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Lots of older-young 1st fucks in these stories. There's a trend in generational gaps -- hot to read! My story is also a generational gap but he wasn't my 1st; no, he taught me how to have great SEX! Jim was in his 40s, tall, muscular, a car mechanic, blue collar type, but well read, and outdoorsy. I was in my 20s in college, and a skinny nerd type, more stuck behind my PC. Jim was an avid Bowflex guys, for those that remember (and is Bowflext still a thing??), so he was a RIPPED hottie. The most exercise I did was run, hah! gay.com is how we met -- for those that remember! Back then, I was still falling in love with hookups -- a big no-no -- and Jim showed me how to have great, passionate sex but not be BFs. Maybe we were still "lovers" in a sense but basically FWBs. Jim had lost his husband to AIDS. Jim remained neg despite having a THICK sex journal -- he showed me how he recorded everyone he had sex with, their name and email, and there I was on his list. 😐 His Sex Book reaffirmed I was a FWB and not a BF (so niave I was back then). Later, and too late, I realize how much AIDS had affected Jim. By then, I was always watching BB porn but knew BB was [banned word]. I was still a prude, rubber zealot. 🫡 So Jim taught me to have sex with condoms ... but eventually he gave way and we fucked bare. Jim's bare ass felt SO much better. He still always made me pullout in the end because he believed no cum was less risk (probably not knowing about pre-cum). There was no PREP back then. Jim taught me how to have great sex but not be in a committed relationship with him. Jim and I would be laying in his bed cuddling, and then would share how sex was with some other guy earlier that month, and tell me about a new guy he was hoping to have sex with later that week ... all while I was laying in bed cuddling with him. It was SO different from what I'd expected. He was a bit of a nymphomaniac with the Sex Book and all. I lost touch with Jim after college. A few years later, a mutual friend told me Jim had taken a gun and taken his life. I think Jim was still in love with his husband. Not to end on a sad note! Jim showed me the way to have FWBs instead of serial BFs, which is basically what I (and many gays) have done; and if understanding sex is not a most "influential dick" then I don't know what is. I'm grateful for our shared experience, and fuck! we had great sex too 😊

Condoms are acceptable, but I ask the top to pull out and shoot his load all over my body. I luv that I'm being sprayed with his seed, like an animal marking turf; and the temperature difference as cum shoots on me feels great. My body temp is usually lower than most men so their cum feels warm & wet. Plus many guys cannot cum well with a rubber on so pulling out at the end helps them too.

Yup, plus testosterone. I've found FTM on testosterone to be pretty damn slutty.

This ^ Example: my bowels move in the mornings so I cannot bottom in the AM unless I'm on a liquid diet. Godd thing I like to top in the AM 🙂

Statistically, this is spot on. There's something like <10% LGTBQ / Alphabet-People in the US. Let's say 1/2 of them are men, so 5% gay. What are the odds you'll find another gay man? Who also wants to have sex you, me, whoever? Low. Too low, hah! Straight / Bi men are everwhere. I don't bother to ask whether a guy is straight / bi / whatever. "May the odds be ever in your favor" 🙃

Re-construction site, a rear entrance to a VA clinic, ... during broad daylight! My FB at the time liked exhibitionism. 🤩 Parade of Homes, so open houses for sale with many folks also doing walk-thrus, my BF at the time forced me to get on my knees, and give him a BJ in the kitchen of one of the homes on tour! 😛

The stupidity of these laws is what I just saw advertised on Ytube. So I can chat 1,000 of "girls" with "private photos" -- uhuh, we know what that means -- but I cannot watch porn from consenting adults. Pftt!

When topping, I also enjoy having to wait my turn. 🐷

Size queens look away, but cum whores get their fill 😆🐷

Rimming gets my cock all hard to fuck his ass. Kissing gets my ass all open for his cock.

🙌 I suck full bush cock n balls, and fuck hairy ass. I won't say "no" to smooth -- especially naturally hairless / less-hair. Several guys like my natural package. I'm not very hairy in the ass though.

You and I must "sword fight", and see who shoots the furthest too 😆 I'm always up for 2x, maybe 3 if there's a break. Round 2 doesn't need much of a break. 😁 🤩 💪 Damn man! Do you have regulars? Fuck buds must have got you there! Even when I lived in Chicago, I wouldn't churn out that many in 1 week. 2x per week but usually only 1x per week. I think # loads given depends on WHEN and WHERE. Some would say other factors too (like size queens), but if we're comparing to cumdumps #s🐷 ... shouldn't any dick be taken?! Bottoms cum out of their closets on weekday evenings / night-times for single men, and weekends of corse. I'm horniest in the morning. Most bottoms don't bend over in the mornings. That's understanble given the plumbing issues -- I'm not complaining and just saying time & place matters to drive up #s. If you're in your car with a hardon at 9pm and the bottom's got a place that's just a 10min drive away, well fuck yea. But I might be in bed at 9pm on a weeknight 😂 I had a cumdump neighbor who'd regularly invite me over the mornings after he'd been out all night being a whore. He was a rare find (and was a tall & toned Dutch guy to boot!) A couple bottom fuckbuds got my #s up after work or during lunch breaks too, like if I worked 1st shift and they worked 2nd shift so they could host, etc. I'm just saying time & place matters. It's not the OP's question but BJ buddies are more regular than cumdump bottoms. Buddies wanting a BJ are damn regular in my experience ... for those of us who suck cock and also fuck ass. Usually 2x a month BJs per buddy. Get 3 buddies going and there's a couple loads each week 🐷

