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No need to approve this but I couldn’t figure out how to report. This entire thread seems pretty over the line and should probably be deleted.
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I've deactivated the number in my network listing, since I was getting 3 to 4 telemarketing calls per day to that number, and I think it was due to my cumdump network listing. Maybe there needs to be a captcha before viewing these phone numbers? -
Why can't I stop barebacking?
kinkygradstudent replied to Usedbottom's topic in Making The Decision To Bareback
If anyone reading this thread wants more information about Sex Addicts Anonymous (SAA) or Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous (SLAA) feel free to hit me up privately and I'll be happy to link you up with them. -
12 step programs -4th and 5th step
kinkygradstudent replied to kinkygradstudent's topic in General Discussion
Several programs, actually. I go to a therapist too, but it's different from working with a sponsor, the therapist is just a nonjudgemental person to talk to who listens, while the sponsor has been through the same situation themselves... -
Thoughts? It seems like IML has really been ground-breaking lately - with winners in recent years being openly trans, openly disabled, and now openly in a magnetic relationship...
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12 step programs -4th and 5th step
kinkygradstudent replied to kinkygradstudent's topic in General Discussion
See the NA Step Working manual for an example of the kind of questions one considers in a 4th step: http://gssana.org/books/na-step-working-guide.pdf Some examples of the things from that manual that I'm curious to know how others responded to and shared with their sponsor: How was my sexual behavior based in selfishness? Have I confused sex with love? What were the results of acting on that confusion? How have I used sex to try to avoid loneliness or fill a spiritual void? In what ways did I compulsively seek or avoid sex? Have any of my sexual practices left me feeling ashamed and guilty? What were they? Why did I feel that way? Have any of my sexual practices hurt myself or others? Am I comfortable with my sexuality? If not, why not? Am I comfortable with others' sexuality? If not, why not? Is sex a prerequisite in all or most of my relationships? What does a healthy relationship mean to me? and: Before we finish this Fourth Step, we should stop and reflect: Is there anything we've missed, either intentionally or not? Is there something we think is so bad that we just can't possibly include it in our inventory? If so, we should be reassured by the fact that a multitude of NA members have worked this step, and there has never yet been a situation in anyone's Fourth Step that was so unique that we had to create a new term to describe it. Keeping secrets is threatening to our recovery. As long as we are keeping a secret, we are actually building a reservation in our program. Are there any secrets that I haven't written about yet? What are they? -
Has anyone ever worked a 12 step program? If so, what was it like doing a 4th and 5th step and having to have rigorous honesty around barebacking?
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The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
Your first name (or a name you'll respond to): J. Your cell number (for texts and voice calls): (510) 698-9744 A location (be at least as specific as a zip code): 85719 Tucson AZ Times you're generally not available: mid-day Age: 34 Height: 5'12 Weight: 240# Ethnicity: White/Caucasian -
The Cumdump Network - Locations & Phone Numbers
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
First name: J Cell Number: (510) 698-9PIG or (510) 698-9744 Please text/SMS rather than calling. Location: 94530 Age: 34 Height: 6'0 Weight: 240 Ethnicity: White Availability varies. I'm complex when it comes to role - not a total bottom, but very service-oriented. Also happy to serve as a urinal (or even dirtier) if requested. -
Post Your Problems With The New Site Here
kinkygradstudent replied to jackdaw's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
Still having trouble with making posts in the groups. Are others experiencing similar problems? -
In general most insurance plans will cover it if it is validly prescribed for an FDA-approved use, such as PrEP. I would suggest you start by getting a prescription and trying to fill it, and if that doesn't go through, the pharmacist will let you know what the next step you need to take in order to get approval from your insurance company is.
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Post Your Problems With The New Site Here
kinkygradstudent replied to jackdaw's topic in Tips, Tricks, Rules & Help
In the groups section, I can read old posts in my groups, but it won't let me add a reply to any of those threads. It says that I'm not allowed to post there... -
Do you guys want "Login via Google"?
kinkygradstudent replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I'm a big fan of Mozilla Persona - it lets you login with your google account, but without google knowing what you're signing into :-) You might check that out. https://www.mozilla.org/en-US/persona/ Another good option is OpenID. Then people can sign in with the site of their choice. My websites are all set up to generate and receive OpenIDs: http://openid.net/ -
You can actually take Valtrex daily to prevent outbreaks. That's what I do. Another big secret was clairitin or zyrtec for the itching. And I use community acupuncture and network chiropractic for overall wellness and stress reduction.
