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find91

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  1. Like anything practice makes perfect, built up slowly, don't try a 5hours gangbang marathon, if your only use to 30min sex. Sex should be fun not a competition
  2. Have you every tried the opposite?
  3. It's funny you say this because I know a fair amount of fisting bottoms that prefer larger cocks for obvious reasons, yet they don't blast to the world they "need" 10+. I'm fairly hung and even I find it a turn off when bottoms put this in their profile. It reaks of fetisization and immaturity. There's a lot of great average size tops and horrible hung tops and visverca. Why limit yourself to just the physical????
  4. A try chastity, it really makes you more hole focused and you forget about your dick, this will help you get a lot more into being a bottom only. If this feeling persist, talk to him about. Dom/ sub play is fun and can add more intimacy to a relationship, but once it's done in a relationship the roles should not remain static. You are both still human beings and no one is ALWAYS SUB OR ALWAYS DOM. Doing that can build too much tension and it becomes more of a prison than a release. You can even ask to open the relationship with you only being able to top guys and your ass belongs to him. Basically your his beta.
  5. No they are not and most that say this can't handle it when they actually get a big dick.
  6. Use inflatables or stage up with plugs
  7. Yes
  8. You sound like a kind and considerate man. I agree with most of what you're saying except for last statement. Would it be better to meet an older man in a non sexual setting then?
  9. There's baggage then theirs damaged personalities. Had a few relationships with older guys and I find the ones that have never accepted the ageing process to be a lot like how @Sunovabesh describes. They either fetshize you for your youth, treating you like a trophy or bimbo, or they play fucked up games to see how much you "like" them, which just makes you get turned off from the chase. Gay society is very youth focused and once you get older the abuse starts to increase, but these guy bitch about being treated bad all the while doing the same thing that they bitch about or worse inviting abuse by running after every fuck boy that shakes is ass in close proximity.
  10. Got this more from women then guys. But I support this message whole heartedly
  11. Or a dude that pays your bills and your rent LOL
  12. Don't forget shit tops making fake profiles to boost their score LOL Ya ever since the Dad Bod craze Daddy being used as a body type is totally ridiculous. Daddy as a Body type is just as vague as average. At least average is more inclusive
  13. Very fucking true. I have bottoms friends that loose their erection at the mere mention of topping. I really felt that last line. And you never should have too
  14. I don't mind hooking up with vers guys, my main hesitation and annoyance is their constant need to flip. Vers guys tend to agree to one thing online and then when you meet in person all of a sudden want to change roles. It's annoying AF. I've had vers guys told me they were looking to bottom, but when we meet, they can't handle my dick and start trying to suggest that I should try bottoming for them. I'm like get the fuck out of here do you not know how to read???? It's like they don't understand that not everyone is like them. Some guys don't want to be fuck/ can only be fucked and don't want to top. Respect people's preferences. And know it's not being selfish being solely a bottom or s strict top it's who they are.
  15. Did it numerous times by accident, condoms use to break on me constantly before finding the right size. But I always informed the bottom when I realized.
  16. Trimmed is the best of both words, no unnatural looking prepubescent razor bump filled crotch and you don't have to pick long hair out of your teeth after every blowjob.
  17. I can totally understand why Daddy would be off limits for makes complete sense. The problem is now the Daddy term is so stretched out and over used it really means nothing now. Before it was used for a man or a certain age and look. Usually mid 40's + and rugged. Now it's anyone with chest hair above the age of 21 (kids having kids lol) Since I've hit mid 30's been getting the twinks calling me Daddy. At first, I was a bit annoyed, because I was like I'm not that old and I look nothing like someone's father lol. But the more I thought about it, it bothered me less. The oddest thing is that now in my mid 30's I tend to hook up with older sub's and they usually start calling me Daddy. A bit odd since most are older than me lol, but I like using my boys hard but will still take care of them if their's any issue. So I guess Daddy can apply. To me using Daddy or boy is no longer an age specific term, but now more indicative of the position, role and type of play or relationship.
  18. So true, this goes for bottoms for me. The insatiable whore, with smidge of class lol
  19. Confident sluts. Guys that proud to be who they are without the boasting or flaboyantness or self depricative. Loose holes, no hole is ever too loose for me. That being said I'm not against tight ones, just be willing to let me turn you into a sloppy slut. Body type I like anything from chubby bear to average Joe. Unfortunately not into twinks.
  20. Um.. Those aren't repugnant tops. They are just plain assholes. Similar things have happened to me with bottoms so I can relate. Those are definitely offense that should ban a person. I get a bottom should serve a top but clearly abusive behaviour like the ones you describe is way over anything ANY person should except. Sounds like you haddled it with class. Sounds like you just had the infortune for meeting messed up tweekers.
  21. It depends on the venue and situation. Saunas, and sex bars a fag presenting his ass first is acceptable and even preferred. It sends a message to the top that you are ready and a willing hole. These places tend to be more higher volume so no point in wasting time ( for both the bottom and the top). In these cases if I wanted a blowjob then I would just tap the bottom and they will turn around suck me to get hard. If it is a hookup and I'm meeting him at his or my place. Fag should always be presented on their knees facing me. It show's a sign of respect and that you are on standby to be used. Being on all fours ass up to the door can be a risky move, it can convey your a hole ready to be used ( which is good) or it can convey that the top is just another dick for the bottom to be fucked by (which might offend some tops, yes I know it's hypocritical to say this lol. But we tops have feelings too lol). A faggot should do what a top wants, so just ask. But usual we want to just use your holes so it really doesn't make a big difference. In general a fag should do whatever
  22. I've asked on numerous occasions. It's a trick question more to access how slutty and proud a bottom is. There is no "right" answer for me. I like sluts. I really like slut and sloppy holes. I like a bottom that assumes his sluttiness. H ad a few bottom lie and try to hide that they were preloaded, but while I was fucking them you can tell right away. I call them out on it in a playful way and let them know I like it. Sometimes it's nice to make a bottom sweat a bit LOL. Also preloaded holes are some of the wettes loosees fucks I have
  23. Smeg seems to buttery to work as effective lube. Great perfume and pre sex snack.
  24. Thanks for the correction
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