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According to Masters and Johnson ([think before following links] https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Human_sexual_response_cycle) only a small number of men can orgasm during the resolution phase: "It is generally impossible for men to achieve orgasm during the refractory period." I've been bottoming for decades and my experience of seeing men orgasm agrees with Masters and Johnson conclusions. I remember 2-3 men who after a minute could continue interested in sex and reach a second orgasm. God bless them! The drop in excitement is so dramatic that in French the male orgasm is called "La Petite mort" When I started fooling around with guys I noticed this right away and realized that by only bottoming I would extend the pleasure of being horny while at the same time witness other guys' moaning and cum, which I would feel as a "mental orgasm" without reducing my own excitement. I've read a couple of threads in this site where some men complain that after orgasm they are done, as if is something that happens to them and not to other men. How naive! I've only enjoyed anon sex in parks, saunas, darkrooms and gloryholes and in these environments 99.99% of the times the guy leaves as soon as he cums. I'm sure that in a context of two guys who love each other the dynamic may be different, and the guy who cums can reengage and continue the sexual encounter. I'm a bottom not because it's in my genes, as some guys have suggested in this site ("I was born a bottom"). I'm a bottom because I realized early in my sex life that it was more fun to hold my orgasm and then stay horny as hell while I let anonymous guys have their orgasms, which I would feel as my own. While getting fucked, when I hear the change in breathing and then the moaning and groaning milliseconds before he shoots, feels to me like I'm having my own orgasm with but without feeling the effects of the "resolution phase" that Masters and Johnson describe. That way, after the guy pulls out and I touch my cummy hole, I'm even hornier than before and can continue taking loads feeling every one as my own "mental orgasm". This question is obviously from a bottom who forgets that after the guy shoots his load they've lost all interest in sex and I doubt they engage in a any thought about the anon hole they just fucked. It is the bottom who feels the cum in his hole and is now hornier that before who starts imagining that the top is still engaged in his hole. He's done, bye. Women sometimes complain that their man after orgasms just rolls over and wants to go to sleep, and is not interested in cuddling. I personally love it when a guys breeds me and he's gone.

An orgasm is an orgasm and most men feel a complete lack of sexual arousal after the orgasm and the idea that a "top" is different from a "bottom" is not true. The same way I turn off a computer after jacking off to porn most guys who have bred me react the same way and they just want to go take a shower of go home after shooting their load. I remember getting bred in cruising parks late at night and hearing the guy after breeding me saying "Oh, shit it's 3:30am and tomorrow I have to get up early!" Before the orgasm they were horny and unaware of how late it was until they are no longer horny. As I was still horny with his load in my hole and looking for another one. The basic difference between a guy who tops and a guy who bottoms is that the bottom is still horny after the breeding. The top is done and that's why guys like to bottom, so that they can keep enjoying other guys' orgasms without actually shooting their loads.

I'm a man who prefers to bottom but from masturbation I know that after I cum, as most men do, I lose my interest in sex. Unlike getting bred, where the bottom can enjoy the feeling of cum inside his hole, the top is done and I doubt he thinks much other than wanting to take a shower and then rest or go home. Which is why so many times I've been bred and when I turn around the guy is gone and all it's left is his cum in my hole.

This sounds right to me. The sounds of the breeding are awesome. Many tops sigh right after. These sounds are so hot but especially in a darkroom.

Some guys enjoy a hairy manhole while others like them smooth. In the case of a bottom in a relationship his hole will be smooth or hairy depending on what they both agree. But how do bottoms who offer their hole to guys at a sauna or sex-clubs decide if they should keep their hole smooth or hairy as to please most guys?

I have a gloryhole in my apartment which I used quite a bit until the pandemic came. I now don't feel comfortable having so many guys come over so I'm no longer using it. Once I opened the front building door I would unlock my apartment door and get behind the gloryhole which was on the right as guys came in the apartment. At night I usually had a dark atmosphere with only a black-light. The agreement was anon action with no talk or chit-chat, dirty talk only. Because the hole of the GH had a cover we would never see each other, which made it hotter. There was one guy who kept coming back at least once a month. He would come in and start wanting to get sucked until he would get hard and want to pound my hole until shooting his load. He was once upset because I was going away for 6 weeks. Craigslist was good for advertising my gloryhole, especially when there were not too many gloryholes available. When I was in my 20's I liked going to the gloryholes in the bathroom of a university Pub. Saturday nights the place was crowded and several horny drunken guys were looking for someone to service their cock. Two of the cubicles had gloryholes and the dilemma was always how to take the loads. I've always enjoyed swallowing a creamy load as much as taking it up my hole. The bathroom was a few feet away from the pub itself, which was good because some guys made a lot of sexy noises while unloading.

