Iker80
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Sometimes condom, sometimes no condom. If a guy wants to use one then ok we will use one, no big deal. Also sometimes I meet a guy and he's wanting to be fucked but he's saying he's not douched, and I don't worry about that usually and say we can have fun and will probably be no problem, but if he's worried then I'll say we can use a condom and sometimes he'll say ok then.
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Do you feel the cum when you're bred? How is it afterward?
Iker80 replied to anon11's topic in General Discussion
It can happen. Sometimes I feel my guy cum. Sometime I feel throbbing, sometimes hot liquid feeling too. Even with a condom you can feel a guy throbbing and sometimes the heat of his cum. When it's good getting fucked feels amazing. But do you want this guy inside you? Like it's something you feel excited about and randomly thinking about him? If you do, and the guy is willing to do it and you're alright with how safe it is, what's to regret? Just don't if you feel pressure to do it. And only bb if you want it. -
I think it won't work. Lots of guys who are poz got it from a guy who didn't realise he had it yet.
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For me they're not hot, I'm in to guys for hairy butts that look great in a jockstrap or some briefs.
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I don't think it's the worst STD but I felt like total crap the whole time I had it, not like normal, I was tired all the time and sleeping lots. Back to normal after antibiotic injection. Normally I'm healthy and feel good.
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The first time I got properly fucked he went in very easily. I was really wanting him and I relaxed. I don't think I've gotten any better at bottoming in the years since, I'm just either relaxed, or I'm not.
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I started as top only, I was not wanting anything happening in my butt. Still, guys I fucked liked it, but I felt an intense response to anything touching my hole. It's personal and not somewhere I was used to other people touching. But I wanted to know the feeling so I trusted it could be good and tried it, and after a few not great experiences I had one that felt good. I'm still a tight nervous bottom, so I choose guys I trust, but it can feel amazing when it's happening properly. So, first time it felt really good I knew this was something I'd do again.
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16 here and I think that's fine. The bigger problem is age gap, because it would be legal for an adult my age with a 16 year old and there's a lot of issues with that. Some countries manage this by having age of consents, potentially higher than 16 but add rules for people being close in age, so for example the age of consent is 18 but they're not going to get involved with a 17 and 19 year old, but they would not be ok with a 17 and 37 year old. I recently had an experience with the youngest guy I've been with, he was 20. I am just old enough to be his dad. I asked extra questions and felt more comfortable that he actually wanted to be top. He wasn't my usual type to top me, but he was super keen to get his hands on a hairy guy old enough to be his dad and I was having a hard time to say no to that kind of energy, so we met up and was a good meet.
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People have a long history of wanting stuff they can't have, like the hot married guy next door. Or so it seems in this situation because they can have some 'straight' guys. My experience, as long as you're talking about liking women, masc, stick on some plaid and jeans or whatever all the guys are wearing locally, you're 'straight' for a lot of guys. I'm not looking different to the guy next door that he's been wanting, so I'll good enough give him that experience. But I am bi, even if he does not see it. And the hot married guy next door might be bi as well. It's a problem that bi and gay men aren't seen as potentially being any guy, it makes stereotypes worse.
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Injections aren't really a thing where I live but I keep hearing they're great. So your experience is good to hear. I had imagine you just go for your regular STD testing and they give you an injection and that's it until next time, but I guess you never imagine the annoying parts of something. Hopefully it will get easier in the future.
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why married/straight men hook up with fags
Iker80 replied to constructionguy's topic in General Discussion
For sure, guys are normally very straightforward. not easy to upset/offend and you can usually go all the way very fast with a guy. The way most tops treat guys wouldn't be appropriate doing to a woman. If a guy says he is bottom I assume I'm getting to top and get on his hole pretty soon if he's not already offering it. Most guys let you in right away, a few need a bit more warming up and foreplay but it's not much compared to most women. Even if you're first time today meeting your guy, chances of ending up nuts deep in a guy who says he's bottom is very good. A lot don't ask for a condom, and even if his profile says condom once you're teasing his hole he's usually happy. Most women would think you're a pig if you did this stuff, probably feel very bad afterwards, but guys get it, they know what it's like to get horny and want to deliver your load. A lot of guys become more obedient when you're dominant with them, give orders, be physical, take what you want, they respond well to it. I have been on both sides of that, often giving the orders, but sometimes a big guy or at that time more aggressive mood guy wants to take charge and it happens. At the extreme end of that, I've been taken by some guys in ways most women would consider rape and ended up going back for more multiple times. Still figuring out my feelings about that! Still, even at less extreme levels our sexuality is often rough and loose with permissions and the goal of full sex is easy to achieve, often in minutes, that's definitely part of it for many guys who are otherwise straight presenting. -
What exactly does "party and play " mean?
Iker80 replied to Eagerindayton's topic in General Discussion
Party in any context on grindr or other apps 99.99% chance means some kind of drugs. Party and play (or PNP) means drugs and sex. Could be any drugs they're doing. parTy with big letter T means meth though because some people call it Tina. -
It's a meningitis vaccine that's found to also have 30-40% protection for gonorrhea, this explains more. [think before following links] https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/meningococcal-b-menb-vaccination-against-gonorrhoea-guide/a-guide-to-the-meningococcal-b-vaccine-for-protection-against-gonorrhoea
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For what it's worth, a guy I connect with really well has intense social anxiety, actually he has a lot of things going on, so I don't expect anything when we meet. Just see how it goes in the moment. And that's ok, he is how he is. Having social anxiety is something some people are accepting and relaxed about.
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Throat gonorrhea. I felt very, very tired and had a monster sore throat for about a week, I kind of figured I had something from that and found out later when I tested. Very sure I know who it was from because of it happening few days after meeting and it was only in my throat. There were all the warning signs for a guy who doesn't ever get tested, very scruffy, didn't really speak Spanish much, seemed super down low. No bad feelings to him, mostly hope he's alright and not ill from lots of STDs! But that's his thing to figure out and I'll be more careful in future. It made my sense of fun about sex go down a bit after years of having casual sex and getting away with nothing bad, but I knew it would happen soon or later. Currently getting the vaccine for gonorrhea so hope it's a never again experience.
