hungry_hole

I try to stay away from huge cocks especially at the bathhouse because I don't want one fuck to ruin my hole for the night. I enjoy the feeling of a cock in my hole but I like to have control over the friction by squeezing and opening up my hole as I get fucked. If the cock is too thick I'm forced to open up and I no longer have control because squeezing is no longer a possibility. Yes, a thick cock in my hole is an different experience but the risk keeps me away. When it comes to size of cocks apart form the width, is the length. Getting fucked by a long thin cock is sometimes a bit uncomfortable when the cock hits the back wall. It's weird. I really don't mind the size of a cock as long as it's not too large, best under 8 inches and not too thick. I sort of enjoy getting fucked by a small cock, as long it it's hard and will eventually spew some cum. When I get fucked by a guy with a small cock, I just squeeze my hole a bit more. The exception to the rule are gloryholes where it becomes difficult to suck a small cock.

In the 70's fucking meant fucking bare and condoms were for preventing pregnancy simply because condoms are a big obstruction in the fucking for both, the one fucking and for the one getting fucked. One of the reasons I like to bottom bareback is because I know how much more enjoyably fucking bareback is for the guy topping, especially when the guy is shooting and his cock is free inside my hole. As a bottom I cannot stand the feeling of the condom rubbing against my hole so I only get fucked bareback for that.

Shooting too quickly seems to be the main reason why many guys stay away from topping. I know that if I could maintain a hard-rock cock for a long time and if I was able to pound holes for a long time without cumming, I would be a top or at least versatile. I envy guys who can fuck for 10 15 minutes especially those who fully enjoy the fucking itself.

I liked what you wrote but this sentence caught my attention because, in my view, it summarizes the ideas you express. Throughout my life I've needed men (1) for sex and (2) for platonic intimacy. Keeping those needs separately has been the strategy that has worked for me. I will start with my need for platonic intimacy. I found this concept somewhere that I really liked and that means to feel emotional intimacy without needing to touch or have sex. A nice conversation may give me this feeling, but what I've realized is that my need for platonic intimacy works much, much better with young men than with anyone else. I don't think of myself as gay because many of the things that define gayness in men are perfectly normal behavior in women, such as platonic intimacy or enjoying the view of other beautiful women and being able to comment on them. If I'm in a bus, especially in a route that connects with a college or university, I enjoy looking at the young men and wonder why these beautiful men would loose the sex-appeal as they grow older. No matter how gorgeous I find them, I don't want to have sex with any of these young men. Just enjoying the view. The range of age that I like best for, call it erotic experience, is in the 20's or 30's, It doesn't mean that a 45 yr-old guy can occasionally catch my eye or an 18 yr-old. If I see a nice bulge I may wonder what their tool and ball look like. But again, the idea of fucking or sucking is not part of this particular experience. Why should I feel gay to have these experiences when women are not labelled lesbians for doing the same? My need for sex with other men cannot be explained with "I'm gay" either. For instance I prefer to have sex with men because I like the STYLE men like having sex, unrestrained, few limits. No need for flowers or dinner invitations because most of the other men I'm hooking up with, just like me, are looking for anon NSA action. I'm sure that many good male baseball players would accept an invitation to participate in an afternoon for charity softball mixed game, with both men and women. But nothing beats the high they feel when they confront another all-male team of their same level, with the same aggressiveness, very challenging. But that doesn't make them gay. For me the best sex is always of the anonymous kind so I prefer bathhouses and other sex-oriented venues. When I'm in the mood for raunchy sex I don't care about age or race or looks. At a bathhouse, like many guys here, I mostly bottom and I don't care if the cock is too small or the guy shoots too quickly or he's not "my type". I've never chased younger guys at bathhouses but I rather like it when a sexy young guy chooses me for anon sex. There was one bathhouse that I used to go when I was in my 40's where there was was attendant who during my time there would come to my room and quickly fuck me and breed me, trying not to me seen. He was in his early 20's, slim body but a very nice cock. But at the same time I wouldn't mind if the attendant is older, because when it comes to sex age is not part of it very much. It may be part of a sex fantasy. Mixing platonic intimacy and sex gets complicated so I always keep them separate. It's possible to combine them but keep in mind that in terms of a relationships getting along living together and sharing spaces is vital as getting along sexually. I don't think that anybody can fulfill ALL my sexual kinks and fetishes, which is one of the reasons monogamy doesn't make much sense. I hope that what I wrote answers some of your questions. Men really want younger guys? In terms of non-sexual activities and spending time together I would say yes. Older men love to relate to young men in all kinds of ways including sports. In terms of sex I think that not all older men are fixated on young men and that some older men in fact even avoid sex with younger guys. But in terms of anonymous sex where a young 25 goes to a bathhouse he would be hounded by most of the other patrons, and in this case I would say that a high percentage of older men would prefer sex with younger men. Sometimes even older guys who mostly bottom are interested in fucking and breeding a young hole. Plus a young guy offers a body with a skin that is nice to the touch. So in terms of sex yes, there are also men who would enjoy younger men. Young guys who prefer older men, I've met many of them, prefer them for different reasons, sexually and in terms of intimacy. One young guy once told me that he liked having sex with older guys because he would explore sexually things he would not with guys his age. Some young guys are fascinated by the sexual experience of the older guy. Another reason young guys like older guys is the attention they get from the older guys, dinner invitations, a trip together, etc. I think that yes, many older men really want younger guys and that many of these relationships can be beautiful experiences. But first decide on what you are looking for.

