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It makes sense because the give the impression to the top that the bottom is not enjoying the fuck. While getting fucked I prefer to talk dirty about the fuck itself, "I like to feel your cock inside me" or "I like it when you go deep", and only later when I'm certain the load is mine I mention the load with something like "I'm going to open up my hole to receive your load".

I think that for me it depends on the situation. In a one-to-one situation I'm strictly a bottom and I'm not interested in swapping. At a sauna, where the environment is kinkier 99% of the time I'm strictly a bottom but I would occasionally fuck a hot hole and dump my load if the right situation presents itself. I was once at the sauna GI-Joe in Montreal and had been bottoming for a while in my room and decided to take a break. I went for a walk and came across a hot young guy being fucked on one of the public slings. I watched 3 guys breeding him which made me so horny that as soon as the 3rd guy pulled out I approached the hole leaking cum and rammed my hard cock into the wet hole. I didn't last long. But in general I don't switch roles.

I agree. For me getting fucked has never been about that. Most definitely. An important part of bottoming is to be able to control the ass muscles and adjust to the shape and size of the cock. Also, a good bottom should know how to apply the right pressure on the cock needed at the time. If a guy tells me that he doesn't last too long fucking I then loosen my hole so he can last longer. I find that topping can easily be replaced by a good jerk-off session.

Fuck, no!

I had a fuck-buddy like this. Without pulling out he would continue, get hard again and fuck for quite a long time before cumming again. I really enjoyed the long second fuck but when I was home. But at the sauna, I still enjoy the fuck itself, feeling the hard cock going in and out of my hole, but don't mind a short fuck before the breeding. At the sauna I actually love a quick fuck before the breeding. So it all depends on the environment

Have you heard of something called a fetish? I have that fetish and love getting fucked by BBC. There was a black guy that used to breed me every time we met at the sauna. I loved getting fucked by him because he would keep thrusting after shooting his load, get hard again and breed me again.

Same here in Canada. It's annoying to see a sauna with slings but no decent place to cleanup. I think that it's even bad for business because guys who like having a clean hole can't go directly to the sauna from work or meeting. My local sauna offers a room with a sling for hard pounding but the toilets really bad. The only exception is Steamworks in Toronto which has nice toilets with a water attachment.

I like sucking any anon cock, especially on a gloryhole. But my preference is for uncut because I know how to service an uncut cock. Some guys don't know how to handle an uncut cock and they suck on it as if it were cut. I like playing with the skin and I'm careful with the tip because some uncut guys are4 too sensitive. I love it when I'm sucking an uncut cock at a gloryhole and he pulls out to avoid shooting his load, but then he's back minutes later and I know that he enjoyed my technique.

Once I know the top is at the point of no return I like to talk dirt with stuff like "Go deep when you shoot your load" or "I'll open up my hole to receive your cum". Once I know his load is mine, to avoid the top from pulling out if his cock gets too sensitive, I relax my hole and let him go deeper if he needs more friction. Some guys' cock gets too sensitive, like a top I knew who would start shacking while shooting his load.

I think that there are a few things at play that may affect the role when fucking. Maintain hard-on: being able to keep a good hard cock increases the chances of wanting to top. Guys who lose the erection tend not to top Control Orgasm: Guys who can fuck for a long time will most likely want to top Stigma of bottoming: Many guys associate bottoming with a woman's role Fear of shit: Some guys don't like fucking for fear of finding poop. They clean their hole but not everybody does Excitement of witnessing another guy orgasm: When most guys cum they lose interest in sex. The bottom can "feel" an orgasm by witnessing another guy's orgasm So, if a guy can maintain a hard-on and fuck for long periods of time (1 & 2), he will most likely be top or at least versatile. Some guys who associate bottoming as a female role (3) they will likely not bottom. Some guys don't like the idea of finding shit in the manhole so they don't top. The main reason guys bottom, and is the reason I bottom and enjoy getting bred, is to witness the guy's pleasure as he pumps his load. At least in my case when a guys loads my hole I feel in-love and enjoy his orgasm as if it were mine. The difference with having a real orgasm is that I stay horny and even hornier with the load in my hole.

I wouldn't call it a problem. I would say that there are two variables at work. On the one hand, many men who have sex with men have an obsession with young bodies, which are glorified. But also older men are more open-minded and willing to get involved in kink fun behavior, as younger men are more reluctant. An example are young cumdumps who get a lot of action because (1) young bodies are hot, and (2) young slutty bottoms are rare. The world is full of older cumdumps!

