Soft when fucked

[Read1]

Does it really matter if we're hard while getting fucked? I think our sense as bottoms of having to be hard comes from porn. For me, as long as the one fucking and the one fucked are enjoying themselves -- that's what is important!

[Pozguyinchi]

I really try not to pay attention to my clit during breeding. I recently started to lock up my clit and it was only then I noticed that there are times my clit tries to get hard. For me it’s a non issue. My sex organ is getting used. My clit is not important.

[bentover66]

On 10/22/2020 at 11:43 PM, find91 said:

Can you get an erection not getting fucked?

It's pretty common, a lot of anal stimulation can distract you from an erection.

Yes  actually I can , I do get hard when I am thinking about sex or watching porn

[Twinkasianboy]

I don't stay hard unless I'm being stimulated. 

[BBArchangel]

I don’t always get hard when getting fucked, but I do often cum.  In fact I’ll have multiple orgasms if it’s a good long fuck. It’s different though because my cum just oozes out of me instead of rocketing out. It’s all good though.

[SugarWalls]

I have been locked in chastity for more than three years now and before I was caged, I would rarely get hard when getting fucked. I obviously don't now due to the cage but I am more aroused in my cock, leaking much more precum and able to ejaculate without being physically hard. 

[Cumfilledbottomboi]

On 11/10/2020 at 12:48 AM, SugarWalls said:

I have been locked in chastity for more than three years now and before I was caged, I would rarely get hard when getting fucked. I obviously don't now due to the cage but I am more aroused in my cock, leaking much more precum and able to ejaculate without being physically hard. 

I’m permanently locked now myself. I love the cage and I generally can cum without touching it. I will ooze precum just from talking to a guy. It’s insane. My clit literally gets wet for men. 

[Guest deepthroatkiss]

On 10/31/2020 at 6:16 AM, Read1 said:

Does it really matter if we're hard while getting fucked? I think our sense as bottoms of having to be hard comes from porn. For me, as long as the one fucking and the one fucked are enjoying themselves -- that's what is important!

I agree as long as I’m pleasing the person I’m with who cares. I find mine is sometimes hard and sometimes isn’t. But I don’t really care unless someone wants to blow me or see me hard then I can feel self conscious 

[Guest FinalDL2021]

On 10/21/2020 at 8:30 PM, bentover66 said:

Hi Guys, weird that I never get hard when I am getting fucked. I enjoy it a lot, and my pre-cum drips like a faucet, but I don't understand why I stay soft. 

Is that normal? I am wondering if I should go see a doctor to see if there is an underlying health issue?

I usually go soft, during the initial penetration process, Once my partner has made complete penetration ( he is in) , I take a good hit off the poppers, I  start getting rock hard, and drpi pre-cum like  faucet. 

My advise is to let the whole experience happen, relaxe and don't obsess on your cock, after you have been pernitrated, take a good blast off the poppers. 

[IrishKinkyCumDump]

On 10/23/2020 at 2:07 AM, drscorpio said:

I will get hard during the foreplay especially if the top is working my nipples. Once I am being fucked, my dick gets soft as my focus shifts to my hole/his cock. If we get into some really hot dirty talk, I might chub up a bit. 

Im exactly the same - hard during foreplay but as soon as the fucking starts my cock goes soft.  some tops read this as if they are doing something wrong and not turning me on so I usually try to wear a jock to keep my bits out of the way - one more reason I try to find selfish tops that realise its all about their pleasure and couldnt give a shit about my enjoyment

[piglooking4pigs]

I may get hard during foreplay, especially if kissing is involved.  That gets me totally hard.  Other than though, I'm always soft during a fuck.  In fact, I really hate it when a top fucking me tries to play with my dick.  I've always gotten my pleasure from my hole, so during a fuck all my focus is on my hole and his cock.  The more he uses me, and the less he pays attention to my junk, the better a fuck it is for me.  I don't need to cum.  I get all my pleasure from getting bred by my top.

[Guest]

I’m ALWAYS hard when getting fucked. I think it’s partially due to to true horniness but also a sign to the top that I’m loving his dick in my ass. I think the hardest my cock has ever been was when my pussy was being ravaged by a huge black cock. I was in equal amounts of pain and pleasure yet my own cock was at full mast. 

[sick2thecore]

I personally don't always get hard when fucked by a guy. I don't really care if I get hard or not because it doesn't matter to most of the straight or married fuckers I got. I always assure them that whatever they do, I get off later, they do not need to care.

If I get hard, well good for me but what get's me off the most is getting the guy off, servicing him, making him feel the best he can. It's much more of a mind thing for me.

I will cum afterwards when he is all satisfied.

[Ozpig]

I am always soft when getting fucked. I was trained not to get hard when servicing tops by my ex. In fact he would stop the fuck and make me cum then the fuck would start straight away again. He saw bottoms getting hard as diksrespectful and concentrating on  themselves rather than their tops. He would often masturbate me and use my cum as the lube for himself or the tops he had invited over the fuck me

[pupHawaii]

i'm soft when getting fucked .. the blood flows to my ass - not my dick .. ;->