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When does transvestite fetish turns into Trans Identity?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
It's not a matter of attraction that I enjoy sex with men and not with women. It's not that "I like men" more than women, but instead I like the way men have sex, with no need for flowers, dinners or even talking before sex. Somebody who likes anonymous sex like myself would have trouble with women who many want marriage right after sex. -
When does transvestite fetish turns into Trans Identity?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I understand the anxiety and depression that some people may have but I question the quick decision that the problem is the assigned gender. If a 10 yr-old boy tells me that he thinks he's Superman and that he can fly out from the window of his bedroom, it would be stupid to accept his statement at face value. The obvious thing to do is to dig into the boy's need to be Superman, and what being Superman means to him. Same thing with a boy who says he's really a girl. You have to dig into what he means by being a girl and why being a girl feels so true to him. -
When does transvestite fetish turns into Trans Identity?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
In my experience men wearing women's clothes is just men having fun with a fetish., They feel hotter dressed as women, which makes it a fetish. For me bareback is a fetish and in bathhouses I've worn slutty shorts to feel hotter, just a fetish. In terms of the men who feel they are women, I would still like to know what "feeling like a woman" is. Can anybody explain that to me? My hunch is that the men who "feel like a woman" are men who want to be a sex object, which is the way men see women. This guy Bruce Jenner is the perfect example of this. After 3 marriages, 4 children, Olympic success in men's athletics, he announces that he's now a she. I think my hunch was confirmed with Bruce Jenner when the first picture after transition was of a sexy old woman trying to be a sex object. Pathetic. I remember reading that Bruce never had sex with men because, as he explained, I'm straight. Instead of trying to see if he could be a sex object for men, he has never tried sex with men and prefers to "become" a woman to try to be a sex object. He would have had more fun with guys. -
When does transvestite fetish turns into Trans Identity?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
Having someone injected hormones into their body is not something I would call "natural". Hormones and other substances are banned in sports because you are no longer competing with the "natural" ability. In the case of homosexuality calling it unnatural was not appropriate because no hormones or other drugs were required. Just start fucking! -
When does transvestite fetish turns into Trans Identity?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
If you are referring to my answer then I think it's a trend because many aspects of the Trans movement don't make sense for the reasons that I have already explained. If you disagree with any part of my explanation then go ahead and tell me what of what I said you disagree and why you disagree. Being offended is not valid in a debate. -
When does transvestite fetish turns into Trans Identity?
hungry_hole replied to hungry_hole's topic in General Discussion
I agree. People no longer want to deal with their personal emotional issues and instead blame some weird situation for their emotional turmoil. I say weird because a man saying "I feel like a woman" doesn't make sense. What the hell is "feeling like a woman"? I'm a man and I would have difficulties explaining what feeling like a man is. Rather than dealing with childhood issues it's seems easier to attach yourself to some identity and then blame any personal problems on trans-phobia. Following Trans logic, short people could say "I was born in the wrong body because I feel like a tall person". Unless for ambiguous genitalia people have to accept their assigned gender. There is a tendency to equate homosexuality with Transsexualism but there is no comparison. The Transition requires a medical procedure and hormones, something totally unnatural. Homosexuality requires nothing. -
During my many visits to bathhouses I've run into all kinds of guys wearing their favorite fetish wear like sexy shorts, leather, etc, and occasionally guys who's fetish is to wear women's clothing. My questions is, how did a fetish transform into the Trans Movement? Isn't Trans just another fetish?
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In the heterosexual world there are tops and bottoms, men and women. But in the gay world we can choose the role that gives us most pleasure. Top and bottom is not fixed and many guys who were total tops become bottoms. I've known several tops that later become bottoms. If a guy can keep his cock hard and can fuck holes for long times, that guy is probable a top or at least versatile because fucking is pleasurable. I've been a bottom for many years and I have fucked occasionally. If I could enjoy fucking holes and last for a long time fucking different holes at a sauna, I would at least be versatile. Many guys don't bottom because getting fucked and taking it up the ass is not something all men feel comfortable with.
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That's why "anonymous stealthing" is a different ballgame.
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Nowadays everyone is being labelled a racist so "being a racist" is losing it's punch. If everyone is racist then the word looses meaning. Is like being called a Nazi. People have difference likes and dislikes and that's OK.
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Tops who take long time to cum?
hungry_hole replied to piglooking4pigs's topic in General Discussion
One of the characteristics of a good top is to be able to fuck for a long time without shooting his load. It sounds weird to complain about it. I'm sure that anyone who can maintain a hard-on and fuck for a long time without unloading will be at least versatile. During my bathhouse visits I could always tell the bottoms who'd been getting bred and sucking cock all night. Many before they go home like to unload and I could tell it was a bottom. Cock goes in, a few strokes, sometimes some moaning, pull out and disappear. I like using "dirty talk", like "do feel the cum in my hole?", or "that hole if for you to fuck and then flood with your cum"...things like that. -
You can't really tell whether a guy wants to suck or get sucked. He may want both or he may be looking to fuck and breed a hole. My strategy is to present myself as a slutty bottom ready for anything. I bring with me a small stool so I can station myself wherever I want and don't have to rely on rocks or logs along the paths. I wear slutty shorts with a hole in the back that shows a bit when I'm sitting on the stool. Next to me on the ground I place a sign that says "Breed my Hole" that guys usually see when they approach me. No need to talk or discuss anything. Sitting on the stool puts my mouth at crotch level which is all I need to say because if the guy going by is a cocksucker, he'll get the message and continue on.
