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For getting inspired to become again a sober bottom (i am on the way of healing from the sex with enhancement since October 2019) are there any tips, strategies, practices to increase and to maintain  the  sexual arousal? 

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I have never used anything stronger than a little poppers and I ahve been through hours of use days at a time at sex resorts. For me, being naked and being a piece of fuck meat for guys to fuck, fist, milk, and pass around while others watch is a huge high for me. I am constantly horny and always looking at guys I see as a potential sex partner. Maybe it's my sex oriented mindset, maybe it's the fact I am sodomized daily between my oversize toys and hookups, maybe its the hightned sexual energy that you feel in a bathhouse or sex club or resort that drives it, but just being around other males keeps my horny and wanting to taste their cock and cum with my mouth and ass. My male scent (I never wear deodorant) and their malescent, combined with the aroma of cum and lube and flesh touching flesh is all I need. For me sex is the sacred pleasure sport for the male body and I make my temple available to all. Try training your mind to be a sex beast and your body will follow.

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On 12/10/2020 at 8:20 AM, Bbasiaslut said:

For getting inspired to become again a sober bottom (i am on the way of healing from the sex with enhancement since October 2019) are there any tips, strategies, practices to increase and to maintain  the  sexual arousal? 

Your question seems to be specifically about how to maintain your sexual arousal and desire to service multiple Tops at once, or in series over an extended period.

Most importantly, sexual arousal is a state of mind that depends on psychological factors. First, you have to actually want it (not just tell yourself you want it) and then you have to put yourself in the groove. It can help to visualize yourself in situations and think about what the men using you will be thinking about you. Do this whenever there’s a lull in the action, or whenever you’re waiting for a Top to arrive. Tell yourself what’s about to happen to you, and that you can’t stop it from happening. In the musical The Music Man, Proffesor Harold Hill tells the band to “use the Think System”. That’s the key to staying aroused. Use the think system.

Porn can help with visualization. Make sure you select video with bottoms in situations that excite you and resonate with your own experience. I don’t watch a lot of porn, but I do get very stimulated by certain compilations of footage if bottoms taking cock in the ass, that has text pop up in addition to the audio, reading things like “Take it”, “You’re just a cunt now”, “Serve Him”, “Degrading your slit” and “It’s over for you now”. That’s just my flavor - you can find what fits you.

Masturbation, of course, BUT - don’t cum. That’s going to drain your desire. It’s a neurochemical fact, and you need to avoid ejaculatory orgasm for the duration of the period you want to take cock if you want to maintain arousal. You may be able to give yourself a slight insurance policy against accidentally going over the edge by the judicious use of poppers, which have the effect, in most but not all men, if causing the cock to go soft and making it harder to reach penile orgasm. Since you’re recovering into sobriety from a period of chems use this may not be prudent for you, but poppers are not themselves habit-forming. Only consider them if you believe you will be able to employ them strategically, in moderation.

 I don’t know how often you’ve actually been the subject of a gangbang breeding, chemmed up or otherwise. Your question seems strange to me in that, as someone who is used to serial breeding, I really don’t see how one can engage in it if arousal is an issue. There’s never a point at which I’m not at least a little ready to take a cock. Even if it’s the furthest thing from my mind, the mere suggestion if it instantly sets me up. But then, I was conditioned to respond this way, so I may not be the standard.

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Thank you very much for your strategies that i find very useful for me and to follow.  I want to be gangbanged, but I am afraid to loose my sexual arousal because of intervention of thoughts, non desirable emotions. 

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I’ve been in recovery for over 15 years and thought that I would never have the sex I wanted again , I was 180 degrees out.

I’ve had some of the best sex , but been sober and this has stopped me from exposing my self from risk.

embrace it 

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