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Not to sound mean, but if you leave a bathhouse/sexclub/sauna etc. with a hard-on, then that is on you. From my experience, a patron is given 8 hours to find some fun, Now keep in mind when you are going, a Tuesday afternoon with temps in the single digits may not draw a big crowd. But seriously, a weekend, (at almost any time) there has to be SOMEONE to provide you some relief. Granted you could go in there and want to get off a number of times, and maybe you have cum once or twice and are hoping for a third. PACE YOURSELF GUYS. Come on, you have plenty of time to find at least one guy, I realize we don't all live in major metropolitan areas so our choice of fuck joints can be limited, as well as your selection of guys. But I cannot image being in a bathhouse for eight hours and not finding ONE guy, not ONE, who will do the TRICK? In my case, the answer is no, I have never left a bathhouse with a hard-on.

If you were unaware he was a former student, or he looks entirely different, works in the favor of the older individual. Would I have sex with him again, no. Why take a chance? Is he that exceptional. There are plenty of guys out there to sleep with, why complicate your life with this scenario? If he asks again, I would say thanks but no thanks.

I live in a city that has a democratic mayor and is very diversified racially. Right now "tourist season" has begun and I see nothing but cars from Indiana, Wisconsin, Ohio all coming into my area because we have a fantastic, relatively new Publix. Even though St. Pete beach has one, I am forced to look at women wearing bathing suit coverings that don't cover enough, or couples who obviously spent the night frolicking in their waterfront rooms based on her lack of makeup and his hair standing up. They wear no underwear, done big black out sunglasses, and have pre-ordered their Publix subs. But I digress..... What I do see is - MAGA hats (yes!) Vote for Trump in 2020 (they have yet to find somewhere to buy a 2024 sticker). But here is my concern, THEY ARE COMING HERE TO RETIRE. "The Villiages" (I call it Florida Republican Heaven's Waiting Room), is not far from me. Almost every upscale retirement community has a voting precinct on it's property (my parents lived in one from 1987 till their deaths in the mid 2016s and the Bush years was a scary time). But if you don't think Florida is becoming bright red you are mistaken. My little area will hold onto blue (Saint Petersburg) but other parts of Pinellas county are a strong purple. I thought the way Puerto Rico was treated by Trump after Hurricane Maria many from that island might hop over on a plane and stay with relatives along the I-4 corridor. The stunts DeSatan and his "NO WOKE" policy, as well as the "DISNEY DEBACLE" would surely get them to vote for a Democratic, but Charlie got slammed in this last election and poor Val got little financial support. I am very worried about the future of Florida, worried they will clamp down on any organized gay activities, try to restrict fundamental rights. But I am left with one question? Where could I move to that isn't constantly hit with natural disasters (I got lucky this year) or awful winters, or police brutality or crime? I thought of South Carolina, I know they are red, but hopefully Lady Graham will retire and exist solely for filling the wallets of sex workers and B level porn starts??? Anyone have plans to flee the Sunshine state?

So where is this boardwalk so I can Mapquest it from my place in Florida - LMAO. Great for you, it's wonderful to hear a story like that turn out with a happy ending for all parties involved.

To answer the original OP from quite a while back - it's so easy to just become whorish if you are a bottom. If you are a bottom - what is there really to do but enjoy.? Sure you blow the guy till he's 100 percent erect, but after that the rest of the work is on him. You get into your favorite position, bing, bang, boom he cums and you move on to the next one. You don't necessarily cum because you are already thinking of the next one. This scenario is repeated at bath houses and sex clubs, if you are on certain apps and located in a convenient location in a major city, it's easy to do ten in a day. Try getting on Grindr on ANY day of the week in Wilton Manors, FL - lol. ( Not calling out Wilton Manors, but let's be realistic). You do your prep, you have everything you need to make the experience enjoyable for yourself and before you know it - they are at the front door. Don't feel bad, like it's "all about you" because it's not. He cums, that is his goal, you did your job to facilitate that. I set a rule for myself, I see how I am feeling after the fifth or sixth guy, and then I decide how many I wanna do that day. If I decide on 10, I don't cum until the 10th guy is fucking me. I've made a recent decision not to play where I live. Same cast of characters. So I drive to Orlando, Lauderdale, anywhere where I don't reside. Being the new guy in town seems to add to your numbers count........until of course three months later a guy shows up who fucked you in the summer and it's not January. Oh well, six months in-between isn't bad. I know guys change their profiles all the time, but I have started writing down screen names just to make sure not to duplicate my efforts.....

I had to chime in, LOVE SHACK, is indeed one the funnest places I have ever been. You're right, you can walk around naked, no one gives a damn, and there is dick everywhere. I have not been there in a while, I was hoping it didn't close because of Covid.

