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There are many threads on here about fuck flu. When you do a search put it in double quotes "fuck flu" - otherwise you're searching for fuck and/or flu.
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Another thing Jayson Park & I are discussing... He thinks "scary" isn't hot. While I can see where relationship-minded bottoms might not want scary, I think a certain level of scariness would turn on a lot of guys. What do you guys think? Do you like it when you're a little scared of the guy who's fucking you? How about very scared? What's your limit? -
Jayson Park wants to shoot a video with me, but he doesn't like the executioner's hood I usually wear. He wants me to wear a baseball cap and sunglasses. He doesn't think the hood is sexy, I think the baseball cap and sunglasses is creepy (sorta stalker-ish). What do you guys think? Which is the better way to conceal my identity?
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Just wondering whether bottoms mostly get fucked for the fuck or for the load? I guess if you put it another way - which would disappoint you more - a top blowing his load in your hole after a few strokes or a top fucking you for an hour and not cumming?
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Would love to fuck you. Hit me up... Here or same name on BBRT or nycFUCKER on A4A.
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Simple. Bottoms get the load blown into the part of their body that's built to absorb things. Tops at most get their dicks wet and skin is made to repel fluids. Only if stuff gets up in the urethra or if there's a cut or (maybe) if the top is uncircumcised is the top even at minimal risk.
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Simple - open relationship. I've been with my bf for 15 year (almost). He's also a total top. Even if I started bottoming I'm not sure I'd encourage him to fuck me - we just have different approaches to sex (I like anonymous, he likes 'connected'/'intimate' sex). I think it works because you think a lot a like... And if everything except the sex works in the relationship - its still a relationship worth having. There are plenty of other men out there to scratch your itch when you need a good fuck.
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It's generally much more difficult for a top to convert. I've been fucking raw for a long time now and it still hasn't happened. It's not like I'm trying to stay neg... My best friend converted apparently just from topping. He's a versatile top, but hadn't taken loads for a while before he got fuck flu. And HungLatinDom (who works for me) also converted as a top. He thinks it was from being a fisting top. I'll let him go into more detail. I used to discount stories of tops converting - thinking they were guys who didn't want to admit to bottoming. But I'm close enough to those two guys to believe them - so it happens. I'd say everyone who barebacks actively and regularly should count on becoming poz. Let it be a pleasant surprise if you stay neg. Bottoms can generally count on it within 6 to 12 months of becoming a cumdump. With tops it'll probably take years - but there's a decent chance it will happen.
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Some tops like a loose ass, others light tight asses. Your trick as a bottom is to figure out which one your top likes. Pay attention to whether things are working for him and once he's in a groove, keep things consistent. So it's good that you're having less pain and can take cock more easily. That will really please the guys who like a loose hole. Now the only trick is to learn to tighten up during sex for the tops who prefer a tighter hole. For me, I'd say it depends on the position. So on all fours I want a tight hole. Ditto for riding my cock (which is almost impossible - since in a squat position you can't really tighten up your hole). But on a bottom's belly loose is fine. Then it's more about does the sensitive part of my dick rub up against something or is it beyond the sphincter muscle in sort of a void.
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Bacterial Meningitis in the poz community in NYC - 1 death so far...
rawTOP replied to OKJOE's topic in New York Metro Area
This is via Josh over at Positive Alliance - the folks who run Poz Thursdays at The Ritz... -
Maybe you didn't understand me, but by adding undetectable bottoms to who you fuck you will lower your risk since you're less likely to get HIV from them than from a bottom who claims to be neg. No, you weren't introduced too early. You're in your sexual prime. You should enjoy sex to the fullest.
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Barebacking is an addictive, one-way street. Just accept it and ditch the condoms. IMHO, you're at lower risk with an undetectable bottom because neg bottoms may be poz and not know it in which case they could possibly infect a top. lol It's never too early.
