Do Older Men really want Younger Guys?

[NuttinmyButt]

This is an interesting topic.  I’ve seen some interesting comments, some of which really resonate. My attraction hasn’t really changed although my standards have somewhat slipped with age LOL.  Just like when I was 17 I am attracted sexually to 18 - 25 or so smooth twink tops with decent dicks.  It hasn’t changed tjroughout the years and now I am almost 64.  

What has changed is that I spent a lot of time in therapy and I know myself better.  I still love getting fucked but I’m not horny 24/7 and don’t need it all the time.  That means that unless it is someone that really turns me on I won’t go out of my way for sex. 

The other thing that has changed is that I have grown to like myself I want more than sex, I want intimacy   

 I have met some wonderful young men when they were just legal.  Some I have played with, some I ended up not playing with.    

Maybe I care too much, but unless it is a completely anonymous encounter I don’t want to do something that isn’t in their best interest   I find young guys are often using sex in their search for something other than sex   If they are looking oking for a friend, a mentor, someone to validate them, I don’t want to have sex with them, I would rather try to give them what they are really looking for    

The other piece of the puzzle is that while my mind says I want to get gang fucked by hung young guys 24/7, the reality is I like sex, but at this stage I like one on one intimacy even more   

 

Like the origimator of the thread I find it somewhat frustrating that the age of the guys I generally find attractive to me mostly don’t have their heads in the space I am in   I find they are looking for sex and not connection   I have met some wonderful young guys over the years and I won’t give it up  

 

there are some who want sex with intimacy  

 

 

 

 

 

[Muscletamer]

I am in the pnw let me thoroughly wreck you boy

[BiAggieGuy]

On 2/24/2020 at 2:50 AM, cintarius said:

Which town do you live in?

College Station, Texas

[dickluva]

Great topic. I am into older men. Always have been. Recently though, I was at my local bathhouse, Club St Louis, on Sunday afternoon playing in the darkroom with the senior set. None of them could get hard, including me.

 There was one white man under 30 years old who looked so scared it may have been his first time. The geezers woodn't leave it alone, but it wood only watch. When I got to stand next to it in the dark gloryhole dick pit, i shot my load all over it's ass which freeked it out. Young white dude made me nut without even looking at me.

The hot young black men are not any friendlier to me, butt they do seem to be more vocal about it like "Leave me alone gramps," or "Yo, you are handsome but I think you have AIDS." xox

[Slipperyott]

6 hours ago, dickluva said:

Great topic. I am into older men. Always have been. Recently though, I was at my local bathhouse, Club St Louis, on Sunday afternoon playing in the darkroom with the senior set. None of them could get hard, including me.

 There was one white man under 30 years old who looked so scared it may have been his first time. The geezers woodn't leave it alone, but it wood only watch. When I got to stand next to it in the dark gloryhole dick pit, i shot my load all over it's ass which freeked it out. Young white dude made me nut without even looking at me.

The hot young black men are not any friendlier to me, butt they do seem to be more vocal about it like "Leave me alone gramps," or "Yo, you are handsome but I think you have AIDS." xox

I'd like to meet you at Club STL sometime. Think it's possible?

[Bymike]

What is everyone writing essays?

[Guest]

55 here bf 26 and i dont fit any of that he chased me and wore me down to date him we are extremely attentive to each other sexual and non sexual both are scorps and large sexual desires we been together a little over a year and our desire for each other is just as strong. he does feel like a soul mate and i do wish i was 20 years younger but going with the flow and enjoying every minute with him.

[blkboibtm]

As a younger guy that luvs older men.......yes.  most of the guys that fuck or have fucked me were older anywhere from 2-30 yrs older and all my relationships have been wit older men.  

[DarkroomTaker]

Just enjoy and do what feels good and right, sometimes labels and too much thought, makes you lose out on living.

 

Tbh, I have younger and had older, no problems, just enjoyed myself.

[blackrobe]

On 8/14/2020 at 5:26 PM, Bymike said:

What is everyone writing essays?

I wish I'd gone to a school that thought a simple paragraph or two was an essay. I'd have had an easier time at school. 😏

[BootmanLA]

On 8/14/2020 at 7:26 PM, Bymike said:

What is everyone writing essays?

I dunno, maybe, people who have attention spans longer than four seconds?

"Next" buttons and scroll bars exist precisely so that people can skip over things they don't want to read. What I don't understand is people who aren't satisfied with controlling how much information they themselves take in, but want to limit the opportunities for others to do more.

[irishlongpig]

When i was young i had old guys around 60 years 

Now im 59 i love young guys 

Have one whos 18 and is here almost every Sunday afternoon 

hes playing some computer games , later we drink some beer together and watching some porn movies 

Then we eat something and at the end of the day we will have a lot of father and son fun in the bed 

guy is hot and beautifull and the first time we met he didnt know nothing about sex with men 

Now he wont anything else 

[akula]

I fuck around with younger guys because alot of the older guys in my area just don't take care of themselves. They look strung out or have saggy asses and limp cocks. I have fucked around with HOT older guys and would again.

[Guest]

I find younger guys have much more energy and stamina than a lot of older guys. But if I find someone older who is in shape and can keep up with me, they usually have more experience and a hot sweaty time can be had

[Justaholeff]

I used to have high standards, picking play dates and Fuck Buddies as though they were jewels;meant for a life-time. I let a lot of older or younger guys slip away because they weren't my type. Now it's Hey, what's up? Show me your dick and lets
get to it! ; IF even that much... the sleazier, more anon, impersonal, promiscuous and forward the fucker is, the better!
I'm into bareback, fisting, pissing, and any kink of that moment during play.

So after opening up my mind, I've had fun with both older and younger men....men are hot!