I've had many fuck-buddies and a few long-term, but always for anonymous encounters. At the bathhouse I used to get fucked and bred by a nice Mexican guy but after a few years he confessed to me that he really preferred to bottom. I had another guy who used to breed me occasionally but he too told me that he was now bottoming. These two were guys who fucked me many times. Have you had that happen to you, that a top who used to fuck you is now a bottom?

Some guys don't like tasting lube when they rim a hole so I always find myself wondering what's best. I often use Vaseline too and I find it works very well

I would say that because there's nothing hotter than anon sex

I would say that I'm obsessed with anonymous sex, which makes me obsessed with men because they are so good at it. But in my old age I feel as horny as I did when I was 20. The main difference is obviously age which affects sex because of the loss of energy. When I was younger I could spend 2-3 days in a row at a sauna, sleeping a few hours in between. But age also affected me because I don't feel as "attractive" as I used to feel when I was younger, all the way up to my 50's. Feeling good about the way I looked was part of the turn-on and the enjoyment of sex, especially as a bottom. I would sometimes hook-up with bottom guys and the challenge was to get the bottom guy real horny by him touching my body and kissing me until he discovered my lubed hole. I loved leaving the bottom's apartment with their load inside me. I don't think I could do that now!

Guys who bottom are insatiable because what stops horniness is the orgasm, so a bottom can stay horny until he does. Before the pandemic I used to go to saunas a lot. Many times I would see a guy taking over a public sling for hours. When I wanted some time on the sling all I had to do was to make the guy on the sling shoot his load, and that was it. The sling was then mine! It never failed because as soon as the guy had an orgasm he would immediately want to get off the sling.

From the start. I only know what I've experienced and what has been corroborated by sex researchers like Masters and Johnson. All I can say is check some old threads I found where men explain how after orgasm they are usually done. This one goes beyond simple lack of interest in sex, to the point where many men feel guilty and ashamed after orgasm. This has happened to me too a couple of times which is why I said that 99.99% of the men want anything else but sex right after orgasm. I've experienced at least 5,000 men orgasm in my cruising experiences and I can remember a couple of guys who are an exception. Once at a park, I sucked him off and swallowed his load and expected him to zip-up and leave, but he stayed for a second round. I also had a fuck-buddy, who after breeding me, without pulling out he would continue for a second round. I'm sure you can point to more cases where after shooting the top disappeared. In an intimate environment with a known top yes, things could be a bit different. But in the "wild", bathhouses, parks and gloryholes, the guy is done after he cums 99.99% of the times. If you don't believe me, you can try jerking off the next time you are horny and see what happens. This doesn't seem like a very sensible remark because you are disregarding the fact that an "emotional orgasm" does not affect my prostate and does not follow Masters and Johnson's phases of the orgasm. An "emotional Orgasm" is simply a heightened level of arousal that happens also watching porn. When I see a video of a guy getting fucked and then bred, followed by the leaking cum, hearing the guy cumming reminds me of the pleasure of my own orgasm. Getting actually fucked and bred at the sauna, hearing the guy at the height of his excitement, feels even more like an orgasm, especially when I discover the cum in my hole. Cum is the result of a male orgasm, and there it is: I had an orgasm! But I didn't so I'm still horny, even hornier after what just happened, and I'm ready fr my next orgasm. I think that you disagree with my approach because you feel more comfortable glorifying "tops" and like to think of them as God-like creatures. When I go to the sauna or park I do it because I like the environment of male-cruising, but also I do enjoy being horny for a long time without cumming, which is the reason I call myself a bottom. Most bottoms say "I want to please" which I agree with, but more specifically, I want to see other guys cum and feel my body with cum and enjoy the experience. For instance, I explain my huge Fetish with Cum as a consequence of the male orgasm. Every time I came jerking off it would all end up with a loss of interest for sex but some cum that I had to clean up. Seeing cum in porn movies and especially live, while still fully aroused, was wonderful. Being a bottom, which is a way guys understood what I was looking for, was a way of experiencing cum in many ways and being able to stay horny as hell. I could see it, taste it and fully enjoyed it as long as it was an anonymous cock and cum.

