jeff238
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The cattle are jealous...me too -
Sounds like another useless social construct to me. Much like a person in a religion showing how noble they are by denying themselves, and others who they have control over, physical pleasure, or other needs. The irony being, that they put themselves in situations where people are looking for the exact thing they aren't willing to participate in. Why would you go to a car lot, specifically to NOT buy a car. It's insane. Whatever excuse they use to not participate is just a lie, and probably has ties to autism. Im not saying they should be shamed, but they should get psychiatric help, not to force them to participate, but to focus on more positive endeavors. Send me all the hate you want, on this opinion. It doesn't change the fact that it isn't healthy behaviour. I wouldn't engage with it in the apps, or in person either.
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Sounds logical. Im not one to notice what everyone else is doing, more focused on the hunt I guess. The feedback/rating thing I'm totally on board with. Maybe as you say when the phones are in close proximity it would be automatic with AI assistance, such as how long the phones were near each other, how often they meet after. That kind of thing. Then when you logged in to the site at some later time, you couldn't contact anyone till you rated your last meeting. Maybe even a weighting system, like leaving a good rating would be worth 1.1 points and a less than good would only be worth 0.9 points. Maybe you get the same number of points as you awarded the other person. Just spitballing but accountability is something the internet sorely needs.
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There are some stories on xnxx.com.
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I was on a few apps over the years. Some disappeared, some just quit being of any value. The last two, A4A, BBRT were just flakes and bots. I did get a bunch of shit when I went on PrEp, so that was a thing. Seemed like I only got useless questions that were already answered in my profile. Pic collectors, one word answers, and of course bots. I deleted the last two nearly 10 years ago. It's interesting to me that early days of apps, were very productive. I have always been baffled why it changed so drastically. The first app I tried was gay dot com. I had a hookup with a cute 19yo within 20 minutes. Bear in mind, that I live in a very rural area to boot. What happened???
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A 12 x 7 silicone cock. It's only the second toy I have purchased. It wasn't a good choice. Too stiff, has this weird bend just below the head, which i couldn't see in the box, and no suction cup end.
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Thanks for the acknowledgement Alex. It's always nice when you don't get hate for everything. The vetting process is frustrating at times. At a bathouse or some spontaneous venue is always going to be a crap shoot. On line is somewhat easier, but has its own problems. Im probably not saying anything new. Since I'm an INTJ, I try to research as much as I can, both actively and passively. I like long encounters, so it's worth it to me to spend some time gathering data. It's not as clinical as it sounds. I am often disappointed when I discover that a possible partner crosses a hard line that I have set. For instance, I used to like Asian guys, but for whatever reason, in my experience they are very guarded, and so are hard to get to know. My latest interest, in the last 5 years or so, is black guys, not for the mythical "BBC", but they have most of the physical features i find hot. The problem for me is that I live in a place that have virtually no POC. Sure I could drive up state and find some, maybe. I'll leave it at that. It's hard to articulate. I'm at the age where it's just not as important to play the game as it used to be. So I just have to be satisfied with living vicariously.
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He was 19 and about 7" and slightly on the thick side. Cut, straight as a string and hard as diamonds. It hurt but not too bad. Came in me, and blew another in my mouth. His cum was soooo good. I was about 40 at the time. A hookup off of gay.com lol.
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I'm right there with you guys. When I want sex, I want sex. Not worrying about messing with drug bs, limp dicks, or other distractions. I want skin on skin, all the time, long sessions, and whatever we want. No psychosis, no complications.
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Prostate issues from bottoming?
jeff238 replied to Alexpdx's topic in HIV/AIDS & Sexual Health Issues
I am of the opinion that blood flow, through whatever mechanism, is critical to all organ health. The blood is what carries waste products away from all organs. Lack of sexual activity, ie maturation therefore can't be a good thing. Locking your organs in chastity is just asking for trouble. I have live by the adage "a load a day keeps the PSA away. Just A thought. -
Just got blocked here in washington state. I access BZ almost exclusively on my phone, who is also my ISP (on a separate contract). I got blocked while using the phone's network, as opposed to my internet via cellular gateway. I switched the phone to wifi, and all is good. Phone network shows me in Idaho. Lol not bloody likely.
