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For a while I was suspicious of versatile guys. I thought they were all bottoms that were in denial. Besides I grew up in the US and got the distinct impression that gays had to choose to be top or bottom and stick to that role. Versatiles were almost like bisexuals. Neither side wanted to claim them. Here in Europe, it seems versatility is much more accepted. I started out a top, then changed to bottom but now rest somewhere in between. At sex parties, I'm always busy now. And the very best is flip fucking. My bf calls himself a versatile top but hasn't been fucked in years. I'm trying to change that. He doesn't even like it when I joke about fucking him. I had another fuckbuddy years ago that would get really anxious and start sweating if you said you wanted his hole. But yes I agree that the versatiles have the most fun. Where I live, many of them won't fuck total bottoms which I find interesting.

“The first time someone shows you who they are, believe them.” "Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." "it's better to be alone than to wish you were alone."

One of the things I love about my bf is that if I need him to pump a load in me in the morning before work he happily obliges.

Chat sites can bring out the worst in people unfortunately. I say just ignore the guys. And just shake it off if someone is rude. After all, they don't know you so why take it personally. I am noticing how chat sites seem to be a big waste of time. After a certain amount of time, you've probably hooked up with all the guys who you want to hook up with anyway. I see the same guys over and over which is why I travel around the world to have sex with different guys. I rarely get into conflicts online because I assume that if a guy visits my profile and doesn't say anything or leave a footprint or oink or something, then he's not interested. If I happen to express interest and it's not returned, I don't sweat it. And I don't chat up guys just to pass the time. I have real friends for that. So it's all about the hookup. If we are not fucking after 5-7 exchanges then we both need to move on. The older I get the more I prefer the bar scene. You know right away who likes you if you know what to look for and there's no time wasting. I am talking about bars with darkrooms. Hehe.

There's a great video on xtube about cleaning out that's been mentioned on other threads here. I consider myself to be pretty masterful at cleaning out and I learned a trick or two from that video. I do agree with rawtop that diet is a factor as well as how much water you shoot in there. The key is to hold the water in a bit and totally relax when you release it. I think it's also important to sit on the side of the tub and work the hole with a butt plug to expel the excess water. Preparing for a sexparty is another task altogether. I've got that down pat too. If you are ever at a sex party with guys who know how to clean out, everybody can fuck for hours with no issues. It's amazing and fun. I think the hardcore bottoms understand that if you turn up dirty, you are not going to get fucked much.

I was at a sex party a few weeks ago. There was this really hot top there with a thick 9-10 inch cock. I had been fucked a few times already and bred so I thought I could handle it. I did well at first. Took it like a pro. But then the fucking went on longer than I had planned. My head was pinned against the wall and his hands were firmly on my hips. I couldn't get away. I thought "sweet baby Jesus if I survive this with my hole intact, I promise not to ever mess with this guy again". Well he finished drilling my hole and found his next victim. Even the gaping hole bottoms were gasping afterwards. So yes I had all I could handle. I wonder if he has a bf. I'd have to sleep facing him.

I learned how to do a quick cleaning. Case in point that happened 39 minutes ago: 6:01 pm text from regular fuck buddy asking for ass 6:06 pm quick nozzle douche that I screw onto shower head 6:11pm doorbell rings and I am already lubed up with porn on 6:17 pm load 1 goes in 6:23 pm load 2 goes in 6:26 pm fucker gone But I do understand that others may not be as efficient as me. My tops have trained me to be ready at the drop of a hat.

