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Geez, I guess I am doing it all wrong. I approach sex with men as a sub bottom with full on eagerness and entusiasm- or at least I hope that is what I am projecting. These guys who are bored or dull just don't seem like someone guys I know would want to be in- I give my best to read the top and throw the best fuck of the day his way. And quite often I will even show them to the door after sex- unless there is a huge load in my ass from them and I don't want to waste any of their DNA they were good enough to share with me- in which case I will explain why I am not jumping up. As far as the top- he just needs to be functional and hard and focused on cumming, sooner or later- all in his own good time. You guys hunting chicken should try some good aged beef- once you realize we know the skill of getting fucked it may just change your diet <g>

Thanks Buddy ! I have not had any writing from you in a while, and my loads have been backing up-- FINALLY I got a load off ! .Another chapter soon-of any of your threads ??For my balls sake??LOL

LOL- I just saw this resurface and went thru all the posts to see if I had answered this once in ancient history, but I guess I didn't. What pisses this cum slut whore off more than anything, and it just fukkin happened to me , again, last week on the back patio of the latin bar in Miami- you work on a guys cock sucking and nursing it and getting him all good and hard in a small group / throng. And I mean I was working- his 7 or slightly longer inch cock was planted all the way down my throat getting him ready for my ass- or at least for a load shot into my gut. I have him rock hard, and then- he pulls out from my throat, as I get up to bend over for him to enter me- he slips his cock up into some other guy who has been standing around doing nothing for his load. Ya know- if I went thru all the effort to get him primed, wouldn't Miss Manners agree i earned a reward in one end or the other??

Well, Happy June everyone- I only hope this month is as festive as May was for me. BTW- if anyone does Tumblr, I am on there with odds and ends pics posted- my user there is FuckMeDeeplyPlease.tumblr.com OK- so my totals so far this year are as follows YTD end of April May additions YTD total end of May In my ass 52 27 79 In my mouth 10 2 12 Fist taken (given) 55(3) 12 67 (3) Piss taken 10 xx 10 I was thinking May had been a bad month for me until I did the tally up- then I realized I was fucked half as much in May as I was in the first 4 months ! I guess my hole is just getting cock greedy(er)

Just an update to an earlier poster on this thread. ClubHouse II in Ft Lauderdale is now totally NON Smoking. And no in and out for a smoke break. It has not slowed the retirees from massing there for the free pizza and beer on Tuesdays at 10p,( by 10 30 the pizza is gone and most of them are checking out) or for the free beers on Thurs and Fri nites- but the bar closes at 11p and the guys who were there just for that tend to leave as quickly as possible too. That said-and I put up a post on page 391 of the last load thread-- I went to CH2 Sat night during their blackout weekend, and while I was planning to be fucked raw;a lot, by a top bud I had connected with there a week earlier- I got there before him, and as i explored the dark halls and discovered a sling in the (broken) steam room, a guy began using me- I hopped in the sling and he began working my ass and inviting others into it. I played in the steamroom, in the video room, and the dark hall with him ( and many others I never saw behind me) all the while he was calling me a slut and whore and cum pig and encouraging others to take my ass. Never saw the man before, and sadly got no contact info from him-- the raw fuck bud showed up during one of my walk/stretches, and he quickly took over using my ass and inviting other to use it as well. The idea here-- I went hoping to be used, expecting to be used, and was rewarded by being very agreeable to the 1st guy who saw my enthusiasm for being used as a slut. (As a side note- the raw fuck bud used my hole over and over-he had a felching buddy who kept eating out my hole between fucks-when I was alone and relaxing in the sauna the felcher spotted my ass doing nothing,came in the sauna and took up a seat on the bench above me- when a guy came in and sat to my side the flecher began berating me for not sucking the guys cock right away and nudging my shoulder with his foot- until I moved over and began deep throating the guy. As soon as I was on the guys cock, the felcher began telling the guy to fuck me in the ass- which the man did. So just by letting others know I was open to use, I got the use I was looking for. Stop being so picky, and stop going with reservations- go;enjoy and be greatful if anything happens, be elated if a lot of anythings happen ! <g>

dude- you are doing BUY BUY BUY-- as in plane tickets, food and booze--- when you really should be doing BYE BYE BYE-- the street has a curb for a reason- kick his mooching butt to it,turn and never look back

