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Well it was a bit of both lol. You see I’m hairy fit very masculine guy. So guys tend to either love it or hate it. I had a lot of guys not interested but also many guys who are very interested. Also there were about 30% tourists from other countries and I played with them also. The benefit of having a specific look 😉

I think the main thing to consider for you is usefulness. I wouldn’t pay for something unless it has enough active users. So how many active users are you noticing on each app? I pay for Grindr but I am grandfathered into a cheaper yearly price so I don’t think I would do it at a full price now except for individual months where I would use it a lot. I guess you should use both apps for free for some time and see how much you end up using them. If you like the free version, consider paying for more, otherwise forget it.

As a bottom I agree and I don’t get to do it often enough. My favorite thing in a sex party once the action gets a little quiet is to find another bottom or whoever has a yummy ass and just go to town for 20-30 minutes. If he’s loaded… 💦🤤🐽 even better.

Surprisingly accurate, I noticed I do almost all of those things frequently. Clenching on out strokes, verbal feedback, and trying to meet thrusts when appropriate. Though here you should remind ChatGPT that the bottom should read the tops guidance on staying still or moving to avoid the situations discussed where the top just wants to take control (for example doggy), otherwise great summary!

You are both right. I also had useful feedback from tops about what to do and not do and like @Luvbbslut said a lot was to let the top keep control and respond to his direction. Including staying still when he wants to do his thing, very important! I think a lot of guys that top don’t always understand that pounding in doggy is only effective to the point you bottom out in your bottom. When you go further you just push the bottom away. Anyway, good discussion 😹😈

Yes of course this is what happens in a hookup and it’s completely unproblematic. But the issue is more at a sex club where you’re on your knees and guys are taking turns… lol

Yes totally this 💯 My big issue is though that many tops will pound very hard without gripping the hips properly so either you use a bunch of muscle to counter that (fine for a few minutes) or his falls out of your hole because he slammed into you and pushed himself out. Super frustrating when tops don’t get this basic fact of physics 😹

Yes in the 4am blaring loud techno fuck music where you have to speak very loudly to hear it’s a bit difficult to play the mediator when you’re ass up getting fucked and 18 loads in your ass 🤣😈💦 but I agree with the sentiment!

That horny rabbit is at every gay event and every place where bb fucking happens i swear it 🤣 I was the next night out at Construction so definitely didn’t see you yet 😉 good job so far

When the load is very big you feel it as a silky lube liquidy feeling inside you. The same from taking about 4 or more normal loads gets you there as a very big one. I’m on vacation now in Gran Canaria and at least half the time it’s feeling wet like that. Several cum fart accidents 💦. Otherwise it’s what the other guys wrote here, you feel the pulsing of the dick with your ass, fantastic feeling.

We had the same tops then and competition for loads 😉 how many did you get? 🐽

I’ve tried a bunch of different options but my general preference as an easy access apartment complex / hotel since I host so many hookups typically. Also, close to Yumbo obviously since you’ll get guys leaving lunch or having an afternoon drink etc. that want to come and dump their load. I’ve also visited a bunch of different places for the same reason and up to 50% of places will have an open front door with minimal or no reception and no key card in the elevator (At least from 8am-late / midnight). Some surprising examples of a place that does not live up to this rule is the very gay Axel hotel, so I would not stay there 🙂

Haha yeah not all nights are the same and I was definitely one of the most popular bottoms that night which is a confidence boost though I felt a bit bad about it during the end when the small line of guys was jerking off waiting to breed me and not fucking the 2 bottoms next to me. It’s not always like that but I find that with confidence and showing you enjoy yourself when you get fucked that it attracts more action and more cum and so it goes 😉 💦🐽

