Baralvr26

Massive thank you to everyone that provided their thoughts on this issue and I greatly appreciate the advice!! If my account allowed me to like/upvote everyone I would’ve done so! some additional information, bf is also 25, we both have had sexually active pasts while mine was a lot more active haha. I do plan on telling him more about my feelings in wanting to try more, especially with how I am slowly trying new things such as fisting and large toy play. I truly wish that things go well between us since I have never felt closer to anyone compared to the many past relationships I’ve had. About a year ago I did try to bring up inviting others or going to sexual places like a bathhouse or event but he ended up saying an awkward maybe to the idea. He does view sex as love and can only see himself having sex with only those he cares more on an emotional level while I view sex as just a fun activity. worse case, if the relationship fails, I do have multiple friends from my sexually promiscuous days that keep trying to invite me to play, and im on the right track to get my own place to freely do what I want. I’ll try to provide any updates to this thread as the situation progresses. Let me know if you have any questions or if you would like to dm sometime!

Im 25 and been dating this guy for 4 years and honestly has been the most emotionally fulfill relationship but at the same time I crave sex with multiple guys and want him to join me in the sex adventures. I personally feel board with only one dick and miss the rush of going to a bathhouse or video porn theater getting loads from other men. Was anyone here ever able to go from a monogamous relationship to a sex filled open relationship while still maintaining intimacy? Like I want to have a partner who can show intimacy but also genuinely enjoys being cum hungry together. im on the verge of just ending things with my current bf because of our differences and how I feel trapped and forced to be someone else. the dating scene is already tough and a lot of the bathhouse sluts near my age either are competitive/territorial over the amount of dick they can secure or have zero ability to emotional connect with someone. sorry for the mess of pacing in this post. 😔

I relate to a lot of the previous posts. I wished I came out earlier and stopped repressing my feelings. Just into my adulthood I've started gaining back my confidence and outgoing nature that was lost since 2012. Also, don't trust the first ex...he never wanted you, just wanted to toy with your feelings. It's fine to explore the world of kink and yes older men tend to fuck better. Also take the chance to suck all the dicks that your straight friends whipped out in front of you haha. Don't attend college without actually choosing a major, and don't take the 2 year break that extended your time by a ton💀. Don't go on Grindr in your city, too many flakes, the bathhouse is a lot more fun and more comfortable than a stranger's cramped Nissan Sentra!

Honestly it as been years and I've taken a lot of loads. From what I remember, I believe the first time I've taken a raw load was when I was 19 in a public park restroom. I was walking home from work and decided to use Grindr to see if I can do a quick hookup while on my way. I chat and meetup with a 30 yr old Latino guy in a stall. He Grinds and makes out with me I then feel his uncut cock rub against my hairy ass. Before he went in I asked him to put on a condom and I hear a plastic wrapper and at first felt the condom. At one point he pulls out and I hear him jerking his dick, he then shoves it back in and starts thrusting harder and I feel his balls hitting against my ass and I lay my face down against the piss covered floor and see the condom on the floor between my legs. But instead of panicking, I felt an intense feeling, I even began precumming as he pounds my hole raw from stealthing the condom off. In a way it was a mixture of lust for cock and fear that he breached my trust. He then gives a final deep thrust and I felt every contraction and a huge load pumping inside me. From that day on I preferred it raw and deep.

From what I could describe in how I feel about this. Receiving cum provides a euphoric feeling in me, from the pulsing of his raw cock inside, with each pump of cum and sperm flowing inside me imagining his seed and DNA soaking inside me. Most amount of loads I got was 3 in a day but I still cherished that moment. On the side note, using a condom feels artificial to me, the texture feels off and like a waste of perfectly good cum that could've been consumed by mouth or hole!

Idk where to start! Fisting, pissplay, bareback/creampies, felching, piss fuck, stealthing, rimming, adult bookstore and cruising! Without porn I wouldn't have tried those things.

To all the guys that left responses earlier, thank you for your thoughts nd input. I'm not married and in a way am afraid of afraid of marriage because I don't want to deal with divorce paperwork and the emotional toll it brings. I'm currently 24 and in a loving relationship of 3 yrs but I've longed to be a whore again, I miss the bath house, the older horny men at the adult video arcades, I still never got to experience a gangbang or orgy yet. I have brought this up to my partner and he views sex as an emotional connection (I believe he's demisexual, only sexual with those he holds a strong emotional connection). While I'm very sexually open, thirsty, and adventurous. I view sex as just a fun activity with no emotional ties. My partner told me he might be willing to do threesomes and watch another man fist me, but I truly want more. If things don't work out, I'm still gonna be a cum hungry slut either way. Also yes I'm fine with my partner fucking others and actually encourage him to as long as he sends me pics and vids or let's me see in person. I'm open to being with a slutty man a my partner as long as we hold an emotional bond and trust in each other. To those that are in successful open relationships I wish them the absolute best and to many prosperous years!