One of the things I like the most about getting bred is to hear the top as he unloads inside my hole. This is why I lije this video: [think before following links] https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph60d21cac24fcb

I don't think most married men are crazy horny to have sex with their wives because most men prefer anonymous/casual/impersonal sex, which is the reason I like sex with men. Women take sex too seriously but for men sex is a fun activity which is even more fun between men because all have the same attitude towards sex. With women men have to restrict the fetishes they may want to experience but with men the sky is the limit for raunchy activities. Women offer very little to men in term of raunchy sex so men turn to men to get it for free.

I love this anon breeding: [think before following links] https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5a9edddddb6f9

In the 90's guys were still afraid of taking loads so most tops would usually ask before shooting inside. I was at a bathhouse in Montreal playing in the darkroom when a guy starts fucking me bareback when after a minute or so he all of a sudden disappeared. After sucking cock in the gloryholes I went to sleep in my room. When I woke up I went to the bathroom and out comes a really smelly load and it was only then that I realized I had been bred the night before.

Definitely! I like "hole" because it could also mean my mouth.

Cunt and pussy are too feminine for my taste. I prefer "hole" because it's dehumanizing, making it raunchier.

I did a search in BarebackRT for bottoms in Austin who take loads and found about 200. I find it strange that a top cannot find bottoms

One big variable that affects how well a bottom does is his age and appearance. At the sauna I've seen older bottoms spend a long time on a public sling without getting much attention, but young hot bottoms get a lot of attention. From experience I know that it gets harder for a bottom to get attention. One reason may be that there are lots of older bottoms but younger slutty bottoms are harder to find.

This caught my attention because most guys once they blow their load are done for the evening. There are exceptions and some guys can fuck until they cum, and without pulling out slowly keep fucking until they are hard again and fuck until they cum for a second time. I had a fuck buddy like who came twice every time we fucked. But these situations are rare and most guys once they cum they're gone. Can you cum inside a hole, change your pace for a moment, and then keep going and cum a second time? Are you taking about a one-on-one situation or at a bathhouse where where you fuck and cum 2-3 times? Just curious and turns me on, but it's not common

Many years ago I met a 26 yr-old deaf-mute top who enjoyed fucking bareback. This when bareback bottoms were hard to find so we kept hooking up for several years. Sometimes he wanted a quickie but other times he would fuck me for a long time in different positions. I loved it when he bred me because he would let me know he was about to shoot.

Taking a load through a GH is quite an experience especially hearing the moaning and groaning of the stranger filling your hole, followed by the sound of the guy's door as he leaves already satisfied.

It's always best to never to interpret any of this as an ethnic or racial discrimination.

The gloryhole I discovered kept being repaired every few months by replacing the metal partitions but within days the holes were back. It went on like this for years until some bright mind realized that all that was required was removing two partitions. One covered the entrance door and the other partition gave privacy to the stalls. Once the partitions were removed the fun was over. I then noticed that bathhouses started to provide gloryholes, something that is now standard in bathhouses.

In the 80's I liked going to a bathroom in the university student's building that had gloryholes in 2 of the stalls. This bathroom was a few feet from the university Pub which was busy on Friday and Saturday nights with drunken students in their 20's. Most were looking to get sucked but there were always a few guys horny enough top fuck. It was hot when I saw some of the same guys at the gym working out, knowing I had taken their loads. Straight guys are more likely to get sucked in a gloryhole because they can always fantasize it's a woman servicing them.

I can see there are many guys who like a bushy hole and others who are turned-off by hair and like fucking a smooth hole. But, does anybody get turned-off by a smooth hole?

Well said

I just checked in an escort site for men older than 50 and none are bottoms. I guess nobody would pay to fuck and breed older holes because they are available for free. But there are older tops (some 60's) and young bottoms. These stats explain why older bottoms have a harder time getting loads.

I also discovered that the key was staying late at the bathhouse, when tops were ready to cum but also bottoms getting ready to go home but who hunt for a hole to shoot their load before going home. I would sleep in my room until 3-4 am and then open the door of my room and offer my hole. I also find that dirty-talk while being fucked helps a guy fucking me go over the edge. Instead of screaming like a woman I prefer to talk dirty and say things like "my hole feels so good with your cock" or "that hole is for your cum", or remind them to shoot inside by saying "go deep when you shoot your cum". Another strategy I use with guys at the sauna who fuck for a couple of minutes but don't want to shoot, is to open up my hole instead of tightening it so they guy can enjoy the fucking without shooting because the friction is not enough, but I occasionally tighten it for a few seconds and then release again. I know I'm doing a good job when the same guy comes back to fuck me again until I notice the guy is horny so then I tighten my hole a bit more and talk dirty until he shoots his load. I find that if I try to squeeze my hole when those guys who are saving their load fuck me, they don't come back because they don;'t wanna shoot yet. But with a loose hole many keep coming back because they know they can pound my hole without having to cum.

Many guys prefer to fuck and breed younger guys because and older bottom doesn't turn them on enough to get a hard-on and be able to fuck. A young guy's body is a turn-on but not an older body. At 63 you could start topping and breeding holes and you won't have a problem finding guys of any age you want.