I often talk about BreedingZone as the trigger for me to embrace my kink - to help me actually accept that the virus is a part of who I am, and this approach has changed my way to accept meds as well. Not something to fight, but someone to feed, and if I don't feed them, they'll eat me.
But the major trigger has been "an early frost" movie, created in 1985.
I don't remember the exact scene but a very ill guy, talking about AIDS, told the main character "it's the only fraternity I rushed, that let me in".
Here it was. The sense of belonging, the biological connection among people. No, among MARGINALIZED people.
I think the keyword of it all is "AWARENESS".
Glorifying a disease is not wise at all, in fact I tend to stop new guys' enthusiasms here; the sense of community isn't completely true - the virus does NOT automatically make you a member of a community if you don't create a good group around you before.
And everyone must be aware of what real world is all about!
Another supposed reason I forgot to mention? Someone may desire to go down that path (not only poz, but all the way down to AIDS) for a sort of self-punishment. Not feeling loved by their social backgrounds, they feel a self-destruction instinct.
And the more and more homophobic politicians around the world, should consider their own conscience - I honestly wonder if they manage to sleep at night time.