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Hey men - I am thinking very seriously about going for it and getting a bio tat-- couple of things tho-- what would the heal time be- I will be doing MAL in 17 days, and I don't want to be scabbed up or worse- out of service- for the weekend . My idea is to get the tat below the jockstrap line, but above my ass hole- so the tail bone would be near- is this going to be a pain issue over, say, getting the tat on my ass cheek? The idea I had, and cannot make Windows Paint cooperate and reproduce worth a crap ( if you can , would love a clean copy ) is a triangle in red ( the universal caution symbol so I have have heard) with a black ink bio haz tat in the core- my very bad attempt to create it has been wretched- but it sort of looks like this : Since I have pondered this for years, and since many more of you have experience- please shoot me back any thoughts or suggestions ( yeah, even changing the design works for me) Once I do this ,I do not intend to try to erase it with lasers due to an "oops" should have thought of that issue

Damn! Talk about jumping the monkey- I was going to bring this up near the end of the month and carry on from last years counts ( 2013-New Year, New load counts) but since you have it rolling- lets all start posting- maybe near the end of the month for sake of convenience? And if Raxi doesn't mind- I would like to carry over one request-- IF HE DOESN'T CUM,IT DOES NOT COUNT!!!! had to work New Years Eve till 1 am NY Day, but about to spend a long afternoon in the sling getting my hole pried, plugged, and essentially popped open for 2014- hope EVERYONE has a great year of sex and cum! ANd see some of your cocks at MAL in a couple of weeks ! <g> ( One last thought- I am betting TotalAssPig will blow us ALL out of the water in less than a week- he is truly an amazing load gatherer!!

Oops-- read the title and I guess the first thing I need to do in 2014 is get my eyes checked-- thought this was a post for a COCK MONSTER.... or maybe I am just hungry for one <g>

Hey Raw- I am in the puffy mode this week-- I take anything thrown at my hole- big cock, fist, piss, etc- and it is never the same from week to week ! Last week was especially heavy work loads , a lot of lifting and straining. I had Christmas and the day after off, and got fisted by a guy with large to extra large paws on Thursday noon. He slipped right in, and there was not stress . Later that night I was fucked by a long dicked black guy, then by 2 or 3 other guys. A day and a half later I suddenly had puffy ass lips. Soaked in the tub the next day and put some A & D ointment on it and it is back to a tight lipped hole again. (BTW- try A & D if the puffy gets you- it really is magical ! My Alpha fisting trainer turned me on to it a few years ago) So I wonder- maybe the puffy lips somehow are connected to heavy lifting- maybe at the gym or work- the anal sphincter muscle may be responding to straining that happened long before sex did

Hmm , thought I had sent a reply but was doing it off the Tablet, so it may be lost in space - or worse So men, I started this thread almost a year ago, and have been amazed by the numbers some of you can produce ! I definitely have not had the same success as Totalasspig-- I want to be your apprentice!! OR at least have your job! - Anyway- since I will be working thru New Years Day, I doubt my numbers will change. And all of these are received numbers- I am 110% sub bottom, so I never give my load up Anal: 167 Oral 96 Fisted 72 and piss loads ( oral and/or anal) 20 All these numbers are ACTUAL encounters that resulted with CUM. If I took a cock and it never shot its prize, then it was not included ( my mantra- if it doesn't cum it doesn't count) SO- ******* You are reading this today-- how about YOU going out and getting a 2014 calendar and start tracking YOUR activity- and look for the New Year, New Load tally 2014 edition soon to be on a computer screen near you!! LOL-- Happy Fucking New Year men- I am hoping to swing in the New Years Day with a reg FF bud working my hole over-- and getting the year off on the right wrist. And- any MAL guys- hit me up - will be bent over in my hotel room and storing any DNA donations- I have 2 storage options- Oral or Anal, your choice and always open <g> Hoping to get a jump start on CumSlut23 and all the other sluts <veg>

