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One problem I have with “location services” on apps is I find guys know exactly who is at your home. I had an embarrassing incident where I was “mid-play” when someone, who had been turned down by my “visitor” showed up and knocked on the door. The two of them had an argument, and the guy who interrupted us left. However, it did not prevent my neighbor from coming out and observing their confrontation. My advice, if your trick shows up, turn your phones or location services off, because I had a negative experience making my location known.

Scams as in outright CRIMINALS (yes they have been in my home) and Recon is widely unused in the US (at least not to hookup). I agree, though on occasion there is a chance someone from A4A may NOT be a felon ,,,,,imagine that!

I can say some of these long time sites are still popular, but it does depend on where you live. Here on the west coast of Florida, specifically Tampa/St. Petersburg, Adam4Adam is still popular and you can hook up fairly easily. Now let me preface that statement by saying this - it is a free site and you will find many younger members on there. You find college students who are available during day hours, and like BBRT, the members who are actively looking increase on weekends and after midnight. A4A even has a section called "Looking for Now" - which indicates who is looking to play within the next hour or two, not next week. So for that, I give them credit. I have noticed some guys who, if they see you are in your 40s, may ask "can you pay for my Uber" or even worse "Can you be generous?" Now, A4A has a section for guys looking to earn money "as models" so try to read "between the lines" as they say. If someone asks for me to pay for an Uber, I tell them to take the bus (yep, I have said that). If they say "Can you be generous", I take a screen shot and report them to A4A for soliciting. I know some guys may think I am a prick for doing that but they specifically say but the site is not Men4RentNow.com. There are sites for guys looking to be paid, I have nothing against sex workers, but I don't like some 24 year old asking me for $80, it's insulting. A4A has worked for me. At least in this geographic area. I have traveled to other parts of the country and the pickings have been slim in some areas, but that generally meant they were using another site. For instance, "Manhunt" is pretty empty in this area. Another site gave me a free week on Manhunt so I joined. The majority were "Not Looking for Now", more like "Looking for the end of October, on a Thursday, between 3 and 4 pm". Not kidding. There was somewhat of an anti-poz feeling as well, it was usually the first question asked and I understand that. Manhunt was a bust, there was a guy who remembered hooking up with me, and as I reflect he was very good looking with an awesome body, but it was oral sex and I remember turning him down on one occasion and he was livid, after I told him my other option included fucking and he did not. Well, we got passed that, I have seen him since, and he's great to look at and it's a much different type of encounter. I hear people complain about BBRT. I know other sites have come and gone. I just thin it depends on where you live and what time you sign on. What you get at 12 noon on a Friday is not what you are going at 12 midnight on any weekend. That's been my experience, I have thought to expand my opportunities by trying new sites, I have done the Grindr route (laid on the first night, about an hour after I joined) and Scruff (questioned endlessly about my relationship status and many "what if" scenarios). Again, these apps and online sites are about one thing. LOCATION.

I don't know of any straight guy who (and I mean identifies as heterosexual and has never had sex with a man) relishes the fact of having a dick up his ass. I have spoken to straight girlfriends of mine who have told me they, on occasion, have stuck their fingers in the butts of their boyfriends. Some got positive responses (no pun intended) while others said the finger was met with much anger and disapproval. So to say that a straight guy is nonchalant about having a cock up his hole, is to me, highly unlikely. Like the models in the mentioned videos, I would venture to say the one bottoming in the scene has done it in the past. No question in my mind.

I'll say this, I had a guy who pissed up my ass without telling me he was going to do it. I believe I told him I had someone scheduled later that afternoon. Once I found out what he did, I chased him out of my house with a knife. He left his watch behind. Fuck that! You piss up someone's ass, who spent time making sure it's totally clean, is so disrespectful and rude I don't know how else to describe it. Not this guy, not ever...

Don't feel that way, I saw it when I was in parochial grade school in Philadelphia. Just tell folks it was the very first gay porn you saw, you're not old.😉

You know I didn't want to be the one to mention that, but I thought both had passed quite some time ago. What a shame, thanks for posting that.

Nooooo. Never insist and never will. I am not about to pass up a chance on some great sex with a very hot man just because he wants to put a piece of plastic on his dick that I probably won't even feel. Not passing on a quality guy over an issue like a condom. Not this guy.......

That is some "TO DO" list. Keep us posted if you are successful.

There is a saying - the difference between giving a blow job and getting punched in the face is a six pack of Coronas. I am in agreement with your friend that alcohol, above even "enhancements" allows many men to "let down their guard", and participate in things they normally would not do sober. It sort of follows that senior high or college scenario "Oh man, I was so drunk last night I didn't know what I was doing". Sure, you don't remember, because you don't want to....... I think your friend is right....

Very, very sorry for your loss.

Very very sorry for your loss.

If I am not mistaken Jon King and J.W.King made a movie together, Falcon perhaps? I do believe Jon King passed away quite a while ago, not sure about J.W. King .....

I am glad I am not the only one who recognizes some of these "straight boys" performing in gay porn. I liked your remark regarding "To Catch a Predator", the "I've made some iced tea" is a classic!

