Iker80
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How would you describe the real male taste of semen?
Iker80 replied to a topic in General Discussion
It's salty, musky and usually has a very small hint of cooked onion. Guys with a more potent musky smell - I don't mean unwashed, just how they smell even when fresh, they usually have muskier cum. -
have you ever continued fucking someone even after they said no?
Iker80 replied to coomer's topic in General Discussion
It seems a lot of guys have enjoyed being forced or think they would enjoy it. I've heard many say this. It's not a surprise, sexual aggression is intense. I've felt it and been that way, and I've had guys be that way with me. But unless you agreed otherwise, no and stop are everyone's safe words and need to be the point where things stop. -
I looked him up and he's a very sexy guy! So I think we do like similar men :)
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It's like that, they ask to hug without asking for other things. It's a recent thing for me. I haven't taken a guy up on the idea, I'm not sure what to think about it. But I do think wanting to be hugged can make bigger guys seem better because they fit easier around you. Some I see are gay or bi, others unknown. My only hugging with a known straight guy is my stepbrother. It happened first when we were at the cabin and it was very cold and he was ill. We had clothes on because it was cold, even with the blankets, and we wouldn't hug naked anyway. Sometimes when we're out there and it's cold we still do. He likes it, it just is something that sometimes happens. I know it's nice to feel safe and that's all for him, and that's all I want it to be. I don't think that feeling would happen with a random guy though, but also I think maybe to feel safe is what the guys online want? However, the difference is we know each other properly and I always look after him. So it's different when I hug him vs. a guy you don't know from online. But of course people will have to accept what they can get when they have needs. Cis is the opposite of trans, it means you're born the gender you are. It actually has no connection with sexuality. I'm a cis man and bi.
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Interesting. Maybe I just need to take it for a while every day and see if I get used to it. It's not something I've tried yet anyway. The side effects aren't extreme for me, but enough to be uncomfortable sometimes so I'd be happy to not have them.
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I also am finding guys online now who ask me to hug with them. That's everything they want they say. Being tall and big I think they like me for that. I'm curious what they're about. Are they gay or bi? I mean they're on an app for men so probably somewhere in that place, but just hugging isn't a type of sex. And I know guys can hug as friends, I have some experience of that. It was sleeping/hugging fully clothed and didn't cross any weird boundaries. I'm sure he's fully straight.
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It is extra steps and work, there's planning ahead sometimes, and extra risks. For a long time when I was a younger guy in my 20s I liked to have sex with guys by rubbing my dick between their thighs, or them between mine. It felt good doing or receiving like that, no pain or difficulty to fit, and it's safe without a condom. I was young too, so going for STD screening was still embarrassing and I don't think I knew where to go anyway, I didn't know what kind of condoms to buy and felt awkward shopping for them, I didn't have vaccines, and sex education in school didn't say same gender people have sex at all. Prep didn't exist either. I didn't even know guys usually douche. Anal sex felt intimidating and maybe more for gay men, not a bi man like me. A more relaxed way to have sex without being risky was good. Plus I like 100% full body contact with my guy, there's something extra intimate with nothing between us and it gives you that too. So I've had many good times spooning and kissing with a guy as I stroke between his thighs. I still sometimes check out guys and think fuck, those strong thick thighs would feel so good. Thinking about it again, maybe I should look for a nice side guy :) Anyway, I think for younger guys who are not consistent with condoms or prep, maybe less going to sex health clinics and aren't comfortable with catching anything, sex without anal is a good choice. I've noticed a lot of sides online are under 30 years guys. Same for guys who live in countries where access to healthcare for men who have sex with men is limited too, so they've not got prep, not had vaccines, etc. Or a bi guy with a gf or wife and he finds it is difficult to access these things discreetly too. It's very fair to weigh the choice differently.
