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1000 anon load challenge and self documentary
rawTOP replied to weiss_wolf's topic in General Discussion
I know I keep saying this, but I'll have a tube site up soon. (It's mostly done - should launch in a week or so). Please upload your videos to the site... It'll be hot seeing you progress into a total pig bottom... Second - the best way to get loads is to go to the big sex weekends - IML in Chicago (Memorial Day weekend), MAL in DC (in January), CLAW in Cleveland, Folsom in SF, etc. I'm planning to be at MAL... -
What is the best clinic in NYC for STD testing?
rawTOP replied to Freddiboi's topic in New York Metro Area
Callen Lorde on 18th Street between 8th & 9th Avenues. You can call and make an appointment during the week, or just go to the Saturday morning drop-in clinic. -
You can edit your posts for a few minutes after you post them. Then they become locked. The reason is because you wouldn't want someone changing their post substantially since it could alter the flow of the conversation and the posts below it may not make sense after the edit.
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Just curious what kind of tanlines guys find sexy... For me, a lot depends on the guy. For example a thong tanline can look great on a guy with a muscular ass. But kinda pathetic on a bear. I also don't get into tanlines where the guy was covering up too much.
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Every now and then I've gotten a request to add a section for transexuals and cross dressers. That's now done. Like the Straight/Bisexual sections there are three parts - general discussion, fiction and bug chasing / gift giving. Similar rules apply to the straight / bi sections only I'm less concerned if you post in the wrong place. Still, I would rather not see pics of trannies in the general areas - so please keep everything (including photos) restricted to those new sub-forums.
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Just wondering what body type turns fellow tops on the most... For me I'd say lean muscle, though there other types that are really hot. But if I just had to choose one, that would be it.
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There are tons of bareback bottoms in NYC. I have very little problem finding a hole.
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I gotta disagree. I think HIV is much more tightly wound into bareback culture than you think. Unlike soldiers where a few come home wounded. It's rare for a barebacker to stay neg. Barebacking pretty much equals poz. Only a few tops and the lucky guys who are immune/resistant escape that. The bareback brotherhood is a poz brotherhood. And bug chasing and gift giving are natural parts of that milieu.
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A bunch of you contacted me (mostly via PM). Give me the day to take care of some stuff and look over what you've written here on the site and I'll get back to you.
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I'm in need of some good writers for my porn blogs. People who when they see an image let their imaginations run wild and have no problem writing up what comes to mind. When you respond to posts on here, if you find yourself writing long descriptions when a short answer would do, and people find your writing enjoyable to read, then you're the type of person I'm looking for. I'll probably continue to write for the porn blog on rawTOP.com, but I've got a bunch of other porn blogs that really need attention. Some of the blogs do have condom scenes, but none of the pics show condoms (though some of the promo videos do). Since people tend to have "types" they find more stimulating and my porn blogs run a pretty wide gamut, I'll need 2 or 3 writers to cover everything. Unfortunately, I'd rather not work with New York residents. The laws here on employee vs contractor make it prohibitively expensive to hire NY residents. Pay is roughly $10/hour. Actually I pay $10 per 3 blog posts - from experience I know it takes about 20 minutes to write a blog post. If you're quick you'll earn more. So this probably isn't a gig for someone in an area with a high cost of living. This is a part-time gig. How much you work depends on your availability and my need. However, I do need you to be pretty predicable/dependable. I've tried working with guys who are heavy PNPers before - it doesn't work... I can't have you go missing for a week or two at a time.
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Can you explain CD4 percentage - I haven't heard of it expressed that way. Percentage of the sample? Percentage of what? Is the sample size a constant?
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You can do that search with the members search tool. Community -> Members List -> Advanced Search
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Have Extra Time? Make Some Money - Be A Cam Model...
