He just posted this on Facebook today:
[h=5]Robby Mendez
"Real talk" To my older and out of shape guys. Single or partnered. Get in shape, love yourself, and be happy of what you have:
Love can be very difficult. Most of the gay world is about looks and age. I don't really know you, but I have to be honest with you. Try to get in better shape, everything is possible if you really want to make it happen. If you don't want to do it for that reason then do it for yourself. I don't mean you to have a six pack, but at least slim. Open your heart to people around your age. I seem so many clients friends trying to hook up with younger guys. Nothing wrong with that, but that's not love. Meet friends, hang out with people who loves you. Remember love doesn't has to be sexual. Having a partner could be very nice and most of the times very difficult (the reason I'm single now) try to be happy with what you have. There's nothing you can do if guys don't love you back. Be real, be honest to yourself and you might find happiness even if its with yourself."