One thing that I will admit is frustrating is seeing a guy online, sending a message, and noticing the never opened it - EVER. The haven't deleted it because you can see that clearly in your "SENT" box, because it will have the red X through it. For me, I don't plan sex for Friday evening on Tuesday morning, I just don't do that. It has just been my experience that on a Friday evening, say around midnight, the guys will be much different that those on midday. I said that in an earlier post. But here is the thing, sign on and don't wait for them to come to you, make your interest known. Try asking several at the same time, and the first one that is a yes go with that one. The times I have "double booked" and it has happened, I was able to ask them to come a few hours later than planned and it worked out. If you get a message from say, an out of town visitor, jump on that because they are here for a limited time and if they don't hook up with you, they probably will find someone in your area to play with. I wouldn't put all my interest in one site, I would keep an app on my phone for one site, and keep several online profile showing "online", "active" or "looking for sex now". People have mixed reviews for some of the BBRT sex parties. I can tell you from experience that maybe 1/4 of those who sign up actually show up. If the timing is right, say at a hotel, you might find someone waiting for their "shot" and you can make plans with them at that moment or a short time later. Finally, make your profile honest, realistic but flexible. Granted "substances" are a real sticky point. The words HELL NO should probably be replaced with "You Can", and it will just take a message or two to find out just how much that guy is interested in "enhancements". If it too much to bear for you, then move on.

Definitey not - this is Bait Bus meets Chezk Hunter. It's the same scenario. They are offered money, initially thinking it was to do one thing only to find they have to do more. Here's my gripe, or proof it is a hoax. I have seen several of these "performers" in "Broke Straight Guys" show up in other videos, filmed by a different studio, mostly performing as bottoms. Now did they somehow have a "Come to Jesus" moment where they decided "yeah, doing porn and bottoming will be my career". HELL NO. These guys may "talk the talk", but for many it has been a stepping stone to either get into the business or just line their pockets with more cash as they have already filmed elsewhere or they need to pay the rent until they film again. These videos are like "reality" television. They are scripted, they have already pre-determined who will top and who will bottom. Sure, some express disgust with the process, I don't see them looking particularly anxious. It's not like they are on their phones waiting for the next Western Union wire from Granny so they can catch the next Greyhound bus back home. Give me a break.... If they were that desperate for money they wouldn't be sitting with some stranger waiting to get fucked or suck a dick, they'd be in the streets or on the phones trying to find someone to get them cash quick. It't not real, it's just another genre of porn. Watch something from @onlyfans, it is much more realistic.

Great choice. There is that saying "once you go .......". Never mind, you know, and I don't want the moderators to be angry with me.

Sir Peter - no doubt........for all the obvious reasons. Oh and on the opposite end of the spectrum, Antonio Biaggi. Just so I could tell him there were a million Latin men with bigger dicks who I would prefer to have sex with, just to see the look on his face. His arrogance was once a turn on, now I find him somewhat annoying.

I have to agree that, in today's world, I almost always assume they are poz but never ask. If a total stranger is willing to show up at my place and have unsafe sex with me it's a fair assumption he is positive. I doubt anyone would say they were poz, when they were not. What would be the purpose of that? It clearly states in my profiles that I am poz. If someone is that concerned about your status, and their health, they would clearly state that in their profile. The most I ever had guys use condoms were back in the day when "craigslist" still ran personals. I had surgeons still in their hospital scrubs, I had one guy in a suit who spoke no English and just pulled his huge Latin dick out and those two guys wore condoms. I also had some rather younger guys, who couldn't host, who would come by. I always made sure I had a condom near where I was, because frankly, I am not going to say NO to some guy just because of a piece of plastic I will hardly notice. Granted I am not sucking dick with a condom on it, no one wants that. But I am of the school that a hot man, condom or not, is not something I am going to dismiss because he wants to slip on a Magnum condom. I think, personally, many of us lose out on some awesome sex with an incredibly attractive guy because they don't want to wear condoms. I am not going to let some hot man walk out the door because I say no to wearing protection. It's just stupid.

When it comes to BBRT, it usually is my go to site but it is about the timing. During the day it is the same cast of characters. However, come 1 am on the weekends those online suddenly change. The day time guys are in bed, those who are serious about hooking up jump on, find someone, and then sign off. My best of luck is usually from about midnight on Friday till early morning Sunday. If you sign on mid week, even in the early evening, pickings are slim. I do check those who are "visiting" those guys are often in hotels and looking. That's been my experience.

A guy who thinks all men are honest about their status needs to contact me about purchasing a bridge I own and also allow me to control his 401K, checking and savings account. This is 2022 guys, wake up!

I have had @BBlondon fuck me, nice time for sure...

Could someone from the BZ settle an argument I am having at home? If someone is having his FIRST monkeypox vaccine shot on Tuesday, October 11th, when is the EARLIEST that he can get a COVID booster? We're traveling abroad the end of October, he wants to be protected and I understand that, but what is SAFE? Your responses are much appreciated......thank you.

I am glad the suggestion I made worked out for you! That is awesome, and sounds like a typical trip to Philadelphia. Like you said, hot ones show up, they love the fact that they don't know you and you'll be leaving. Perfect for you, and them. Everyone wins!

Next time I need to evacuate for a hurricane I'll be sure to book a room at that motel 😏 Thanks for suggesting that video it was a good one...