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Is Kissing Emotional? 😉


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Kissing someone can certainly give us feelings — if we like their touch, smell, and taste. 
 

With this is mind what does Kissing mean to you ? 

Look forward to hearing your thoughts 

Have a great week all 

Karl 😀

 

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Actually, I think there are two different types of "kissing".  One is Lust-driven - merely one more way to connect with the guy sexually.  The other is "real" kissing - an emotional exchange, a physical way to say something important, without needing to even speak.  I'll kiss a guy who's just sucked off a Cock next to me - in fact, that's exactly how I met my life-partner - but that's nothing more than a Lust-kiss.  That first time though, it was more of a Lust-driven kiss, since I'd never so much as laid eyes on him before.  But it takes a lot "connection" more for me to "Love-kiss" a guy.  Haven't done that in a long time.

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I don’t remember where I read it, but I saw a report talking about the lips having higher concentrations of nerves, that this was the reason we enjoyed kissing so much as we do. It feels more intense than normal touch and most of us react to that higher intensity. I love to kiss and anybody I fuck with at some point it’s going to be kissing with me also. That doesn’t mean that I love them or that I’m getting emotional with them. It means I love that form of stimulation. And I particularly enjoy it  with someone I love. It’s a win-win either way. What does turn me off I men who think it’s too feminine or that it makes them less of a man if they kiss another man, with similar such bullshit.

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I love to kiss and thrive on it as part of the intimate emotional connection with the guys I play with. A quick snuck kiss with a hot stranger in a bar, deep tounge kiss as we cruise in the woods,  passionate kiss as we fuck in the bathhouse, sloppy kiss after one of us has been feltched, I love them all as an essential emotional part of my sex life. Let's not kid ourselves, it's not going to last long but I prefer this emotional connection with every guy I hookup with. The exception is if I'm sucking them or getting fucked and bred through a glory hole. Then I just want to be used and love the thrill of not knowing or really seeing who used me and whose cum I've swallowed or have dripping out my hole. Cum and kisses, both emotional experiences for me. 

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I think it depends on the mood, and who I'm with. If I'm kissing my boyfriend, then the connection is deep. Sometimes I wake up in the middle of the night to pee. If I'm spending the night at his place, I'll slip him some tongue when I get back in bed. Not because I think he's going to wake up and have sex with me, but because I'm craving a mouthful of his tongue because I love him.

When I'm having casual sex, I feel disappointed if there's no kissing. It's such a primal way for men to enjoy each other - I feel like I can taste the manhood on a guy's breath, and it turns me on so much. When a guy's stiff tongue is dominating me and his saliva is mixing with mine, it makes my ass burn with desire for him to be inside me.

On the other hand, sometimes just kissing with a random stranger is enough for me. When I was in my first year of community college, I had enough time for a hookup between my Tuesday morning classes. One day I met a guy on grindr but he didn't have time to go back to my place, so we just sat in his car in the parking lot and madeout for 10 minutes. It was one of the most erotic things I'd ever done up to that point. He was so cute and I hated that we couldn't have full on sex, but being able to taste his tongue and feel his hands all over my face and back and ass made me so happy. I wish I could have gotten his number because he was cute as fuck but I never saw him on grindr again.

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I think, just like sex, it's a very context-based situation. If you're kissing a stranger you'll probably not feel any emotional effects, even if you kissed them just as passionately as your boyfriend (if you have one). Unless, of course, you have issues separating sex from love.

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Kissing definitely has a mysterious side for me. i'll pretty much take any Mans cock/load if He wants/needs to penetrate me. i've had >1000's of cocks. i can practically count the number of guys i've kissed though.

And i love to kiss. 

There has to be an attraction with kissing that does not have to be there with sex, but i'm not quite sure i know what the attraction consists of? i think there is a visual element, but it's not all of it, or even most. idk. 

i have a deeply romantic side that does not have to be in play with sex, but does need to be there with kissing. When kissing, it's essential that the guy be present, not just going through the motions. Guys who learned to kiss watching porn, and are reenacting a scene are a total turn off for me. As are guys who initiate a kiss by trying to swallow my entire face at one time or shove their entire face into my mouth? That's why god invented cocks? i know, that's just a personal thing. i know some use their tongue like it's a cock, which is great if they are rimming. For me, my mouth is different from my hole, and kissing is different from fucking. i think some don't make that distinction and instead of kissing with their mouth, they fuck with it. 

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