Funny, I was raised and educated in Philadelphia. Group activities have been going on for years in Philadelphia with the Blue Ball Circuit event there were plenty of group events. To be honest, I never "hosted" one, so I couldn't control who attended. I can only go by the events I attended and my own personal experiences, I NEVER excluded anyone.

Are you sure you want to move to a state that is becoming more and more Republican? I used to say I was not political, but our current governor is a real, how shall I say, Nazi? Lauderdale is beautiful, I love it there to. So many gay men and options. I live in Saint Petersburg, where the cost of living is slightly lower and I can still get laid. Still, think about other options because in a few years I am getting out of Florida, I am currently thinking of Palm Springs or Palm Desert, Ca as a potential retirement area.

I would say Doublelist will be as similar to Craigslist in five years....I noticed now they are asking for payment and for those who are skeptical I can say I had great success with this site.

Wow, I see that someone has posted that there is a medication that works possibly better than trimix. Let me call my urologist, I can't imagine what the out of pocket cost would be but this is the first I am hearing of it. The use of trimix is something to really pay close attention to. What is good for one guy can ruin another guy's penis. I just had to mention that as I have been in situations where someone abused that medication and the outcome was not good. So Quadmix, huh? I can't wait to find out if my doctor will encourage switching, he actually gave me business cards to pass out to friends who are part of the "enhancement" group I know. It's better to have a qualified professional write you a script then take a chance and use something written for another individual.

I accept the fact that we are all going to pass away at some point. Death and taxes, two things that are inevitable. I believe that guys who do porn are just like the rest of us. However in the advent of the internet and social media, when someone from the adult entertainment industry passes away it may grab 30 seconds on some gay website. Twenty years ago that was not the case, you may not have heard about someone you recognize passing for weeks or months. I try not to make assumptions about why someone has died. It's a cliche to say "oh another drug overdose". Not long ago, I believe I watched on U-Tube, a tribute to gay porn stars who have passed away. You would think AIDS or Drugs were the usual reasons. What I found surprising were so many who died from things anyone can die from. Car accidents, domestic abuse issues, home invasions, etc. The reasons can vary. I don't start researching to look at someone's "body of work" in porn just because they passed away. If they come across my computer, or on the screen when I look up at a party, it clicks in my mind that they are no longer with us. But I certainly don't get aroused or depressed. These people, just like other people died, and that's part of the cycle of life.

Doublelist has worked for me in the Saint Petersburg area. I think it has taken some time for word to get around about the site but the attitude and the type of guys is similar to Craigslist. Most are looking for anonymous or dump and go kind of encounters. Against like Craigslist, they are guys that you don't normally find on other sites. Usually little conversation, they fuck and go. I haven't had problems with the site or moderators, many guys post pics and so far I have not had anything rejected because of content. I would give it a try.....

I would go with an easy access motel. Think of it this way, would you want a group of strangers coming into your home, possibly taking things that don't belong to them and then causing you to clean up their mess. If you can find a hotel/motel off a major highway I would think that works best. Take it from someone who has been on both sides of this issue, having a designated place, that I don't have to clean up (i.e. towels and laundry) is much better than having the luxury of just answering the door and letting a total stranger in. Sure it sounds great initially, but in the end I think you will have a better time if you take it away from your residence. Good luck and have fun....

To me being "torn up" means being "closed for business". I wouldn't deliberately damage an area that can take months or years to repair if it is damaged in all the wrong places. I don't encourage tops to try and rip my hole open, if anything I appreciate a few kind words like "does this position work for you?" It just takes a few seconds to find out what is comfortable for one guy as opposed to another. I noticed in earlier postings how it appears some guys can just literally sit on a giant dick (or two) or some huge dildo with little effort. I have often wondered about that as well. Sometimes I think it is anatomical, i.e. they have never had any anal issues in their life, or their anal cavity is larger. The negative side of me wants to say "oh he's high" but I have seen guys in person do it, and I was there when we all started to play and I know for a fact they (well, one in particular who is amazing) were sober. I think it is a combination of factors. One area is just how often is a guy getting fucked - every day, more than once a day, being fucked on a continual basis by someone extremely large????? Or are they practicing with dildos, toys, etc???? I believe all of this comes into play. I know this comparison may seem like a stretch (no pun intended) but it's almost like a piercing. If you leave the piercing out for an extended period of time, the hole closes up. I think the same can be said for the ass. If it is not being used, the next time it runs across something close to ten inches it may take a while to open back up. These are just things that have gone through my mind over the years. But when I hear a guy say "I am going to tear you up", I am not sure if he is overly confident about the size of his dick or if he is determined to hurt me. I usually ask for clarification.

Bring a piece of paper paper, some scotch tape, and a black magic maker and tape the word "NEXT" on the front of your door. Your numbers will rise.........expeditiously.

