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  1. You can't put any type of URLs in A4A messages. Best to spell out the name and tell them to google it.
  2. Lately I've been thinking I sorta miss the trill of the risk that I used to get when I fucked raw. Not that I'm some huge risk junkie, but a little bit of risk is fun. I'm not having a lot of sex lately so I've tapered back to 4 pills a week (Mon, Wed, Fri, Sun). That's still considered to be something like 90% effective. When and if I go to some big sex party I'll go back to daily pills. I know it may not sound logical, but I like the protection PrEP gives me and simultaneously miss the risk. Anyone else feeling the same way?
  3. Anyone here ever been in prison or talked to someone who has been in prison about the sex in there? I know two pretty prominent porn stars who are in jail right now (Mike Dozer and another one I'm not allowed to mention). Just wondering what it's like for them. I mean both guys are vers bottoms. Mike is in for statutory rape - and guys in on those charges tend to get raped themselves. Just wondering to what degree a good bottom could turn it to their advantage and be the cumdump of the cellblock. Or are the power dynamics all wrong for that sort of thing? It is possible for a bottom to actually have fun and get a lot of loads while they're locked up?
  4. All the data will be migrated. It'll just look new and different. BBBH.com will be a very different type of site, so there will be a separate sign-up.
  5. The OP says he's in Hawaii, so it is an option in his case.
  6. Be very careful. I nearly got arrested because they thought some of my sex toys were weapons. http://www.rawtop.com/blog/2009-05/tsa-my-sex-toy-is-a-weapon Poppers may not be legal everywhere. Careful with those - even if you take the label off. Dildos should be fine assuming they're soft.
  7. I gotta agree with this. I really envy the guys who are young today. When I came out and started having sex it was the height of the AIDS crisis and it just reinforced my generally conservative tendencies (I grew up in a fundamentalists household). If I had it to do all over again, without HIV being such a killer, I'd totally be a bareback pig - giving and taking loads. Now, with the advent of PrEP guys really can have a great time sexually. I do the best with what I've got, but it would be a blast to be young and hot today.
  8. Can you give me specific URLs that don't work? I don't re-encode videos from sponsors. Some of the sponsors may not be encoding their videos correctly.
  9. I was going to wait to disclose this, but… This site will be migrated to a completely different software package in the next few weeks. The new software package will have chat capabilities. By the end of the year BBBH.com will be up and running, and I'll integrate chat on there with chat on here.
  10. It's slightly more risky than being a safe sex bottom. Being a bareback top is 7 times safer than being a bottom. Being a safe sex bottom is about 10 to 20 times safer. IMHO, being a bareback top is within the realm of "safer sex". Oh, and if the bottom is "undetectable" it's completely safe. Safer than fucking a guy who thinks he's neg.
  11. Who cares if you cum quickly? At least he would have gotten your load. Otherwise it's wasted.
  12. LOL - I spent a couple years in Lynchburg. Last year of high school and first year of college - both a Falwell's schools. I'd be amused if there's much going on there. Though I have seen a few piggy guys online in that area a few years back.
  13. All my hookups at least start online. I get plenty of ass that way and could fuck even more if I had the energy. And this site isn't designed to be a hookup site, so no surprise hookups on here aren't working out.
  14. I tested positive for herpes a year ago or so, but to my knowledge I've never had an outbreak. Sorta makes me wonder if it was a false positive or something.
  15. I follow Cleve Jones on Facebook (he was the originator of the AIDS quilt back in the day, and was my sister's roommate many years before that). Anyway, his response to Fred Phelps illness was to talk about Fred's son Nate: That's sort of a classy way of looking at something good that came out of Fred Phelps. And it's fitting that Nate will survive him and help undo the harm his father did. In the end the Fred Phelps of the world will lose and we will win. It will just take time…
  16. I voted yes, but I'd say get on PrEP then fuck like you're bug chasing. Sounds like you're ready to be a good cumdump slut, and you're OK with it if you become poz, but no need to take more risk than you really need to.
  17. Sounds like trouble to me.
  18. Just so you understand - what you're having problems with are controlled by cookies. Sometimes the cookies go wonky. Just today the cookies I was sending to BZ exceeded the maximum size allowed, and I had to delete the cookies with long values. Dumping your cookies is something else you could try. In the meantime - one trick I do when I need to moderate the forum and don't know if I can do it all in one sitting is that I first page through the results and work from the last page to the first. That way what your describing can't happen to me if I just hit the back button - the pages will still be there.
  19. That's my point - the guy was bisexual in real life, but the film portrayed him as a homophobic straight guy… Read all the ways the movie is fucked up here… http://www.theguardian.com/film/2014/feb/12/dallas-buyers-club-accurate-matthew-mcconaughey
  20. All I can suggest is 1) restart your browser, and 2) try a different browser. One other thought - do you have security software on your computer or a browswer plugin/addon that may be altering the cookies that are passed to the site in the name of "privacy"? If so, turn off the software, or set it up to not alter stuff for Breeding Zone.
  21. Poz1956 - I used to teach stats when I was in grad school. I know what I'm talking about. I'll just point out one flaws in your thinking that sorta goes to the heart of the issue… If you're playing a lottery where you win 1 in 100 times and the lottery I'm playing I win 1 in 1000 times. We both play every week. Who's most likely to win their lottery first? Now if we both put something in our profile saying "haven't won the lottery", which one is most likely to be wrong first? How long is a reasonable time to put such a statement in a profile? I'd say I can put it in for a period of time that's 10 times longer than you can because you're 10 times more likely to win your lottery. The per incident chance doesn't change, but the cumulative chance does. Do the math. Yes, I could win the lottery the first time out, but that's 10 times more likely to happen to you. Hence, in coming up with community guidelines I have to take you as an average person playing your lottery and me as an average person playing my lottery. The guidelines have to use averages even though individual results may vary. Misinterpreted stats helps no one.
  22. Well, I said I was a day ago. But I said I was looking for <35, lean, and reasonably intelligent. According to your BBRT profile, you're 48, chubby and you're asking questions that have already been answered. I don't think we're a match.
  23. I proposed not showing HIV status on BBBH.com and people didn't like that idea at all. So then the question was how do I best display it in a way that does reduce HIV stigma. For example, I want to communicate that sex with poz guys on meds is safer than sex with a guy who thinks he's neg. At the same time I don't want to make people think about the issue too much since it's a bit of a turn off.
  24. From what I hear Dallas Buyers Club is sorta hated by the gay community. It makes a bisexual man out to be straight and has highly stereotypical portrayals of trans people. So if you managed to get all that out of such a questionable movie, imagine what you'd get out of a good one… I highly recommend you read And The Band Played On. It was an incredible book that detailed the early years of the AIDS crisis. You'll get angry reading it. IMHO, it should be required reading for every gay man. It was made into a movie. I don't know how good the movie is. The other movie to see is Longtime Companion. It was the film that really captured the pain of the AIDS crisis on a personal level.
  25. I get that, but only if I walk away from reading for an hour or so.
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