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Yes there are sexy intelligent black men here. ;-) ...who do not seek full ownership of anybody or their wife LOL

It's rare but I have felt it too. Amazing feeling.

I work out in a gym with a unisex steam room and little chance to stop if you hear someone coming. I have had guys blow me and I have given hand jobs. I am too scared to attempt any penetration. On Tuesdays the steam room is male only but no one seems to try anything.

I was in an Arab country when an underage boy offered himself to me for money. I think he was 16 but looked 21. I found out when I brought him back to the guesthouse. This guy was muscular and no way was he going to be forced into anything. But my friend told me not to do it because if the boy turned on me, that was a prison sentence since homosexuality was against the law and he was underage. I was surprised that I was so tempted. So my advice is not to even put yourself in that situation. There are more than enough adults to play with.

Just got back home. It's almost midnight. Was in the woods with a fuckbuddy. He loves breeding my hole outdoors. In fact he gave me two loads in a row which are resting comfortably in my rectum. He's in a relationship. I'm in a relationship. Our texts are short and to the point. I tell him my availability and he's always ready to make a donation. Life is good. I licked him nice and clean because I like the taste of my ass juices and his cum. Yum yum.

I have been dating the same guy for 2.5 months and we are in love. While the relationship is not a closed one, it is really not open either. I suspect he wants it closed only on my end which I would never accept. We have a don't ask don't tell policy because the only feeling worse than lying is being lied to. And perhaps even more importantly, no texting, talking or chatting up other hoes in each others presence. If you can't show enough respect to honor this small request, then we don't need to be in a relationship. If your guy knows that he comes first, then that's half the battle. I agree that it helps not to have regular fuckbuddies on the side, but when you do, you don't have to cruise for sex. I have three or four guys who I can fuck if my bf is not around but they all know their position. Nobody is catching any feelings. Just fuck and go. In fact, two of these guys are in relationships. So go figure. I can only speak for myself but I think deep down we all want to be loved and to have deep, long-lasting and meaningful relationships. That does not have to mean monogamy, but if your extracurricular activities are threatening your relationship, then you do have to ask yourself which is more important. You can find a hard dick or an ass without much effort. But at some point in your life you are probably going to want more. I hope at some point to be able to have group sex with my bf but I am not going to force it on him. I would have no problem watching him have sex. He is even into us both topping a guy, but for some reason he does not want me to bottom for other tops. I need a top to explain why this is so threatening. I don't get it.

The summer is making the boys hornier it seems. I got 6 loads in 8 days living in a small town. Yesterday I hopped on the train to go to a sex party in Germany. It was my farewell to this party since I now have a steady bf. I got fucked quite a few times but this cute 20 something year old blond cub kept following me around begging me to fuck him. I watched him take a load which got me horned up. I love sloppy seconds. So I grabbed him by the back of the neck and fucked him until I creamed his hole. He then licked me clean. A young little pig in training! Just before I left the party, I saw a few tops fuck a few bottoms in assembly line style. It was funny to see. I'll miss these pigs. But I will take a loving relationship any day over being just a hole.

Those who muster up the courage and then "cross over" never look back, while those who lecture probably deep down want to be bb sluts. Let 'em preach.

There was a time when I would not do ATM. More and more I do it. It does freak some tops out though. I think as a bottom it speaks volumes about how confident I feel about my douching. It is also how I show appreciation to the top. You can put your cock away knowing it is nice and clean. It's one way to get repeat customers. If you wont do it, another ho will.

This ho is definitely going. Berlin is a must for anybody serious about giving and getting loads. Been 3 times in the last year and left knocked up every time. Just got to figure out how to leave the bf at home. It's been my experience that it's not really worth trying to get guys to your hotel room. Just hit the bars with darkrooms and open up and say ahhhhhhh. And those sex parties are INTENSE. Have only been to Biohazard once and it's a sight it behold. It's not even cruisy. It's just pure unadulterated hardcore fucking. Not for the timid.