I've had multiple instances. The first time I was 19 and on contacted a Latino guy on Grindr after I finished a late night shift. Honestly was just craving some cock in my mouth. I meet up at his apartment and get in his room, we make out for a bit an I begin going down on him, after a while he starts toying with my hole, I told him I'm musky and sweaty from work and if he's okay with that. He nods and then begins to go around me and rub his cock on my hole, it opens up to him and he fucks me for a bout 20 minutes before nutting inside me. Shortly after that a woman knocks on his door asking for a charger an I hid in his closet until she left the room. He tells me she's his roommate but she clearly said babe in an endearing tone. When I left his apartment his gf was waiting in her car 3 spots away from mine and made eye contact with me then she ran into the apartment. Another time I hooked up with an middle age cuban guy from Grindr, he had a 7 inch dick and a nice bubble butt. We made out in his house for like 2 minutes and the dude just came instantly, I was so disappointed and he never let me eat out his ass. When I was on my way out the house I notice a family picture of him, his wife and 3 kids and I felt bad. As soon as I got in my truck that's parked down the neighborhood I see an SUV park in front of his house and see his wife walk in. If the hookup lasted a minute longer she would've caught us. Now this other story was another latino guy, about 30 yrs old and chubby. I was sucking him pretty regularly at 16, he lived about half mile from me so I biked to his house in the morning. He always smelled good, had a nice dick with big full balls and one of the best asses I've ever rimmed and the best perky nipples a guy can suck. I end up finding out he had a husband that's in his 60s that doesn't have sex anymore. I stopped hooking up because I felt bad for his husband and years later found out he got divorced in 2022. However I have changed since those time and find it hot when married and taken men cheat on their partners. In a way I see it as a brotherhood for those that meet up regularly. Married men tend to be more sexually backed up leading to more delicious cum and a hotter time! I have a fuck buddy that I regularly talk to and exchange porn with, I've hooked up with him before I got into my urgent relationship and have hooked up twice during my relationship. We rarely meet me because we both have partners and our job schedules rarely align.

Vers bottom here on the east side of town here. Not very active anymore due to working multiple jobs. From time to time logon to here or just jerkoff to porn on Twitter.

I have an update, while I was offline from here I had a discussion with my boyfriend about how I view sex, what I want to do, if he's comfortable or open to trying. Feelings were pretty mixed. He's down but only if he as multiple boyfriends to spend personal non sex time with. I didn't really like that mostly because I rarely spend time with him due to work and to compete for personal time didn't feel right. While I was suggesting inviting a third or a couple solely for sexual play. I did suggest if he wanted to try the local bathhouse with me but he views sex as an emotional and personal thing while I just want cum or be cummed in and done after the night. I did recently reconnect with a cum dump friend I've known for about 6 years and want to introduce him to my bf and see if we can all play, I mostly want to see him breed my cum dump friend I still do worry if the relationship will break apart and it deeply saddens me because this is the first guy to be a perfect emotional match but almost flipped in the realm of sexual habits.

No way, I wanted to see it at least once what happened? 😔

Romeo and Juliet is a good place to use the adult arcade for some discreet dick. The entourage and Adonis seem to be the most popular bath houses rn. Also heard kuma can be fun but is a bit smaller.

I've been to the entourage during some regular nights, It does have a decent amount of people. Tends to have older men (yum~) and some people that only want to watch.

Ive fisted others 4 times and it was a very erotic yet sensual as I go into him and gather his response before going further. The way the hole feels warm wrapped my hand and I can feel his muscles contract at times. Even better when they start feeling a buildup and end up squirting piss on the towel! I want to receive one someday but I have to many digestive issues and need more practice on toys first.

At this point I'm a side do to my intestinal issues but I would love to be with a cumdump bf. Seeing him take loads and then I can eat out his ass at the end, try to breed his gaped out hole, or maybe be below him while the top is pounding him out! On the occasion I do bottom, it would be hot if we both got to a bath house and collect loads together side by side!