Since you said "I always disclose before sex", then there is no reason not to disclose after sex. But prepare yourself mentally for rejection. There are still a lot of tops that assume their bottoms are negative. I once wrote about a guy I met at a bb party who nearly stroked out when I brought up the subject of HIV. To reduce your anxiety going forward always try to disclose. I know some disagree with me strongly on this but I am very selective about disclosure. The problem with revealing your status is that you don't know if/how your partner could use this information against you. If you want to put your dick in me raw, then you assume the risk, in the same way I do since you might have some shit i don't want. I feel this way primarily because I am undetectable. But even if I was not, I would just stick to anonymous situations where disclosure is not an issue. I am in a serious relationship with a guy who knows my status and doesn't even mind that I take loads. He's not thrilled about it but he has an inner pig as well. Another idea for you is to try to date other poz guys. Problem immediately solved. :-)

Yesterday I was at the No Limit Party in southern Germany. Was fucked 18 times. I have no idea how many loads I took. 5 or 6? Periodically I would finger my hole and it smelled like cum. I normally bottom but made a few of the versatile guys happy by topping them. My new rule is that I won't fuck total bottoms at these parties because there are already too many bottoms. If you are mostly bottom but willing to do some topping, you end up attracting the versatile guys to your hole in my opinion. Maybe it was my outfit too. LOL. When I got back to the hotel, I was spent. When I finally shot my load, it came out like a stream of piss.

I am happy to report that the nut of a 24 year old Portuguese bear is resting comfortably inside me. This was a first hookup with this top. I normally don't do guys this young. But he invited me over. I cleaned out, lubed up and headed over. When I got there we kissed a bit and then I didn't even undress. I laid down on the bed and he mounted me. In the mirror I could see him pistoning in and out of my bubble ass. He said he was close and asked if he could cum. I said yes. As I was pulling up my jeans, he asked if I was healthy. Hmmmm. I see he's one of those guys who empties his nuts first and asks questions later. I may put this guy into rotation. I have a few tops in rotation for when the bf is not around. I just texted another top and told him I was just bred. He just about always wants to breed me when I tell him that. In fact he was mad I didn't take him with me.

Anyone with any experience within the gay community knows just how truly diverse it is - whether its race, income, sexual practices, age, life experience, body type, education etc. Here recently I am starting to see some subcultures forming within the bareback community. It seems like there are: 1) occasional barebackers who don't own up to it (clearly keeping their safe only status in their profiles on the chat lines which I suspect is probably due to peer pressure) 2) barebackers in monogamous relationships 3) hardcore backbackers who will not have sex any other way, and 4) the no load refused cumdumps Am I missing one? Well, here's what's got my panties in a knot. I was in Berlin a few weeks ago for Folsom. I was getting nailed in the hotel room, at sex parties and at bars. This one guy sees my ad online, likes my bubble butt, and asked to breed it. I was like sure. He was there in 45 minutes. He is cute. I suck him off. He mounts me doggy and breeds me. Everything was fine. Because I am often in Berlin, I hit him up on the chat a week later to say I'll be back soon for a repeat. Well, he starts giving me a hard time and accuses me of putting up an ad saying that I was in one of the seediest bars in Berlin called Bull ready to take any load. Well this was simply not true. He then says he thinks he may have contracted a STD from me - now this I take very seriously and I question him more about this. He then backs down but says that if he had known I was a cumdump, he would never have fucked me. WTF? Dude, you hit on ME on a bareback chat site. Now you mad? You are the one who is in a committed relationship with a female but needed a hole and now I'm the one who needs to be stoned to death? Seriously, dude, I need you to miss me with that bullshit. I know we all make assumptions and judge each other all the time, often unfairly, but is there really now a caste system among barebackers?

I have heard some guys on this forum say that they don't like to talk to a guy too much before or during sex. I am starting to understand why. I have been horny, invited a guy over and then he starts running off at the mouth and I start wondering "do I want to have sex with him now?" He is a total (pick one): airhead, asshole, prima donna, know it all, drama queen etc. I have one top in rotation who clearly is mentally slow. He fucks like a beast but I swear he talks like a 10 year old boy. Giggling. Talking loud. I'm thinking "damn, I'm gonna need a big hat the next time I leave the apartment because the neighbors are gonna know all my business." But one thing in his favor, he always brings me a nice bottle of wine when he comes. My boyfriend loves wine and I giggle to myself every time he opens a bottle thinking "I turned tricks for that sweetie." Well I was in the mood to top last week so I invited a guy from the neighborhood over. I told him before he got here that he was to strip at the door and that he was not allowed to speak to me or make eye contact. He was to come in the room where I was waiting and get on all fours. He did as he was told and I fucked the shit out of him, tapped his ass and pointed to the door. He got dressed and left without saying a word. He was so turned on by this scenario that he is begging for another date. Anyway, just wondering if you guys keep the talking to a bare minimum or if you like engaging with your partner before and during sex. I like to keep things simple.