4 loads in 24 hours... #1: gayromeo has a new radar function that lets you see how far away a guy lives. This guy just down the road invited me over. The idea was that I would bottom and maybe fuck him. When I started to eat his hole, I got horned up and fucked him silly, in all kinds of positions, fast and slow. He was leaking gobs of precum. He got up, put me on all fours and shot a huge load up my hole. Like a good boy, I licked him clean. He squeezed his cock for me to expose the last drops. I thanked him for the donation. We will be fucking again. I am really getting into these flip fucking scenes. Hot! #2: On the way home with load #1 in, I texted a fucker and told him I was loaded and asked if he wanted some sloppy seconds. Half an hour later, he was in my hole pounding me until the first guy's load leaked all over the bed. He shot his load and left. This guy is a repeat fucker. Always brings me a bottle of wine when he wants some ass. #3: A guy on gayromeo hit me up at 1 am. He wanted to fuck outside in the woods. I was scared at first but he sent me a text message so I figured the cops would nab him if he hurt me. I always wanted a load late at night in the woods near my house. We met and got right down to business. I took a hit of poppers, sucked him and then he sucked me. I then presented him my well lubed hole which he fucked. In no time, he grabbed my hips and began to buck. I could feel that load going in. He let me lick him clean. We never said a word. Even though I was kind of scared walking back home, my dick was hard and I was so horned up that I stopped to jack off. As soon as I walked in the door, the guy texted to ask me if I wanted another load. WHAT? I didn't want to venture back out again so I asked him to come to me. He did. The first thing he did was finger his first load out of my hole and forced me to eat it off his fingers. He spat in my face, he choked me and told me I was a whore as he fucked me rough. He put me on all fours and dropped another load in me. I licked him clean. It felt like I had a half a gallon of cum in me. It was 2 am by then. This morning I farted out the loads. Then at 9 am, he texted me again and asked me if I needed another load. I said no because I was working but that I would meet him in the woods again tonight. Ah, nothing like getting a load under the moon and the stars. I'm taking my bike next time. He can load me every night if he wants.

A guy I fucked around with last December swears on his life that Chris Brown tried to pick him up after a concert in Germany. This was before he got famous and before the Rihanna incident.

I think it depends on where you live and/or travel. Whenever I visit Germany, I find plenty of tops. Even more so in Spain. And even more so in the Arab countries. Most of my good friends are tops and they sometimes complain that the guys they want to fuck won't bottom for them. Imagine that! I wish more total bottoms would be versatile bottoms. There would be a lot more satisfied bottoms in this world. I see a lot of bottoms discriminating against versatile bottoms, versatiles and even versatile tops. Wassup wit dat? I grew up in the States and I think Americans are way too hung up on the top or bottom thing. It's fine to have a preference but why limit yourself? I started out as a total top, went to total bottom and have settled somewhere in between. There's always something on the menu for you. My bf is a versatile top. I haven't fucked him yet but I will. Variety is the spice of life.

HIV does not discriminate. There are a lot if tops walking around thinking they are neg. According to my doctor, it is one of the most perpetuated myths out there. There are just two types of barebackers - those who are poz and those who don't know their status. If you've had bb sex since your last neg test, you fall into one of those two categories.

I love 'em. So does the bf. I tend to be tight and my ass really opens up nicely after a hit. I do find that some tops lose their erection though.

I went to a masseur in Berlin that I found on gayromeo. It was a normal massage until he asked if I wanted to be tied up. I said ok. Then he started to choke me a bit. That was not in the script. We had texted each other so his number was in my phone. But I decided not to do that anymore. I need to know you before I do that. I've also been in some situations where the top wouldn't take no for an answer. He was strong enough to hold me down but not strong enough to rape me. As we were in a bathhouse I started to yell and he backed off. Because of this experience I am quick to threaten a guy if things get out of hand. I am not a small guy and will fuck somebody up over these things. Just recently I had a top slam into me in one thrust. I think I may have balled my fist up at him. I guess that makes me one of those bottoms that likes to stay in control. :-)

