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I think there are four categories of guys. 1. Neg, not barebacking 2. Those who claim to be neg but are giving/taking loads (probably poz but scared/refuse to get tested) 3. Those who are poz undetectable 4. Those who are poz with high viral load Note that is virtually impossible to find a guy who will have raw sex with you and can actually prove he's neg. I say don't even bother to ask the guy which bucket he is in because he probably a) can't honestly tell you or won't be truthful about it if he thinks you are gonna reject him. The morality card gets played a lot if you fall into category 3 or 4 but I think more barebackers than we care to admit fall into category 2. Raise your hand if you have ever told a guy about a negative test result being relatively recent when you know your ass hasn't been near a clinic. ;-)
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Just wanted to add that before I found out I was poz, I had three guys who were regularly breeding me. One never talked to me again. The other two just say hi online from time to time. Telling them was the right thing to do but I would be lying to you if I said that sometimes I wish I hadn't. The one that dropped me cold turkey was the hottest of the three and happened to be in a serious (supposedly monogamous) relationship.
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Let me preface my answer by saying that I live in a European country where I am not legally required to disclose my status, although my doctor has told me that it is the moral thing to do. I should also state that I am shooting blanks (undetectable). If I think I am going to get close to the guy or want to date him, I really try to avoid raw sex with him because it has been my experience that a lot of guys just assume you're neg and freak out when they find out. I think you should get to know the person before you disclose that. Another option is to date guys who have the same status. When it comes to anonymous situations such as sex parties, saunas, parks etc, it's strictly don't ask don't tell. Even with quick internet hook ups. The irony here is that I really would like to avoid guys with high viral loads but how can you do that in reality when so many people don't even know their status? The one situation where I do feel remorse is from 2 years ago when I knew I was poz and had a viral load. This hot dude who had been breeding me for a while wanted to fuck. I was horny but didn't know how I could explain that I suddenly wanted to use condoms. He bred me as usual. I lost contact. I do hope he got tested and didn't get sick. By the way, I agree that a lot of stuff on this site is made up. And the whole bug chasing thing I totally don't get. Being poz is no picnic. I consider myself lucky because I was always getting tested and caught it early. I've got good insurance. Getting knocked up of course made me even more sexual but the reality is that you have this for life. You really have to take care of yourself. Doctors visits, meds, remembering to take the meds. Also the discrimination you face. You need to be strong. I knew what I was doing would make me poz but the day I got the news, I was truly devastated.
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There have been times in my life when I flat out refused to have sex with married men because I thought they should not get to have their cake (i.e. get "credit" for being "straight") and eat it too (i.e. get to fuck me whenever THEIR schedule permitted it). I really didn't like it that I couldn't make a booty call to them when I wanted some dick, but they had no problem ringing my phone when they wanted some ass. But then I decided to be selfish too. If I am horny and I don't have another dick in the queue, then I might fuck but I am not having sex just because he's got time and needs the release. I've been fucking this married dude on and off for 12 years. He lives an hour away and I never go to him. He has to come here. Last time we fucked was December 2010. But he's coming through next week. He wants to take me out to dinner. But I can't lie. He has a big dick and shoots huge loads. But I think he has gotten hip to the game. He asks for pussy even when he's fairly certain I won't put out. That way, I end up feeling a bit guilty for not fucking. I also ask him to buy me shit, which he does. And then there was this bi guy whose fiancée was fucking a married man and left him. Mind you he was whining about this to me after he had fucked and shot inside me. Somehow it was ok for him to fuck me but she couldn't get some dick on the side too?
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I own lots of leather. I like the idea of having different looks when I hit the leather scene. I would encourage anyone who is serious about leather to get to know a few true leathermen. They will teach you a lot - not just the sexual side but the history of the community. A leather top will also teach you how to be a better bottom. Not all leathernen are into bareback but I have taken some nice loads from leathernen. They are my favorite tops. And one of my best highs was getting fucked in chaps in a sling. Smiling thinking about it now. Or bending over taking loads in the darkrooms of Berlin's leather bars.
