Senses Other Than Vision

[BlindRawFucker1]

Males are very visually oriented when it comes to sex.  Studies show that gay males are even more hypervisual.

 

As a blind guy, I, of course, can’t rely on my vision.  So, I have to use my other senses to enjoy the pleasures.

 

Certain voices and the sounds of sex are real turn-ons.  Of course, so is touching and the scents and tastes of men and sex.

 

I still miss out on a lot since I can’t see.  There are many things I’d like to do, such as touching and tasting guys as they fuck.

 

I want to know, what is your favorite sense to use other than your vision.  I don’t want to hear how good it feels to be fucked or to fuck—that’s obvious.

 

I hope you all understand what exactly I’m asking.  My questions often sound better in my head than written here.

 

Thanks for any input.

[Sharp-edge]

4 minutes ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

Males are very visually oriented when it comes to sex.  Studies show that gay males are even more hypervisual.

 

As a blind guy, I, of course, can’t rely on my vision.  So, I have to use my other senses to enjoy the pleasures.

 

Certain voices and the sounds of sex are real turn-ons.  Of course, so is touching and the scents and tastes of men and sex.

 

I still miss out on a lot since I can’t see.  There are many things I’d like to do, such as touching and tasting guys as they fuck.

 

I want to know, what is your favorite sense to use other than your vision.  I don’t want to hear how good it feels to be fucked or to fuck—that’s obvious.

 

I hope you all understand what exactly I’m asking.  My questions often sound better in my head than written here.

 

Thanks for any input.

That is a very interesting topic. May I ask if you were born blind or was it something that occurred later on your life? 

Hyper-visual sounds quite interesting as a term. I think I understand it though. Seeing a guy that I like gives me a rush, makes my heart beat faster. For me scent would be my choice. It is one of the most potent stimulators of memory. When I get to know of someone I always notice his scent. Like being in a place and knowing "oh yes it smells like him, he was here before". But that's about the emotional/sexual part. Someone found it odd, but I was given an object to observe (a medical tool) and the first thing I did was to smell it so as to understand its material.

In general, hearing is precious for me. You can communicate with the outside world, you can get to hear the music.

I hope it's not too out of topic but:

I have a friend who is blind (there was something romantic/sexual between us) but we are caring friends now. He uses his hands a lot to feel surfaces so I think that touching is his things. So I made a funny thought that he acts like bats and that his fingers have supersonics. I was thinking whether this was a rude thought or not. I shared it with him and he laughed. I call him my little bat but I still worry that this could be rude (but i have no such intention).

[Close2MyBro]

My sense of hearing is probably my second turn on after vision. I have a lot of anonymous sex, and I am often blindfolded so I cannot see the men I am having sex with. I rely heavily on my hearing to pick up any possible clues as to what's going on and if there are others in the room as well, as this sometimes happens. Next is the tactile sensations that I feel as we are having sex.

[BlindRawFucker1]

To answer SharpEdge’s question, I’ve been blind since birth.

 

If you are worried about offending your blind friend by calling him a “bat,” ask him if it does bother him.

 

The sounds of sex can be hot.  Skin slapping against skin, the squishy sounds of fucking and the moans—if not overdone-are hot.

[Brianbttm]

4 hours ago, Close2MyBro said:

My sense of hearing is probably my second turn on after vision. I have a lot of anonymous sex, and I am often blindfolded so I cannot see the men I am having sex with. I rely heavily on my hearing to pick up any possible clues as to what's going on and if there are others in the room as well, as this sometimes happens. Next is the tactile sensations that I feel as we are having sex.

I agree. Majority of time I'm blindfolded ass up face down. The rush of adrenaline as I hear a guy enter the room, the anticipation of a guy getting behind me it all makes it about the feel of getting fucked and not about physicalattraction. Especially intense when a guy cums inside me. 

[ErosWired]

4 hours ago, Close2MyBro said:

My sense of hearing is probably my second turn on after vision. I have a lot of anonymous sex, and I am often blindfolded so I cannot see the men I am having sex with. I rely heavily on my hearing to pick up any possible clues as to what's going on and if there are others in the room as well, as this sometimes happens. Next is the tactile sensations that I feel as we are having sex.

