many bridges burnt on line so I go where the serious men who want to play in real life versus fantasy on a screen. Just my opinion. 🐷

This right here I think is the reason why the tubs should make a big comeback.  Everyone has experienced what you referenced above; everyone laments about it happening time and again.  Why not just go back to the days of instant gratification 🙂  

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The opportunity to experiment, and do things that you might not do otherwise.

 

The chance to hear other guys engaged in whatever activity.  The sounds of sex can be so hot!

 

Being blind, in a bathhouse, it is more acceptable if I "accidently" touch someone.

 

Even if not sexually successful, it is sometimes possible to have a very good conversation with another guy.

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11 minutes ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

The opportunity to experiment, and do things that you might not do otherwise.

 

The chance to hear other guys engaged in whatever activity.  The sounds of sex can be so hot!

 

Being blind, in a bathhouse, it is more acceptable if I "accidently" touch someone.

 

Even if not sexually successful, it is sometimes possible to have a very good conversation with another guy.

So true.  

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everyone is there to have a good time of something-  so there is no wasting of time trying to set something up on line, you can try something different, watch others and to me just relaxing- walking around nude if you want.  I do not know how much time I have wasted trying to set something up with someone met on line-  in a way it is like the adult book stores where you know almost right away if you are going to pair up ( or more) with someone.  Like last night- Sunday was at the adult book store which has a theater and is open to gays and straights)  ( well one night is gay night and one night couples night) .  Last night which was Sunday got fucked by this guy who had a huge thick cock and then twice in the arcade.   So much better than on line games etc.

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