I've found that there are a lot of guys who have trouble letting go in a bathhouse scenario and need hard drugs to let go. For me anonymous sex is in itself very exciting and don't see the need to affect the experience with hard drugs. I can understand guys who use poppers and/or joints. I myself take a few puffs but I never loose control and I feel I'm there enjoying the cruising and sex. I would hate to not remember what happened the night before at the bathhouse. I usually jerk-off thinking about it.

I'm sure it happens but it's so difficult to know the truth because men react so different while breeding a hole and after they finish breed it. Some are silent while they're breeding a hole while other are very verbal. Right after finish breeding some may pull out and leave without saying a word while others continue fucking for a long time. At the bathhouse whenever I've had a doubt that maybe a guy did not shoot inside my hole, maybe a small load or whatever the reason, if I see the guy is still cruising around looking for a hole, then I know he didn't cum. If I see the guy taking a shower and then leaving the bathhouse I probably got his load. a couple of weeks ago I was on the sling at the Blackout event in my local bathhouse and a guy approached me, fucked me it looked like he had shot his load, he pulled out and left. I reached over to my hole and it was flooded with dripping cum so I knew it was true.

What most cumdumps forget is that guys at the bathhouse try to "save" their load the same way cumdumps avoid shooting their load because once they shoot, they're done. On the other hand, what most guys forget is that once you shoot it's just a matter of waiting for 20 minutes or so and you are horny as ever. So, no big deal if you shoot your load. On the contrary, guys who enjoy fucking after shooting once and waiting a bit their second fuck is even better, they last long and the orgasm is amazing.

I don't like using labels and as an example of why, here is an example. There are many guys who go to bathhouses to "collect loads" but who before taking a break from bottoming or before going home, some of these same guys find a hole and breed it. If on their Barebackrt profiles these guys said "versatile-bottom" or "versatile" they would be approached by guys looking to get fucked and bred. But these guys only fuck and breed holes in a bathhouse/group environment where failure to get hard is not a problem and where there is lots of hot action around to get them horny. But have you tried fucking in a bathhouse scenario once you are maybe loaded and very horny? I can understand that on a "date" being a bottom can be a problem if the other guy wants to get fucked. But a bathhouse scenario is different where no one will judge you because you can't get hard.