I have been on vacation the last 11 days, and other than a fast 36 hour run to Washington DC for a fist nite Sat, and hotel sex on Sunday, I stayed close to home the rest of the time. Last Thursday was my birthday and I had hopes (they were dashed ) for a huge fuck day-the internet was dead-a FF bud came by after work and fisted me fast and bred me .Right after he left, another FF bud hit me up wanting 2 hours in me- I cleared the time and he came over- spun.25 minutes of rapid fisting and using the biggest dildo right off, and he was headed out to take care of some errands. Friday was slow too, and I was bumming out. Then Saturday dawned , and I went to a local leather guesthouse and hung by the pool all afternoon. Some hot men, great eye candy. About 4pm, someone realized the afternoon was slipping away, and a fuck fest broke out all of a sudden.As I sucked on a latin 20 something, someone began fingering myass- then a cock took my ass, as he fucked, the latin slipped out of my mouth and some other cock whore was on it before I could relip it. No problem, some guy shoved his cock in my mouth and in 45 seconds flooded me out with his load. The guy fucking me shot, and a 3rd guy began trying to enter with his hand. I moved to the sling and he proceeded to work up into me,I hiked my ass up and he was able to really dig in deep. And then as fast as the sex energy hit the crowd, the scene began crumbling and guys began wandering off, heading out. The local sleazy bath was having a Memorial Day weekend blackout party. My ass was a little worn from being in the sun all day, but finally around 11pm I got a second wind and headed to the tubs.Nailed the last room-the halls were mostly pitch black, and I bumped my way back to my room. Dumped everything into the locker in the room, laid out some dildos on the bed for later, and in a jock and a jar of Grease, I went out hunting. The steam room has been out of order for over a month, so they club put a sling in it for the weekend.Black plastic on the windows to darken the room- I wandered in, and a 60 yr old Greek Daddy came in behind me.He grabbed my tits and pulled hard, pulling me to my knees and onto his cock. AS he twisted, I sucked and worked his cock.2, then 3 more guys wandered in- I hopped into the sling and he began fucking me - all the time working my tits and calling me a slut, a whore, pig, cum junkie. Telling me he was going to piss all over me, that I was a whore. He invited a couple of the men inthe room to take my ass-one did and quickly filled me up.We broke, and went for fresher air. 5 minutes later, I found him in the video area and went back to servicing his cock, as other men kept feeling my hole up or pinching my tits,until finally I was being spit roasted. Ahh, success. Leaving the room, a guy grabbed me and guided me to his room across from the video area, pulled my jock off and told me to kneel on the bed, and began fisting me. I grabbed the Grease and gave it to him- dry-ish fisting this early wasn't in the game. He greased up and owned my hole, punching it and stretching it . When we took a break, I went looking for more cock, and a man I had planned to be bred by had arrived. We moved to the back area and he began a 45 fuck into my ass.By now it was after 3 am, the 1st 2 guys were gone or asleep in their rooms- and the bars were closing. The fuck bud began running my hole- doing my ass in the steam room and inviting other to breed me( again, one did) Back in my room he had a friend eat my ass out, sharing the loads felched out with him.As he did, guys in the hall would be encouraged to come in-only 1 finally did. A little bear came by and pushed his paw up my ass, but by now it was so used and sore that the session was only fair, and did not last very long. I walked around, and went into the sauna- the felcher came in and sat on the bench above me; goading me on to suck the cock of the guy sitting to our left. The guy was 25 ish, rock hard ( allover) and stroking, so I moved over after a few foot kicks from felcher to get my ass in gear) and began sucking the guy. Almost as soon as I wass balls deep on his cock, the felcher began urging him to come around and fuck my hole,that I was a cum whore and needed loads. The guy got up and moved behind me- I braced and he began slipping in-so I reached back and pulled him to the hilt into my ass.He fucked for a couple of minutes, then pulled out and said he needed to rest for a bit-felcher went in and immediately proclaimed the guy had cum! Back out of the sauna, it was nearing 5 am and my entire body was tired, a cople of interesting Iranian short muscled guys speaking Parsi but they would only watch. The fuck friend spotted me and took my ass as I leaned over the back bar area, and after a 20 minute session he flooded my hole with his load. I made a walk around, but the rooms had all quieted down, my hole was throbbing, and i was really exhausted, so I packed up my things, grabbed a hot shower to degrease, and checked out. As far as I can count , I took 6 loads in my ass yesterday, 4 fistings, and 1 load down my throat--although I am confused about the last- I sort of recall a guy in the video room cumming in my throat also, but there were so many guys at that point ; so unless my brain clears about that detail, the lower count stands. And fuck, Sunday night, just heard form a cock pig bud out of Phoenix- he had a 14 inch black guy today- now my ass is hungry again and i am thinking about driving to the Miami latin bar for some more play