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Super frustrating to hear you didn't get healthcare you want to get and could be helped by. I'm wondering how accurate what they said was. The CDC website say about a Bexsero schedule so I think some people are getting it in the US. I think I understand one medical are a insurance company? I didn't try with insurance, I didn't expect they'd do it for me for this reason, or another reason I could say to them, so I did have to just pay for it. That of course comes with it's own barrier when you have to do that, so not itself a perfect option either, but it did work. Can you just go to a pharmacy and get vaccines you pay for in the US or are they more restricted than European countries? With a pharmacist approval you get so far in my experience whatever you want. I have had a lot of vaccines this way for many things and they ask few questions normally. Where the CDC mention it: [think before following links] https://www.cdc.gov/meningococcal/hcp/vaccine-recommendations/index.html
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Yeah, I thought I was good with it at first. My first few times it made my stomach bad, then I seemed to get used to it for a bit, then after a while my stomach didn't like it again. So I have to be careful when I take prep, not too much coffee, maybe no coffee if it's being very difficult :( avoid spicy food, just eat more carefully than normal. And not go hungry too long. I take it and half hour later I have a weird feeling in my stomach, but have a bagel or something and it's ok. I'm learning how to manage it when taking prep and it's helping. Maybe my stomach will get ok with it in time.
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So things moved fast when I found a pharmacy to do it and I got a first injection today. I have a sore arm but so far going alright. I don't expect any big side effects anyway, just less chance to get gonorrhoea.
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First porn was lame. I found my step dad's single porno VHS tape and even as a teenager with nothing to compared it I thought "this porn sucks!" the actors were faking it. No dick in pussy shots, all just him pumping away and pretending he was inside her from behind. Not even sure they showed his dick hard. And they were making stupid noises and playing loud elevator music. Really crap porn. First gay porn was Cazzo stuff. 1000000% better. Lots of proper dick shots and dick in ass and cum shots. Popular American porn like Sean Cody seemed a lot about twinks then, which are alright but I don't crave twinks. I liked, and still like, rougher guys, guy next door guys with beards, hairy chests, that's what makes me horny.
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As much as I love a good fucking, it's totally fair for a gay/bi guy to not enjoy it, and a word to say not wanting it is useful. I find a range of guys online, from just wanting to wank together to porn - so no touching at all, to guys in the middle who want to kiss and wank each other, to guys who want to fist, spit in each others mouths and get cum in them. We're all somewhere on the scale, and it's nothing wrong with anyone. Just be upfront what you want I think and find your match. But I have to admit I so far pass by side guys. For me the stuff they want to do is the start, not the whole thing. I'd like to get more open minded to this, perhaps it can be a whole thing with the right guy. But yeah, there's no substitute for getting your prostate worked over or fucking a guy, no plans to quit that ever!
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It's hot in porn, it makes you think wow that must be intense! But it's not important in reality, lots if things affect how much you like a guy and how well things are going. I don't rate dick size as a meaningful way to tell how much fun you'll have with a guy.
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About 9" I think. Was only a couple of weeks ago. He wanted to lie down with a blindfold on and I come visit, door open, I ride him. I said he looked big in the pic he sent, but he was saying no it's just the photo. Well I was there in person and he's big, hard and ready to go, so I figured I'd give it a try. I'm tight and more used to 5-7" guys, so this was going to be intense. Lucky for me he has a big bottle of decent lube ready, so I lube him and get on to ride. Hurt a bit going in, but I relaxed and slowly slide down him. When I was at 7" I stopped and told him this was the deepest I've ever had a guy and everything next is virgin hole before taking him all in me. He had a massive smile then and kept it for the rest of the fuck. Mostly he wanted to grind in me nuts deep, holding my legs with his hands and pulling his hips up to me as I squeezed and worked him with my hole. Wasn't my most orgasmic fuck, I think shorter guys often bump my prostate better when they're nuts deep, and that there's better positions for long guys. Still had a lot of fun with him and would do it again. It's just long dick easily goes past the prostate, so it's better for positions where you can use the length, not just deep grinding. I'm fairly long and I think it's better used for spooning or missionary and finding the most intense angle and depth to hit your guy's prostate. Can really get a guy moaning when you find it.
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Looks like the UK has now giving a vaccine that make it less easy to get gonorrhoea. It's a meningitis vaccine that they discovered also prevents 30-40% of gonorrhoea because they're similar bacteria. I'm going to try getting it in my own country as it's an available vaccine called Bexsero. It's an interesting change to have something for gonorrhoea, and maybe something more effective will be made in the future. [think before following links] https://www.gov.uk/government/publications/meningococcal-b-menb-vaccination-against-gonorrhoea-guide/a-guide-to-the-meningococcal-b-vaccine-for-protection-against-gonorrhoea