I would accept this from a woman because she doesn't have the equipment to top. But I find it hard to believe that a man who enjoys getting fucked has never wondered how fucking a hole may feel. Unless there's a problem with the equipment or there is a reason for not wanting to fuck. I have a friend who describes himself as a bottom and likes young guy in early 20's. About 5 years ago he started a relationship with a 22 year old "top", according to him, and my friend was very happy. Things were OK for about a year but then my friend started to complain to me that this 22 yr-old was now wanting to bottoming, and he was furious and felt cheated. My position is that instead of focusing on the predefined roles like bottom, top, versatile and combinations of those, I rather focus on what I enjoy doing. There are guys who at the bathhouse like getting fucked and take loads for hours. But some, with loads in their hole, before leaving the bathhouse go to the gloryhole area and fuck the and breed the first hole that becomes available, take a shower and go home. Guys who like labels may call him a "bottom-versatile" but that would be deceiving because he only likes fucking and breeding holes in a dark room or gloryhole area.

Cum that has been in my ass more than 8 hours gives out a particular aroma when pushed out. 20-25 years ago when bareback bottoms were not easy to find, I was at the Sauna Plateau in Montreal for the night and it was the first sauna in Montreal with cabins and gloryholes. It was so hot, but barebacking was not the norm. I had already cleaned out and before leaving at stopped at the dark area and gloryholes. Some guy approached, played with my hole, started to fuck me, but all of a sudden he pulled out and took off. I had to leave, so I went to get dressed and went home. The next late morning I get up to go to the bathroom, I fart out a slimy stuff and smelly. Last night guy had bred me and I never noticed it.

Anyone with a cock that can get hard can top, including bottoms. Some bottoms may not agree because they think that being a bottom is in their DNA. Well, it's not. Self-defined bottoms just like to get fucked over topping. A bathhouse is a good place for a bottom to try topping because there are all kinds of situations that can help relax and not worry about cock size, keeping the erection or shooting too quickly. Once you are horny enough and wanna top, find a willing hole already loaded or a guy getting fucked in public and join in. Panic or disappoint who? Never worry about cumming to quickly or the size of your cock because most bottoms are happy to just get their hole creamed.

I went to a Cumunion party in Montreal. It was on a Thursday night. I really couldn’t tell what the difference was from a regular Thursday night at Gi-Joe. I much prefer the Lights Off or Blackout events at the saunas because the atmosphere is different and I find that in general darkness promotes raunchiness.

I think it's true that it's very unlikely that a guy who only tops can get infected with HIV. The problem is that it's very difficult for Health Departments all over the place to be honest about this fact because every time someone fucks bareback someone is getting fucked bareback, a big dilemma for HIV HIV prevention! Their approach is to play down the differences in the risk of transmission.

I started having anon sex with guys before the AIDS crisis, when nobody talked about bareback because it was just a fuck. Condoms were to prevent pregnancy. My first experiences were at the YMCA in NYC which I would visit often and have lots of sex. The place was hot because there 3 floors for men and guys would walk around all night throughout the hallways from all 3 floors. At first I didn't understand the game very well but in a couple of hours after arriving to the YMCA room I knew exactly what to do and started leaving my door open. Being young an masculine and in good shape I got lots of attention and loved getting fucked so much. I started leaving the door open while getting fucked and guys would literally line-up. I didn't know that I was becoming a bareback cum-hungry bottom because in those days labels were not used like they are now. Not even bottom and top was that common. A couple of years later for the first time a guy pulls out a condom and tells me that he would only fuck me with a condom. I found it ridiculous that he would be wearing a condom, unimaginable. But then I heard of AIDS and then asking for condoms started to become the norm until it became the norm. There was a time in the 80's when guys at the bathhouse would be shamed for going bareback. It was not called bareback. One evening at the local bathhouse I saw a guy who would leave the door open while getting fucked bareback. Some guys would criticize him but for me he became a huge turn-on I became an obsessed with going back to taking loads. A short time after that I began taking anon loads at the local sauna, when the drug cocktail was not yet available so not too many bottoms were offering their holes raw. But I did and I became very popular an sometimes when I got to the sauna one or two guys who had already bred me were after me. Most bottoms were requesting condoms but many guys wanted to top bareback and be able to come inside because it was assumed that the risk was rather low for guys topping. There were lots of guys wanting to top BB but not enough bottoms to fulfill the demand. On a Friday or Saturday night I would take between 5 and 15 loads a night, still when no drugs were available. Some guys after breeding my hole would ask me not to tell anyone that he had fucked me bareback. Bareback was [banned word] and scorned. Then the Meds appeared and the Undetectable status was possible. And lately, now with PrEP bottoming BB is no longer feared so the number of bareback bottoms has exploded. In other words, lots of competition. Getting older makes things worse because now there are lots of hot young bottoms taking anon loads who are on PrEP. Now my approach is to present myself as very slutty BB bottom and when I go to a bathhouse I use signs with phrases like "CUMHOLE" or "CREAM THIS HOLE". They work, but still lots of competition from young very hot holes.