As others have already stated- I have a wrist wallet for my ID and money, and the phone has NO place in a bar or sex club. I often head south to Miami for patio bar sex, and with the wrist wallet holding ID and money, I tie my car key into my shoes- whether I am wearing sneakers or boots, I lace the key in and it is safe all night. Loose thin nylon type shorts and a jock, and a loose tank top- I can always slip the shorts off and flip them over the jocks waist band for safe keeping. IF i feel a need for lube, I have a small container the size of a Skoal can for about 3 oz of Grease that I can put in a pocket of the shorts, and once out on the patio I just carry it in my hand once bare assed. I don't know about other areas, but in Florida, you can retain an old ,expired drivers license when you renew- they do cut off a corner of it- but for taking into a bar or into the bushes, it serves the purpose of ID, yet if it does somehow get lost, you don't have to go thru the hassle of getting a new one for day to day use. Less is always more- and the less you have with you the less you are focused on where it is as guys are pawing and fingering you up- so you can devote all your attention to the superior top man you should be servicing

Oh fuck- just have to post- I did a sex cation -on day 4 of it now- and after getting it fisted twice on Sat night and the guy praising how well it opened right up and how hungry it was, he also mentioned how velvety it felt as he worked around in it. Well, he was horny and it was the heat of the moment I figured. Next day I put up fuck ads and hosted in my hotel room.First man over enjoyed my sucking style, then moved to my hole . He commented how smooth and buttery feeling it was, and proceeded to shoot his load- then as I worked his cock with my ass , he began fucking again and shot a second load. Afterwards, he told me he had not shot twice in years- but that my hole was so stimulating. Next guy in was more turned on by the bio tat on my lower back, so cannot say what was hottest for him- the taboo of my hole being marked or the hole itself. Later in the afternoon a black guy with a 9 inch cock came over, and was in it for a fuck and go. An hour later and after his fourth load, he thanked me and told me I had a wild fucking hot hole; that it milked and grabbed at his cock in all the right ways and places. Now back home, a guy who sometimes fucks me took my ass today- I know his preference is loose and sloppy- he loves to make the hole burp and fart air out that he is fucking in- so I worked my ass muscle loose, and he went at it- all I have ever gotten is a single load at a time from him- today he put two loads in, I think he was almost tempted to try for 3 except he had to work in 35 minutes. I don't think my hole has changed all that much- but maybe the life long experience of reading what the top enjoys and giving more of it and not holding back because it isn't comfortable for the bottom- basically putting 110% of his interest on the front and not trying to change him to my own expectations of what a fuck should be-- hell he is probably fucking me because his partner has been trying to change his style of fucking and he is tired of it. BTW- my "old" ass will crack 58 this week, and I think it is in the best shape and condition of my existence -- and I am certainly willing to let anyone interested try it <g>

