ellentonboy

Does your republican/democratic statius remember all that much? all that much? I know I am going to get killed over this comment, but I am too young to remember Dukakis, but to young to remember his opponent? So I digress, I know Duikakis remember flying into Key West but that is all my family remembers? So what is going on and what should I remember or should I NOT remember?

I just have a question. Haven't most bottoms been "gang banged"? I thought this was part of the process, but maybe I am wrong. Most bottoms desire being "gang banged" and that is one of the PLUS sides of being a bottom. Just my opinion.......

I see what you are saying. In my situation they were laying by the pool, it was during the day, and most were top less. I agree with you that if there is some kind of play activity going on there shouldn't be any women around. I happen to be laying in front of the main bar where the pool is, and even though there were guys with hard ons, there wasn't any sex. So, with that being said I guess I really couldn't complain much. Granted if it was one of their theme nights, or leather nights, they shouldn't be there.

Thanks for taking the time to respond. I guess I just hit it on the wrong weekend, it was kind of funny actually. Those darkroom parties are famous, I will continue to check the web site and see what looks good. Thanks again!

Inn Leather is the more comfortable of the two, but that is just an opinion.......You can have your own space, get naked, set up your video equipment, and have some security regarding your electronics. This is strictly a personal opinion.

Boy would l love to know his screen name but I respect your privacy!

Jeff Allen from Raging Stallion (filmed me with out my permission and broadcast it live - not a nice guy) Tony Cummings from Raging Stallion (nice guy) Rafael Alencar (after he left his "contractual obligations with RS), nice guy, he still had he braces!

If a random hook up occurs that is great, but I don't sit next to my laptop or phone, as I did even five years ago. I have enough guys listed in my contacts that I can call and arrange something. I saw read something somewhere "familiarity breeds contempt". Did I get that right????? I don't agree, sometimes, the guy walking through your door, who you have played with dozens of times is such a welcome site as opposed to a stranger who may or may not turn out to be worth your time.

I would not worry. If that individual stated he was of legal age, and if fact was not, he is the one in trouble. A friend of mine went through this kind of extortion in California and when he told him he had screen shots of every conversation they had the kid backed down. I don't blame Ginder ,they can only do so much, and I certainly wouldn't cast the blame on you because he stated he was of legal age. These punks think because a guy is over 30 or 40 or whatever is going to hand over money for fear of being turned into law enforcement need a wake up call. Call their bluff, ask them what their parents would think, their classmates, the police who file the report. They are in fact filing a false police report if they claim they told you they were underage when a screen shot or something on your phone proves otherwise. They will back down quickly.

I have that little thing from the Apple App Store that allows me to view a view a clip if someone mentions a hot video that is on Twitter. Thanks to the poster who told me where to find it and how to have it easily accessible on my computer should a video be posted that fits my viewing "tastes". - lol. I don't use Twitter on a daily basis but I hate to miss an opportunity to see a clip that really gets me going.....

These numbers seem awfully low gentleman (and I use the term loosely) but you figure there are two days in the weekend, multiple that by 52 weeks in a year. So that is 104 nights of opportunity. Now multiply that number by the number of years you have been sexually active and seriously, the number will make you .........sick to your stomach! Seriously, do the math! I like how some guys say "100". 100 since when, the end of 2021? Before the pandemic? During the pandemic? Wish everyone was honest because when I calculated my number I became somewhat ill. I am not posting my number for fear the board of Health will come and get me - lmao.

When the sex is mediocre, I have actually laid there and calculated my checking account balance.

I don't think that is happening any time soon but that sir, is wishful thinking.

Any activities that involve the attention of law enforcement that puts you in a situation where you are trying to find your identification. I've been there, but that was years ago and I would like to think I am somewhat intelligent. But when you think with your DICK, you become one. Don't do that, because years back law enforcement might have told you to "go home", now they have to write up a police report if you are caught with your pants down and it's not a place you want to be these days. Enough said.

I have been told I am extremely tight and because of that most tops come quickly. I have also determined that guys that are really good tops, and know how to work a hole, will last longer. A 22 year old is going to blow his load in less than five to ten minutes, at most.

Or, if visiting Ft. Lauderdale, take a walk around the old Holiday Park, former tennis training center that has become, somewhat, a huge cruising ground. I keep referring to Lauderdale because I miss it so much, sorry hntnhole.

I just have a question for you - do you have any other options? Or does geography limit the number of locations you can frequent? I just ask that because at times I have lived in cities with three bathhouses. I know that is a rarity and I was fortunate. I was just wondering if you might want to explore other opportunities. Happy hunting...

