Cumdumps and love / long term relationships

[BBBxCumDumpster]

On 10/2/2021 at 3:58 AM, hotguy02 said:

I'm 37 years old Latino bottom in a relationship with a 67 year old white Daddy he took my virginity when I was 19 years old ever since then I suck his dick and he breeds me whenever he wants he has other boys to fuck kind of makes me jealous but I understand I am the bottom so I make myself available to him whenever he want he does not let me play with other tops if I'm eager for sucking dick I have to ask him for permission and he has to approve he has given me permission in the past to suck other daddies but he is very very strict about only sucking he doesn't allow me to get fucked by them he is very very strict about that monogamous but I am very loyal to him it works out pretty good I wish I was in a relationship with him but he doesn't want anything serious he fucks around with other boys so I tried my best to be his best boy so I can see him often currently he has me locked in a chastity cagege says baby I love this type of relationship because all I want is to make him happy

I hope that one day you will believe that you deserve the exact same rights as he does.   And I hope that you will demand those rights.  Either way, I hope you are happy.

[hntnhole]

I've mentioned some facets of my life-partner in other threads, so I won't rehash that again.  I'll just mention that yes, this kind of relationship can and does exist, and for decades.  We met at the tubs, and that was the beginning of just over 30 years of a magnificent, wonderful, truly loving relationship.  Yes, there were arguments, disagreements, but not about sex. 

I miss him every day, but not in a sad way; more like a "how did this gift come to an asshole like me" kind of way.

So yeah - two pigs definitely can love each other very deeply, and have pigsex with other pigs separately, together, and in any combination.

Putting the other guy first, keeps you first.  

[hungry_hole]

I'm not into mixing love and sex because anonymous sex encounters are my preferred type. Occasionally I hook up with young guys and with them I feel love while I'm getting fucked and bred.

I know a young guy that I met on a bus and whom I like a lot, and every time we have sex I tell him that I love him while he breeds me.

[wonderfulwoof]

On 3/9/2022 at 7:00 PM, Ieatcumholes said:

✋ ME!!!!!I I AM possessive in that what's mine is MINE! (I'm an Earth sign after all!) BUT I somehow don't have a problem sexually if what's mine is also shared by everyone else! I 😍 cumholes! And while I will felch my cum out of a hole, I much prefer to felch other men's cum out of it! So, obviously, my partner would need to get fucked by LOTS of other guys for that that to happen!

✋ ME!!!!!!! I'm a top who would 😍 for my cumhole partner to take as many other men's loads as he can!

It took me DECADES to understand that love and sex are not the same thing! Just because a guy had sex with me DOES NOT mean he loves me! And now that >> I << understand that, guys who have sex with me need to understand that! I could REALLY enjoy having sex with you! AND want to have sex with you REPEATEDLY. That DOES NOT mean that I love you! I LOVE having SEX with you. And that is something completely different!

I 😍 the puppy dog analogy! You mention "love" and "energy." I would use the terms love and sex. The fact that my partner has sex with other men has no effect on the love that he has for me (or that I have for him). From my perspective, I would probably love him a little bit more because he's going out and having sex with other men. Even if that is to fulfill his needs as a cumwhore/cumdump/(insert your term of choice) instead of to fulfill my need to enjoy a cumhole+, >> I << would still be getting the benefit of his actions!

THIS!!!!!! 1,000,000%!!!!!

I resemble ALL of the above! I don't mind seeing my partner being used as a cum dump - I just don't need to participate in it. (Introvert here.) But I would most definitely enjoy his cummy hole afterwards!

I 👏 (and envy) your relationship! I've been part of open relationships that were truly open and part of open relationships that didn't feel all that open. ("I don't mind if you sleep with other guys. I just don't want to hear about it." 😒) I'm studying astrology and have discovered that Mercury (God of Communication!) is the strongest sign in my chart. And in the context of relationships, that's where I fall the most short. 😭 Note to self!

Each to his own and not for me to judge! BUT, if that had been me, I probably would've been just the opposite - having MORE sex with you the more other guys bred you and having LESS sex with you if I was the ONLY one who was breeding you....

You have described my IDEAL relationship! If my cumdump partner were regularly bringing me a cumhole to enjoy, I would pretty much be monogamous and happy to be so! But I WOULD leave the door open for me to fuck other guys. (That would only be fair!) Someone I knew before I partnered with my cumhole? Fair game! Someone with different characteristics that I love that my cumhole doesn't have? Fair game! One of the tops who regularly breeds my cumhole invites me to breed his cumhole? Fair game!

You and I are both in the "can't be monogamous" camp @Breedthisslut! (And nice hairy crack BTW!) As I've said numerous times already, I 😍 eating and fucking a cumhole! I just prefer the cum I eat to be other men's cum! My "possessiveness" extends to giving my cumhole partner his first and last loads of the day (to remind him that other men can fuck his hole, but I own it). All the loads in between can come from as many guys as possible!

😍 😍 😍 😍 😍

As I said above, that took me decades to reconcile! 😒 The insertion of dick into hole (or whatever you prefer to call it) is SEX. Sex can be (should be?) devoid of the emotional connection that is/can be love. My partner can get fucked by 100 guys in a day (sex!) and that not touch the affection he has for me (love!). (Look at my screen name and you should understand how that might INCREASE the affection I have for him! 😉) On the other side, I could fuck another bottom (sex) and that wouldn't touch my affection for my partner (love). Even if I gave that guy all the cum I had that day, my partner would still know I love him even if I couldn't cum inside of him until the next day.) 

Since I'm not a person who reacts that way, I can only assume that those who have a negative reaction to their partner/significant other having sex with another man feels threatened in some way. The person who feels threatened needs to examine WHAT they are are actually feeling threatened by. Are you thinking the other person will have sex with your partner better than you do? If your partner can separate love and sex like I do? No biggee. Are you worried about someone else enjoying something you consider to be YOURS? S&M/B&D aside, you can't really own another person! You have to be secure enough in your relationship to TRUST your that partner is only having sex and not falling in love. (As others have mentioned, communication is KEY here!) If you're worried about the stigma associated with being involved with the town cumdump, get over yourself! If you see your partner as being less than because everyone in the town gets a go (especially if you love cumholes!), you're putting him into a lose/lose situation! As a general rule, try to remove your ego from the situation and then reevaluate. Do you feel the same way?

Now I really want ur load

[faggotsub]

I could NEVER be with anyone long term unless they whored me out (fat change finding that at my age) AND i'd never want to be owned by a  DOM or MASTER ,  that wasn't fucking other guys...It's not natural.

I hooked up with a Handsome Fit DOM BlacK 36 yo pos trucker with a BBC a couple years ago..told me HE was undetectablle and had syph but had been cured of that...a few weeks later i just happened to be going in for my 6 mos check and i was toxic AND had syph and i hadnt been with anyone else for weeks. I hit it off with this guy, I'm still in touch with him frequently...HE wants me to move to NC to be HIS slave. I never told him about the results. I Iove this guy BUT HE wants me one on one with HIM and HE wants to be able to do "a few" other guys on the side.  In addition HE's a religeous guy that goes to church every Sunday being a firm believer in God...After a couple thousand cocks over the years I know I'm too much of a slut to think i could live like that...and I can't do the church thing. Guess i ll stay where i am on the slut route as HE just doesn't have the right mindset for a pig like me

[hntnhole]

On 3/9/2022 at 10:00 PM, Ieatcumholes said:

Do you feel the same way?

1,000,000,000 %  I agree with every single phrase.  Two peas in a Breeding pod.