2 suggestions. Take a hot bath with lots of epsom salts in the water ( 1lb box at the dollar store or the big drug stores usually have it in a 4 lb box that looks like a milk carton) This is also a great treatment if you begin to feel run down like a cold is coming on. As soon as you get out of the tub and dry off, put a big gob of A& D ointment into your hole and massage it around the ass lips as well. Do not get lazy and stick the opening of the tube into your hole and squeeze- you will contaminate the tube. I recently saw A & D in a 1 lb jar/tub - I would not suggest this container- way too easy to cross contaminate. I use it whenever my hole has had a very rougfh night/day week- and I am back inthe sling in a matter of hours. A good friend was ailing after a hard night of fisting, and was here on vacation and not wanting to be out of play- told him about this stuff, and now he travels with it all the time. This may be too late for the original posters issue, but may keep him in use down the road

I was in Barcelona and thought OpenMind was a GREAT pig sex place- 2 floors of playing- big area for water sports, slings, and the men all seemed more eager to play than to stand and watch. I have not been to Amsterdam for a few years- actually was trying to go over this week- but the flights are full and I cannot make the plane- but I absolutely LOVE WEB bar just off Damrak, near the Central Station. Nice play area upstairs- and the men are decent. Maybe I love it since there are fewer things to crack your head on, around the alley is Cuckoo's Nest with a dark playroom downstairs- dark, and studded with plumbing suspended from the ceiling ( at 205 cm -6'8" I think I found every pipe and sewer line in the basement !) That said, BOTH bars are great afternoon fun- then the Warmoestraat bar scene kicks up at night

Don't limit yourself. I am a cock slut for sure- back in the early days when I was 18 or so I thought anyone over 21 was too old and def not what i was after ( although I often was fucked by many guys way over 30 even then) As I got older, the upper range of guys I would do kept creeping- at 30 I felt like 40 was the upper limit of who I would do. But when a hard cock would appear , I never gave the age a second thought. So if you are ruling men out because they are old enough to be your Dad, then you are not a slut yet.If they have a cock, you WANT to do them, age or size is not even a factor. As far as WHAT you will do- be it sucking men off, getting fucked, piss play, fisting , bondage etc, it all is a path of growth, and not to be done as a challenge as much as a desire. Even at my stage, I will NOT do scat- maybe in 5 years I will not be able to say that- but there are some limits; areas I have no desire to explore. As others have written- if you have to be unplugged to do it, don't bother doing it. I got fisted 5 times in 8 hours one day of fist fest, and did it without any drugs, alcohol, or even poppers. I can recall every mans hand- the nuances of their style and which ones I would eagerly have jumped in the sling again for. If I had been altered, I might not have had that clear connection. And most importantly, if you are clear headed in sex, you are far more likely to have the presence of mind to sense danger and have an escape plan at all times

Well, another month in the books- and while the number of loads was dismal, the number of fistings was more than enough to make up for it ! LOL So this months numbers, followed by the YTD numbers, are Loads anal (taken) 8 / 52 Loads oral (taken) 1/ 10 Fists (taken) 19/ 55 Fists (given!!) 1/ 3 Piss (taken) 5/ 10 Fist Fest Ft Lauderdale the 1st weekend definitely helped boost the fist numbers, as well as a really hot dom twisted top that has been using my hole at the local sleazy tub the last 2 Fridays-- I just wish I could find men wanting to get sucked or wanting to fuck mornings - my current work schedule of going in at 2p really has cut into the chances of the late lunch players, and the mid morning just seems too complicated for most of the men around here.