Not to sound mean, but if you leave a bathhouse/sexclub/sauna etc. with a hard-on, then that is on you. From my experience, a patron is given 8 hours to find some fun, Now keep in mind when you are going, a Tuesday afternoon with temps in the single digits may not draw a big crowd. But seriously, a weekend, (at almost any time) there has to be SOMEONE to provide you some relief. Granted you could go in there and want to get off a number of times, and maybe you have cum once or twice and are hoping for a third. PACE YOURSELF GUYS. Come on, you have plenty of time to find at least one guy, I realize we don't all live in major metropolitan areas so our choice of fuck joints can be limited, as well as your selection of guys. But I cannot image being in a bathhouse for eight hours and not finding ONE guy, not ONE, who will do the TRICK? In my case, the answer is no, I have never left a bathhouse with a hard-on.

If you were unaware he was a former student, or he looks entirely different, works in the favor of the older individual. Would I have sex with him again, no. Why take a chance? Is he that exceptional. There are plenty of guys out there to sleep with, why complicate your life with this scenario? If he asks again, I would say thanks but no thanks.

I live in a city that has a democratic mayor and is very diversified racially. Right now "tourist season" has begun and I see nothing but cars from Indiana, Wisconsin, Ohio all coming into my area because we have a fantastic, relatively new Publix. Even though St. Pete beach has one, I am forced to look at women wearing bathing suit coverings that don't cover enough, or couples who obviously spent the night frolicking in their waterfront rooms based on her lack of makeup and his hair standing up. They wear no underwear, done big black out sunglasses, and have pre-ordered their Publix subs. But I digress..... What I do see is - MAGA hats (yes!) Vote for Trump in 2020 (they have yet to find somewhere to buy a 2024 sticker). But here is my concern, THEY ARE COMING HERE TO RETIRE. "The Villiages" (I call it Florida Republican Heaven's Waiting Room), is not far from me. Almost every upscale retirement community has a voting precinct on it's property (my parents lived in one from 1987 till their deaths in the mid 2016s and the Bush years was a scary time). But if you don't think Florida is becoming bright red you are mistaken. My little area will hold onto blue (Saint Petersburg) but other parts of Pinellas county are a strong purple. I thought the way Puerto Rico was treated by Trump after Hurricane Maria many from that island might hop over on a plane and stay with relatives along the I-4 corridor. The stunts DeSatan and his "NO WOKE" policy, as well as the "DISNEY DEBACLE" would surely get them to vote for a Democratic, but Charlie got slammed in this last election and poor Val got little financial support. I am very worried about the future of Florida, worried they will clamp down on any organized gay activities, try to restrict fundamental rights. But I am left with one question? Where could I move to that isn't constantly hit with natural disasters (I got lucky this year) or awful winters, or police brutality or crime? I thought of South Carolina, I know they are red, but hopefully Lady Graham will retire and exist solely for filling the wallets of sex workers and B level porn starts??? Anyone have plans to flee the Sunshine state?

So where is this boardwalk so I can Mapquest it from my place in Florida - LMAO. Great for you, it's wonderful to hear a story like that turn out with a happy ending for all parties involved.

To answer the original OP from quite a while back - it's so easy to just become whorish if you are a bottom. If you are a bottom - what is there really to do but enjoy.? Sure you blow the guy till he's 100 percent erect, but after that the rest of the work is on him. You get into your favorite position, bing, bang, boom he cums and you move on to the next one. You don't necessarily cum because you are already thinking of the next one. This scenario is repeated at bath houses and sex clubs, if you are on certain apps and located in a convenient location in a major city, it's easy to do ten in a day. Try getting on Grindr on ANY day of the week in Wilton Manors, FL - lol. ( Not calling out Wilton Manors, but let's be realistic). You do your prep, you have everything you need to make the experience enjoyable for yourself and before you know it - they are at the front door. Don't feel bad, like it's "all about you" because it's not. He cums, that is his goal, you did your job to facilitate that. I set a rule for myself, I see how I am feeling after the fifth or sixth guy, and then I decide how many I wanna do that day. If I decide on 10, I don't cum until the 10th guy is fucking me. I've made a recent decision not to play where I live. Same cast of characters. So I drive to Orlando, Lauderdale, anywhere where I don't reside. Being the new guy in town seems to add to your numbers count........until of course three months later a guy shows up who fucked you in the summer and it's not January. Oh well, six months in-between isn't bad. I know guys change their profiles all the time, but I have started writing down screen names just to make sure not to duplicate my efforts.....

I had to chime in, LOVE SHACK, is indeed one the funnest places I have ever been. You're right, you can walk around naked, no one gives a damn, and there is dick everywhere. I have not been there in a while, I was hoping it didn't close because of Covid.

Funny, I was raised and educated in Philadelphia. Group activities have been going on for years in Philadelphia with the Blue Ball Circuit event there were plenty of group events. To be honest, I never "hosted" one, so I couldn't control who attended. I can only go by the events I attended and my own personal experiences, I NEVER excluded anyone.