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During my lunch break today I met up with this hairy Mediterranean guy in his early 30s. I was in a suit but I think he is a painter by trade. I made him suck my dick before I sucked his. I then lowered my trousers, took a hit of poppers and let him plow me doggy style on the sofa. His bf was due back soon so he was pretty quick about dumping his load in me. I licked him clean and then shot a huge wad in his face. I resisted the temptation to give him cash. Even though guys are not expecting it from me, I find that I get off on it since it turns the tables a bit and makes me feel like they were my whore. I wouldn't mind having a guy on call to knock me up at odd times during the day. I just posted an ad telling guys they can knock me up in exchange for putting me up for the night when I am traveling. I'm surprised at how many guys have written me.

I use poppers and cialis together all the time. Because of the HIV drugs I only need a small amount of cialis (10 mg) and I have strong erections for 48 hours. My doc, who prescribed it, calls it the "weekend" pill. I do go easy on the poppers though. Your body will let you know if you are doing too much (headache, dizziness). I also drink a lot of water. I don't mess around nor am I tempted to add other substances to the mix. And my advice would be buy the real cialis/Viagra (from a pharmacy) and not from people selling individual pills.

I find it hard to believe that anyone who is barebacking in this day and age is unaware that they can be infected by having unsafe sex. If you are not "ready" for HIV or don't want it, you can always use a condom or practice abstinence. If I was determined to stay negative, I would go get tested with a potential partner and even do follow up tests since chances are, over the course of the relationship, someone might stray. I am not minimalizing your argument here, but I can't bring myself to place the blame on someone else because I wasn't willing to take responsibility for myself. People lie all the time. But it's kind of hard for a liar to produce a negative test result, right? And I think the minute the poz guy in this story was asked to get a test or produce a recent test result, this story would be over. And that does not require my friends' help at all. The test is my "informed" decision.

I understand why you are tempted to intervene but - with all due respect - this is very clearly none of your business and could cause all kinds of unwanted problems for you. It sounds like both of the victims could have exerted more pressure on this poz guy by insisting on seeing a negative test result before barebacking with this guy and neither did. They simply took the poz guy's word for it, which is on THEM. You did the right thing by encouraging the new guy to get a test and you might go a step further by encouraging anybody else you know to get proof of a negative test result. The problem I have with this scenario is that in the first case, the first ex "could" by his own admission have been pozzed by someone else. This story hits very close to home for me because I don't know if:1) my current bf pozzed me or 2) I pozzed him or 3) we were pozzed by others. But here's the rub: it really doesn't matter how either of us pozzed because we were both out there. I found out I was poz first and IMMEDIATELY told him. He disappeared (because he was in a relationship at the time) but reappeared two years later. It took a lot of pressure from my side for him to get tested - which he finally did a year ago, and he is poz. Now that doesn't mean he pozzed me but I took many high viral loads from him - but that was my choice. And just because I found out first doesn't make me the guilty one. He didn't rape me. It would be an invasion of his privacy and jeopardize his career if I decided to tell everybody I knew about his health. I hope anyone reading this who is barebacking but not getting regularly tested takes this story very seriously. I am not angry or bitter about what happened to me. In fact, I am very healthy and had no problems with the meds. HIV caused no financial strain for me because the meds are covered by insurance. However my bf's denial about his status nearly cost him his life because by the time he faced the music, his CD4 count was very low - in the range where one opportunistic infection would have killed him. So in a nutshell, your health is your responsibility and your business. It's a slippery slope to start spreading info about people and invading their privacy simply because you think they are not nice people.

I went to the naked sex party at Scheune here in Berlin where I lost count of the number of holes I fucked and the number of times my hole was plowed. The absolute highlight was when one of the staff asked me to wait until the party was over. It was kinda hot sitting there naked while he worked fully clothed, knowing that I was gonna get fucked by him. When the place emptied out, he nodded for me to go downstairs. I took a hit of poppers before he fucked my brains out and shot a huge load in me. I gave him a nice tip for that! I think his co-workers knew what was up. I got the shit-eating grin as a I settled my tab. That's got to be a fun job. I wish I could fuck guys raw at my job!