On a serious moment RawTop- whatever you settle on- I hope it is something you can put on a T Shirt and guys can wear out in public- something identifiable to other members and yet benign enough not to get stoned by the morality squad at a Starbucks patio in the morning. BBRT had a decent white T Shirt with BBRTS.com on the upper left side and I can wear it out - guys on BBRT spot it and say hi- then they came out with a black T-with BAREBACK Real Time Sex going from side to side- a whole lot too in your face to walk into the supermarket wearing- BBBH could work as a subtle announcement- but I suspect BareBack BunkHouse or Brotherhood might just not float it in Des Moines on a Sunday morning - hell, I am in gay Ft Lauderdale and I would probably never wear anything that "in your face" out. Less is more for sure in this case

Had Christmas Day and the day after off from work this week- supposed to have spent the day in a sling on Christmas but the guy turned out to be a flake and never responded to any e mails CHristmas Day- even though his profile was online on BBRT-- ended up without a single drop of cum for Christmas. So on Thursday, a FB hit me up for my hole for his lunch break- I got hosed out and he came at noon, and after a little foreplay he put me in the sling and fisted me 30 minutes, then fucked a load into me. He left to get back to work, and I got online.Nothing, again! oI went south to Miami and to a friends house that hosts sex parties on Thursday nights- got there and the men were all pretty much idle- I did suck on a few cock and 1 high black guy fucked me in the sling, but he was too wasted to go the distance. Left there and went to the little latin bar in Miami and began getting lucky. 1st load came from a black guy who had just smoked a blunt- he had at least a 9 x 6 cock- he loved pinching my tit as he shoved the back of my head into his groin,forcing all his cock into my windpipe. He did that for about 10 minutes before I felt him tense and unload way back in my throat. He pulled out and left the bar. About 10 minutes later a thin/lean blatino came out on the patio- I positioned myself near and made my service orientation obvious- he fished out his cock- about 6 soft, and I began nursing him. He enjoyed his tits getting worked, and soon a rock hard 9 inches was in my throat. At one point we had 4 or 5 guys feeling around us, so I asked if he liked to fuck- he did, so I quickly bent over and he shoved in . Thanks to the earlier in the day fisting, my hole was more than able to take him, but I could still tell he was knocking on the inner sphincter - I pushed back and urged him on, and soon he was dumping a load up in me. I took his soft cock into my mouth to suck him clean, and damned if he didn't get hard again, and this time we did a lot of ass, then mouth fucking. Ended up with him feeding me the 2nd load. He split,so I went to the dark corner- slipped my shorts low below my ass and leaned over the counter of the unused bar-- and soon had a finger probing my hole, then a cock took my ass and pounded away and dumped in me. As he pulled out, he spoke to a guy next to him and that guy took my hole- not a big cock and he was pretty close before he went in, but I go this load in less than a minute. About then, the skies opened up and the patio crowd was forced into the covered area, making it a little too crowded for good play. I had one more beer, then decided it was time and left the bar-- but it definitely made up for the lost chances on Christmas

BBBH doesn't refer to me as a Bareback Butt Hole?? Oh damn, now I need to get rid of all those wife beaters I had printed up LOL

You know, I don't think there is really a "good" city to be a bottom in-- most gay guys like getting fucked, so the perceived bottom to top ratio always seems to be about 9 bottoms to the one very exhausted top. Look at any of the mega gay areas, such as my own Ft Lauderdale, Palm Springs, or big gay events like IML or MAL - there are countless bottoms eager for load after load-- and some do get used hard and often-- but the vast majority are seeking more than sucking :-(

OH NO !!! Another story written and abandoned-- sort of like Stepdad gets a Pig-- great beginnings, and then everyone left dangling-- I think there needs to be a panel established that rewards authors of stories, who actually finish the story line- with all the unbridled twisted sex possible- sort of an incentive to finish their writinggs

