hungry_hole

Things have changed with Meds and PrEP. Before barebacking was controversial. Also, keep in mind that if a guy is in a relationship with a woman he will be concerned about all infections and not only HIV, which will force him to wear condoms. I prefer sex in saunas where guys feel more free to explore fetishes. I was once on a sling when a hot guy I knew from a meeting I had a week before show up. He started to play with my lubed hole but he insisted on fucking me with condoms, but I said no so eventually he decides to leave. A few seconds go by when I see him come back and without saying a word he starts to fuck me raw until he breeds my hole, pulls out and leaves. It was hot!

What's preventing you?

Finding a partner at a sauna is not a bad idea because the masks are off. I knew of a couple who met at the sauna. One of the guys who was a bottom was in the orgy room, with his ass up in the air. The other, who was a top, walked into the orgy room and watched the guy getting fucked. He waited and gave him a second load. They exchanged info and they have now been 15 years together. They met in an anonymous kinky environment which really helped their relationship.

I have sex with men not because I like men more than women, but because I like better the way men have sex (anonymous and NSA) than the way women like having sex, where love plays an important role.

The "golden age" for guys who have sex with men is anywhere in the 20's and 30's, which also happens to be the "golden age" of MMA fighters. Men at that age are considered young but that's no longer true in the 40's, when you start hearing phrases like "You are in very good shape for your age". I never heard that in my younger years.

I only use Apps with Geolocation services when I travel to a new city because I find that being "new meat" makes it easier to hook-up in any of the Apps. I've successfully used Grindr and Manhunt in South America, and again, being "new" helps to get hook-ups.

Anonymous sex does not mean that you never will have sex with the same guy again. I've had sex with guys for 8-10 years but all we did was get together for a quick fuck, either in my gloryhole or how the guy wanted. After sex the guys were gone and I never socialized so I never knew what they did for a living or their political views. Totally unimportant! I met a few at the sauna that they later visited me at home.

You're right that it makes it more exciting. I was ready for sex and cleaned my hole, especially at night because after supper he would start turning-off the lights and I knew he wanted some action. We would start in the living room and then end up in the room, have sex and fall asleep with his cum in my hole. He woke me up a couple of nights to have sex in the middle of the night, which was nice. But months later we stopped seeing each other.

[think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/24756/anon-chub-breeds-my-cumhole/ Anon Chub Breeds My Cumhole: At minute 9:10 it gets hot and then second later, the Chub pumps his load in the bottom's hole for an entire minute. I loved the way the top moans while pumping his load, a moaning that brings back many memories.

This thread reminds me of something that happened to me when I was in my late 20's and was infatuated with a 19 yr-old hot jock-like straight guy. We sometimes worked out together and after a few months when he had already decided to move away for a job we ended up at a motel. I still remember his great body and I liked him so much that sex itself was not the main part. But he ended up fucking me which was nice because I was also kind of in-love with him. It was strange, but in the middle of the action he started kissing me passionately. He later told me that he was surprised that he felt compelled to kiss me. A couple of days later he moved away but we kept in touch. I knew that at some point he had a girlfriend which didn't surprise me. During these months he was sometimes defensive about our friendship, but a few months later he suggested I go and visit him so I booked a flight and I went for a week. When he picked me at the airport he was very defensive and cold and on our way to his apartment he warned me that this gay stuff was not for him and that now he was no longer interested in sex. It was very disappointing for me because we slept in the same bed I couldn't touch him. I hardly slept the first night. The next morning he was still a bit cold and he suggested I go for a ride around town in his car because it was going to be a very busy workday for him. I went out around 11am and after lunch I found my way to the local gay sauna. I was feeling depressed and getting fucked and bred is what I wanted to do. I spent the afternoon at the sauna and although it was never too busy there was also a couple of guys around and would eventually come into my room. This was in the middle of the AIDS crisis but I wanted so much to feel like a slut that I didn't discriminate. I took a few loads that day and after a few hours I went back to my friend's apartment with my hole loaded. I figured that if we are not having sex at least I would enjoy feeling the cum in my hole. When I rang the doorbell my friend opened the door and with a big smile in his face says "Would you like to take a shower with me?" When we went into his shower I managed to wipe out excess cum so he wouldn't know that I had already been bred. We ended up in his bed where he eventually fucked me and deposited another load. It was very hot and he never knew my hole was already loaded with anon cum. Straight guys are unpredictable and because of the confusion in their minds they tend to play games.

For some reason I love it when someone breeds my hole and quickly leaves without saying a word, and all it's left is the guy's load deep in my hole.

I like it deep inside. I was once at the sauna on a sling and a guy kept coming over to fuck me but would pull out before shooting. While he fucked me, I tried getting him to go over the edge and would tell him that I wanted his load deep inside, but he would pull out and leave. Until once, he came back and started to fuck me and when he shot his load he went really, really deep, he touched bottom. When he pulled out I told him that he had gone deep and he said "Well, you wanted my load deep".

