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I don’t know it this qualifies but… I met a guy who didn’t want to touch… he just wanted to watch me inflate a balloon until it popped (made him climax). It was so weird and the implications so isolating that I couldn’t say no. I did recommend that for a more emotionally rich life, he might want to explore this with a therapist, because a lot of people might tot connect with this.

It's remarkably rare to contract HIV through oral sex. It's remarkably easy to contract a bacterial infection that way, however. Take your antibiotics and take care of that. When I first started playing with dudes, I ended up having my tonsils colonized by a persistent staph infection and they had to be removed, and an adult tonsillectomy is NOT fun. Also, this is a PSA for everyone: clean your sex toys!

i really like what you said here. just that.

Cumdogs commentary is on point. That said, I’m opinionated and critical and have been on this site a long time… surely at some point I’ve had something to say. I’ll put the dumb stuff up top if it’s irritating, skip down. In thinking about it, I think my comments were limited a few problematic issues. Trans dignity feels non-negotiable in this day and age - and I think the offending comments were just that - comment not story. There a problematic portrayal of race in porn, generally. I’m pretty pale, but I understand the history of hypersexualizing African Americans - and now, layering Black men with the freight of presumed socioeconomics, sophistication, danger, masculinity, physicality, and position preference. And that’s before we get to how, in my lifetime “thug” went from a quaint leftover from British Colonial India that had been stripped of race, meaning “criminally violent”, generally, to a commonly-used, hyper-specific term, synonymous with Black-men-seen-through-white-eyes. It can not only fetishize skin color, but a perceived sociopolitical station with its implied hierarchy. Arguably, social shorthand serves to rob effeminate Black men of dignity, Black bottoms of legitimacy, small Black cocks of existence, leaving Black mens’ value, sans BBC, open to debate. This particular form of caricature has a real and bloody history, so, arguably, these stories have ramifications outside this community and warrants reflection. Asian men suffer the same distortion, but in the opposite direction, and Latinos are left with the indignity of not being recognized to the same extent of either for that kind of fevered fantasizing… I suspect Native Americans and Australians are wondering wtf they have to do to remain historically relevant on the fetish wagon. BUT. It’s not lost on me that the function of this site is to fantasize about (and by extension fetishize) a number of disadvantaged communities. That’s part of the draw. It’s certainly not lost on me that everything I just described makes my dick hard, especially if you toss in a biohazard tat, so I’d be a liar and hypocrite if I professed to not reading many stories with race play with my dick in hand, and worried about ethics during cleanup. Another area of squeamishness has been “bug collecting” or what I’ve perceived as a minority fetish in AIDS mortality (I didn’t fetishize HIV until it became survivable - there are interesting differences between the two flavors that seem superficially similar). There have been some rules put in place, just as with issues concerning the underaged and non-consenting, intended to reduce harm to the greater community .. but also to safeguard this site, its members, and its admins. And again, I’m aware that some of this turns me on and that a lot of this amounts to yucking someone else’s yum, or to closing the barn door after the horses are out. All of that said…. The Black community doesn’t need a white savior, HIV+ guys aren’t victims, and it’s tough trying to argue that this point of view is more virtuous, or more equitable, or more morally righteous. And this is a very strange place for righteousness. SO… for the most part I *dont* comment on the writing - or read the comments. When I was 25 I won a (very small) erotic fiction contest (of dubious competition). I was writing about things I’d never experienced - I was barely a sexual being. The judges said they “worried for my mental well-being” but I got my free subscription… Others have focused on the time and energy put out. I think I can say with some very small knowledge that I see all the glorious risks they take. . They’re sharing deep, minority-view, “transgressive” sexual fantasies in front of total strangers - and that’s the friendly audience the general public would vilify much of this. And they’re writing stories for others to read and critique. Individually either of these would be a big ask: these guys are walking a tightrope with terror on one side and scorn on the other And they’re doing it for free - most are not even asking for your applause. So yes - if you have written a story here, I have probably read it You don’t need my approval but you have my admiration. I’d love to tell you that a thread like this will moderate or eliminate pot shots from the cheap seats, but that’s not true Don’t read the critiques, or have a friend cherry pick the comments to weed out the ones with lots of opinions but nothing to say Keep writing Please! if you’re a critic, take a seat Better yet, make a contribution to the erotica here so you have some skin in the game and understand what goes into each of these submissions And without sounding like Pollyanna, just be nicer and more supportive way more than my two cents but…

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Your comments are disgusting.

I have never understood why syringes - fucking uncomfortable. wtf is wrong with a translucent enema bottle?

For some of us, sex isn’t sex if it’s wrapped in latex - casual, marital, or otherwise. Some guys are in relationships. The choice where they’re not related has a totally unnecessary second clause about barebacking only with a partner. The third option again creates a specific mindset that makes it untenable for those with the same practice, but different motivation. The fourth option links testing after every potential exposure as a pre-req for considering casual sex and barebacking separate. to refine your poll, try separating choices into more discrete statements with a single concept. If you want to get at motivations, consider a second question.

I don’t think I understand the question. There were a lot of options not included in that poll.

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lol... my offers are mutually exclusive... happy to beta test, also happy to serve up my hole... both can be true at the same time 😉

I love turning over access / control of my hole to guy(s) who is eager to put me through the ringer... or to offer up my hole and take what comes. It's physically gratifying, but also psychologically incredible on several different levels. Logistics are a problem, but I am definitely interested in being a cumdump without veto. (I just think having limited availability is bullshit for a self-labeled "cumdump" - for me, a cumdump drops everything to do his job).

CA? I think I know that guy - cute, kinky, fun. Guy on the central coast did the same - exactly the same - with me.

mother of god, man... please... more

I think we can make a case for a partitioned CO, NV, and that gets us NM. AZ? We just shut off the water and things will e care of themselves. IA and VA are worth keeping. DE should go. ME had better behave. As for Canada … way less cohesive than we are, just more tolerant. If partitioning starts, expect the Bloc Québécois to seize the opportunity and watch Ontario try to strip the Hydro Quebec lands in the north off