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Very good story. Looking forward to more. As more time passes, it will become ever more likely that the bottom will wake up (bearing in mind he's been fucked and played with several times already). Therefore, perhaps the next top should tie him up and tape gag him before he 'wakes', in order to ensure he is still compliment to whatever intentions the top has in mind. Just a suggestion......!

I never knew I had bi tendencies until my 20's, even though I loved certain things in my ass. It never occurred to me to try a cock when I was a teen (although looking back, I really wish I had!). My best friend came out to me in the mid 80's (while in college). It didn't make a difference to me, but it got me wondering what gay sex was like, so I rented a couple of gay videos. I found that I was very much turned on, and before long, had to try it myself. I was married at this point. I found another married guy around my age who also was a gay sex virgin. We rented a hotel room and flip fucked with condoms since HIV was a death sentence at the time. I found I loved to get fucked. By the early 90's, I found bareback porn and had to try it bare. It was very hard to go back to condoms although I mainly used them. By the 2000's, I mostly did it bare by trying to sero-sort guys. I used condoms if it was anon. I went on Prep in 2014 and haven't used a condom since. I stopped Prep during the pandemic and haven't been on it since.

Has that ever happened before???

I always try and plan my visits to coincide with a mon or Thurs at the vault , but over the next few months I’ll be in London Sunday Tues and Wed nights , where’s best for getting what I get at vault on a mon and Tues 😜 any recommendations ? SBN worth it on Sunday ?

1 man = 1 fuck and that's it.

Mine was rejected at customs, and returned to sender, damn!

Lucky you!

Hi guys...wish I could be fucked by you all 🙂 It's been some time since I posted last update...combination of tons of work and STD 😇 The medical authorities gave me an official stop for some time, but as of 1st March, I was finally given approval...at last! Long story short, I am catching up with delay...sucked random Grindr guy before I even left hospital after being given approval, and that was just a start. I know this disease should act as a warning to me, but I can't help it. Being almost 40, I know I NEED to feel many random dicks in my ass on regular basis otherwise I'm depressed. Although I keep up with my resolution to have less random cruising encounters, I somehow compensate for it with Grindr/sauna encounters. I'm afraid that I'm a real bitch...I find one Grindr hook-up and enjoy it twice...yet I have three other random guys same night. Is some anon guy fucking me discreetly on cruising place or at sauna and you suddenly randomly appear nearby...? Can you stop me from immediately grabbing your dick and attack it with my mouth? Do you understand that I will do my best to get your dick in my ass to add just another load? Do you understand that last night, I went to have sex with one random (and very sleazy 🤪) guy and returned loaded by 8 strangers?? And would you believe that I spent three more hours toying my cummy pussy after that? 😇 Have a cummy day!

Great story…. Added to my spank bank

First, thanks for your response. What I meant by that phase, is that the advent of hiv was exponentially more deleterious than the normal "ebb and flow" of changes in human history. It was such an earth-shaking situation for those of us that lived through it, nothing can compare. Back in Chicago, we were all going to the tubs, the fleshpots just as always too, until that virus came along. The shock, however, was the same across the board when our friends started becoming so ill, with many dying before they even reached their prime. You're right, of course - that condoms were unheard of at the time*, until it was either condoms or nothing if we wanted to live. Your point about the costs of being in business is a good one. Insurance costs are an easy one to pick at, and I would imagine fuckjoints present some special situations. No one wants to work for $3 an hour either these days. What does surprise me though, is the dearth of gh joints in Ft. L. There were plenty back in Chgo, but I don't know of one gh joint around here. I don't get it. HIV can't possibly have anything to do with that (meaning, what might have made sense to local legislators years ago makes no sense presently). *At least in the gay community ... I remember there was a group of guys at CHC down on Leavitt that fetishized condoms, and the rest of us thought them a bit odd. But hey - different stokes, right? I too think that the worst of hiv is behind us, given the medical advances, etc. It's not the automatic death-sentence that it once was, for which I am eternally grateful. Finally, given the advances in preventative treatments, it seems that hiv is slowly retreating from the center of our group consciousness. From some of the submissions here on BZ, one would think it's not much more than a common cold, regardless of the actual facts. I'm certain that if my other half and I hadn't stopped all outside sex when we did, we'd both have left many years ago. To the economy, it already has forced uncounted numbers to make more room in their economic plans for their retirements. These days, nothing is guaranteed, and each of us is on our own. But, better that than the alternative, I suppose. Thanks for your commentary.

We'll know for sure when we know for sure; but I think we'll weather this storm...

A couple weeks to a month of not daily use. Let say on average a couple long sessions and half a dozen short ones

Thanks, PozBearWI, for (re)offering this timely article. Isn't it interesting how that old saw ... "history repeats itself" ... comes to mind? Let's cross our fingers, toes, arms, legs, eyes, that the result of that myopia is not included in the current iteration .....

In the UK, the sauna scene seems to continue to change. It must be an expensive business to run, which probably accounts for closures.

I agree with what you said, but I do take exception to 'the HIV issue". When I was going to the baths in Lauderdale HIV was a very present and real threat. Yet I never saw condoms being used, mostly discarded. The age range was 20s to perhaps 70s during the Sunday cookout they had by the pool. I don't believe people's behavior really changed, or they were already positive. We had chatted about the Cubby Hole, look at the behavior that went on in the bathrooms! I mean, I only wish I had stumbled upon that place earlier. Who would have thought? That tiny bar, yet all the action that went on. I know bathhouses have to cover expenses, rising rents and it's pushing many of them out of business. I don't blame HIV for any of that. I believe it's the economy, it's almost inevitable. I believe that "times like this" will create almost a "sub-culture" where bars will be gone, bathhouses as well. Instead, apps like Sniffies will allow men to meet in anonymous places and take chances they know they should not (I try not to think about my behavior at the Cubby Hole). But HIV? Sure, many guys are concerned. But, in the long run, the worst of that plague I believe, is over. Or I pray it is. HIV didn't stop gay men from having sex in organized places in the 80s 90s or 2000s, and I doubt it will now. But the economy? It may force all of us to consider our options when it comes to "location".

