SoCalBBversbttm
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Chlamydia here as well. Symptoms ( white discharge, itching) on day two of an international business trip for a week and a half. Every meeting I had I could feel the discharge dripping. Got it cleared when I came back to the US.
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Love to hear more about this as I a, exploring this with my husband as well. Is there a primary in the triad, what are the sleeping arrangements, how do you handle day to day problems? Happy for you and would like something similar.
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I have been on four Atlantis cruises and in fact will be going on one in August touring the Greek isles. As jagmanca says, there is something for everyone. There are Bear, Leather, muscle, twinks, singles, couples get together and tea dances and event dance parties almost every single night. When in port, you can do a plethora of group excursions, or just stay on the ship. Depending on the cruise there is an outdoor deck that allows for nude sunbathing. This is known as the Dick Deck and after hours usually is a major cruise spot. Sex can be found anytime, but I wouldn’t say it is a bathhouse type environment. You have WiFi, so Grindr, Scruff and BBRT are all active. Cabin doors aren’t really conducive to being left open, so cruising takes place in person or on line. There are cruise staff everywhere, so you really need to be discreet if having sex in public. Word of caution though, at one port, two guys were arrested for public indecency having balcony sex port side, in port. Also, while I have a high level of confidence that there is drug use, not being discreet and having the cabin cleaning crew report you for drugs caused my Mexico to LA cruise a delay in disembarking as the ATF came on the boat and searched cabins with dogs. You had to line up and people were pulled out of line for “special” screening. Otherwise, it was really a fun cruise!
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I'm done with unprotected rimming
SoCalBBversbttm replied to verslut's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I too caught Giardia and Norovirus from rimming. Diarrhea so severe and often that I had to wear Depends diapers so not to keep soiling my sheets. I ended up in the ER with severe dehydration. When I was released, I got a call from the LA Health Department who asked me if I had been rimming…..I am a lot more discrimination on who or rim now. -
I have an enlarged prostate and peeing can get difficult sometimes ( both extreme urgency or extreme slow void). I was prescribed a drug called Flowmax. It helped urination, but it caused retrograde ejaculation. It was unnerving to cum and have nothing come out. Nothing. You ejaculate into your bladder. I stopped that medicine quickly. Fortunately there is another medicine that I can take that does not cause that problem (Flowmax doesn’t cause that problem for everyone).
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How important is cumming when you have sex?
SoCalBBversbttm replied to montyd's topic in General Discussion
I am the exact same way. I love to top, but when the bottom gets pushy and demands my load after a few minutes, it does make it harder for me to cum. -
Have you ever shared with him that you are Bi? If not, would you consider it and what might he say? If my Dad was Bi and shared that, I would think that would be something that would bring us closer given the stigma that some people have over same sex.
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Totally agree! The site I mentioned above is not just for chubs. There are skinny twinks looking to put some pounds on, guys into muscle and bulk wanting to be a muscle Bear, guys who are just into gaining weight because they want to and also encouragers and admirers of thicc guys. If these people want to put on weight, who are we to judge? I expect that after all the lockdowns, you are going to see a lot of studs with some extra belly weight and that in itself is hot! [think before following links] https://youtu.be/_S8Dc81rP60
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There is something hot about trim ex jocks putting on 30-50 pounds. There is a whole weight gaining community ( both muscle and fat and usually both). Take a look at Grommr.com. There is a mixture of weight gainers, encouragers and their admirers. This fetish is bigger ( ha) than you think. Good luck
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Woof! Hot boy! Take a look at “The Munchkin” from koalaswim.com. It is a chastity device that inverts your sick into your body looking like you had you cock removed as the front is totally flat. It comes with am optional urethra tube for peeing.
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How does anal chlamydia feel like?
SoCalBBversbttm replied to 1000GUYS's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I’ve had anal gono and chlamydia a few times. I never felt anything with gono in my ass, but chlamydia did burn/sting especially going to the bathroom. When I wiped, it felt like sandpaper and I bled a little. -
Nice! Tag team the Dad in 19J! Have his Poz son walk in on your and Tim’s gifting,
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I think I would too. People who were covid positive and then tested positive for the antibodies are being contacted for use of their blood plasma to use in a cure. So I think that that would make it safe enough. Maybe it’s wishful thinking on my part
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Just curious, what if a potential hookup told you that they had tested positive for the covid antibodies. Would you go through with the hook up?
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Great stories and writing! Hopefully there will be some story resolve for the married man and perhaps even his son!
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It is hard to find uncut guys who are into ripe foreskins. Like pit smell, it is unique to each guy but most seem to not like it. If you are uncut and don’t wash your hood for a couple of days can you smell yourself, is it that noticeable? One poster said he was embarrassed at public urinals when he hadn’t washed for a day or two that when he pulled I out his dick to pee he could smell himself and that others could too. Sounds like a nice problem to have to me. Just curious.
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I live in Los Angeles and the Mayor announced last week that while some things would be opening, “Safer at home” would continue to August. We started lockdown in mid March. We also have to wear masks while outside your home not just for grocery stores and medical offices - everywhere. My husband and I discussed bringing in a trusted third for an exclusive sex relationship. It would be a closed loop relationship for the three of us. He has also been quarantined and we feel that we can trust him. It would include all aspects of sex, including, Yikes - kissing. He is mulling it over, but sees no reason not to do it. It wouldn’t be forever, but until things get a little less crazy, it’s a form of safe play for the three of us.
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Querelle. Fassbinder film about a sailor. Very homoerotic. Stars Brad Davis who also did Midnight Express about an imprisoned drug mule in Turkey. Also very homoerotic.
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Loved the Laird! Spit N Polish was great! Hot Leathermen. My four way in my room was also hot! Love Aussies!
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Love it! Thanks guys!
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Understandably so. Sorry it was a bad experience. One upside staying there is that you get into Club 80 gratis. Cheers!
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Will be in Melbourne for two nights at the end of this month after being on the Atlantis New Zealand and Australia cruise. The cruise ends in Sydney, but I want to go to Melbourne. For the hell of it, I am staying at The Laird. Any info or tips you can share would be appreciated!
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The Body has a listing of the PrEP failure cases. Most of them are due to receiving a resistant strain, but in some cases, adherence was questionable. I totally get that there is no 100% protection and never thought there was. My question is, if these individuals were infected by strains that were drug resistant, you would think that there would be a lot more cases than the six reported globally. Why would that not be?
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Do your family and friends know you're a bottom?
SoCalBBversbttm replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
HardOne, did you have your prostate removed? if so, did you ever have anal sex before and now after how does it feel? If you were seeded, how does that now feel. Curious, family has a history of prostate cancer and I am on Dr's watch. -
Anyone else going? Any underground sex party’s you can share?