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I have mostly bottomed and have loved getting bred since I first had sex at the YMCA in NYC in the mid 70's. I have topped a couple of times but have not enjoyed it mainly because I cum to quickly, unlike the many guys who I've seen topping that can go for hours. There are things I don't like when I've topped such as getting shit on my cock, but I know it feels good from watching the guys who have bred me. I'm pretty sure that if I could last for a long time without cumming, and fully enjoy fucking different holes at a bathhouse, I would at least be Versatile and not a total Bottom. So my question is: Are there any guys who can fuck a hole for a long time but they still prefer to be a total bottom and never top, in spite of the fact that they don't shoot their load easily?
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How to aproach guys in Bath house/sauna?
hungry_hole replied to 1000GUYS's topic in General Discussion
It's crazy to find out that a young sexy guy like you has insecurity issues. -
The closure of bathhouses and sex clubs is a huge issue for so many men who enjoyed anon sex in these places.
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Do gay generally don't like femmes ?
hungry_hole replied to SubHornyBottom's topic in General Discussion
My answer is similar to others. Most men in Grindr and in gay bathhouses are looking for men, not women. When bathhouses were open, I found it disturbing to find some guy dressed as a woman. -
I took my first loads on a visit to NYC in the 70's, when I was staying at the West Side YMCA. There were 2 or 3 floors with rooms for men only with traffic between the floors. In those days there was no such thing as "bareback". Then AIDS appeared and guys started to wear a condoms, which I found weird. I then learned to enjoy bottoming with condoms and at the park I would collect condoms filled with man juice. I started to take loads again when most guys were still requesting to wear condom. It was fun because at the parks or bathhouses there were not too many BB bottoms so my raw hole was in demand when I used to go to the local bathhouse or park.
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Guys can be "verbal" with sounds like moans and groans, or with dirty talk. In breeding videos I only like to hear sounds coming from the top guy and definitely don't like screaming bottoms because they remind me of women in porn. But I love the sweet sounds of the top, including his breathing. Occasional encouraging sounds from the bottom are OK, but it's the top the one I want to hear. I love dirty talk, and again, better in my view for the bottom than screaming, I don't like the bottom blocking the sounds of the top. When getting fucked I like to occasionally respond to the top's cock by saying things like "Oh,,,,it feels so good" and if the top is silent i talk dirty to describe what's going on with his cock in my hole, but also what will happen when he shoots inside my hole.
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Make sure to have a well-cleaned hole that can be fucked for a long time
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How to have a successful bathhouse session
hungry_hole replied to in2itxxx's topic in General Discussion
You have a hot body so you don't need much guidance. Before Covid-19 when the bathhouses were open I would usually rent a room with a sling that is properly located so that guys can see your hole on the sling as they walk by. Many guys walking by my room would come in and once they find you on the sling will get horny and want to fuck you and eventually breed you. I don't have such luck now buy you do, so take advantage. I know because when I was young I took advantage of it had a great time when I stayed at the YMCA in NYC. There were guys walking around all night in-between the floors so I would leave my door open and have tons of guys getting fucked bareback and getting bred without then having a name for it. I find you can increase the chances of getting attention if you present yourself as a slutty bottom and someone as hot as you should not have a problem. -
This situation is different from what I am discussing here because it's personal and not anonymous. I'm saying that guys should chill when you find in the Internet some post that says some horny guy likes to be bred by BBCs. I once heard a saying that I liked a lot because it sets you free: "Try hard not to offend people, but try even harder not to feel offended."
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You are assuming that people are always aware that they are offending, causing shame or belittling someone with a comment. A horny guy who's obsessed with big cocks and who has built up a fetish for black cock is not trying to offend anyone. He's just horny and wants to have fun with his fetish. Instead of jumping right away to the "feeling offended" online is best to chill and assume there is no intention to offend anyone. You cannot control assholes but you can control yourself. A divorced guy told me that when he was married, his then wife would complain when she found his underwear on the floor. She would say "Why do you expect me to pick up your underwear?" He never had an answer for her when he was living alone and heard his wife voice. He looked at the underwear on the floor and realized he didn't expect anyone to pick up the underwear from the floor and stepped over it. His wife assumed that she was being used, etc and a thus a victim. It seems that now everyone wants to be a victim.
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If he wants to make any money he has to say that he's a Top in RentMen. Some bottoms may get some business but only when they are really young.
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The same way many black men are offended by the term BBC, I'm sure there are many black men who take pride of that characterization and of being a top. I may be wrong but I doubt it. The term BBC cannot be race neutral because of the idea that black men are the ones with big cocks. If the men from Alabama were the ones to have big cocks the term would be Big Alabama Cock (BAC). I think the problem is that nowadays people are relying too much on emotional safe-spaces forgetting that the world out there is far from a big emotional safe-space. Trying to control the entire world around oneself so that nobody will offend you makes no sense because that will never happen. It's best to learn how to deal with the shame of being offended because you only need to control yourself and that's totally possible.
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The elephant in the room is the obsession men have with big cocks and it has nothing to do with ethnicity.
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