Part 2 please! Love this story!

It seems that everything is more costly - and I'm not referring to the price of eggs, the recent hullabaloo caused by the tariffs (indexes have absolutely tanked today), etc etc. Removing the Presidential causes of the recent loosing of the hounds of hell from the equation, it's the nature of things to gradually increase in price (operative word being "gradually"). i think our group-sense of being something of a fraternity - a "place" - an "identity" - has faded substantially over the years, particularly given the hiv issue. Even with all the medical advances, every guy other than a teenager can remember what happened, and that has a residual effect too. But nothing ever remains the same - everything is always in a state of flux - one thing fading, another advancing - and we wind up with "change" being the only thing that never does. Things always change, and we just have to do our best to keep up (but, we can't help but remember how things used to be (filthy grin).

Greetings dear phallic risk-takers: A Democrat friend of mine at the agency I used to work for until the fork in the road and the offer of early retirement commended the book "The Righteous Mind" by Jonathan Haidt, to me ([think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Righteous_Mind) and suggested that it may be a basis for rebuilding lowest-common-denominator-based cooperation between people that are currently in the grip of either the Republicans or the Democrats (or the Libertarians or Greens, for that matter) (or international equivalents). As a semen-committed American, I thought it was a beautiful intention. Jonathan Haidt argues that "good" people of various political persuasions place different value on the following morality groupings: care/harm, fairness/cheating, loyalty/betrayal, authority/subversion, sanctity/degradation, and liberty/oppression. My friend's view was that the Democrats had moved too far away from the concept of benefits for contributions. He thought that he could potentially reclaim some deplorables by helping the Democratic Party generate policies and programs at the local and state level that better aligned benefits to contributions. What say you latex-free Americans and citizens of the world? Could this rescue the Democratic Party, or will Democrats simply forgo generating anything until the Republicans self-immolate? Also, any interest in ranking these morality groupings for yourselves? Also, where if at all could Republicans and Democrats de-demonize each other by doing things that could allow each other to model the sexy-best in each other? I'll start. Anyone who wants to move past demonization and partisanship and wants to have joy with others of different political persuasions please jump in: Ranking: 1) liberty/oppression (maybe because I have been in some abusive relationships and wish(ed) to find a superior man who would enjoy seeing me realize my gifts, also brief stints in countries that were in the middle of violent revolutions and where there was frequent murder, also have found joy beyond my original submission, so can play roles that were not given to me as an insecure youth wishing to be saved from isolation by an experienced older man, but this has been consistent since high school, when I started a geek-club for the 9th and 10th amendments) 2) fairness/cheating (was a liberal-leaning libertarian until I saw big tech silencing and de-platforming conservatives. at the time [late 2010's] I was likely to be horrified by conservative views, but I was even more horrified that fragile people would silence them rather than simply win arguments...) 3) care/harm (for me this is muddier, as care can be smothering, and "harm" can be erotic; but I still think that GOD [or the great genetic instinct to be alpha-species] meant for us to discover the best in each other and lift each other up. perhaps some of us count our cocks or our holes as our best quality, and to that I say, let's all retire to a promiscuous island). but seriously, lets all help each other learn from adversity and diversity of soul. 4) authority/subversion (for me, this is muddier, because the only real authority is the non-dogmatic GOD that whispers all sorts of contradictory sweet nothings into all of our ears [or truth for my dear atheists and scientists]; I am putting this above others only because I FINALLY believe in EVIL. It gives me a backbone and makes me ready to die for others' well-being. 5) loyalty/betrayal: I put this relatively low, because I know how much regret I have about times when I couldn't see what people were up there trying to do. I'd like to think I was rooting for all, but I am sure that I failed many people in my journey. My awareness of my own lack of understanding makes me sure that GOD intended all of us to live long enough to see our (my) own mistakes and to forgive our betrayers. (And, to be crass, Judas had a big dick.). 6) sanctity/degradation: I put this lowest because like many homos who are forced to confront the YING-YANG of being a man and wanting to fuck other men, to be a hole, or to be a fucker-hole, I really cannot tell the difference between sanctity and degradation. (I will say that Jordan Peterson, as much as he has flaws, showed me a path toward appreciating why GOD may punish people who violate taboos, simply because it is a beautiful mental concept to preserve an inviolable.) for those who feel that I have cut you off at the knees in my past comments (perhaps a mutual feeling), maybe we both could look beyond past rancor to create some non-partisan fun.

I dated a guy in college who I realize now must have had hyperspermia—he would shoot huge loads every time (like over half a cup of cum at at time). The first time I sucked him off I was shocked at the volume. He always wanted me to swallow his load or him breed me because it was a pain cleaning up the mess when he came anywhere else!

If it is clear piss, I love drinking from the tap. Tina piss goes up my ass.

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I fear I will get suspended for "fact-checking" (or, victor-writes-the-history "opinion-checking" which may be closer to what's happening during a "fact-check"), so I am leaving it to others to draw inferences. (fear is a strong word, maybe it is more like a highly erotic suspension, much like breath control in a dangerously close rough trade hookup, or sensory deprivation)

Damn @hellohere that’s a hot story!

Hot story would love a neighbor to play with like Aiden. I am rock hard!

Though I haven’t actually been to Nixon so can’t personally vouch for it. Been far too long since I’ve been to GC actually, really ought to treat myself to a trip soon.