While yes, they seem to be hypocrites, remember they are running a business and have to do a fine line dance too. I stopped doing IML when they banned companies like Dick Wadd or Treasure Island or SX from the market because of the bareback nature of the videos. IML was obviously getting pressure from either the health department or self righteous people who only wanted certain things to be in their view finders. And yet, the man behind IML while standing at the podium preaching no drugs, no bareback, left each day to collect the proceeds from his not so sanitary bathhouse- Mans Country- where drugs and raw are everywhere. But, by standing there, he may have been able to fend off any further pressure and incursions by the morality squad. Its pathetic, but a part of where we are. Here in Ft Lauderdale, our local sex/bottle club has had AHF panting at their door about the unsafe sex going on in the club- to the point the club actually wen tin and remodeled to make it less blatantly a suck and fuck place . And fact is- AHF runs the STD testing clinics and probably has a lot of the guys testing positive for a STD saying they have no idea of who they contracted it from ( although they most likely do) and instead will say they were at a sex club or bathhouse- so there is no embarrassment of a health dept worker calling up a trick and saying Joe Blow has Gonno and he may have gotten/given it to you. So the tubs and sex clubs have to be more defensive- because others are hunting them,rightly or wrongly but frankly- the CumUnion parties always came off as a voyeurs venue and not as much group rolling sex

Like FF Whole posted- my hole can take a fist, hell in one session with a good trusted bud I took his balls,cock AND fist in - it is all about the head and relaxing the muscle. That said, the same head can contract the muscle and squeeze a condom off a guy who insists on using them- so if there is a really out of control sloppy hole, I would have to say the guy just is not exercising the muscles to keep it toned . Now, like today- a fist bud is coming over at 4p to slop my ass out big time- I ought to have a really loose and rosebudded hole by 5 30p. Then a guy who has been making advances on my hole wants to come and use my hole- but he only wants it wide open and sloppy, and loaded - so for him there is nothing too loose. After he gets his pleasure, I figure I will be hitting the latin bar in Miami and trying to keep the breeding going- I have a lot of loads to catch up on this month !

Well, I live in Ft Lauderdale , where it seems all the boys retire to after the semen screen. In a bad impression of a top ten list, here is my impression of ex porn star careers here: 10 Yard care specialist 09 Pool care specialists 08 dog walker/pet sitter 07 sales clerk, Macys 06 sales clerk, sex store 05 airline job- flight mattress or for the butcher guys, ramp agents 04 waiter, probably a gay focused restaurant ( and generally tied in to a gay bar too) 03 escort 02 bartender- if still hard and fit one of the trendy bars,if softer, one of the piano bars more popular with the retirees and the number one career post porn................................................. 01 "massage therapy , with complete muscle release- $50 extra for outcalls <g> If anyone ahs any other input, feel free to update ! LOL

Hey RawTop- just curious how the experimentation is going-- and, do you think you will have any printed up and out in time for MAL 17-20 Jan ?? I will be doing it this year again, and def would love to wander the market and halls with the T shirt on and advertising. OK, might wear a 665 Leather T to the market one time and wander thru the Mr S booth- scored a free Mr S shirt last year doing that <g> ( fuck, I really am a whore for freebies)

Ok men, November had heart promise early on, 13 ass loads in one night my first night in Berlin, and then food poisoning hit at the end of day 3 and for the next 3 weeks I was totally cum less. So that said, I am now at 156 loads planted in my ass, 91 loads swallowed, 66 fistings, and 20 piss loads. For v those guys not taking inventory, a new year is close, time to get a calendar and begin taking cum loads for2014 !! And as a side bbar, I never include a non cum fuck or guy who let's me suck, but then does not cum, or my count would be at least doubled, if not more

Ah, NL Bear- now you have discovered what the men of Ft Lauderdale have known for ages- warm weather and swinging free---nothing better, unless you happen to be sitting out on the patio of the Starbucks in the gay town of Wilton Manors and can watch the morning parade of guys either just crawling out of bed and tossing on fleece or nylon shorts , or the men coming in from the gym- almost everyone is swinging and showing- def can identify the cut vrs uncut men LOL