I have seen this subject debated time and time again. I know that the age to marry can vary from state to state. As far as countries abroad, I know they too can vary. It's really confusing here in the US, especially regarding marriage. In some states I have read it varies for the female, others for the male. In the US, I think 18 is a fair number. Now I know the majority of us started having sex well before that age and on a regular basis. However I live in a Republican state that now seems to want to close down drag shows, so having sex with a 17 year old isn't at the top of my list anytime soon. I think, at least here in the US, an age should be set for both males and females across the board.

Here in the Tampa/St. Pete area there used to be something called "DudeDorm". Okay, it didn't last very long, but it was sort of like Big Brother where you saw them totally naked and sometimes hooking up. Now, it was expensive and interest started to decline. I happened to be online one night, and I got this random message from this guy asking me if I wanted to hook up. When he described himself, I told him I thought we had met before and we were not a match. Boy was I wrong. He sent some photos, and he was in my apartments (and in me) in about 15 minutes, no we had never met I would have DEFINITELY remembered. But here is the interesting part about DudeDorm. I actually saw guys wearing t shirts promoting the place in local bars. But the guy I hooked up with said the reason the project failed is because he was the ONLY ATTRACTIVE (his words, not mine) sitting in the living room watching TV naked. Eventually the place was not closed down by police, but rather they could not cover costs. I don't know if local breeding zone.com members remember DudeDorm or not? I never subscribed, the guy I hooked up with showed me screen shots and stuff like that, but I never saw a live feed. Anyone remember this fiasco? He showed me pics of some of the other guys and no I would not pay to watch them take a shower and possibly have sex with one another. Again, it was outrageously expensive, but it turned out I got the "star" of the show for free. Anyone remember it? I just wonder with all of these changes coming to porn, if this would be a place they would target immediately. There was no prostitution, because I asked......

Of course, you want to be recorded - what are you going to show your grandkids when you are old and grey.😉 Record while you are still hot!

SIR PETER by far. Then there is TENINCHTOPXXX

I had just moved to Florida, didn't know a soul, and met an incredibly hot guy. He asked if I wanted to hook up and he said there was a place directly across from the "Old Plantation" bar in Tampa, where we had met. When I went inside, there were broken bottles, syringes, HOMELESS PEOPLE SLEEPING, people doing drugs, and he put a towel on the ground (there was no furniture) and I fucked him BB. Now, fast forward a year, and I see him in the local gay rags (and even on television) receiving an award for his work with the HIV community. My mouth dropped, but he was gorgeous.

I constantly see guys fucking live at the bottom of my torrents feed. Now granted, they are not all in the US, usually the Americans are solo. But I have seen group play from Europe, South America and Asia and sure they are begging for coins, but nature gives in, and they fuck regardless. I am intrigued as I read about the possibility of all of these sites being pulled down, because frankly, one will just appear somewhere else. I think this kind of moderation will be difficult to enforce. Doesn't law enforcement have enough to do already? Sure there is human trafficking which is disgusting, but to see two Euro guys fucking, or two Brazilians sucking each other's cocks, doesn't strike me as the type of activity local or federal agencies are going to waste valuable tax payer money on. What are they going to do? Have officers sitting in a room, monitoring every new site as they appear, then trying to get a probable cause affidavit. It may get some traction in the US, but doesn't US law enforcement have enough to do with their time and resources. I am not saying it's not coming "down the road", but who gets prosecuted? Those viewing, what if I am in a free room (which is often) there has been no transfer of funds. Do they prosecute the performers? To me, this just sounds like an almost impossible task.

So it's like the "morning after pill" for a gay STD? I would love to know the percentage of guys who go running for this. At least with the "morning after pill" there is what I call "The eighteen year mistake".

Great ass!

Cuddle? I don't mean to be sarcastic but I thought that went out in the late 90s or early 2000s. The other item, kissing. Sure it happens, but in today's world of PNP it seems as if men are willing to really push the envelope as to what they will do, but try kissing once and you are likely to get punched. I have had very nice incidents, where after everyone is cleaned up, gathering their things, I have received some genuine hugs. But to cuddle, kiss, I don't see that often. The only time has come up with me is when it was a preplanned "date", one of us was staying at the other's place for the night, and there was some cuddling and kissing. It amazes me what a guy will do with his body, but you try to show some affection and they look at you like you need to be institutionalized. Am I the only one?

Wait? Isn't Clarence Thomas in an inter-racial marriage. So some of things he is proposing to eliminate may have implications on his own personal life. Unless, everyone is "Grandfathered" in so to speak. I really don't think this is going to happen, I am hoping and praying that gay marriage is here to stay. But I do look at life with the glass half full, so maybe being naive will be my downfall.