1st off, he gave you most of your things back - INCLUDING your phone. Why keep the pants-- so you have to be shamed as you try to get home, or souvenier of another conquest?? DO NOT let him in your home.If he is sketchy or bi polar, you may sadly discover him stalking you or breaking in and stealing your things -- or sending guys over at all hours to be serviced by you ( sounds hot- but do you really want a crack whore on your doorstep as you sit down to dinner?) Does he show ANY concern about you as he is fucking? I have been playing with a total dom pig-kink top the last couple weeks at the tubs- last Friday was a 5hr+ session of total submission to his use and enjoyment- piss, choking,fisting fucking, skull fucking, etc. But- each time a little too much effort was used on his part or mine, he would immediately back up a step, check on my comfort, then ease back and return to where it had been, just a little slower and more intent on the path. After the 5 hours, and when I really was totally exhausted, he sent me off to shower up, then when I came back to his room, he pulled me onto the bed, laid next to me, and held me until both of us dozed off- not a romance- but aftercare from a scene. Sounds like this guy you are playing with has seen a few too many porn fantasy scenes and not lived kink sex as well in the real world-- the BEST sex is when you readily and unreservedly WANT to race back for more.. it sounds like you are not quite so much there

Hey men- went back to the tubs a week ago last Friday- it was crappy weather out and on Friday they have begun half priced lockers in the evening- so I got a locker and roamed. A guy at the back bar joined me for a beer, then invited me back to his room ( helped that I had customized my jockstrap band with fabric ink that said "RAW FUCK PIG" over and over LOL. Got in and dropped to my knees and sucked him hard, then he fingered my hole-it was prelubed and he took it and pumped a load into me. As is the norm, as he pulled out I went down to suck his cock clean of any lube or cum, about a minute into nursing his cock he put a hand on either side of my head and held me still- I knew what was to come, and soon enough he relieved himself into my mouth. We continued playing the rest of the evening, and I was fed his load and piss many times. Exchanged screennames, and next morning I looked him up, only to discover he was from out of town ( but not out of state at least) Dropped a thank you to him , and he sent back a note saying the place wasn't any fun after I left (awww) Stayed in touch during the week- and on Thursday he let me know he was racing home to finish up some work, and would be doing the 180 mile down for another Friday night- hoping I would be available. I was,of course, and met him at the tubs- ended up in service to him for over 5 hours, and this week he loaded my ass up very full of his beer piss - then had me hold it until he said I could hit the toilets--which was a challenge; they are at the back of the club, his room at the very front ! Made it without spilling any- but then once in the stall- only a little leaked/dribbled out. The rest of the night he fisted me, and the trapped piss would mix with the J Lube and make my hole really slick- and very loud as he punched in and out of it. I love kinky tops ! <g>

Hey guys- I was there in Nov as some of you may have read ( a little food poisoning mid week killed the last 3 nights for me ) I don't think this would be a violation , but RawTop forgive it if it is- I hunted hotel rooms for a couple of weeks on all the normal sites-Kayak, etc- and then stumbled onto a site off a gay bar link- Berlin.com The same hotel I had been seeing for $600 USD for 6 nights, plus taxes, was available on the Berlin site for a TOTAL of $312 for the same exact booking. Maybe I got lucky , as it was only 4 days out till my travel- but the price was a great price- and the hotel ( Quentin Design) was a 4 star- en suite bathroom too ! ( how nice when dealing with hosing out for play or when dealing with the runs ) The Quentin is in the Schoeneberg neighborhood- 4 doors to the left of its front door is Scheune bar, the leather/rubber store CODE is just next to the hotel, Kit Kat gay club is across the street. Reitzbar is ripe for raw action and is about 6 doors up from Scheune, Mutchmanns is 1 block up from the hotel (I was loaded 11 times and fisted 2x on my 1st night in the city in the basement of Mutchmanns <g>). For Landless and any others new to Berlin- at the airport, you can take the Airport city bus in to the Zoologic Gardens station, then get underground there and head up 2 stops to Nollendorf Platz station-- the gay zone is 2 short blocks up from the station, very easy to walk- and the same fare paid for the bus ( I believe it was about 3 Euro) works for the U Bahn ( underground/subway)

Hey James- to the best of my knowledge, I have never gotten even a sniff off here- although I do have my BBRT profile linked, so maybe the guys look at me here and then hit the BBRT profile and drop a msg there- Seems a little complicated tho- as of now there are 19 pages linked to this thread, and to find someone you have to crawl through all the pages until you find someone- and for the cum dumps, once you post up something, there is no way to change it , in case your work schedule changes or if you get a new number, like versbbbtm24 above did. It is a great idea, but just not manageable at this point