Just took a load from a local here in Berlin, where I have been since Friday. I love how easy it is to get and give loads here. I refuse to jerk off while here. Every load goes into someone since there are so many willing holes here. I did meet a couple of guys online but I still feel the bars and sex clubs are a better bet. I speak German fluently but I still run across a lot of time wasters online. For example, one guy who I was chatting up lives on the next block and after 30 minutes of chatting I told him I'd had enough. It should not take so long to get a dick into a hole! I'm heading out to a naked party in a bit. To me, that's almost guaranteed loads. No undoing of clothes. Dick hard? Ass lubed? Let the fucking begin!

My bf wasn't putting out so I went online. One of my fuck buddies asked if I could be at his place at 3:30. He had organized two other guys for me. They were all taking turns on me but I surprised them by bending a couple of them over and fucking them too. I took a couple of internal loads but at the end all of them jerked off on me. Spunk was everywhere. I was still horned up when I got home so I texted another guy and sucked him off. I'm heading up to Berlin in a few days. Can't wait for those horny pigs to skeet in me.

I usually tell. In fact, I know a few tops who will stop what they are doing and come breed me if I tell them I am preloaded. Imagine that! I should start a thread asking tops if they tell bottoms when they have bred them. I have lost count of the number of guys who drop a load and leave my hole slick, but when I ask for confirmation they say they didn't cum! I think it might be the shame of having cum too quick or perhaps having not asked if I wanted the cum in my hole.

Being on a warm desert island with white sandy beaches and crystal clear blue water with a 100 men who were all naked and swapping loads. Every day each of us would be blindfolded and give/take anonymous loads. No racial, age, weight hang ups. Just eating, sleeping, fucking nonstop.

One of my regular fuckbuds Wolfgang asked if I wanted his load around 3 pm. I said ok, douched and headed out. Before I left this other dude who's been chatting me up for a few weeks asked me to stop by. I said only if it's not a problem if I show up with Wolfgang's load in me. He said no problem. I get to Wolfgang a little late because of traffic. I start sucking him off on the bed when I hear footsteps. I turn around and this naked dude with a hard-on walks into the room. He mounts me and starts fucking me raw. Then he and Wolfgang trade places. The other guy again fucks me and blows his load on my hole which Wolfgang uses as lube before he breeds me. As I am getting dressed to leave, Wolfgang says to me, "I thought I'd surprise you." Two cocks for the prices of one? Nice! But I would not have found this so amusing if Wolfgang wasn't a regular. It turns out the guy is his next door neighbor! Wolfgang just moved into his apartment and he's already running trains on bottoms. Wow. I get in the car and head to the other guy from the chat lines. I strip down at the door and he leads me to the bed. He starts telling me what a slut I am for having cum already in me. In less than 5 minutes, he grunts and floods my ass. I immediately get dressed and leave. Walking back to my car, my hole feels squishy and slick. I almost stopped off at a sex club but I decided to settle for the three unexpected loads I got. My strategy of refusing to chat with guys who don't fuck raw is starting to pay dividends. Just as tops can pass up bottoms who insist on rubbers, so can bottoms. I am also pleasantly surprised by the number of guys who don't mind fucking in another guy's cum. My bf who I haven't seen in two weeks comes tomorrow. Can't wait!

Having been to Berlin many times in the last 3 years, I can say that it is a colossal waste of time to cruise online. Sure I've scored that way but there are plenty of guys in the bars that 1) you can actually SEE and 2) want to fuck. If you leave that city without breeding or getting bred, it's pathetic. Give up sex. It is everywhere there. Everywhere! Naked parties for one are an easy way to get bb sex.

If your ex lurks here, I would refrain from making specific comments about the relationship. Whatever you learned about yourself and him in the process, be thankful for it and move on. You will put a strain on the friendship by airing your business here for all to see.