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A fuckbuddy who lives 5 minutes away called. It was a booty call. He said "I'll be there in 15 minutes." I cleaned out and waited on the bed with my big bubble ass perched. He stripped, made me suck his mushroom head cock and then presented his ass to me for rimming. I don't lke to rim but it makes his cock rock hard. I poppered up and he mounted me doggy style. He began to dig my back out while he watched his reflection in the mirror beside my bed. He never lasts long because I have got one of those suction-like pussies. Next thing I know he is filling me up. He runs his hands up and down my back as I milk the last drops out of him. As he is getting dressed, he says, "I hope my boyfriend doesn't wake up while I'm gone." I said, "Roland, you are so bad!" He replied, "I can't help it. My cock is always hot." Lucky for him that he's got a 'bust it baby' like me to plant his seed in. I am sure his boyfriend would be pissed if he knew. But I am not trying to break up their home. I can't help it if Roland can't sleep because he's thinking about my lotus flower bomb. ;-)
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I'm in London on a business trip. It's been a few years since my last trip here, but I had stayed in touch with this versatile top cub here named Martin. He is really talented. Last time I bottomed only, but this time he wanted my cock. He arrived around 7:30 pm and we started with a bit of foreplay. I then ate his hole and mounted him. My dick is not huge but he still had some difficulty. Those times when I do top, I like a nice open hole that I can pound. I still gave him a good fuck. We took a break before he asked to top my hole. After a hit of poppers I was ready to go. He fucked me doggy style for about 10 minutes. I was starting to leak precum when he asked me in his cute British accent, "Do you want me to breed you?". No self-respecting slut is gonna turn down that offer! He pumped a nice big load in me and afterwards I sucked his cock clean. After he left, I realized I had blue balls from not cumming. So I jerked out a nice load with his still in me. So now I can say I've had British spunk up my hole. ;-)
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Don't let Rubio break up your happy home. Sounds like he wants more than just your load. Take off the condom and you might as well take off your ring (if you wear one). Every time you bareback him, you are potentially bringing a STD home to your bed. EVERY TIME. I doubt your partner is gonna give you a free pass to fuck raw. Sounds like you need to change the rules of your open relationship to no fucking a trick twice. My advice is to drop Rubio entirely if it's not already too late. Shit or get off the pot.
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If a top wants to degrade me then: Dump a load of cum in me, slap me across the face, tell me you're had better pussy than mine and then totally ignore me after that. Totally humiliating. -
I am back home from Berlin now. But at 3 am this morning, just a few hours before my flight, I leathered up and went to Scheune, a bar close to my hotel. Within 10 minutes of being there, this French guy fucked me in the darkroom. It was nice because we had played on Saturday. In no time, he started announcing the arrival of his load. He didn't know at the time that I am fluent in French because we had been chatting in English. He was calling me a whore and a slut. When I stood up, hole dripping, I thanked him in French for his seed. He left right after that. This British dude, who saw me take the load, came up behind me and fucked my sloppy hole. He didn't cum though. At 4 am, I returned to my hotel, showered, and left at 5 am for the airport. I cannot wait until my next trip to Berlin. I think it is the raw sex capital of Europe. London is probably second. The Berlin bareback orgies are simply incredible. Guys fucking everywhere and loads going into man holes, the way they should.
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I used to be a chub but am now a bear. There are some hot guys out there who are only into chubs and if you lose weight, they will lose interest! Based on how our community seems to work, you will probably get more guys if you trim down. But I say don't do it for that reason. Do it for your own health and general well being. Those extra pounds will lead to extra problems as you age. Don't wanna preach though. I lost 60 pounds over the last 18 months and I look better, feel better, have more sex and the list goes on and on.
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Just got back from the Coffee & Cream sex party. I stayed only about an hour. The place was packed and it was hot as hell. The party will go all night I think. Still, I got fucked four times and took a couple of loads. By the way, I don't think I am done for the evening. My flight is at 7 am. I might do one last round in the bars to get a load or two for the road.
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I love to suck cock, but I don't think I am that good at it. I need lessons from Superhead! I rarely have guys nut when I blow them although they seem to enjoy it. But I wonder if subconsciously I don't want them to nut. You see, I will take loads in my ass all day but the idea of a guy shooting in my mouth is a little repulsive to me. If the guy has good tasting semen, I will suck him off anytime. But I have also tasted some nasty ass spunk which I always have to chase with a beer. That bitter spunk keeps me from doing more swallowing. But here's some more crazy for you: I would rather suck off a guy than have him shoot in my face or on my body.