Damn- I was in Berlin 3 weeks ago- only made it to New Action Friday night - it was a skins weekend and the bar was def a skin attitude- managed to get skull fucked but nothing else- then got hit with food poisoning shortly after leaving the bar- never saw the basement -- where was the door to it?? As for Bull- never made it late night, but my 1st day I arrived in too early to checkin the hotel so left my bag and wandered the area, went into Bull at 9am and there were 4 or 5 hustler looking boys in there- 1 passed out on a bench,1 sprawled in front of the video gambling machine. Later that evening I went back, had another beer and now free of pickpocketable items did the darkroom- managed to suck on 1 guy, but it was too early and there were only a couple of non hustler guys in the back. If anyone is headed to Berlin- the website Berlin.com had the BEST hotel prices I found- I was at Quentin Design Hotel for %52 USD a night and it was a 4 star hotel !! If you just want a crash bed, the Hotel Vu ( I think thats correct) is located immediately between New Actions door and Bulls door- so even in the foulest coldest weather you can be 5 steps to either bar from the hotel door

There was just a news item in the local paper today ( Sun-Sentinel.com) reporting the incidence of gay men having unprotected sex has crept up in the last 5 years, from 47% saying they have had unprotected sex to something like 52% admitting to risky sexual actions in the latest survey. Draw whatever conclusions from it you may- the men asked were mostly in for free testing at various organizations doing HIV or STD testing. Perhaps those numbers are skewed a tad since these guys are sexually active enough to realize they need to get tested

Good luck on the healing path. Just passed the 5 year anniv of having signed off the hospice papers for end of life on him- a task I was asked to do by him after our split. My final gift , resolution for him. You will always have a soft spot in your brain where it involves him. You will crave to reach out because while, as you say, it was toxic- it is familiar. And, you both have very common experiences and memories that each other can fill in blank spots on when one of you forget. But, you have to move forward and do your own life independent of his input- when you think you might have found someone, remember any relationship is not 50/50. You have to put 100% into it, and so does the other person. Best wishes- now- bring that cock round this way and fuck me - I can def help you forget whats his name <g>

C'mon mate- Ft Lauderdale is THE place for some nice Aussie Bum like yours ! HUGE gay population, an entire city geared to the gay economy ( some of the prettiest commando cock shows ever on the patio of Starbucks in the morning) Easy flights in and out all over the US- and from Miami ( 30 minutes away) the entire world is a plane trip off-- besides- you would be so much happier naked 99% of the time than covered in long pants and sweaters - like you would have to be almost every where else ! LOL

Hell, If you have not tested in almost 2 years, and been playful - I'd say buy any life insurance and any long term disability insurance you want now, while you can honestly tick off the box NO to HIV/AIDS. Once you get tested and are poz, kiss most insurances good bye ! Only bright spot- my union provides the members with some $3000 policy - as a come on for the insurance company to get a foot in and up sell the members with lots more insurance- when I sent the card in claiming my policy, of course a salesman had to drop by to "finalize" the policy. As he tried to upsell me, I finally had enough and told him I was poz, had been for 20 years, and his company would not insure me any further than they were obligated. He stopped in his spiel, finished the paperwork for my union policy, and left within 5 minutes-- I should have dropped it on him earlier and saved 20 minutes ! LOL

Had a similar event at the back patio of the latin bar in Miami- sucked a guy who was standing, no issue, we moved to a corner and when he pulled his pants down and sat, and I went to go down on him- EWWW POOO!! Nothing on his cock, but obviously he had a slider that was caked on his hole or something- -worked him, but what a foul event

Could rape fantasies for so many be an excuse- they fantasize about extreme things occurring to them, without them actually being responsible? They would never do XYZ, but in the rape fantasy it is OK- since they cannot consent? While what HMR endured was not fantasy or pleasure- what I think most men hold as a rape scene is the enacting of dark thoughts with a free pass for thinking or living them out

Man, I am a pussy I guess- I can take an extra large fist, but the idea of burning my flesh makes me cringe-- and all i can think of is the after ache from branding. (the headache, feverish feeling, tenderness, ) It would really have to be one hell of a scene to get my head wrapped around this- but to just walk into a tat parlor, sit down and say - brand me-- wow