I have been in a relationship for a year and a half now and thank goodness he has piggy tendencies too. I think the relationship works because we don't live together, allow each other a zone of privacy and respect each other. It's alright to set some boundaries but you've got to be open to revisiting certain issues from time to time. If you really do love somebody, you do want to make them happy - but not necessarily at the expense of your own happiness of course. If you are not willing to make ANY sacrifices for the sake of the relationship, you won't be in one for long. Just stay single. And sex won't sustain it if you don't genuinely care for the person. The other thing I am learning is that relationships evolve and you have to allow yourself to feel vulnerable. Check out Brene Brown's TED talk on ted.com. It was a game changer for me.

I don't love rimming but I have a couple of tops in rotation that totally get off on getting rimmed. I'm willing to do it since it gets them horned up to fill me with spunk. I have discovered that taking poppers transports me into some sort of parallel universe where I simply devour a guy's ass. But the ass must be clean. I'm not eating nobody's funky crusty musty hole - not even for a load. I'm smiling at the earlier comment where the person had to learn that getting a rim job does not equal bottoming. I made that mistake too. I thought getting rimmed was an act of submission so excuse me for assuming that you being on your back with your legs in the air moaning like a bitch means you want my dick in you! Interestingly enough, I don't seem to run across many bottoms that like to be rimmed. They like cock back there, not tongue!

I must live around men who like sloppy seconds. I have lost count of the number of times that I've had guys literally flock to my hole when I mentioned it is preloaded. But sometimes I don't tell the top I'm carrying a load. It's up to him to ask if I don't volunteer the info.

I'm in Paris for a long weekend. Went to naked night at Bunker last night. It was possible to fuck raw but there were too many bottoms and muscle Mary's for my tastes. I then hit Full Metal and it wasn't much better. This morning, I met up with a guy I've chatted with for ages on Bbrt. He has a thick eight incher. He fucked me good and bred me. He then proceeded to show me the breathtaking view of the city from his balcony. Wow! We are both going to be in NY at the same time next month so we plan to hook up there too. I left his place and went straight to Cinema Atlas. Don't let the reviews of the place scare you off. I was dicked down by all kinds of men- French guys, Arabs, Turks, black guys, young guys, old guys. At one point when I sat down, I could feel the cum oozing out of my hole. I speak French so I could interact with the guy who was asking me if I wanted his load. The hottest load was from this twenty-something Arab. One of the half dozen or so trannies there didn't want to fucked raw so I offered the guy my ass. It didn't take long before he grunted and blew a huge load. I reached around to feel my hole and it was slick. Wow. All that dick for€9.50. That was a bargain.

Interesting comments here. To me if you're only attracted to men and only seek them out for sex, then you're gay. If you're only attracted to females and only seek them out for sex, you're straight. Many men fall somewhere along the continuum. I think there might be a third axis here, which is how one self-identifies. I have never had sex with a woman but am occasionally interested in it. If I were to fuck a woman, it would not mean for a second that I was bisexual in my opinion. And I think the same would apply to a (straight) man who experiments with gay sex. I do believe a lot more men than we think would experiment (with both sexes) under the right circumstances. I have slept with guys who have fucked my brains out but would never in a million years admit to having slept with a man. I've also run into guys that would fuck anything with a warm moist hole and will tell you so. I also have a fuckbud now that seems to switch with almost no effort between men and women. I guess in the end I don't really care as long as I get what I want. Of course I wouldn't want to date and fall in love with a man who didn't self-identify as gay, but to make a long story short, as long as he is fucking me or bending over for me, I really could care less what he says or thinks he is when he is clothed.

Just took a load from a dude packing 8 inches. He has bred me before and last time, he really ripped up my hole. This time, I used a thicker lube and took a lot of poppers. He climbed on top and within minutes, his breathing got heavy. I'm going to Paris in a few days and don't want to arrive with a beat up hole. :-) just told my bf about it to make him horny.

