Why do you choose to be a fag?

[BoyStrangler]

Cumdumps don't choose to be faggots. They are born with a deep desire to be used as fucktoys and cum recepticals. That's why they don't care who's cock they suck or who fucks them up the ass and they are willing to do it anywhere you tell them to. They just NEED cock and cum so badly that they are willing to do or say anything to get it. They are addicts for cock and cum. That's why cumdump faggots are so easy to use and degrade and pass around.

[T-Girl-Cumdumpster]

18 minutes ago, BoyStrangler said:

Cumdumps don't choose to be faggots. They are born with a deep desire to be used as fucktoys and cum recepticals. That's why they don't care who's cock they suck or who fucks them up the ass and they are willing to do it anywhere you tell them to. They just NEED cock and cum so badly that they are willing to do or say anything to get it. They are addicts for cock and cum. That's why cumdump faggots are so easy to use and degrade and pass around.

that's me for sure. I really had no choice. I have always been a cockhungry, cumthirsty, cocksucking bareback bottom with a lust for multiple cocks all the time. Even blowing groups of guys, gang bangs and public sex came to me naturally. being passed around and whored out to other men, and being a bathhouse cumdumpster, porntheatre slut and a tranny fucktoy are what I was born to do.

[Guest]

51 minutes ago, BoyStrangler said:

Cumdumps don't choose to be faggots. They are born with a deep desire to be used as fucktoys and cum recepticals. That's why they don't care who's cock they suck or who fucks them up the ass and they are willing to do it anywhere you tell them to. They just NEED cock and cum so badly that they are willing to do or say anything to get it. They are addicts for cock and cum. That's why cumdump faggots are so easy to use and degrade and pass around.

Sounds like me. Can’t tell you how much I crave having cock in me. And how far I’ll go to get it. And how much having multiple men use me turns me on. 

[Guest]

There were times in my life where I attempted to be "normal". I got married a couple of times, had kids...the whole thing. But, during that time the desire, the craving and the NEED for Cock would always overwhelm me and I'd be on my knees in a sleazy adult bookstore or a dirty public restroom sucking Cocks and getting fucked. I just couldn't stay away from Cock no matter how hard I tried. I needed a Man to use me, degrade me, fuck me and breed me. That was when I actually felt "normal".

So, I agree with most here. I didn't choose to be a faggot, I just AM a faggot. My asspussy is my sex organ. My purpose is to be a willing receptacle of Real Mens cum. That, is my normal. I like being normal. LMGAO!

[CumAddict]

I didn’t choose. I look and feel like a real man but I’ve always been made to be filled with cums by real males. And its even better for me if they aren’t gay. I was made to be used by males. I only feel good when cocks are in my asshole, in my mouth, filled and covered with cums. So l am a faggot and ready to do whatever they ask me to do for cocks, balls, armpits, cum etc etc etc

[nikkisiisyfag]

10 hours ago, BoyStrangler said:

Cumdumps don't choose to be faggots. They are born with a deep desire to be used as fucktoys and cum recepticals. That's why they don't care who's cock they suck or who fucks them up the ass and they are willing to do it anywhere you tell them to. They just NEED cock and cum so badly that they are willing to do or say anything to get it. They are addicts for cock and cum. That's why cumdump faggots are so easy to use and degrade and pass around.

that is correct description for me.. 

i feel i dont choose my attraction to real men.. im born to be faggot urging for cock and cum that i feel is very true..

and often anywhere since get horny and extremly submissive.. Ill even say and degrade myself extremly when have to.. looove cock and cum so bad..

Im a cock and cum addict... im very good being used, degraded with pleassure and often passed or shared around.. more and more lately

[manux32ccs]

12 hours ago, BoyStrangler said:

Cumdumps don't choose to be faggots. They are born with a deep desire to be used as fucktoys and cum recepticals. That's why they don't care who's cock they suck or who fucks them up the ass and they are willing to do it anywhere you tell them to. They just NEED cock and cum so badly that they are willing to do or say anything to get it. They are addicts for cock and cum. That's why cumdump faggots are so easy to use and degrade and pass around.