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
It doesn't seem like anyone did. I have two chat sponsors I've promoted. That one never made much money for me, the other one is hit or miss. Really when it comes to chat you're hoping for the "whale" (big money spender) who can't live without seeing you on cam. Then you stop everything and spend hours with him... Whales are few and far between. AFAIK I've only seen the effects from one whale in my years promoting cams. To me cams is a bit of a gamble, so I don't really promote cams anymore. Though I may put a link to them once I've got my cam solution back up and running... -
Being In Porn - How do guys get in? Is there still a stigma?
rawTOP replied to rubio2001's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
Find a studio that has guys like you. Figure out if they're near you (most won't pay for travel). Then send a clear pic to them and offer to be in one of their videos. -
The CDC has changed their treatment plan for Gonorrhea. Unfortunately there is now only one drug that is effective at stopping it, and it must be injected. Once that drug stops being effective we're sorta fucked and Gonorrhea will be a pretty serious problem. Here is the NYSDOH's summary of the CDC's new recommendations... If you get gonorrhea, make sure your doctor treats you properly. And definitely try hard not to pass gonorrhea on to others. While it may have been trivial in the past, it isn't anymore. Take it very seriously.
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FYI - laborers in NYC (where it's pretty expensive), get about $120-150/day. The rates are probably lower where you are, so you just paid the guy a half days wages for a few minutes of work.
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What year? I had her Spring of 1990 - just before I graduated. I'm still in contact with one of the other guys from the group.
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Having lived in Lynchburg for two years.... Your first problem is probably your location. With Jerry Falwell's university, etc. as major players in Lynchburg, there just aren't that many guys who are up for gay sex, let alone unprotected gay sex...
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POZ TOPS, do you always tell a bottom that you are poz ?
rawTOP replied to not_sure_bb's topic in General Discussion
Let's not forget that poz tops aren't the only ones who don't reveal or lie about their status. I've fucked COUNTLESS poz bottoms who claimed (at least in their profiles) that they were neg and only had safe sex. In a casual hookup scenario or with anonymous sex you really have no clue what the other person's status is. Back in the '80s & early '90s we were taught "always assume the other guy is poz". That's good advice today too. Unless you really know the guy well, you can't say you know his HIV status. Even then you only know it as well as he does. -
When I came out YEARS ago my friend suggested I get into a gay men's counseling group that the University of Texas offered. I had one counselor who was an older Texan woman named Coistal who taught me about picking up guys in gay bars. Her rule was that if someone gives you three solid looks, then they're interested. May not be for sex, but if you approach them they're not going to be hostile. Same should go for what you want... You can be the aggressor - just have good eye contact before and chances are they'll at least be nice when you go up to them and strike up a conversation. Since you want it to be sexual - I'd say just start being touchy feely quickly after you get a positive initial reaction from the guy. Compliments go a long way...
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no problem..
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lol True - hadn't looked at it from that perspective. But a true and total sub will let a top fuck him with a condom since submission is complying with what the top wants. At the same time even a total sub will make it clear to the top he loves it when a top cums in him, and he might ask a top who uses a condom to cum in the condom so the bottom can take the condom and get the load out of the condom and up his ass.
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IMHO, if you instigate it, participate willingly and never say 'no' - then you're no victim. The older guy may have committed a crime, but it was a victimless crime and the punishment should reflect the fact that it's a victimless crime. Actually, we don't have to accept current society. You only have to accept the past. What's current is our to remake collectively. The fact that the same age "kid" was a responsible member of society 200 years ago just proves the point that we don't have to accept the infantilization of kids in their mid-teens. I don't think you comprehend teens today or the fact that just because it's written in a law doesn't make it right. This makes the whole thing absurd. I think what's important is that a person's HIV status should never be used as a legal weapon. No infection, no problem. For all we know the guy was on meds and couldn't infect the kid... I'd say it sounds like the kid (and his parents) are bigger abusers than the poz guy was...
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Do we know who made the first move? Who came onto who? To me it makes a difference how sexually aggressive the teen was.
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I think it's crazy to sexualize teens and then treat them as babies who can't make their own decisions. Go back 200 years and you'll see that teens were running farms, starting families, etc. Its our culture that's the problem (IMHO). Let's stop pretending 15, 16, 17 year olds are so fragile and teach them to take care of themselves. They did it 200 years ago. They can do it now. Bottom line, IMHO the age of consent laws are part of the problem - they reinforce the idea that teens are incapable of taking care of themselves and making decisions, when it's just that parents are too lazy to teach their kids to fend for themselves or ask them to grow up. I don't buy the biological arguments. Sure there may be parts of the brain which aren't fully developed until the early 20s, but it doesn't mean they're completely missing in someone who's 15 or 16. There's enough there for the teen to figure out what's right and wrong on their own.
