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These hormones that are in meat and dairy products have these kids hitting puberty at alarmingly early ages. So it's no wonder you can't tell how old they are. Years ago I was in Morocco and this guy who I thought was in his early 20s was well over six feet tall and looked like he could beat the brakes off a pussy. Just by chance I found out he was SIXTEEN. When he showed up where I was staying, I paid him (he was a hustler) but told him to leave. Homosexuality is illegal there and I probably would be up under the jail there if I had fucked him.
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So if he had lied and said he was neg, he could have bred you by now and you wouldn't even be on this forum asking strangers what you should do. #ignoranceisbliss #tellmeyourenegevenifyourepoz #eyeswideshut
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The parents of this 19 year old in my neighborhood are away this week. He tried to get my hole yesterday but it was Valentine's Day and that day is for my bf. Anyway, the kid hits me up again today so I said why not? I got there, undressed and saw where he had prepared the bed for us. Totally unnecessary. He kneeled down and sucked me for a bit before I leaned on a table at the foot of the bed and took a hit of poppers. He fucked me like that and dropped two loads in my hole. I got dressed and left. Save those clean sheets for the next trick! Gosh I've become low maintenance. I don't think we said 5 words to each other. His parents are loaded it seems.
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Tell Me Your Thoughts On Privacy vs. GeoLocation
bbzh replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I am not a big fan of geolocation. I really value my privacy, especially since my race makes it easy to identify me where I live. I am actually on the verge of disappearing completely off social media because I am simply not able to manage what information is where or when and how it is communicated to others (for example LinkedIn pisses me off by telling everyone in my network about work anniversaries or if I looked at their profile. WHY???) As some have pointed out here, broadcasting locations could have sinister implications (eg stalking, outing people as gay, barebackers or poz, or even alerting people when you are away from home etc). It's not so much that I have something to hide. It's more that I want absolute control and full knowledge about what information is out there about me at all times. Moreover, I don't think a guy's proximity to me significantly increases the likelihood we will hook up. Maybe if I'm travelling, but I would argue it has the opposite effect when I'm home. I see guys right around me on Scruff but I have only hooked up with them once or twice. Maybe I'm just weird but I kind of cherish the anonymity here and I share a lot more of what I do and think because of it. -
Bear friendly, clothing optional gay campgrounds
bbzh replied to Abrasax85's topic in General Discussion
That would be Timberfell in Tennessee. I took multiple loads from this one guy all over the grounds back in 2011. And I felt every one of the loads going in. Nobody asked about condoms the entire time I was there. -
I came home from work at lunchtime yesterday and took a load from my bf. He was on cloud nine! He went home around 7:30 pm and I texted a guy nearby with a big dick and asked if he wanted some head. He said hell yeah! So I sucked him off and swallowed his load. He wrote me after to tell me that I give the best head and that he is looking forward to the next time. Still horny, I got online and this dude - about a half hour away who's been begging to breed me since we fucked in October - asked if I wanted his load. So like a good trooper, I drove over and let him beat tha pussy up. On the way back, I texted one of his friends and said I had his buddy's load in me. That got him horned up and he wanted to fuck as well. None of these guys have cars so I think from now on, every other Thursday night, I will operate the Pussy Wagon. If a top needs service, oral or anal, I will make my rounds between 8 pm and midnight. God bless this ministry.
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Is there any possibility to uproot your life and move? You need a break from this situation and a new beginning. If you can't move, it will be difficult to maintain a relationship with this woman even if it's nonsexual. Too much baggage. No harm intended but you need to talk to a therapist in my opinion. Too many balls in the air. Come to terms with being poz, take care of yourself FIRST. And please stop worrying about how your girlfriend will feel, what your parents will think etc. Nothing makes me sadder than to see adults living their lives in fear and in shame. Be the captain of your own ship and stop letting other people control your life. If people can't accept you and everything that comes with that, then do they really deserve to occupy such an important place in your life? You can divorce your family you know. It doesn't mean you stop loving them or are ungrateful for what they did for you. And you can come out the closet, if you choose to, without telling people you are poz. If your parents say it hurts them to have a gay son, you can turn it right back on them and say it hurts you to have homophobic parents. Whatever is eating away at you at the moment, trust me, if you let it go, it will let you go.
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I'm really uptight about a lot of things, but I give guys the benefit of the doubt on the tardiness issue. Maybe traffic is heavy, public transport is late or maybe it took a little longer to clean out properly. I'm willing to be flexible if it means I am going to get to have raw sex with a guy I'm attracted to. Yes people can and will flake on you, but it's part of the game. Think about all the extra bullshit straight guys have to put up with and how much money they have to spend to MAYBE get laid. We've got it easy. If a cumdump being late is your biggest worry, then you're living a fantastic life already. Take it in stride. There'll be other holes.
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Maybe I'm wired wrong but i live by the phrase, "fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me." I totally get being turned on by a guy and really, really wanting to hook up. However, if he doesn't have enough respect for you to keep a date (how much commitment does that require???), why give him a second thought? He obviously didn't really like you. Block his ass and get on with your life. Next!