This is me as well, though I’m not often blindfolded. But in darkened rooms, I generally close my eyes, especially when taken in any non-facing position, and listen carefully for every signal the Top gives me. I am, however, starting to lose my hearing to a degree, so I don’t always catch the breadth of auditory cues I once did.

I also get a great deal of tactile information about a Top, not by touching him, but by paying close attention to the way he touches and handles (and manhandles) me. The behavior of his hands tells me a lot more about his actual need and desire than the words he speaks.

[hntnhole]

4 hours ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

I want to know, what is your favorite sense to use other than your vision

This one is difficult for me, since there are two other senses I depend on:  hearing and taste. 

Stepping into a darkroom (where, oddly, one comes somewhat close to our OP's situation), the sounds of rutting men does for me what poppers do for other guys.  Just the sounds of grunting, groaning with pleasure, the sloppish sounds of full, wet Holes being fucked, the barely audible murmurings of men in heat sating their Lusts is fantastic.  I happen to be aurally focused anyway, and the hearing is acute all the time.  The close quarters of a darkroom only intensify the thrill, and listening to all the sounds of men rutting is just wonderful. 

I also happen to enjoy eating Hole - particularly if it's been fucked full by previous Cocks.  Eating Hole is like introducing myself to the Hole - it's a warm, welcoming, beckoning, hungry - almost communicating it's needs, it's Lusts, and offering me a taste of how beautifully it does it's job.  That extends, of course, to the entire guy, but his Hole is where it all emanates from.  I love putting my mouth on Holes, tonguing them, licking, tongue-fucking them, conjoining with them.  

So, hearing and taste; both are very important to me. 

[TightBott7]

For me it’s definitely smell. There’s nothing more intoxicating than the man scent emanating from a guy’s sweaty balls or other parts of his body, it makes me melt into that smell and to want to take that smell with me. 

[funpozbottom]

The first think I notice (not only in sexual situations, but just in general) is smells. Some smells draw you in and excite you while others repel. As soon as I enter a room, I notice the smell. At a bookstore, taking in the lingering smell of sex sets the mood even before I've connected with anyone.

Touch is also important. I'm dyslexic and can have trouble recognizing visual signals, but a touch on my ass clearly gets my attention.  Finger tips pressed against me, body heat, the sensation of hot piss dripping from and cooling on my body; all heighten my awareness of my presence and place.

Combining touch and smell, I get taste. I have the sensation and taste of a cock in my mouth, or my tongue licking over an asshole.

I tend to tune out sounds when I have sex. While the right sounds can help to set a mood beforehand, during sex, I find a lot of sounds to be more of a distraction than a turn on.

[KylerIsTrash]

8 hours ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

I want to know, what is your favorite sense to use other than your vision.  I don’t want to hear how good it feels to be fucked or to fuck—that’s obvious.

I wear a blindfold in the dark room. As others have said it’s definitely sound for me. The jingle of room keys walking in my direction makes may heart race. It’s even hotter when I don’t hear the guy walking up and all of a sudden there’s a dick pushing up on me in the sling. 

[backtails]

8 hours ago, BlindRawFucker1 said:

I want to know, what is your favorite sense to use other than your vision.  I don’t want to hear how good it feels to be fucked or to fuck—that’s obvious.

It should be obvious how good it feels, but men underestimate how important touch is when you're actually having real sex, as opposed to watching porn.

Porn overemphasizes what looks hot. Don't get me wrong on this — I love watching my cock pounding holes. But you don't have to fuck shallow (or with your knee up) so the camera can see you penetrating. Another example is the licking-a-popsicle blowjob. It's great to watch cocks getting sucked. Deepthroat feels better.

Still, I have to vote for sound. C'mon, take that head in your mouth. Get your lips on the back... yeah, fuck, exactly like that... fuck... now just suck... I get really verbal, so sound must be my thing. I will pick up on anything a bottom says — or, even better, his submissive whimpers — and use the energy from that to pound the fuck out of him. The sloppy slapping noise of a buttfuck keeps me going, too.

