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I’ll be meeting up with an older guy later on today to swap piss loads - never met with this guy before so hopefully we’ll have chemistry and have a a good wet time :p

I think by the time I'm sucking a guy off I'm super into it and committed. I can't think of a reason I wouldn't swallow at that point!

I don't know much about prostate cancer, just wanted to send some positive vibes your way - sorry for your diagnosis, but I hope your treatment will be effective. My partner had vocal cord cancer, and from that experience I know that some times making choices between treatment options there's a trade off between how likely a treatment is to be effective, vs the negative side effects of the treatment - do you know what the likely differences between the surgery and the radiation treatments are for you?

I just booked my hotel - looking forward to it! 🙂

So should Flex be open now? Their website still has the "closed til the 28th" sign up

I went once before and there weren't many people - was excited for it but kind of disappointed - maybe it was just the time I went though

I go to water garden a few times a month, haven't yet been to steam works but have been meaning to check it out

I’ve done the same - my partner is older and would be at very high risk if he caught it, so until things settle down I won’t be messing around (if I’m even going out at all). I’ll have a few weeks of PrEP left over as well, who knows what I’ll do once the quarantine is over

I think the hottest aspect to cumdumps is the fact that they own their sexuality and their preferences, and they commit. Using PrEP is a choice, and a commitment in the same vein - choosing to be on it and take loads is just as hot as not

Bought my pass - hoping to get a room through the lottery - excited for it!!

That's awful - had some great times at 442

I wouldn't go so far to say PrEP is toxic, but I had a severe reaction to it that had my doctors take me off it. It's not perfect, but I still think everyone who's considering taking it should take it; it's a great drug and the proportion of people having reactions to it are very small. Worst case, you know you're allergic to it, and you still have fun. In most cases it'll allow people to play how they want without the same risks as people who aren't on it.

It'll be my first time going - I've bought a weekend pass but not figured out a place to stay - I know the main venue is full up, what's the recommendation for other hotels around there?

I'm neg and can't go on PrEP, and torn on taking knowingly poz loads. I've topped undetectable poz bottoms, and I've been bred by guys who 'say' they're neg, but have yet to take a knowingly poz load. Occasionally I'll do full anon play in dark rooms etc. but I've yet to take loads there, usually top. I've more or less accepted that at some point I'll probably become poz, and the more I think of that the more I want to take loads from many men, poz or not.

I mostly top and a lot of guys who’ve topped me have either finished outside or used a rubber, so not nearly enough. I’d say total loads taken is around 10 - I want to get at least that many in the rest of 2018

I’ve jacked off with and sucked guys off in my college gym, but never fucked in one. I’ve been cruising my gym (24h fitness) but have never found any action there. I guess I should try different gyms?

Took a trip over to the east coast and went out to some of the gay bars there. After chatting with a hot older guy, I went back with him to his hotel room - not having discussed what we were into / up for. He mentioned “I want to fuck, I’ll tell you that right now” and he got me going. I sucked him off, he sucked me for a bit, then we moved to the bed. He offered me poppers and that got me going even more. He took out a condom and I asked if he was clean, and after he said yes I told him he could fuck me raw. Once his cock was in me it never left until we were done, it was kind of amazing. Through switching positions (me on my back to me on my stomach, side, etc.) and even after dropping the poppers, he picked them up with his feet, never letting his cock leave my hole. Fucking fantastic. He fucked my hole for quite a bit, not wanting to cum, but once he got close he asked where I wanted him to cum. I told him to cum in me and he came a ton in me. An amazing top made for an amazing trip

I've posted about this elsewhere on this site, but the thread subject is my reality - I was on PrEP for a short time before experiencing some nasty side-effects. My doctors took me off of it since I'm allergic and they were concerned that I might have a potentially fatal reaction. So the question is, post-PrEP do I continue to take loads? And I'm still undecided on my journey so far. I have taken loads since then, and have played exclusively raw as well, but I typically play less often. I'm on the fence about being a total uninhibited slut still, and while I know that's a potent desire, I still have to balance that with the rest of my life. I'm still questioning whether the risk is worth the benefit.