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My advice is to organize hookups in cheap motels or go to saunas, parks or adult bookstores. And try not to give out any information about yourself. When I have guys at my place, I do require some information about them but that's more about my safety and not because I want to be clingy. There are plenty of bottoms who will play by your rules given that there are fewer tops than bottoms. Just be firm and don't send any mixed signals. However do keep in mind that some bottoms can get attached if you start regularly drilling their holes. Just find a few holes and keep them in rotation. Fuck bottoms in different age groups. Old bottoms tend to know the deal and are less needy.
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My advice would be to: 1) find someone poz who you trust and talk about your feelings or locate a support group, 2) take a sex break, 3) get on meds and get your viral load down and 4) if you engage in sexual activity, perhaps go for anonymous encounters where HIV status isn't discussed (eg park, sex cinema). 5) This is really important: think long and hard before telling anyone that you're poz. Once the information is public, you have no control over how and when it could be used against you. Tell people who really need to know, and not just because you really want to tell. 6) If you ever become interested in dating, date a poz guy. If you date a neg guy, use rubbers and don't disclose your status until you both know you have feelings for one another.
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Just took a load from an eighteen year old in my neighborhood. I'm old enough to be his dad! Loved his Australian accent. The kid sucked dick like a pro too. He didn't last long before he blew his load up my hole. I noticed that my kootycat was still sore from taking so much dick last weekend. That's a shame because three of my regulars have hit me up wanting to get in my hot pocket.
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Went to the 100th edition of the No Limit Party in Mainz, Germany on Saturday. Was fucked 21 times (a personal best for me) and took at least ten loads. The best part of it was being there with my bf. He is normally the "top" in our relationship, but he let me drill his hole at the party. One of the many highlights of the evening was getting fucked by a skinhead who whispered happy new year in my ear after he loaded me. Another was a big dicked versatile guy who fucked me senseless and then bent over for me. I filled his sloppy hole with my man juice. I don't know how those guys manufacture so much cum because every hole I fucked was leaking cum. Once we got back home, my bf said "I'm so happy with you. I couldn't ask for anything more." Right back at ya kiddo!
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Does anybody know what happened to barebackcity.de? I found this link (in German): http://www.steffen030.de I feel sorry for those who paid for a membership but can't access the site! If the site is gone for good, it will be missed. It was a great source of info about bareback parties in Germany.
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1) dicks going in multiple asses one right after the other 2) dicks going from ass to mouth 3) breeding holes 4) felching 5) snowballing I was a having a fourway a few weeks ago and one of the guys presented me his freshly fucked ass to be eaten out. I was like whoa, yo, uh, can I think about it first?
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It could be that the guy in question found someone else he'd rather meet. I think a whole host of variables come into play to be honest. How horny is the guy? Is there someone else close by who is willing to visit him? Did a regular fuck buddy become available? How much time does he have before he has to go to work, to bed or before the bf/wife gets home? I'm pretty stern with guys. No picture, no address (which I google) and not willing to exchange text messages? Then, we are not fucking. I made one exception recently with this new guy in my neighborhood. He would not text me because he doesn't want his bf to know he's fucking around. I was glad I was flexible in that case. :-) One other point: I am not constantly using my cell phone so it would be rather hard for me to hook up with someone on grindr etc. I literally forget about those apps for days at a time. And I am not willing to leave them running in the background because they kill my battery.
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You're a total cumhole but your profile says Versatile-Bottom
bbzh replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Very interesting thread! I consider myself a true versatile bottom, because 8 times out of 10, I will choose bottoming over topping. In anonymous situations, I tend to want to top more -e.g. at a sex party or in a darkroom. I will admit that I tend to take a pass on total bottoms when I feel like topping. It's just not a turn on for me to fuck a guy who will take a 100 cocks. I like tight holes. And I last as long as I want when I decide to top. Other triggers to get me to top: guys who are reasonably fit, guys who are shorter than me, guys who are younger than me, really submissive guys, exotic looking guys Even though I go through phases where it would probably be more accurate to market myself as versatile, I don't because where I live, black guys who top tend to be highly sought after and I would attract too much attention. I have this one guy stalking me now that wants to get bred by a black guy. It's kinda creepy actually. My ideal guy is actually a versatile top - someone who prefers to top but will bottom under the right circumstances. I get really turned on by guys who understand how to fuck and get fucked. I'd also like to add that if I take Cialis or Viagra, somebody is getting fucked for damn sure. -
As someone who bottoms more than he tops, I am very diligent about cleanliness and have my own ritual for making sure I'm ready, but if BbRob is packing more than 8 inches, the fact of the matter is, he is more likely to run up on some stuff than somebody with 6 inches. I know that doesn't change how repulsive he finds a dirty hole, but cleaning out for a really big dick is not that easy. My bf is about 8 inches and trust me, he can't have my hole at certain times of the day because, well, my hole has a day job. :-) If the bottom with the dirty hole was hot, I might try to help him learn how to be ready instead of just calling him lazy and unprofessional.
