theplayerking Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 I think in Japan you can signal your preferred roll by where you put your key, e.g., left arm or right arm, etc. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
barenekkid Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 Like some others I always wear my jockstrap when I’m at the bathhouse, and if not that then I walk around naked. I also write “BB cumdump no loads refused - room ???” If there’s a blackboard. Then I wait with my ass up in my room with the door wide open. I also encourage tops using me to leave the door open so we can be seen. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ctgaydave Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 The bathhouse in Providence used to have colored towels... Blue for bottoms, red for tops and white for switch. Made it a lot easier walking around in my little blue towel ☺️ 1 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PigPlayRaw Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 6 hours ago, Justaholeff said: What does the jack of spades and the other tattoo mean? A guy who has a special appreciation for black men. Not sure of the origin, but there are both Queen and Jack versions. I think maybe it started with MF cuck couples, but gay men have also adopted it. My husband and I don’t exclusively play with black men, but we do have an extra attraction for them. 1 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 have some one write slut on my back Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hntnhole Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 3 hours ago, theplayerking said: where you put your key, e.g., left arm or right arm That's been the case with keys - called "flagging", as well as the various colored hankies in either L or r back pocket for decades. Somehow it got reversed though: in Europe, active (Top) is on the right hand side, and passive (bottom) on the left side. Here in the US, active is left and passive is right. 1 hour ago, PigPlayRaw said: hours ago, Justaholeff said: What does the jack of spades and the other tattoo mean? There's also, come to think of it, an old saying: "Black as the Ace of Spades". I don't think it had any racial connotation though - could be wrong about that part though. At least I never heard it used in a racial connotation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesL100 Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 1 hour ago, PigPlayRaw said: A guy who has a special appreciation for black men. Not sure of the origin, but there are both Queen and Jack versions. I thought a Q of S was a woman who liked/preferred black guys. And a J of S is a (gay) man into black man/men. I only came across this in 2022 so I'm well behind the times! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hntnhole Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 7 minutes ago, JamesL100 said: I only came across this in 2022 so I'm well behind the times! You're most likely more current in the vernacular than I am !!! I'm sure some of the guys will have more definitive replies. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
valleyvers Posted March 21, 2022 Author Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 1 hour ago, PigPlayRaw said: A guy who has a special appreciation for black men. Not sure of the origin, but there are both Queen and Jack versions. I think maybe it started with MF cuck couples, but gay men have also adopted it. My husband and I don’t exclusively play with black men, but we do have an extra attraction for them. In my understanding of the lifestyle/fetish (depending on your view) Queen = female that exclusively only has sex with black men, may be in a bdsm relationship with him/them but not always Snowbunny = female that prefers black men over others but will still have sex with men of other races Jack = cucked husband or boyfriend, they might arrange for her to meet other men Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hotrawbutt4u Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 For me it depends on the bath house.if they have a board where you can post a note , I have found that helps. I did that at a bath in LongBeach. I got nailed by 3 guys. At other baths I have found that a jock and mask will invite guys to tap my ass Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 9 hours ago, hntnhole said: That's a great idea, Muscledadbod !!! It never occurred to me. It might take the mysterious suspense out of the equation, which some guys like, but it would definitely make things a lot more clear. Something tells me they would have to have ample stock of white towels 😉 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
120DaysofSodom Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 Eye contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JamesL100 Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 I find older guys in mainland Europe stand by a cubicle door tweaking their tits 😛 So I latch on with my fingers or mouth then go into the room with them 😎 But English dads don't display their nipple play as publicly Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iman2004 Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 1 hour ago, 120DaysofSodom said: Eye contact. You mean to tell me that anyone who meets you in a bathhouse is looking at your eyes??? 🤣🤣 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
120DaysofSodom Posted March 21, 2022 Report Share Posted March 21, 2022 7 minutes ago, iman2004 said: You mean to tell me that anyone who meets you in a bathhouse is looking at your eyes??? 🤣🤣 When you like a guy, and he likes you, youre both going to know it when one of you gives the other the head nod. Eye contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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