Tops... you'd think taste isn't as important, right? Not when one of a bottom's holes has taste buds and your cock doesn't. I'd rank taste last, definitely, but that doesn't mean it's not extremely important. When I'm close, I find myself needing to taste his skin, and I love to lick and bite when I cum. Seems like adding in another sense (that's not too active for most of the session) is a way to add that extra push you need to get over the edge.

[NWUSHorny]

I would have to say touch and taste. During the fuck I try to stay attuned to the guy tensing up and relaxing as he goes through the fuck, especially right before he cums or has an anal orgasm. After the fuck I love to either lick up the cum leaking from his hole or clean his cock, either activity gets me close to his fuck sweaty balls, and I don't think there is any better taste or smell than the fresh fuck sweaty balls.

[tallslenderguy]

Great topic, thank you for posting BlindRawFucker1.

From a total bottom/receptive place, for me it's touch with hearing as a close second.  

i had a FB who i've written about here in various places. We got together every 5-7 days for about a year and a half before relocation separated us. He approached me from CL saying He liked to give massage. i'm a touch magnet, so after chatting, i bit.  Once He hooked me, He added that He wanted me waiting naked, face down and blindfolded.  And that is how it was the entire year and a half, i never once saw Him.  

His massage was hypnotic, and looking back, i think that was intentional. He kept up a sort of monotone monologue along with this simultaneously relaxing and sexually stimulating massage. i realized about six months in that one of His primary goals was to open and mold my hole, which He did slowly, subtly and with intent.  

He used touch in several ways, not just massage. He'd bring 'toys' that He'd use on my hole. When He came in, i'd feel what felt like a cloth sack that He'd lay on my legs while He unpacked what was inside. He'd line the contents against my outer legs, the feel kicked in my imagination and i pictured dildos.  He's never scrimp on the massage part, it was sort of repetitious each time, almost like it was how He tranced me? Idk, it always made me very receptive and very horny at the same time.  He was Masterful at making me feel craving need in giving just enough touch to make me want more without satisfying me.  i never had an orgasm with Him. 

Sound, i'd hear Him opening containers that i imagined were various lubricants.  Mainly, He used a monotone voice that was continuous sort of 'dirty' talk as best i can explain. It was more like leading me along a path, opening my psychologically while HIs hands opened me physically. 

Not seeing Him definitely enhanced my other senses and not seeing required trust on my part, which He handled very well and never violated, still, a feeling of vulnerability was there that never went away, sort of a dependent feeling. 

[ErosWired]

1 hour ago, tallslenderguy said:

i had a FB who i've written about here in various places. We got together every 5-7 days for about a year and a half before relocation separated us. He approached me from CL saying He liked to give massage. i'm a touch magnet, so after chatting, i bit.  Once He hooked me, He added that He wanted me waiting naked, face down and blindfolded.  And that is how it was the entire year and a half, i never once saw Him.

At weekly for a year and a half, he must have had you more than 70 times, and for you never to have seen him is a remarkable act of service. I could imagine doing the same over that duration in such circumstances, but I don’t know how many would. I suspect you achieved a level of intimacy with him you might not have had you been looking at him.

[tallslenderguy]

55 minutes ago, ErosWired said:

At weekly for a year and a half, he must have had you more than 70 times, and for you never to have seen him is a remarkable act of service. I could imagine doing the same over that duration in such circumstances, but I don’t know how many would. I suspect you achieved a level of intimacy with him you might not have had you been looking at him.

 

Ha, i never thought to count, but you are right about the number of times. i consider myself very fortunate to have had that kind of chemistry with a Man, and He with me. Balance is vital to me in relationship.  The time factor was important to His nature because He was what i have come to think of as a 'subtle Dom."  There was never any use of words like "Dom" or "sub," etc., but i can see it clearly retrospectively.  Part of the "subtlety" was how He molded me without my being aware of what He was doing until i was mostly molded.  It was a profound dynamic of mutual nurturing as i see it. Probably the longest lasting relationship i've had where there was symbiosis.  He left His signature on both my physical and psychological 'hole,' and the experience helped me learn just how deep and intense a bond can be.  

Going by feel, i don't think i would have been visually attracted to Him, but that interferencewas removed by my never seeing Him and seemingly strengthened the places of mutual attraction that were there.