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My bf is mostly top and we use poppers every time we fuck. His dick actually gets harder after he takes poppers. The only time there is a problem is if I open a fresh bottle and forget to tell him. Inhaling too deeply from a fresh bottle does seem to cause a slight problem for him. I don't use poppers when I top.
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That captures it nicely for me. I don't consider you a true barebacker unless you are willing to give or take a load without peppering the other guy with a 1,000 questions before hooking up. This is why I love Berlin. The cum goes in the hole. I know I am giving people too much of the benefit of the doubt when it comes to maintaining their sexual health but the occasional STD comes with the territory - although it's been a long time since I caught something. The guys where I live are starting to get piggier and Lord knows I have turned down some really HOT guys who insisted on rubbering up because I don't want latex in my ass. They are starting to fall into two groups. I have guys who I suck off regularly but I told them I expect them to shoot in my mouth. If they are not willing to do that, I'm not interested in future hook-ups. And thank goodness I've found a few guys who will cum in my ass and who have started to self-organize into play groups. Of course it's a little tricky finding the time to be available since I have a bf (open relationship) but I think it's worth sticking to your guns and seeking out what you truly want and not making any compromises. The beauty of being a pig is that when I can't find what I want in the moment, I have more than enough recent piggy episodes to beat off to. Being a member of the brotherhood to me also means not letting anybody lecture you about barebacking. It also means not having safe sex plastered on all your profiles but then fucking raw anyway (although I totally understand that guys do that to keep their friends and co-workers out of their business).
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Barebacking: My Close Brush With Hiv Infection
bbzh replied to VoiceOfReason's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
What I took away from this story is that many men are uncomfortable with getting tested regularly perhaps out of fear of finding out the truth and destroying the illusion of being able to say I'm neg. The guy who is my bf now was one of my regulars when I pozzed. When I told him, he dropped me because he was in a relationship. He said he got tested after that (but lied). We got back together nearly 2 years ago and I applied nonstop pressure for him to get tested. He found out he was poz. He theoretically could have pozzed me as his infection was not new. His CD4 count, by that time, was low enough for him to have become full blown had he gotten an opportunistic infection. He has been on meds for over a year now and is healthy as a horse (to his dismay, he has gained weight). But I'd rather have him with a little extra weight than to be burying him. If you start dating someone, you should go get tested TOGETHER. And even if you are not in a relationship but give or take loads, even just once, you should get tested at least once a year, preferably anonymously every 6 months. We were both lucky. And didn't have any side effects from the meds. -
My favorite setup is for me and my bf (a top) to play with a versatile bottom. 1) My bf gets two asses. 2) I and the versatile bottom fuck each other plus get fucked by my bf. A win-win-win. I find that total bottoms can get greedy so I avoid them for group play.
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Does a white man belong in a sex club geared towards men of color?
bbzh replied to TigerMilner's topic in General Discussion
First of all, to the original poster, I'm very impressed that you called ahead and asked instead of just showing up at the door. That's classy. And probably guaranteed your admission. I just had a look at their website and they don't say you HAVE to be of color but it's clearly who they cater to. As a black man, I totally get why these clubs feel they need to exist. Too often, men of color go places where they feel unwelcome. I'll be honest though. When I first started reading your post, I thought, hmmm that's a typical white male attitude - i.e. one of entitlement. But as I continued reading, I began to admire your courage for even going. If I saw that a club was marketing itself to a demographic that I was not part of, I probably wouldn't waste my time. I guess I'm a big believer of "get in where you fit in". There's enough choice out here that I don't have to waste my energy on being upset about not being accepted or welcomed at one place. This is why I like the leather scene. It's just more welcoming. But I have to admit that I do give the side-eye to guys who turn up at leather bars without a stitch of leather on. And as the original poster pointed out, if you turn up at a venue that markets to men of color, you are going to be ignored by some because they came there looking for, well, men of color. Duh! But I am intrigued by one of your observations that I have certainly experienced - i.e. white guys who are not willing to have sex with me out in the open where perhaps other white guys can see, but who are more than willing to fuck me when we are away from prying eyes. And this is not a shyness thing. I am a regular at sex parties where I experience this. By the way, before a bunch of you all start booking flights to Atlanta, I do have a hunch that this club in Atlanta is not going to allow itself to be fully "integrated", so that's worth keeping in mind before you get your hopes up too high. -
I guess I'll have to be guilty of wanting my cake and eating it too. I am often at bareback sex parties where I top and bottom. I like the cialis so I'm always ready to top and the poppers so I'm always ready to bottom. Yes, I do think you have to be extremely careful with the combo. No doubt about that. I wouldn't dream of taking a large dose of either. But I'll ask my own doctor when I see him in a few weeks and report back. I'm also curious about the effects of alcohol consumption too. It takes a lot to scare me these days. I recall being very afraid when I first seroconverted about taking loads from other poz guys for fear of superinfection. When I asked my doctor about this (and he is one of the world's leading HIV specialists), he leaned back in his chair and laughed. A lot of things in this life are possible, but the real question is are they probable.
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What doesn't kill us makes us stronger, right? My bf can't handle the poppers and Viagra. But like I said it's never caused any problems for me. But I do it in moderation.
