You just can’t say you won’t find a worthy Guy with a hookup app. It can happen every where. My first LTR I found at a cruising area , my second I found at Gaydar. Both LTR lasted approx 7 years and ended due different reasons. My current boyfriend I met on Bullchat a Dutch hookup chat. Even before we met or I even saw a photo I knew it was my man for life. I told this to a friend and he just laughed when I said this. Now 15 years later we are still a couple and will be for life. We have a family , we are granddads but we are also living the gaylife playing around with other Guys. Most of the time together. Is our relation Romantic ? Not really, it is about friendship and loving to be together and sharing happy and sad moments. So my advice just live , date , however don’t search. You never know when or where, it can happen always and everywhere when you least expect it.