It is a reality, my partner is like that, a real bitch. When we started our relationship, he was quite shy and a conversation arose about threesomes, orgies, swingers, to which I told him that I wanted to see him get fucked by other men, from that moment we joined more and I have already delivered him in several gangbangs (two of they bareback) where he has ended up drenched in semen and urinated, and the best ending is to kiss and felchize him knowing he was used and demoted like a fagot bitch.

[Guest postopgurl]

I was a small male and even though i tried to be tough, i new it was an act. Growing up i was often propistioned by my friends. The ones who had it together knew i was a fag and would let me know clearly what my mouth and ass was good for and i liked it. 

I transitioned to female simply to demonstrate my desire to be completly submissive to anouther mans hard cock.

[hotguy02]

I was trained by daddy to be a bottom 

[ChubbyPig]

Same here, my Master was the first man who fucked me and turned out my real sexuality as a gay bottom.

[ashtx]

On 7/15/2020 at 6:43 PM, nikkisiisyfag said:

like all older men and alphas tell me or told me im just whore sissy faggot

Yes, exactly. I had an idea by the time I was 14-15, but didn't really know til a few years later when three trans girls all said the same thing when they saw how horny I got when servicing dick.

After that another alpha dom convinced me beyond a shadow of a doubt that I was not only a bottom slut fag, but also a sub bitchboi meant to please and drain big white dicks. The faggotry came first, the feminization came later.

[viking8x6]

The way you phrase the question is not meaningful in my world view.

First, I don't "choose to be" gay, it's simply part of the way I am made, like having blue eyes or freckles.

Second, I don't consider it undignified to get on my knees and suck a man's dick, any more than any other kind of sex is undignified. The whole "degradation" aspect that can show up in sexual relations (and indeed which some people seem to crave and enjoy, in one role or the other) just doesn't click inside my brain for whatever reason.

I'm not judging here - it doesn't seem to me that either way of seeing it is wrong. They're just different. Almost eight billion people and counting, and still everyone has to be either "straight" or "gay" (well, ok, there are a few more boxes in the QUILTBAG world, but still only a couple of dozen). How absurd!

[BootmanLA]

26 minutes ago, viking8x6 said:

The way you phrase the question is not meaningful in my world view.

First, I don't "choose to be" gay, it's simply part of the way I am made, like having blue eyes or freckles.

Second, I don't consider it undignified to get on my knees and suck a man's dick, any more than any other kind of sex is undignified. The whole "degradation" aspect that can show up in sexual relations (and indeed which some people seem to crave and enjoy, in one role or the other) just doesn't click inside my brain for whatever reason.

I'm not judging here - it doesn't seem to me that either way of seeing it is wrong. They're just different. Almost eight billion people and counting, and still everyone has to be either "straight" or "gay" (well, ok, there are a few more boxes in the QUILTBAG world, but still only a couple of dozen). How absurd!

THIS.

Here's the thing for me: I get it that many of you want to be pigeon-holed into some very specific role, usually something subject to degradation, and that's fine. Do your thing.

And I get that for many of you, every "question" asked here (except, I hope, in the HIV/Sexual Health forum) is really designed to provoke long strings of fantasy shit, with every poster egging on the next with a "top this" attitude. Frequently it's phrased in the form of "should" - should cumdumps thank their tops, should faggots take any load, should [fill in the blank with term du jour degrading bottoms] do [fill in with degrading action], often with qualifying details like "no matter what", "no matter how disgusting the top is", "any time he's told", blah blah blah blah blah blah blah.

Honestly it's enough to merit its own entire section here, but, here's the thing. I know it's here, and I find it essentially useless and a waste of electrons, but I can ignore it, because that, to me, is what it's worth. It would certainly be easier to ignore if all the made-up bullshit about how X person will take any load any time any where from anyone even in front of the entire US Congress because that's just how depraved X person is were actually stuck in a section of the site specifically for that, but thankfully, they make the subject lines so outrageously silly that they can be overlooked easily. Just please stop treating every corner of this site as though it's one more spot you have to mark as "your territory" by pissing all over it.