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Ok I am officially a slut because I already have another load to report. LOL. My German fuckbuddy just left. We started out kissing and humping on each other. He sucked my cock (which as a bottom I normally don't like but he is a GOOD cocksucker). I sucked his cock a bit before taking a hit of poppers. He mounted me in the missionary position and began slow fucking my hole. I decided to milk his cock while he was fucking me. I opened my hole fully on the downstroke and grabbed and milked him on the upstroke. His eyes started rolling back in his head as he unloaded deep in my guts. He stayed in me for a couple of minutes until his cock slipped out. I am holding this load in me for a sex party that starts in a couple of hours. My bud asked me to meet him later for another round. I don't think I'll need any lube at all by then. :-)
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I am in Berlin at the moment. Last night after calling my folks in the States, I decided that I needed to get plowed. I donned my leather gear and went to Scheune, a leather bar in the area. In no time I had been fucked four times. The best was this guy who was taking turns between my ass and another bottom's ass. I got the load, which in some ways was an honor because the other bottom was hotter than me. LOL. A guy walked into the slightly lit darkroom as I was getting creamed and said in disgust "unglaublich", which translates as "unbelievable". I am not sure I understand this reaction. If you are not into bb, fine, but a darkroom is not the place to moralize! I saw tons of raw fucking going on around me and I did let one fuck me with a condom - but only because he had a nice dick on him. Got a fuck buddy coming in 30 minutes and then going to a bareback party later. I want to finish up today taking a few more loads for the team.
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In some ways, I feel a bit sorry for the guys who want to have raw sex but don't want to seroconvert. It's the classic case of wanting to have one's cake and eat it too. :-) I think the statistic where I live is that 1 in 4 men are poz (some know it, many don't). So if you are taking random loads, every fourth one is charged. Even if you have a fuck buddy or bf, he might be pigging around. I didn't want to be poz but I got it. When I became undetectable I also began slutting. I am still surprised how some guys will pump me full of cum and then later ask about status. I just tell them that I get tested regularly for STDs. That usually ends the discussion. A poz buddy of mine tells guys that he doesn't know his status. It seems everybody is fine as long as they can live in denial. Crazy this world.
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Just can't have safe sex anymore! Any of you like me?
bbzh replied to muscmtl's topic in General Discussion
No more condoms. The friction tears my asshole up and makes me sore when I get a bare cock up there. -
Buy a dildo. Use a butt plug. Take poppers. If none of that is possible then just ease him into your hole before he is rock hard. Then relax and enjoy the ride. I am not a size queen at all because I am bit tight myself. When I see the beer cans, I tell the guy "all I can do is admire that because I can't suck it or take it without feeling like I am being split in two ."
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This is a tricky question! I don't think it matters what I rate myself. And it all depends on the circumstances or situation you find yourself in. If I am in leather I attract certain guys. If I go where bears are, I attract other guys. It is about getting in where you fit in. I don't think the "hottest" guys get more or better sex, it's the "average" guy who is more likely to work at it. But I will play along and rate myself a 7. Guys who are into my type would rate me higher and those who are not would rate me lower! As far as what I go for, I like the average looking guy (a 5). If he likes me, he feels he has scored! LOL! Seriously give me a man who is height weight proportional and who has a decent sized cock (6-8 inches) and I am in pig heaven. Now if I am at a sex party, I will let any guy fuck me if the dick looks good. I got some good dick off a slightly handicapped leather man here in Berlin last year. Ten or fifteen years ago, I would have passed that up. I laugh now when I think about all that dick I missed being superficial! When you are horny and need a load, the dick is more important than who is attached to it. ;-)
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Is it rude to ask a barebacker if he's "clean"?