I'm not into calling it cunt, reminds me of women. I prefer to call it my Cumhole or just Hole.

I'm so hooked on anon encounters that even while watching a video I prefer them anon. Not really interested in watching videos of two boyfriends fucking.

At bathhouses knowing whether or not someone goes raw is important because it may determine whether they have sex or not. That's why, as DannyBoy said "unless you are totally obvious about it", I'm totally obvious about it not only that I bareback but that I'm looking to bottom. In my room at the bathhouses I place different signs, depending on my mood, in a black cloth painted with glow in the dark paint saying things like "CUMHOLE" or "Breed this Hole". I wear the underwear with a hole from my profile that also glows in the dark. I leave the door half open and as guys walk by they see the signs glowing in a fairly dark room.

I'm uncut and what I like about sucking an uncut cock is that I know how to treat it. Sucking through a gloryhole is my favorite.

I have a fellow poz bottom cumdump in Toronto with whom I sometimes go to the saunas, Steamworks or Spa Excess and we both help each other collect loads. If we get a sling room, we leave the door open, with one of us on the sling while the other plays with the hole on the sling and sometimes we pretend we're fucking. More chances for having guys come into the room when they see some action on the sling. Once we both have a few loads in our holes and are ready to leave or want to take a break, my buddy who is a total bottom, likes to find a hot hole to dump his load.

I was once bred three times throughout the night by the same guy at a sauna. Not sure why he wanted my hole but breeding it three times was the biggest compliment I've received from a top.

I think it depends on the kind of cruising spot. Cruising at a washroom is different from cruising at a park or cruising at a bathhouse.

My question to bottoms who complain about lack of tops: Did you fuck anyone and bred his hole? Regarding Cumunion, I don't see the point of it. For me the best events in bathhouses are the events where they turn off most lights because darkness always promotes raunchy action. Large bathhouse like GI-Joe should always have some of the floors with very little lighting because otherwise most guys congregate in those small dark areas provided by the bathhouse.

Some guys decide to start topping because of the work involved in having a clean hole to bottom.

A sloppy hole is one of the things that can turn a total-bottom into a horny breeding top. A week ago I was at a sauna in a Toronto bathhouse in one of the sling rooms. Curious about the glow in the dark raunchy signs that I hang in my room a bottom walked in and was playing with my hole on the sling. He left the door open and I asked him to fuck me but he insisted he was a total bottom and he never topped. Another guy walked into my room who after a few minutes started pounding my hole while the bottom watched. After a very nice fucking session, with lots of deep fucking, he bred my hole and left. The bottom began to play with my cummy hole and got so horny that he stuck his cock in my hole and after a few strokes he shot his load and said "I never top but couldn't resist your sloppy hole".

At a bathhouse you're not required to disclose your HIV status, especially in darkrooms or at a public sling. There's always willing holes waiting for cum.