[ErosWired]

@BootmanLA - To clarify, do you include the question that is the topic of this thread as one of the types of questions you’re describing?

In general, I tend to agree with your characterization of most of those “Should a bottom” questions. This topic, however, touches on something a little more complex, in my view - whether the OP intended it to or not.

Read at surface level, Why do you choose to be [a man who has sex with men] is simply answered: We don’t choose it, we just are it. But there are deeper readings.

Why do you choose to be [a man who takes the receptive role in sex with other men] does introduce the element if choice or preference. At this level, there may be an inferred subtext concerning masculinity or submissiveness, but not necessarily degradation or even promiscuity.

Why do you choose to be a faggot (in the specific sense of a promiscuous bottom who allows himself to be used serially and perhaps abused) is actually a complex question the answer to which is likely to vary significantly from individual to individual. I don’t perceive the question as meaningless in the way @viking8x6 does; for me, the question causes me to reflect on the influences and choices in my life that have led me to a decision to repeatedly give my body over to the sexual use, and abuse, of strangers in spite of the hazards involved.

Does the question actually imply that I have chosen to be degraded? That depends on what the reader himself attaches to the word ‘fag’. Assuming I take that word to imply degradation, the question then causes me to ask myself if I have in fact allowed myself to be degraded, and if so, why? If I acknowledge that, by some standard, I have become degraded or devolved by my own choice, how, then, do I answer the question in a way that expresses a self-understanding that I still may not fully possess?

Of course, most people probably don’t introspect the way I do (it’s a habit) and if they get past the surface read probably answer the question with something like “Because I’m a pig.” And that’s probably as honest an answer as any. But altogether, I don’t think this particular question is as vapid or pointless as many of the others of the kind you’re talking about.

On 7/28/2020 at 5:10 PM, BootmanLA said:

It would certainly be easier to ignore if all the made-up bullshit about how X person will take any load any time any where from anyone even in front of the entire US Congress

I’m at my best when getting fucked in front of an audience... but that holds no appeal for me. Who would notice? It’s a nonstop clusterfuck there already.

Edited July 30, 2020 by ErosWired

[BootmanLA]

ErosWired - To answer as best I can:

I definitely consider the "main" question at the top to be one of those that starts out with a lot of assumptions. One could argue it only is meant to be answered by people who think "fag" is the proper way to refer to themselves - in which case I can just skip over it, because I don't self-identify that way at all; and in fact, I seldom can stomach being in the same room as people who do, so from that perspective I should just skip the topic entirely.

But it can also be read as a challenge - calling ALL of us "fags" and assuming we chose, in some fashion (as you outline possibilities) to be one. I try to avoid that interpretation because I don't want the thread to become a long argument over how people self-identify.

There are plenty of those "assuming" threads, such as "Do you regret having a loose ass?" (instead of "If you have a loose ass, do you regret it?"). Or "Bitch, Fag, Slave, or Object: what are you or what do you like?", as though those are the only possible options. They're not that far removed from the "Should" topics that I also steer clear of, as you note. 

So no, it's not necessarily vapid.  I just think it, like many others here, start out with an assumption about its audience that perhaps should be made clearer. Or perhaps even better, put in a section of its own, so the self-flagellators whose every enjoyment is derived from thinking of themselves as the lowest of the low (and which thus spills over into EVERY freaking post they make, somehow) could have a place of their own to root around in like the happy little pigs they are/want to be. And then those who want to discuss topics without every other reply being a tiresome variant of "As a scum-sucking bottom-feeding worthless whore whose only role is to please SUPERIOR men..." even if the question is something like "Is it presumptive to leave a fresh toothbrush in its package on the counter in case you have an overnight guest?"