This is the moment I like talking dirty to the top who's fucking me. I like saying things like "Go deep when you shoot your load" or "my hole is hungry for your cum".

When I started having anal sex I was in my early 20's and condoms were used to avoid pregnancy so guys would fuck raw, but it wasn't called raw or bareback, just sex. The first time I went to the YMCA in NYC my room ended up being right in front of a cumhole's room who would leave his door open so guys would come in to fuck him. I liked the idea so I started doing the same thing and ended up getting fucked by many guys. The AIDS crisis had started and once at the sauna a guy wanted a condom to fuck me. I couldn't believe it because I was so used to raw cocks up my hole. But I eventually gave up bareback and started wearing condoms. There were no good Meds yet so guys avoided bottoming bareback but there were lots of guys wanting to top raw. At the sauna I once saw a slutty bottom who was taking all loads, something that wasn't very common then. My room was next to his and I could watch him getting fucked if I stood in my bed. I found the cumhole at the sauna so hot that I decided to start taking loads again and since then I've never been fucked with a condom. The time before Meds was my best time as a bareback bottom!

This has been debated here many times. Anybody who fears sexually transmitted infections should stick to having sex with people they know and who can be accountable to you. But don't expect anything from some random horny guy who may be in drugs or may be infected without knowing it. These anti-stealthing laws are meant for regular hook-ups where people know each other. But it would be difficult trying to charge an anonymous guy who told you in the darkroom of the sauna that he was clean but he still bred you with his poz cum. How mean they guy was!

I know that anon sex is pretty popular but I wonder how many guys are like me, who are ONLY into anon sex. I don't even like watching breeding videos of boyfriends fucking and my favorite videos are the walk-in totally anon hook-ups. I remember meeting a Latino guy once at a sauna in Toronto. We went into my room where he fucked me and bred my hole. Then, when I went on a visit to Buenos Aires I placed an ad for an anon hook-up and the same guy from Toronto showed-up. That night he stayed over in my hotel and we had two good breeding sessions. But then we never fucked again and we are now friends. I have a couple of other guys who are now friends. I only like taking anon loads.

I really don't care if the guy is straight, top or bottom. As long as I get his cum deep in my hole. But I like having sex with straight guys because of how they react after shooting their load. At the sauna one guy was surprised about how nice a man's hole was, after cuming fairly quickly. I once met with Peter who was after my ass. We eventually met and right after breeding me he told me that he was getting married the following week. Maybe he was thinking of my hole on his wedding night. I think that what straight guys like best is the availability of sex with men.

I like this video but to fully appreciate it's better if you understand Spanish because the dialogue between the top and the bottom is great. AT 12 seconds the bottom asks "Are you enjoying it [my hole]?" to what the top responds "A lot!". During the entire video the top changes positions, some of the unusual. But what I liked best was at the end, minute 2:30 the top says "Ask for my load!" seconds before he starts groaning in pleasure as the bottom keeps saying "Give me all your load". [think before following links] https://barebackbastards.com/18385/a-good-raw-fuck/

What Putin needs is some good anonymous sex with men. My suggestion for a cure of this man's "evilness" is to force him into a slutty gangbang. Just read [think before following links] https://www.huffpost.com/entry/putin-gay-biography_n_4385360

I had a fuck-buddy who on every session would fuck in different positions, changing every 2-3 minutes. He always liked to cum doggy-style, which I really enjoyed.

Just keep in mind that it's all in your mind and one way to make it easier on you is to try to go to bathhouse in another, hopefully large, city which ensure a more anonymous environment. My only concern with going to a bathhouse these days is how busy the places are. Even before Covid, bathhouses were not what they used to be, crowded even during the week. Going to a sauna was the only sure way of getting sex as Apps were not around.

It's not that I like men more than women, but what I do like more is the way men like having sex. Women like to merge love and sex, and because I prefer to keep them separate, I prefer anonymous sex with men.

I would agree that I've felt the cum when it's a big load. For me as a bottom, yes, the load is very important. But I also get super turned-on by the way the top moves, breathes, moans, groans and talks dirty while I know he's shooting his load inside me. I mostly feel his cock being more lubricated by his cum.

Is this question still relevant, when we now have undetectable and PrEP? The days prior to drugs and PrEP preoccupation about HIV made sense and anonymous loads were something to fear. But now, most anon loads are either HIV-neg/PrEP or poz undetectable. I remember being asked at the sauna while getting fucked if he could cum inside. In those days not too many bottoms would take anon loads so as a bareback bottom who took anon loads, my raw hole was popular at the local sauna. They knew me so when they saw me in my room they could fuck me and breed me without ever discussing status or to cum inside or not.

I love watching MMA fights because those guys are so fucking hot. It feels like watching porn. I only wish a group of fighters got together and made a porn movie with all these hot guys having sex in an orgy.