Maybe we all need to send KennyWi a note thanking him for the story, and promising up our hole to him for a few more chapters <g>

I was at Fist Fest Ft Lauderdale last weekend, and got my hole worked over 3 days. I sort of did a pre fest warm up with a great ff top bud, then the next afternoon as the event officially kicked off, he took my hole again for over an hour. At first it was a normal fisting, but as the sun (the sling I was in was out in the grassy area of the property and in the sun) heated up the lube in my hole, and as he began running both hands up into me knuckles to knuckles , I began slurping- at first I was horrified, but the huge grin on his face and the cat calls from the peanut gallery watching us relaxed me and I really got into the whole sound/sensory aspect of it. In fact, focusing on the sound of my hole slurping on his hands/arm, I lost track of where he was and he was able to go deeper in me than he has been able to up to that point ( that mental tape loop that I usually have running in my head of :is it still clean, how deep is he ??: was short circuited and I was much more relaxed, focused instead on - was that my hole or is there a cow stuck in the mud flowing thru my brain cells LOL)

I bought some at a local organic green grocer a couple of weeks ago - began taking them in teaspoon full size add ins to orange juice or to my yogurt- but after starting on a Thursday, I got home from work Sunday night feeling bloated and uncomfortable- about 5 minutes after getting home I had almost a food poisoning ( flash backs of my Berlin trip in November) explosive runs, then a fever set in and major headache- halfway through the night naseau hit and everything from the previous day came up undigested- next morning I called off work and slept most of the day- and still I was runny and it had a lot of chia seeds in the runs. After a 24 hr period it cleared and I was in great shape for the fist fest this past weekend- but I have held off going back to trying the chia until the fist weekend was over- just in case the gut issues were chia related , and not some 24 hr bug

Things are really off in Ft Lauderdale-- a "masssage" bud has only been averaging 1 or 2 rubs a day this season, where last year he was doing 4 and turning down 2 or 3 a day. I have shifted my days off from work trying to find days when more guys were maybe off or looking- but still slow- at least by my standard of measuring. So- as of March 31, I am now at 44 loads planted in my ass ( and yes; more fucks but if there is not cum-it doesn't count) 9 loads swallowed ! WTF- should be a MUCH higher ( since no prep time needed) number 36 fisting sessions receiving - and still 2 times GIVING !! ( I KNOW!!! Me, playing a top !! Things are truly fucked up!!) 2 pissplay session- and the one this month was deep up the ass at the tubs, after taking 4 fistings over the course of the evening. Managed to keep it in from the front of the club all the way to the back, where the toilets were- even then only a little would come out SO- if you read my post, and are in the Miami or Ft Lauderdale area ( I am just outside Ft lauderdale in a gay city) and are willing to help me get the number wheeel clicking- I need loads if I am ever going to get to an average of 4 a day - currently only running a 1 a day average- which is sub par for sure !

Hey Tiger- last I heard they were not in production- Raw has been busy with the other web hook up site and set the shirt project aside- still, I hope he comes back to it- would love to wear it to my gay Starbucks each morning as I cruise the men free balling their way in each day-- would certainly make coffee and cream a valid combination if I could score a cock a day

Just a question from a nervous bottom ( I ask my tops at least 3 or 4 times during a fist session of an hour or so if everything is clean) Do the chia seeds cause any excess gas , either initially or as an ongoing effect? I have been doing a CVS ( US pharmacy) probiotic that has turned my chute into tornado alley when I do it daily- I slowed it to every other day and the farts have slowed up greatly. I just sort of do not want to be a "wind machine" , especially in the sling or at work