It’s become a tradition for me that I hope to keep as long as possible to travel to Gran Canaria for NYE and an extra week into January. I will link to those tales at the bottom of the post as it helps me keep track. Also I posted a quick status update previously but after reviewing the night I miscounted the load tally 2 lower than it was. Let’s get started with the basics for those that don’t know. Gran Canaria is the biggest gay travel destination in Europe, even before Berlin as in Gran Canaria there is no escaping all the horny gays in Maspalomas on the south coast. Maspalomas has a gay epicenter with tons of gay bars, drag shows and cruise clubs. So let’s dive into the title. I went to bed with 20 loads 💦 in my butt after a successful day / evening. It started in the late afternoon with a repeat with one of the best dicks in town. A sexy Spanish top that’s very hung but also his dick is so beautiful you just have to look and admire. He eased in after a little sucking to start it off. He loves my ass so it took him only 7-8 min to cum a big load inside me. I’m the self appointed king of home daytime hookups on these trips so I continued Gods work into the evening. Then followed a series of 5 hookups. One disappointing as he couldn’t cum (too tired to) and 4 others mostly nothing memorable but it did get me a few loads. Then followed the last hookup before going out and this was another highlight. A bottom staying close by needed to cum so I arranged to come over. Turns out he has a very nice dick and when bottoms fuck each other like that there is something about the mutual understanding for giving the load and no pressure from the receptive bottom on the performance. So there are no games. He was a sexy Brit and after kissing for a bit we started the fuck, a super nice 12 min fuck where he ended cumming tons deep into me. I’d say equivalent of 4 regular loads. After this I was invited to a local sex party from a top I got to know last year. He had another top and a verse guy and they wanted to have a little fuck party for the «early ish» evening, until a little after midnight. It was a fun and relaxed party. I got 2 loads during the party. We tried all sorts of combinations with sucking and fucking and did a couple of DP to open me up, was very fun. Now at this point I definitely had got enough (if you’re keeping track it’s 8 loads and lots of action) but the marathon bottom I am decided to end the night at Construction, one of the main Cruise Bars. I got there around 1:30 and it was busy AF but guys were both coming and leaving. I circled the area one time and decided to set camp in the brighter part of the darkroom where there is a big mattress often with 4-5 bottoms getting fucked. It was comparatively empty despite the crowd so I knew it would be a smart choice. The first hour or so I played with 4-5 guys. Each one took their time and only one of them came. Then a little bit later I was audibly fucked and cum into with a big load from a sexy muscle man. This was a turning point as we slut bottoms know that one load leads to another often and at this point it was getting well known that I had among the sloppiest asses in the club. 5 tops in a row who all had seen me get fucked and bred by someone fucked me and came within about 5 min of starting the fucks. The men were enjoying the show and I was becoming the clubs unofficial cumdump. It slows down for a moment and at that point a guy fully clothed walks in and goes int a corner. There was something about him so I walk over and start to feel him up and get the silent approval for going for his dick. I suck him off a bit but he was keen on fucking so we got right to it. He of course immediately noticed how fucking wet I was and commented on it. It made him super horny so he was cumming hard within a few minutes. We had a little talk after and he asked me «how many loads» to which I replied «15 with yours now» which made him immediately very horny again. We took a short bathroom break and he gave me a second fuck and came again. After that he positioned me in a place where you had a good view and was advertising my ass with 16 loads in it to the now thinning crowd and was whoring out my ass for about 20-30 min where several guys were enjoying fucking the now very open very wet with cum hole which netted 3 more loads until he himself gave me one final small and 3rd load. At this point it was about 4am the crowd was thinning so it was a perfect ending for me and I happily went to bed with all that remained of the 20 loads taken. 💦🐽 You can happily read my older horny tales of whoring and taking loads here from last year: And here is the one from the year before that again:

It was a year of ups and downs for me. I was out of commission for 5 months from a herniated disc in my back with virtually no sex, then I had some nice vacations with a lot of sex. Started the year with 2 weeks in Gran Canaria and 80 loads, wrapping it up in Gran Canaria so far with 20 loads after 3 days of fun. Ive discovered that I prefer it this way, to have some downtime between the crazy marathon sex trips getting fucked for hours, double penetrated, bred by 10+ guys in a day. I ended at 320 loads for the year. So it averages out to almost 600 if I had the same activity during my injured period. That’s very good for me 💖🐽 Of course I want to get a higher number in 2026 and I know I will, but also I like connecting with the men that fuck me so I can have vacation breeders and 3/4 somes at home. Happy 2026 and breeding and loads and other sex goals you may have you filthy fuckers 😈🐽

Yes this is the point. It’s not meant as a «you should do stuff because of your duties» but rather that I don’t feel good about myself when sexual desires are dominating my priorities all the time. It’s something to integrate in your life which usually means doing a little less of it than you wished. That being said I went to bed with 9 loads in my ass after a night out in Gran Canaria 💦🐽

There is a natural balance of cumdumps and breeders and they need each other for mutual satisfaction 😈💦

I guess i would say im a reluctant cumdump. I fully love it, so much that I love it the most when blindfolded. But I worry about losing myself in it since it feels soooo goooood. is it something I enjoy more than anything? Yes. Is it something that gives me purpose? No.

My hole is very sensitive to even small sensations so I almost always feel a guys dick spasm when he shoots inside me. I also often feel the cum as a slick feeling plus the slightest feeling of being filled. Of course with several loads you definitely feel it and need to keep it inside or all the precious babies get spilled outside 💦💦💦

It’s very fun, it has analytics functions- I work as an analyst so it’s fun to review the breedings per fucks ratios and so on in scientific graphs lol.

I’m using an app called Bigger Black Book, short BB Book. You register your encounters and then you can just add a bunch of randoms or list fuck buddies and then keep track of whatever you feel like recording. Im keeping track of loads and also I register group encounters, 3somes, and double fucks. my load count so far this year is about 300. I didn’t have sex for 4 months out of the year because of a back issue so it’s over average for me.

Nice, yes I’ve also noticed my own loads becoming bigger with supplements, though I am unfortunately one of those that has small loads. But I think @11bi11guy said it best, it’s the combination of hydration, general condition, and horniness. I always do feel special when a guy says he came big and I guess there is some truth to that 😉

So I was about to write up a little last load encounter with a frequent long time fuck buddy. It was just very hot, I arrived to his place lubed with a load so he slid into my welcoming hole and was enjoying the warm feeling and lube around his dick (his words). Since he was so horny (and so was I) he didn’t last more than about 5 min but piston fucked for about 30 seconds before spasming in a big long orgasm inside me. He said that the orgasm was extra intense and so his load was bigger or than usual. I feel very full now and have a hard time keeping all of it inside (I’m headed to a Christmas party with the 2 loads inside me). My question to you guys what makes your loads bigger and have you had hot connections like this where the load seems to be extra big? What determines the size of your loads especially when they are larger than usual?

Looks like I’ll be going next summer on the La Demence cruise. I hear it’s just one big darkroom and public sex scene after dark 😉