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Any role changes thorughout the years?


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For most of my life, I've been fully vers. I enjoyed both roles equally. And normally did flip fucking. I never even considered roles. I'd never ask someone I met if they were a top or bottom. But, for the past few years I've become a total bottom. And I've really embraced my pig bottom, cum dump side the past few years as well. Not sure when it started, but since I've become a total bottom, I've become more submissive in sex. And I enjoy servicing str8 men, where when I was younger, that never would have occurred before. 

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Always knew i was a faggot lol. I had a few girlfriends in high school, but i had this annoying habit of sucking more dick than the girls. ooooops 🤷🏾‍♂️ 

I decided to try topping, the more "manly" gay role, right? Yeah ok That did not last long either lol. I eventually confided in my friend, a true top, that i was curious about taking dick. 

Well my friend made it his business to give me the business. He laid 10inches of stiff Jamaican rod in my asshole. I was hooked from our first encounter. The feel of submitting my friend, his weight on my back, gripping my thighs, the rhythmic fap fap fap as he tapped my ass with his thick dick...OMFG!!!

Our relationship changed. I went from being his boy to his bitch. I understood why women and bottoms before me got hooked on good dick.  He was the first man other than my biological father that I called daddy.

How ironic that the role i ridiculed and despised the most is what i truly craved, succumbed to and became...a bottom faggot. 

15yrs later, and my only regret are the wasted years of pretense as str8 and then a top. 

At best I describe myselfy as homoflexible...gay with bi tendencies. Honestly i haven't had vagina in a decade. Cock is sweeter 🤷🏾‍♂️

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I started out as a top, then switched to being a bottom, but would now classify myself as being somewhere between bottom and versatile. I probably would be fully versatile if there wasn't so much pressure in gay life to top. I have an average sized cock which is not so popular with bottoms - especially bottoms with loose asses. But that's ok. If I want to top, I just go to the bathhouse and try different asses until I find one that fits. God blessed me with a very big round bubble ass. I think I was meant to bottom when I see the reaction of tops when I bust it wide open.

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Mine has switched many times over the years.  I started out as a bottom because every guy that I had sex with wanted to fuck me.  I was using condoms in those days too; I never actually enjoyed it, but I was enjoying the sexual attention.  I got fucked raw for the first time at 20 - the guy didn't put a condom on, and I didn't stop him.  He slid in gently and gave a couple slow pumps, and I was in heaven!  I was still too scared to become a full blown barebacker, though, so I started to get into topping.  Stayed that way through most of uni.  I didn't start bottoming again until my last year; by that point, it was easier to find guys into bb as a top.  There was really no looking back for me after that.  I've been pretty much versatile ever since, but always raw.

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I switch roles, I would say a vers bottom, but I’ve met men that I just want to pull their pants down and just stick my dick up their ass. Plus, since I’m a slut, I never mind getting my dick wet.

Also I fucking love seeing bottoms top. The first time I saw Armond Rizzo top after seeing him take load after load in movie after movie. I think I busted 2 nuts, one after the other. And came more than a couple of times to the video since then!

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  • 3 months later...

I started as a bottom in college and was mostly bottom through the AIDS epidemic in the 1980s. (I've always fetishized the bug, but that's a topic I've discussed on countless other threads on this site.) I eventually became mostly top or top/vers.

My biggest role change, though, has occurred over the last several years: I've mostly given up on anal sex. Hard to believe, given how focused men are on fucking and top/bottom/vers roles in sex. But for me, the best sex is just being naked with another twisted perv who gets off on kissing, making out, lots of body contact, nasty talk, hardcore porn, role playing and exploring taboo fantasies and the darkest corners of our minds. It's a full-on connection in which fucking is only one of any number of ways we can connect intensely on both physical and mental levels. 

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Many guys switch roles and they do it for many reasons. Someone mentioned how Viagra has helped him with topping.  Others find it too much work to be c;leaning their hole so they don't bottom as much and do more topping. Others who have only topped discover that they enjoy getting fucked, and sometimes total tops switch to total bottoms.

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I have been a bottom since day one.  Never topped, no desire to.  I feel like I was born to bottom and to be bred.  Some guys have wanted me to top because my cock is pretty big, but I won't do it.

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i have started when i was a teen as a bottom and have always been a bottom and love it spreading my legs and having a man enjoy my spread legs for him and fuck me. i have always been a bottom!

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I started life as a total top.  It wasn't until I met my ex that I even bottomed.  He taught me the joys of anal sex, taking his big dick.  He kept me in chastity.  The only way I could orgasm was thru being fucked.  I learned that the anal orgasm can be amazing.  Now, I only bottom.  The ex is gone and I look for cock every day.  The cage is gone too, but I still love that anal orgasm most

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