I've been on this earth long enough to know that what turns one man on, turns another man's stomach... For example, I sometimes like to suck a guy off after he has bred my ass. But I have done this to some tops and they have been like WTF? GROSS. Well last week, I was getting fucked by two tops (each of whom has fucked me on many occasions). Top #1 always breeds me and gives multiple loads. Top #2 has a bigger dick, fucks bare, but never breeds me. Well, they were taking turns on my ass when Top #1 lets out a deep moan and floods my ass. Top #2 (who is kinda slow mentally) then fucks me, clearly unaware that he is fucking in Top #1's cum. Top#1 gets back on my hole and adds another load, gets dressed and leaves. Top #2 is proud of his own stamina and keeps nailing me. Well, after a while my hole is getting creamy because Top#2 is now "churning the butter". He looks down at his dick, pulls out and runs to the bathroom to clean up. He says, "That other guy came in you. You shouldn't have let him do that." He, clearly disgusted, gets dressed and heads home (even though he later requested that I organize another threesome but not with a top who is shooting loads in me.) Okay, whatever girl. I knew what I was doing when I set this tag team up. I wanted two pig tops but ended up with a pig top and a lecture. I wanted Top #2 to cream my ass and whisper in my ear what Prince says at the end of his song "Insatiable": "You nastier than I thought." But to be honest, Top #1 does something sometimes that grosses me out. Just before he breeds me, he will form a big gob of spit in his mouth and let it slowly fall into my face. I fucking HATE THAT SHIT. I have thought about spitting hard back at him. Maybe that's what he wants. But I really just want to punch him in the throat. I'm already letting him breed my hole. Does he really need to degrade me any more than that? Anyway, my question to you, my fellow barebackers, is: what has a top/bottom/versatile guy done that has truly disgusted you?

I think I got fucked 12 times at a bb sex party last year. To be honest, it's hard to keep track after a while. And I don't like long fucks which is why I could do so many.

I use poppers quite a bit although I do sometimes take my bf's cock without them. He craves them and is one of those tops whose dick gets even harder when he takes them. As for me, I notice that my cocksucking goes up another notch when I sniff poppers. Guys usually cum right after. And I love taking a hit before I take a raw cock. And don't let me be in the middle of a bb orgy and take some. I feel like I've been transported to a parallel universe. The brand you use is KEY. I have taken a liking to Jungle Juice purchased from the UK.

Ok it's official. I am a ho. I really have no idea how many loads I have taken in the last 3 days. Was online cruising here in Berlin and this 30 year old bi guy writes, "please give me that ass." He arrives 30 min later. He takes one look at my ass in the jockstrap and says, "yeah nice big bubble ass." I suck his shaved cock and balls until he is fully hard. He asks me to lie face own on the bed and proceeds to eat me out nice and slow as I hit the poppers. This always relaxes my hole. Before I know it, he had slipped inside me and was fucking me. We had been speaking English until he was inside me but then he started telling me in German that he was getting close. So I answered back in German that he should give me the load. (I know some guys get mad when a guy comes too quickly but I take it as a compliment. To me that's better than getting drilled forever and then no cum). He blows a load up my hole. It leaked out on the bed. As he was getting dressed, I asked if he had a boyfriend. It turns out he has a girlfriend. I was not shocked. Guys who fuck chicks tend to fuck differently. I like it though. Being nosy, I asked him what she looked like. He said she had big tits and a round ass. He then said she won't do anal. Well, you know what they say - if you won't give your man the kind of sex he wants, then another ho will! He apparently gets off on hearing bottoms fart out his load so I obliged. I must say, as I sit here with the remnants of his load in me that I am impressed. I like it when young guys know what they want and are sexually diverse enough and confident enough to go for it. Pussy. Man's ass. Don't care. Bend over bitch!