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Had it happen twice to me. Once on an A4A hookup, poz guy, he was in a big hurry to get done before his grandmother got home from church lol. He also used coconut oil for lube. Hurt like Hell. He was kind of freaked out. I just left. The other was at a gay campground. I cleaned out before i left. I'm usually good for a good while. By the time I picked up my friend and gear and drove the 4 hours, then I got hit on by a big black guy at the party, and told me to meet him after. Found out in the mean time he was a porn actor. After the party, we got together, and I found out what I was in for. One of the biggest cocks I've had. Barely could get the head in my mouth. I was kind of nervous since it had been so long since I cleaned out. Not that I had a choice. No way to clean out without using someone else's permanent camp that had shower facilities. The water in the creek was off limits due to giardia (sp). Sure enough, once he got past my second ring, he stopped and pulled out. He wasn't freaked out about it but went to the shower he had to clean up. He told me to wait for him, but I got tired of waiting and left. Sigh. Could have been epic.
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Absolutely not. I will never cruise parks or whatever, so there is no chance I will have to interact with a cop. Same goes for religious types in positions of power. All.a super.hard no.
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Beards. The longer and scraggly the more of a turn off. Also really long hair. Hate it hanging in my face when I bottom.
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One report said he was $200k behind in his rent.
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Look up piriformis syndrome. Less likely for @fitlad, more likely for @WRV. It's super easy to self treat and no down side if it doesn't help. I had those sciatica issues for years. Found out about the piriformis <sp> muscle issues, and it was life changing. Good luck.
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Smooth for me.
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How unusual is it for a bottom not to use poppers?
jeff238 replied to backdoorjimmy's topic in General Discussion
Tried them once, and just like pot, had no noticeable affect. -
Have you ever thought when gays discovered fisting?
jeff238 replied to Gingerguy's topic in General Discussion
I remember the original Caligula. Had it on VHS. Jacked to it about a million times. I think the scenes in the "boat" were my faves. That was a long time ago. -
I have witnessed this at a couple places I worked at. IT NEVER WORKS, PERIOD. If you work at any kind of medium or large company, there will be an HR department in the mix. Then things are out of your control. It's a dumpster fire at best. There is an old adage. Don't shit where you eat.
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I'm whatever the situation calls for at the time. Versatile and bi. I want lots of body contact. I tend to go after younger guys in the twink to Jock range, just because they are more likely to be Versatile and can go a few rounds. Anonymous, as in glory hole, head down ass up, blindfolded, and the like is of no interest to me. That said, I'm 5'4", so if I happen to connect with a tall guy, I usually just bottom, but it's rare.
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Interestingly, I AM in the PNW lol
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This didn't happen to me, but I saw it on a Craigslist ad one night. The guy wanted you to come to his house, door unlocked, come in and go to the kitchen and find a little wooden toy airplane sitting on the counter, then jack off and cum on the airplane, while he remained upstairs and not seen, then let yourself out. To sweeten the deal, he offered 3 hard boiled eggs in the fridge, as compensation. He also had a picture of the cute little airplane in the ad. I laughed so hard, I was useless for the rest of the night. Another one. My friend, a top, had a guy that wanted to come over, get naked, lay face down on my friend's dining room table, while my friend made a tossed salad with specifically Italian dressing on the small of his back, and eat it. No sex, just salad.
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Kissing. Lots of it. Ass eating, lots of body contact, then anything goes, and goes, and goes. I try to get with versatile guys so the sex lasts longer. I would rather stay away from anything that gets in the way of body contact. Love guys (or girls) with lots of energy.
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what am I doing wrong? (be nice in your replies haha)
jeff238 replied to a topic in General Discussion
I would guess by default, she was fishing. I did relate to the freeing nature of being naked. I did the same thing most of the time. On the other hand, in our company, she was in the department that could be considered "the police", so who knows.