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1000 anon load challenge and self documentary
rawTOP replied to weiss_wolf's topic in General Discussion
I know I keep saying this, but I'll have a tube site up soon. (It's mostly done - should launch in a week or so). Please upload your videos to the site... It'll be hot seeing you progress into a total pig bottom... Second - the best way to get loads is to go to the big sex weekends - IML in Chicago (Memorial Day weekend), MAL in DC (in January), CLAW in Cleveland, Folsom in SF, etc. I'm planning to be at MAL... -
What is the best clinic in NYC for STD testing?
rawTOP replied to Freddiboi's topic in New York Metro Area
Callen Lorde on 18th Street between 8th & 9th Avenues. You can call and make an appointment during the week, or just go to the Saturday morning drop-in clinic. -
You can edit your posts for a few minutes after you post them. Then they become locked. The reason is because you wouldn't want someone changing their post substantially since it could alter the flow of the conversation and the posts below it may not make sense after the edit.
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Just curious what kind of tanlines guys find sexy... For me, a lot depends on the guy. For example a thong tanline can look great on a guy with a muscular ass. But kinda pathetic on a bear. I also don't get into tanlines where the guy was covering up too much.
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Every now and then I've gotten a request to add a section for transexuals and cross dressers. That's now done. Like the Straight/Bisexual sections there are three parts - general discussion, fiction and bug chasing / gift giving. Similar rules apply to the straight / bi sections only I'm less concerned if you post in the wrong place. Still, I would rather not see pics of trannies in the general areas - so please keep everything (including photos) restricted to those new sub-forums.
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Just wondering what body type turns fellow tops on the most... For me I'd say lean muscle, though there other types that are really hot. But if I just had to choose one, that would be it.
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There are tons of bareback bottoms in NYC. I have very little problem finding a hole.
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I gotta disagree. I think HIV is much more tightly wound into bareback culture than you think. Unlike soldiers where a few come home wounded. It's rare for a barebacker to stay neg. Barebacking pretty much equals poz. Only a few tops and the lucky guys who are immune/resistant escape that. The bareback brotherhood is a poz brotherhood. And bug chasing and gift giving are natural parts of that milieu.
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A bunch of you contacted me (mostly via PM). Give me the day to take care of some stuff and look over what you've written here on the site and I'll get back to you.
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I'm in need of some good writers for my porn blogs. People who when they see an image let their imaginations run wild and have no problem writing up what comes to mind. When you respond to posts on here, if you find yourself writing long descriptions when a short answer would do, and people find your writing enjoyable to read, then you're the type of person I'm looking for. I'll probably continue to write for the porn blog on rawTOP.com, but I've got a bunch of other porn blogs that really need attention. Some of the blogs do have condom scenes, but none of the pics show condoms (though some of the promo videos do). Since people tend to have "types" they find more stimulating and my porn blogs run a pretty wide gamut, I'll need 2 or 3 writers to cover everything. Unfortunately, I'd rather not work with New York residents. The laws here on employee vs contractor make it prohibitively expensive to hire NY residents. Pay is roughly $10/hour. Actually I pay $10 per 3 blog posts - from experience I know it takes about 20 minutes to write a blog post. If you're quick you'll earn more. So this probably isn't a gig for someone in an area with a high cost of living. This is a part-time gig. How much you work depends on your availability and my need. However, I do need you to be pretty predicable/dependable. I've tried working with guys who are heavy PNPers before - it doesn't work... I can't have you go missing for a week or two at a time.
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Can you explain CD4 percentage - I haven't heard of it expressed that way. Percentage of the sample? Percentage of what? Is the sample size a constant?
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You can do that search with the members search tool. Community -> Members List -> Advanced Search
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Have Extra Time? Make Some Money - Be A Cam Model...
rawTOP replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
It doesn't seem like anyone did. I have two chat sponsors I've promoted. That one never made much money for me, the other one is hit or miss. Really when it comes to chat you're hoping for the "whale" (big money spender) who can't live without seeing you on cam. Then you stop everything and spend hours with him... Whales are few and far between. AFAIK I've only seen the effects from one whale in my years promoting cams. To me cams is a bit of a gamble, so I don't really promote cams anymore. Though I may put a link to them once I've got my cam solution back up and running...