I was leaning over a sling trying to take a 8 inch cock fom a guy wearing a condom last night at Mutschmanns here in Berlin. I didn't enjoy the fuck and the guy eventually left. Immediately after he pulled out, somebody mounted me raw and fucked a huge load in me. It was fucking hot. I never saw his face and he didn't grunt or anything. I love a pump and dump in the darkroom. I'm hard thinking about it.

Two more: - guys who piss in the darkroom; this just gets my panties in a bunch every single time it happens - bottoms at bb parties who are into scat; bitch organize your own special party if that's your fetish! Last night at a bb party, I watched top after top get grossed out by this cute twink bottom who had shit all over himself. They didn't realize it until it was too late.

I'm on the ground in Berlin at Folsom Europe. I am in gay heaven. All the fetishes are here and I've been doing lot of fucking, mostly raw. I have given loads and taken them. The hottest so far was from a hot top at the Biohazard party last night. He shots three loads in me in a row. Hours later I was still leaking from it. I am heading over to the PIG party tonight. It's crazy here. There are a dozen things you could do. But nothing beats taking dicks in the darkroom in full leather.

I am in Berlin right now for Folsom. Although I am mostly bottom, I become versatile around other pigs. Last night, I went to fuck this cub and he reached for a condom. I said no and walked off. Minutes later, I bent over and was fucked raw by a daddy type. The daddy later fucked the cub raw. I thought hmm the cub has faulty logic. He is afraid of my dick but the daddy's dick is ok even if he doesn't know where it's been? LOL I had another bottom ask me to rubber up. I also said no. Then I fucked two other bottoms raw and gave them both loads. As long as there is another bottom a few feet away willing to take my bare cock, I will never wear a condom for a bottom no matter how hot he is.

Slam into my hole on the first thrust and you may find a few of your teeth scattered on the bed.

Agree. I am not into hard bodies. But if I had to choose one, I'd prefer a guy who is naturally muscular because of blue collar work and not because he worked out at a gym. I love it when a guy has a round plump ass. My bf is cute in the face and has a nice body. I'm so lucky.

- sling lizards (let someone else use the damn thing) - tops who think I should accept being in pain until they get off - guys who say they are versatile but are really bottoms - guys who ask me if I know other black guys who will fuck them - poppers hogs (buy your own shit) - guys who don't accept that I don't want to have sex with them again (stop the damn stalking) - guys who kiss and tell - inactive visitors in darkrooms (why just stand there?) - guys who are clearly not getting any action but occupy cabins at the sauna (spiteful bitches!) - bottoms who tease but don't give up the ass - guys who are at bb parties but don't fuck, get fucked or even suck (what the fuck are you here for?) - people who sign up for parties on bbrt and don't show up (btw why you need to see who else is attending?) - guys on bbrt who write you but don't unlock their pics (you can relock idiot)

I agree with fillmycunt. It's more about the size of the hole the dick must go in that is the issue. If you have got one of those pussies you can park a Buick in, then you are going to need long and thick to feel satisfied. If your hole is tight, then it won't take much before you are overmatched. I have had some really hot memorable sex with guys whose dicks don't drag the ground. In fact, if anything I try to avoid guys with really large dicks. I don't want to get ripped up and be sore for days because of that. And I just love it when the hung guys try to sweet talk you into taking those telephone poles.

I don't eat anything 6 hours before sex parties. I drink lots of water. I clean out well, but keep in mind that you can put too much water up there. Those into fisting have to do more of course. But if you are just taking dicks, the lower part of your intestines is all that needs to be cleaned out. And last but not least, take an Imodium which is used to control diarrhea. That stops ALL traffic. In fact, don't be surprised if you don't go to the toilet for another day or so.