bbzh replied to uncut23's topic in General Discussion
This is just one of those questions that simply should not be asked. If the guy you ask it to wants to have sex with you, you are gonna get the answer he thinks you want to hear. Besides, if you are trolling for raw sex, you are setting yourself up for some unwanted nasties. I have said it before, but if a top wants to nut in an ass, he is better off fucking a poz bottom on meds because he is getting check-ups and screened regularly. If that poz bottom has an undetectable viral load, the risk of infection is practically ZERO. The riskiest guys to fuck are those who don't know their status or are referring to an old negative test. If you've taken a load since your last test, the honest reply would be "I'm not sure." Since that does not sound good, they lie. Can you blame them? If you are not even interested in knowing the guy's name, why should he share his medical history with you? -
Just spent a few days in the Canary Islands off the coast of Africa and stayed at the gay-owned Basement Studios which has 5 bungalows. It has a pool and cruising area as well with lots of slings and a darkroom. I sucked my share of cock but things got really interesting when this daddy bear flooded my ass in front of three guys in the darkroom. I then let one guy fuck me with a condom (no more of that for me if I can avoid it). The absolute hottest part of my stay was this British guy, ex-rugby player with an 8 inch cock. He fucked me all over the complex over two days. I took so many loads from him I lost count. He would fuck me in the sling and leave my hole dripping. He woud get hard again and add a second load minutes later. I fucked him with my butt plug and he shot again! I thought it was all about the pump and dump but this guy has changed this for me. I was leaking gobs of precum from the thorough fucking I received and lost interest in the other cocks there because I was totally satisfied with his. Nothing like being high on poppers and getting pounded by a dick that fits like a glove.
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Tips for setting up a group...they always seem to fall apart :(
bbzh replied to adam4adam's topic in General Discussion
Organize the party in a sleazy motel. Even better is if the guys don't have to go past a reception desk and can drive to the door. Ask for a quiet room and you will usually be placed in the back away from prying eyes. Tell the guys that the party starts at 8 but the door closes at 10. Tell them to bring their own poppers and favorite lube. Even better is if the hottest guy in your circle posts the ad. I have had some hot sleazy fucks this way. By renting a room, you avoid having random guys stealing your shit or knowing where you live. One other thing, if u organize with a buddy, you have another set of eyes monitoring the situation and a guaranteed fuck for the night! -
I have a friend who I had played with before pozzing who I didn't find that attractive. He is poz but did not poz me. When I found out I converted, he was there for me and did not try to fuck me when I was clearly struggling with my new status. After I started my meds and got my viral load down, he started coming on to me and I let him nail me. He shot the biggest load ever in me when I gave in. I consider this guy a friend but would be just as happy not to have sex, but I figure he has earned the right to fuck and seed me. By the way, I lost a lot of weight and got fit after i pozzed so there's even a bigger gap between us in the looks department now.
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Thanks guys for the info http://www.siegessaeule.de/berlin-service/termine.html?tx_cal_controller%5Bsday%5D=20120406&cHash=1d866ac1e29197d9248cb92840444217 I will go to the biohazard party on Good Friday. Saturday I am still deciding. On Sunday, it's Coffee & Cream. I've got a couple of fuck buddies in Berlin so I am sure they will keep my holes flowing too. I love Berlin. It's paradise. ;-)
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I think we should probably make a distinction based on whether this was a last minute hook up or whether the encounter had been planned well in advance (at least a couple of hours). I have a fuckbuddy who often gives me just 10-15 minutes notice. Most of the time I can get cleaned out well enough, but one time I would have liked to have been cleaner. He seems to call right after I have had a big meal! Argh!!!! As has been said before, tops must remember that the hole does have a day job, so give bottoms the benefit of the doubt here. Now when I prepare for an evening of fucking, that is an entirely different program. If I am getting fucked at 7, then no eating whatsoever after lunch. Douching begins two hours before. It's true you can put too much water up there and you only learn the right amount with experience. As I near the end of the douching process, I take a couple of Imodium and fuck myself with a clear dildo for about a half hour or so. That helps expel excess water and gets the hole ready for the first cock. I also pre-lube my hole. By the time I get the first cock, I am absolutely confident of my hole. If I think my top is hot, will even lick his cock clean if he breeds me. (I have had some tops freak out when I did that, but that's another story!) At the sex parties I frequent, you rarely see a bottom with a dirty hole. They seem to know that they are not going to get much action if they are the slightest bit dirty. When I do top, I stick a finger in and do the sniff test or I look to see if the previous top's dick comes out clean. What I find somewhat amusing here is that tops will not give second chances to guys with dirty holes, so bottoms take note! And one more thing, I have noticed that married guys who bottom (at least in saunas in Europe) are very likely to be a bit unclean back there. :-)
