Older for younger

[Marlin]

I'm sure this topic has been discussed before but as I get older...I'm in my 60's I'm feeling a bit guilty playing with guys 40 years younger than me.  I have been playing with two mid twenty guys for a while and the sex is great. Passionate, sexy, even a little kinky and always raw. They are just fuck buds but should I feel guilty?  Is it creepy?

[Mattsdarkside]

If everyone is turned on and into their playmate(s), it’s not creepy at all.  There’s nothing quite like being rimmed out fucked & bred by younger cock.  Feeling them bust a load inside you is proof they’re into it. 

[pupHawaii]

TOPSONs!  🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

[Olderkinkybiguy]

It’s only creepy if they think it’s creepy. And since you seem to have a regular thing going with them, I seriously doubt they have an issue with the age gap. I do understand your questioning, since I was in confronted the same issue about 4 years ago. I was 58 and the Grinder hookup was 19. I asked him directly and he assured me he was more than OK with the age gap. In fact, he confessed he had been with a few guys who were in their 60’s before. So enjoy while it lasts! 

[Captool]

Not at all. 

[PG1961Canada]

It sounds like they are comfortable with the situation if they are coming back.  I have found over the years that there are a LOT of younger guys out there who have a total fantasy thing happening with us older guys.  Why? Some have said it's the Daddy MILF thing.  Most have said that we older guys are more relaxed and know how to play nice with another naked guy and the sex is always hot.  Me? I'm happy to take both as a compliment.  I personally love being worked over and bred by a younger guy.  They're usually so turned on that they are good for a couple (or three) loads. 

[onlyraw]

I agree with @PG1961Canada, @Captool and @OlderkinkybiguyUnless you are blackmailing them…. If they keep coming back ….clearly they are enjoying it so I would not call it creepy.

maybe for them it may be “kinky” but I would certainly not call it “creepy”

so lay back and enjoy!!! 
 

oh  …. And where did you meet these guys? (He asked so he could try the same app)

[Captool]

12 minutes ago, onlyraw said:

I agree with @PG1961Canada, @Captool and @OlderkinkybiguyUnless you are blackmailing them…. If they keep coming back ….clearly they are enjoying it so I would not call it creepy.

maybe for them it may be “kinky” but I would certainly not call it “creepy”

so lay back and enjoy!!! 
 

oh  …. And where did you meet these guys? (He asked so he could try the same app)

Please, let me know as well!

[hntnhole]

1 hour ago, Marlin said:

I'm feeling a bit guilty playing with guys 40 years younger than me.

I think you need to get out more. 

It's definitely not creepy, and it is definitely widely accepted between men that need to show the kids how to fuck, and take pride in their work.  I'm no chickenhawk, but I've fucked the feathers off a number of them through the years.  It's up to the more "experienced" to pass our learned-talents down to the younger guys.  If we don't do that, then how will they learn?  

[blackrobe]

2 hours ago, Marlin said:

I'm sure this topic has been discussed before but as I get older...I'm in my 60's I'm feeling a bit guilty playing with guys 40 years younger than me.  I have been playing with two mid twenty guys for a while and the sex is great. Passionate, sexy, even a little kinky and always raw. They are just fuck buds but should I feel guilty?  Is it creepy?

Let's see... legal adults having sex they choose with someone who turns them on and they keep coming back to?

There's no problem here. 

[verbalBTTM]

3 hours ago, Marlin said:

I'm sure this topic has been discussed before but as I get older...I'm in my 60's I'm feeling a bit guilty playing with guys 40 years younger than me.  I have been playing with two mid twenty guys for a while and the sex is great. Passionate, sexy, even a little kinky and always raw. They are just fuck buds but should I feel guilty?  Is it creepy?

Not creepy at all, when I was 27 I had a Dom in his 60's and it was amazing. Boys look to older men for the love and mentorship they offer. I'm currently with a boy in his early 20's and loves how we spend time making dinner together. The time we share is more intimate, and personal compared to what his peers offer. 

[SFCumdog]

I've played with guys in their early twenties, when I was in my forties. They'd be loads of fun, but then they'd eventually move on; which was perfectly ok as no one was pushing them to do anything they didn't want to do. Here are the two bits of wisdom gleaned from the experience, though years apart.

First, I knew these guys were having a great time when we played... you just know when they are, especially if they keep coming back for more. I figured out after they disappeared though what the real issue was. These young guys were totally into older guys, for whatever reason... their stamina, their stability, their availability at the drop of a hat when they were horny, or even their genuine affection. The problem was that internally they could not reconcile what they were feeling, and what they were enjoying with older guys, with what their social group, generally made of judgmental fellow twinks and college boys, expected of/for them. To that group, the fact that these guys liked older guys would cause them to look upon them with disdain... typical gay ageist claptrap I know, but we were all young once and to some degree or another acted the same way towards older gays. So instead they'd settle for boyfriends their own age because that was what was expected of them, and that would be that.   

The Second thing though was learned 15 to 20 years later as I approached my sixties, and those same guys were now nearing forty. After all those intervening years we'd bump into each other again either in person or online. Interestingly, that same spark is always still there. We'd reconnect and get naked and enjoy ourselves... and then we'd talk and have intimate conversations... the kind you can't really have when they are 20. And repeatedly they say to me "I was so stupid. You were the best sex I ever had. I should have been over here all the time. And I really regret now that I wasn't." Each time I ask them "so then, why weren't you?" And the answer, uniformly, is because they were afraid of what their friends would think of them. And I get that. Peer pressure sucks. So to those who meet someone younger that fully embraces it and you, enjoy them. They are the ones who actually are being honest as to who they are and what they want. Stop second guessing it.

In either case, I have no bad memories of these guys, just fond ones. And the kindness they express years later about the role that I played for them and in their lives, makes me happy. Some even continue to be playmates now.

[Yeasure]

A few years ago I met up with a very hot college kid (I was in my late 50’s). This kid was literally Sean Cody material. He walked into my house and just to clear the air I asked him “ am I ok for you?”  He said “yea, why?”  I said “well for one thing, I’m old enough to be your father.”  He said “dude, you’re older than my father, and you’re hot!”  I laughed my ass off, then he fucked me hard and came multiple times. 

[Tiboer]

When I was in my 20’s, I chased after guys in their 40’s, 50’s, and 60’s.  Not only was I so attracted to them, they were so good at sex.  They’re more passionate and caring.  They knew exactly what felt good.

Interestingly, as I’ve gotten older, I still love daddies much older than me.

[NLbear]

Nothing creepy about it. For a while now I have a young guy (early 20s) who's been fucking me a few times a week. It totally rejuvenated me! He really enjoys fucking me and I love how he has the hots for my Daddy ass and fucks me senseless. Go for it and enjoy it!!!