I want to push myself beyond what I’ve been taught was right and wrong. I want to be the bottom slut I know I can be, taking any loads I can get! i know that means I run the risk of catching some STI’s, but I think I’m coming to terms with being ok with that. I want the sex life I want.. and I want it bare. Poz cum or not

I guess I'm at a 6 for the last year or so, trying to drop it down to maybe a 3 or 4 but I guess I'm too much of a slut for that

So I recently was in a binge of anonymous/risky play. I would go out to the bars and get plastered and from there I'd either hook up or go to a bath house and have lots of anonymous play. All raw, no questions asked. Kind of stupid in retrospect, but I had fun. I was worried at first because I was still playing with my partner, and although were open about playing outside the relationship he doesn't know I'm into raw/anon play. I got tested and the only thing that came back was oral gono, so my partner got tested and was negative for everything. Well be going long distance for unrelated reasons this summer, so I may have more fun in store

Would be very hot to try that some time! Just need to find the right top and the right moment

So there's this guy I've been chatting with for a while, we play every now and then but only recently discussed some of our more intense shared fetishes. We both like watersports, group play, anonymous encounters to name a few. He lives in LA and I'm in San Diego, so one of us has to travel for us to play, so it doesn't happen all the time. We've discussed going to a bath house together for some time, but haven't made it happen. This is partly because of timing but also since I had never been to one - until recently. A few weeks ago I was in LA and had a few hours to myself, so I hit him up and asked if he wanted to head out to Midtowne spa, and unfortunately he was busy. I was too excited to not head out by myself so I told him I'd be there and if he got free to show up. He never did, but I had some fun this first visit. Not wanting to catch anything my first time out, I set an agenda of only oral/jo, no fucking without a condom (boring I know). First thing I did was head to the showers and within less than a minute of being in the place had someone sucking my cock and then rimming my hole haha. I wanted to check out the rest of the place so I thanked him and walked around. Loved playing in the dark rooms, sucked several guys off, only detractor was a clingy guy who wanted to hear my whole life story haha. Eventually found myself in a group of two or three guys, me sucking one guy off, a guy sucking me off, and a guy fingering/rimming my hole. Was very hot, at one point the guy sucking me almost started fucking me, I didn't stop him but I guess he just wanted to keep sucking me. After being there for a bit and having my fun I left and that was that - safe(ish) fun at the bath house. Fast forward to New Years, was in Vegas with friends and managed to get away at some point. I was drunk/stoned so I was feeling very uninhibited, and wanted to try another bath house. I went to entourage, and the venue was kind of disappointing in comparison to Midtowne in LA. That being said, the venue more than sufficed So, I again had my agenda mainly set for oral/jo but I guess this time I didn't follow those rules as well haha. I was in the dark room and a 20's hispanic guy, a little chubby, was in the sling. It was too hot to pass up, so I began topping him, but I guess he chickened out and got up and left. After that there was lots of sucking/making out with randoms in the dark room, but a lot of them were very fit. I guess the younger crowd came out to the baths for new years haha. One guy played with my ass basically all night, I think I would've let him fuck me but he never got hard enough. I suspect he'd already cum before that night so couldn't get it up. Still had fun with him nonetheless. I was jacking off with this beefy/muscular guy, and I assumed he was a total top just based on how masculine he was. Out of nowhere he turned around and shoved his hole on my cock, and I was topping him, never discussed it, never discussed status, just all of a sudden I was topping him haha. His hole was pretty slick/wet so I have to assume he'd taken loads that night. I was close to cumming already so I just let it happen and eventually came in him. He walked away and that was that, a very hot time in the dark room. I left soon after and walked around the baths and saw two hot older guys, one 40's extremely fit/muscular and the other 50's+ with grey hair. They were in the showers that were labelled WS, and I was hoping I could watch/join some hot piss play, but the 50's guy walked away when I came by. The 40's muscular guy and I played by ourselves for a bit, him sucking me. I think this was the first time I've played with someone so muscular, and it was very hot haha. He invited me back to his room, and so I went with him. He pulled out a bag of coke and asked me if I wanted any - told him that wasn't my thing but he could. After doing a line off my cock he went back to sucking me off, and I shot my last load in his mouth in the room. I left his room and chilled in the jacuzzi before leaving the place. Overall I had a great time, now I just have to wait to get STD test results back lol.

I'd like to know thoughts on this as well. When I'm nice and loosened up I feel like I can be more adventurous with whatever guy(s) I'm with, but spontaneous sessions where I'm less prepared can be really intense. If I'm going to try and take multiple cocks I'd want to be loosened up first, so I have the same question, do top's mind? When I'm topping I know I'm not getting off on just how tight the bottom is, moreso the situation and the bottom themselves.

Damn, sounds like that would be hot! Would love to try it out with someone