I was at the tubs last Tuesday night and met up with a FF bud , our plan was to put on a show in the open sling room. Well, we did, and he had set it up for a bud to join in and take my ass as well. After 45 minutes we took a break, then returned and again left the door open and had a guy join in , so I was essentially fisted 4 times. He had to leave, but I stayed on- the place emptied out, but around 1 am a guy came in and I hooked up with him- he put me in the sling and fucked me with his PA'ed cock for a while. He asked if I wass into piss, and I of course said yes- basically told him my hole was in his control and there for his pleasure. He shoved in deep and held still, and I knew he was pissing in me. After he finished, he fucked me some more , and as he pulled out I hauled my ass and legs up high to make sure his piss went deep up in me (since the toilet was at the opposite end of the club. ) Anyway, I eventually got out of the sling, walked around and expelled a little of his piss, but not anywhere near the amount he put in. So, heres the thing, since then I have had some mighty foul smelling ( vinegar like) shits that have been "floaters" for lack of a better description. Just curious if others who get piss up the ass encounter a change in their bowels after a piss session??

If I may add a thought there-- I did PS for my birthday/Memorial Day weekend/Nasty Kink pig weekend last year. Lets be upfront about 1 thing-Palm Springs is wonderful- but from Monday morning thru Friday afternoon, it can be very, very quiet- and if you are staying at a gay resort shelling out big money, you should have a packed pool to admire. So, I stayed at a Motel 6 right around the corner from Warm Sands and the cruisy area and a block from the ToolShed. Yeah, the sheets are 150 thread instead of 600, and the towels are smaller- but the room is something like $49 bucks versus $150 or more at a gay resort. AND- construction crews and laborers tend to stay at a Motel 6 during the week when out in the desert on a project- so you might get some blue collar cock. Most of the gay spots have day passes; and special mid week days when they are busier. Helios on Tuesday from noon til 5p has a silver daddy gathering- $10 day pass and maybe 50 guys at the pool or play room. Wednesday the CCBC resort has half price pass day/night, so the guys tend to head there for the cheaper entry ( and the week I was there they had a noon BBQ included !) Once you get in and get a feel for the city, you will discover which resort is the one to hit on any given day-- and even if you go to a resort and pay $10 to hang by their pool and it isn't jamming- so what- at least you aren't paying out $150 for solitude when you are hunting sleaze. Now, ass far as weekends- I definitely would suggest doing one of the resorts- All Worlds is a blend of what used to be 4 gay resorts, they have quite a few drop in on day or night passes, and have a video /encounter room with a sling in it ( I got fucked 90 minutes on the Friday night of Memorial Day weekend in that sling) CCBC is sleazy throughout and the nature trail and video buildings are always a good hook up --and with the layout of the rooms up on a hillside, cruising is an aspect of the property . The local gay weekly is online and is the DesertDailyGuide usual url ending. With a car- 2 things non sexual ( mid week maybe?? things to def do if you love hikiing/nature. Just above and west from PS is Whitewater, and there is a road off the interstate that will take you up the canyon. Used to be able to park and cruise the stream, but it has been closed off - ahem- due to fire danger ( and the gay men fucking along the stream too far away for the sheriff to get to them has nothing to do with it )BUT follow the road all the way up to the end, and Nature Conservancy has bought the land at the top- you can park safely and for free, and hike up or down the stream at your leisure. You might be lucky to be there while the condors are nesting- or you might find your own wildlife along the pathways. Donations for the upkeep ARE ASKED but not mandatory. The other thing, esp if you are in from the UK- is to explore for a day all of Joshua Tree National Forest east of Palm Springs. You could spend a month exploring this natural resource- and only scratch the surface of things to see and witness up there. While not a cruising spot, I did score there as well <g> And, I suppose the Tram is in order- out on the north end of the city and at the top of the mountain, it is one of those items you do as a tourist so you can see the sight, experience the ride up, and maybe do some walking around the top of the mountain and see some things you can take back to home and tell everyone about PS- PS is in the desert, as are rattle snakes, so don't go reaching under a rock or tree branch without knowing whats under there- in 20 years of visiting PS I have SEEN 2 rattlesnakes, and thought I heard one in the underbrush along the Whitewater stream once. Have fun, take pictures, and come back again