I'd like to add a couple of more things that work for me. 1) on any online profiles, both should state you have an open relationship (that does deter some guys and shows you both respect your relationship to some degree) 2) do not link your profiles on chat sites - ever. Lonely bitter jealous queens will go out of their way to try and break you two up even if they have no real interest in either of you. I suspect that this may be how you are getting some of the feedback you have. It's hateful and spiteful behavior. My bf sings in a choir and had talked about me to a fellow choir member. Said choir member started blowing up my inbox with nude pics asking for a date. I just happened to share this with the bf and we put two and two together. The guy is hot but is an asshole. But I would never fuck him now. Why? Because he would surely brag about it. 3) every person deserves a zone of privacy; as hot as you might think it is to hear all his sexcapades, please understand that if he suspects you won't approve of it (eg fisting, hooking up behind your back), then he won't tell you. Period. Your right to know ends where his zone of privacy begins. This is where the lying starts. Don't ask don't tell works better for me. I try not to ask and while my bf tries to downplay his extracurricular activities, he turns around and tries to ask what I'm doing. Open means open. The quickest way to feel jealous is to hear your man talk about some good dick or ass he got that wasn't yours. Especially if it's a local trick. I have a few fuck buds that have been dicking me down for years who pose absolutely no threat to my relationship, but still my bf doesn't like it. I get it and I shut the fuck up about it.

Open relationships require rules. These rules must occasionally be revisited to see if they still work for both sides. The rules have to be airtight if you live under the same roof. And some dicks and some asses should simply be off limits (eg friends, ex-es, relatives etc) Trust your instincts. If you don't feel at ease with the guy, just end it. Life is too short to be putting up with a situation that makes you unhappy. If he cares anything about you, he will want to make you happy or at the very least meet you halfway. But be willing to be challenged on why you want the rules that you put on the table.

You might be many things, but straight you are not... especially if you are: 1) fucking guys and 2) feeling some type of emotional attachment to them. Just sayin'.

The person who does the procedure can look at your body and advise you on what you should do. I started with endermology (3 sessions) because I lost 60 pounds back in 2011. My skin was not sagging but needed tightening. I then did a few sessions of ultrasonic cavitation to get rid of the remaining gut and the love handles. This was two months ago and my body has not reverted back. I even started working out more and have some muscle definition now. Being the perfectionist that I am, I racked up a bill of about $1500 but that was for about ten sessions. If you only have small love handles, maybe a couple of sessions is enough. For some body types, diet and exercise can only get you so far. So I went the cosmetic route. My only regret is that I didn't know about this a couple of years ago. Totally non-invasive. And I am getting more guys as a result. I didn't look my age to start with and I now have the situation where guys really don't believe me when I tell them I'm well into my 40's. I can't really explain why my weight hasn't changed. I had a beefy (endormophic) build to start with. I gain muscle easily which weighs more. I have gotten away from being too obsessed with weight anyway. I focus more on my waistline (maintaining a 37-38 inch waist) and body shaping.

Ultrasonic cavitation was about $200 per session Endermology was $125. Results are visible after just one session. I dropped a clothes size. You don't lose weight. You lose fat and it tightens the skin too. Lots of videos on youtube: http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Z7zMi9OF7C4&desktop_uri=%2Fwatch%3Fv%3DZ7zMi9OF7C4

I find celibacy far easier than monogamy. I once went 17 months without having sex with anyone - just occasional masturbation. It was one of the most beautiful, creative and productive periods of my life. It was hard at first, but once you get over the initial phase, you lose interest in being sexually active and you see just how manipulative people can be just to have sex. I will never forget when this guy was cruising me constantly in my dorm (I was in grad school at the time). I went to his room (stupidly). He was all over me. When I said I was celibate and didn't want to have sex, he was TOTALLY disgusted. Even though he thought I was hot, he was completely uninterested in me as a person. Didn't even want to talk. He asked me to leave. It was really eye opening.

If you don't have the genes and don't want to spend hours in the gym, try non-surgical liposuction. It's not that expensive and it works. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Non-surgical_liposuction I didn't tell my bf I did this and he would never let me hear the end of it if he knew I did it. But he loves my body now and wants to fuck all the time - even when I want to sleep!