Good! I don't have this fear. Before someone says I'm lying -- I don't have THIS kind of fear: who cares if they guy rejects me! I fear cops in cruisy places. Ever since that Republican Senator got caught tapping his foot by an undercover cop staking out in an airport restroom, my fear has been the guy meeting me is going to put my mug shot on the news. Every time I go to an airport bathroom I think about that Senators mugshot being all over the news! I think he got out of any criminal stuff in the end but I'm no Senator with political strings to pull. Squirt is full of posts saying "be careful, cops are out today" for several nearby cruise spots. That is my fear now. It's squashed a lot of hot encounters, like a potential hookup on a trail just last week 😞

Yup. Basically I've figured str8 or gay or whatever know the difference between a hookup to fuck and love making. I guess the question is: sticking dick in a FB or random guys ass makes you gay? Some think so. Others look at sexuality as the sex the person wants to be with. And then there's the long term relationships with no sex. If a "gay" is married to a guy but only has sex with women, well ... 🤯🤯🤯is he? a man whore?! 🤣

A 67yo slim white tall Grandpa hit me up yesterday. 2nd message was his thick cock n balls. I was totally turned on! Sadly I got his message after I'd left town.

Herd mentality. Its like fads that everyone falls for. There's no point trying to understand it. It just happens.

Doctors have an Rx that will irradicate crab (pubic lice). The active ingredient is permethrin, an insecticide also used by farmers (though not in ointment form, hah!). I went to my doc and got a cream that I applied to my groin and the itching was gone in days, IIRC. It's been awhile. I've not had crabs in over 20+ years. And there's where the stigma about crabs is silly. Crabs are not an STI. Yet the CDC's own website assumes sex and STIs -- wow: [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.cdc.gov/parasites/lice/pubic/treatment.html I got crabs from sleeping in a college mate's dorm room. We slept together -- not "slept together" -- we did not have sex. The crabs were in his bed linens. Crabs are like bed bugs. Yet here we are on BZ with an OP feeling comfortable talking with some sex pigs about it. 🤨

🙌 Can we get this guy a drink?! Labels are killing us. Gays, trans, top, bottom, or whatever "Other-ness" divides us. The good news is we're all united here on sites like this. Think of that! But labels are great at sorting out people. Dating apps are great at it. Like the saying goes "a knife doesn't kill but the person who does the killing", a label doesn't divide us until its in the wrong hands. Labels are often in the hands of the worst people who can only think inside a box. Think outside that box!

Fuck I'm jealous. One of my re-occuring fantasies is to be used as a seedbank by an infertile couple. Hubby will be fucking my ass while wife is milking my cock's fertile seed into her pussy. When the "Daddy" is ready to cum up my ass, I'm expected to cum on demand to impregnate the Mom. My gay dick used as a cum donor for straights. Fantasy still ... even if the couple isn't really trying to get pregnant. Damn I got hard from typing that!

Your comment reminded me when I was walking around a downtown hotel after sundown and a homeless black guy in his 40s came up to me and looked me right in the eyes and said "I'll give you a BJ for 20 bucks". I was stupid to say no but I also was younger then and didn't feel comfortable. Nowadays I carry too much cash on hand. I should carry 2 wallets like my Grandpa did. He had his fake wallet in his back pocket that had like $20 in 1s. His real wallet was in his FRONT pocket and had hundreds. Grandpa figured a thief would have to get close to the sensitive parts to steal it and he'd feel it.

+1. There's a couple porn studios that film TopSon and they do make me bust 😛 IRL (In Real Life, as the young Gen says), I've been fucked by a few college twinks. They're all 1 and done. I figure they're experimenting. I fucked a 40-something a few times back in college. For FWB / FB's, my success has been with same age men, so 40-somethings.

Wisconsin too, at least the countryside. Young kids are U+ / poz-friendly?! Not around here. The lingerie kink kills me too. It must be a country thing. When I visit cities, I never bump into so many guys into lingerie, smooth asses, a guy (with cock and balls showing) in wig & dresses, etc. I like fucking females but the guys into that kink turn me off. Nice! I saw a chick nearby on Grindr yesterday but thought she must be a really damn good TS. I'll be on the lookout for more chicks on Grindr.

This ^ I'll still wrap when bending over Bi/"Str8" married guys. I tell them to pull out and shoot their cum all over me, or I finish them off deepthroat. Being a cum fanatic helps, lol. My own cock hates rubber so I seek out BB btms.

Yup. When I top an anon pump n dump ass, an external room door is a perk but isn't required. Room keys can get messy, especially locked elevators or the entire hotel needing the key/card. Playing room key tag is a hornball killer. I've tried finding the bottoms hidden door key in a lobby plant or wherever ... it's just messy. So pick a hotel that doesn't have locked elevators or locked lobbies.

He's a keeper! I've fucked with hitched/partnered guys. And now I'm one of them, hah! 😆 My partner pokes fun that I'm a pig who will fuck anyone, and I ask him if he's chatting a hookup when he pays more attention to his phone than me 🤣 So in a way we are open. Am I cheating? I don't think my partner would ever say "you cheated on me". Still, it is hot to hookup with another partnered/married guy, I don't have to worry about "strings attached". 🙂