Have to agree with you on Berlin. Probably 1 out of 50 fucks was with a condom. Now I understand why my bf doesn't like me to go there. The posts on this thread have been interesting. Who would have thought that bareback sites like Bbrt are not considered the best for bb??? I have to say I agree. My ranking: 1) bb parties - 100% success rate 2) gay, but not exclusively bb sites like gayromeo, if you leave the safe sex line blank, the boys flock to you. 3) adult bookstores / cinemas 4) outside cruising 5) bb sites Nevertheless I know some good bb sites that tell you where to get raw dick. And they are fun to read about what like-minded guys are thinking/doing.

Not a size queen at all. In fact I ask dick size so I can screen out the telephone poles! But I always tell a guy my size (average) so he doesn't feel like I am judging. I must admit though that pics of a hard dick on a profile get the most attention from me. I don't like it when guys lie in either direction about their dicks. Don't say it's L when it's M. And don't say it XL when you know that thing is XXXL. My prep work for a fuck depends on the size of dicks I am taking. I have got dildoes in 3 sizes to make sure the top gets a hole that fits like a glove. So be proud of your cock. Somebody wants it. Unfortunately if you are only into guys who get so much dick offered to them that they can discriminate, what can you do? I am lucky enough to go to sex parties where the bottoms are face down and ass up. Nobody is refusing any cocks there.

I don't use CL but isn't a sure fire way to identify a faker is those guys who don't want to exchange cell numbers after you agree to hook up? Maybe it's wrong but I want the guy to text me and then I text my address back. I prefer a face pic but will hook up with a body pic. Have had some problems with guys posting very old pics. Don't post the tight body pics of you at 25 when you are plump and in your 40s. Ha!

I try to steer clear of the married guys, but they are freaky as hell. One Serb guy who used to fuck me has a huge cock and is married. He once came back frustrated from a vacation with the wife and dumped two massive loads in me in a row. The thing I don't like about the married guys is that they think it's fine to pester you for sex, but you can never contact them directly when you want sex. Same thing with gay guys in relationships. Totally a turn off to know you are just a piece of ass to a guy no matter how horny you are. If the dick is good, I don't want anything that poses an obstacle between it and me.

I prefer raw too but sometimes I think a guy gets freaked out by the bottom insisting on it. I think many guys have "safe only" in the profiles and will fuck raw but not if you insist.

My take on life is that if you truly understand and are ready to accept the consequences of your actions, then there is not much more I can ask of you. You asked if maybe you should get your life together first. The answer is yes. I recall being your age. I got started in the scene slowly. First homosexual act at 18. Second at 21. It was not until my late 20s that I started really fucking around a lot. However in the meantime, I went to undergrad and grad school and made sure I had a career. I think that served me very well. You have got plenty of time to be a slut. Anybody can do that. But the window of time you have to do other things in your life closes. So in a nutshell, the choices you make now will affect the options you have later in life. If you poz, think about what that means in terms of treatment options available, insurance, future relationships etc. The meds will keep you from dying but you still have to live with HIV. Think of it like getting pregnant, but you can't abort or give the kid up for adoption. It's yours, presumably for life. This site is full of advice on getting and giving as many loads as you can, and I have lived too, but I also got my shit together. And I got options.

I think co-infection is a real concern until you get on meds and get your viral load down. If the virus is raging inside your body, why risk picking up another strain until you get control of the one you have?

My advice: 1) fuck your bottom regularly so that his ass gets to know the curve of your dick 2) it drives this bottom wild if you can get hard without oral and you start fingering my prelubed hole, 3) after you cum, roll over and go to sleep - the bottom thinks "damn my pussy was so good it knocked his ass out"

I got bred by a guy from my job on Christmas Day last year. The sex was just ok. When he sees me at work, he asks me when we are going to hook up again. NEVER EVER AGAIN!!! No more fucking guys from my job. It's just weird. There are guys I'd like to fuck. But I will just jerk off to the idea.