According to Masters and Johnson ([think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sexual_response_cycle) only a small number of men can orgasm during the resolution phase: "It is generally impossible for men to achieve orgasm during the refractory period." I've been bottoming for decades and my experience of seeing men orgasm agrees with Masters and Johnson conclusions. I remember 2-3 men who after a minute could continue interested in sex and reach a second orgasm. God bless them! The drop in excitement is so dramatic that in French the male orgasm is called "La Petite mort" When I started fooling around with guys I noticed this right away and realized that by only bottoming I would extend the pleasure of being horny while at the same time witness other guys' moaning and cum, which I would feel as a "mental orgasm" without reducing my own excitement. I've read a couple of threads in this site where some men complain that after orgasm they are done, as if is something that happens to them and not to other men. How naive! I've only enjoyed anon sex in parks, saunas, darkrooms and gloryholes and in these environments 99.99% of the times the guy leaves as soon as he cums. I'm sure that in a context of two guys who love each other the dynamic may be different, and the guy who cums can reengage and continue the sexual encounter. I'm a bottom not because it's in my genes, as some guys have suggested in this site ("I was born a bottom"). I'm a bottom because I realized early in my sex life that it was more fun to hold my orgasm and then stay horny as hell while I let anonymous guys have their orgasms, which I would feel as my own. While getting fucked, when I hear the change in breathing and then the moaning and groaning milliseconds before he shoots, feels to me like I'm having my own orgasm with but without feeling the effects of the "resolution phase" that Masters and Johnson describe. That way, after the guy pulls out and I touch my cummy hole, I'm even hornier than before and can continue taking loads feeling every one as my own "mental orgasm". This question is obviously from a bottom who forgets that after the guy shoots his load they've lost all interest in sex and I doubt they engage in a any thought about the anon hole they just fucked. It is the bottom who feels the cum in his hole and is now hornier that before who starts imagining that the top is still engaged in his hole. He's done, bye. Women sometimes complain that their man after orgasms just rolls over and wants to go to sleep, and is not interested in cuddling. I personally love it when a guys breeds me and he's gone.

An orgasm is an orgasm and most men feel a complete lack of sexual arousal after the orgasm and the idea that a "top" is different from a "bottom" is not true. The same way I turn off a computer after jacking off to porn most guys who have bred me react the same way and they just want to go take a shower of go home after shooting their load. I remember getting bred in cruising parks late at night and hearing the guy after breeding me saying "Oh, shit it's 3:30am and tomorrow I have to get up early!" Before the orgasm they were horny and unaware of how late it was until they are no longer horny. As I was still horny with his load in my hole and looking for another one. The basic difference between a guy who tops and a guy who bottoms is that the bottom is still horny after the breeding. The top is done and that's why guys like to bottom, so that they can keep enjoying other guys' orgasms without actually shooting their loads.

I'm a man who prefers to bottom but from masturbation I know that after I cum, as most men do, I lose my interest in sex. Unlike getting bred, where the bottom can enjoy the feeling of cum inside his hole, the top is done and I doubt he thinks much other than wanting to take a shower and then rest or go home. Which is why so many times I've been bred and when I turn around the guy is gone and all it's left is his cum in my hole.

This sounds right to me. The sounds of the breeding are awesome. Many tops sigh right after. These sounds are so hot but especially in a darkroom.

Some guys enjoy a hairy manhole while others like them smooth. In the case of a bottom in a relationship his hole will be smooth or hairy depending on what they both agree. But how do bottoms who offer their hole to guys at a sauna or sex-clubs decide if they should keep their hole smooth or hairy as to please most guys?

I have a gloryhole in my apartment which I used quite a bit until the pandemic came. I now don't feel comfortable having so many guys come over so I'm no longer using it. Once I opened the front building door I would unlock my apartment door and get behind the gloryhole which was on the right as guys came in the apartment. At night I usually had a dark atmosphere with only a black-light. The agreement was anon action with no talk or chit-chat, dirty talk only. Because the hole of the GH had a cover we would never see each other, which made it hotter. There was one guy who kept coming back at least once a month. He would come in and start wanting to get sucked until he would get hard and want to pound my hole until shooting his load. He was once upset because I was going away for 6 weeks. Craigslist was good for advertising my gloryhole, especially when there were not too many gloryholes available. When I was in my 20's I liked going to the gloryholes in the bathroom of a university Pub. Saturday nights the place was crowded and several horny drunken guys were looking for someone to service their cock. Two of the cubicles had gloryholes and the dilemma was always how to take the loads. I've always enjoyed swallowing a creamy load as much as taking it up my hole. The bathroom was a few feet away from the pub itself, which was good because some guys made a lot of sexy noises while unloading.

One of the things I like the most about getting bred is to hear the top as he unloads inside my hole. This is why I lije this video: [think before following links] https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph60d21cac24fcb