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Unfortunately people tend to reason by extremes: "if you're not interested in sex, there's something wrong in you". I actually felt wrong after my HIV diagnosis and I didn't have sex from February 2013 when I broke up with the man who pozzed me, until March 2016 when I met the man who remained in my life till 2022 but he then revealed himself as an abuser but that's off topic. He was abuser, I was vulnerable. Btw, if you want an advice, remember that we have a complete body which can give and receive pleasure - we aren't made just of penis, anus, mouth. I'd suggest you to start exploring your sexuality in new ways, if you have a boyfriend and if you haven't, take a break from sex and reset your mind! Between me and my current partner there's a long time connection and a closeted mutual feeling started as friendship - we knew each other by soul before interacting by body and this has been fundamental. Btw if you want to talk, just message me - I am not a counselor and never will be, but I can be a friend.

Simply love it. Well written, and meets my tastes! Let's wait for him to unpack his gift 🦠☣️

"homophobia was the norm in the 90s" yes - and it's becoming the norm again lately. Politicians, social networks, etc. We can never stay off guard. Then the mess in your room, well, unfortunately there are tons of stereotypes about homosexual men which have nothing to do with reality, but when you are a teen they stab you to death. I had the one "you like writing, playing piano, reading and watching arts, you are gay". Yes. I am. Any trouble? I started rising against my far-right biological father not far from 15 years old. When Freddie Mercury died. Fast forwarding to sex? I have never been the anonymous encounters type, in 49 years I had 4 serious relationships one of which involved other men too. But when I was together with my ex's buddies I basically felt uncomfortable. And when I asked one of my closest friends (my very first boyfriend) if he came to visit me and have a 3some with my ex, he always reminded me "I dislike the guy you live with. You'd better avoid to involve me or I'd treat him bad" then those encounters always were "don't ask, don't tell" while I was walking the path of being upfront about my HIV positive status. Now? I im in "a phase" where I'm bonded emotionally, physically, and sexually with one guy. A man I've secretly loved for years. Not tired about sex because our life is quite balanced for work, hobbies, and sex. We don't feel like opening the couple to others because we both don't like mechanical sex "seen one you've seen them all". Intimacy is connection, sharing fantasies, having conversations, not necessarily traditional love but it's something in need to be built from scratch. I had a phase where I hated sex and it was after my HIV diagnosis. And my bf, the 6 months before we got sexually close. Used to jump from a girl to another -he defined himself hetero-, he was bored about sex and I playfully said "what about turning to the other side of the fence and explore?" He never walked the old path again.

Damn, you disappeared for long. I'm a little worried, hope everything is well - let's keep in touch 😘

My very first boyfriend has been kind of "mentor" for male sex. We still are close friends. Then I have been the mentor for my current partner and I think we have a lot more to discover together, sexuality is an unexplored world even late in life.

Loved it, as usual! Now they are all POSITIVE as they deserve to be! 🦠☣️ Just a good reading after a horrible day I'd wish to anyone. I can't give up with this site!

Same feeling. Writing is pleasant but when you write for others... to give sexual excitement to others? It's much much different.

This guy has no clue on what he's getting into!

From sexless to slut in a moment!

Keep going, outdoor sex drives me wild!!!

Continue it! And... Can I say I love having sex in the woods? When weather is friendly though. Poz talk when there's no one around

Yeah, status messages are public and, having even seen folks posting something nastier there, knowing we are roleplaying I simply let it go. There is a guy in particular who posted a lot of nasty status messages and he was very erotic I haven't ever talked to him so I had no trouble if someone got hard by reading you and me. It's this community's purpose, after all; helping each other having sexual fun. But despite not exchanging personal information, we were poz-talking out of backroom.

Let me admit I have let you play with me publicly as it turned me (both of us?) on. Such as a roleplay exhibitionist. But let's bring it in private area from now on, the idea of others turned on by us is hot and we're anonymous but it's better to use more prudence. For our own good.