raunchycumslut

Been to the Gulch a couple times and it was dead both times. When are the best times to go?

I've been pretty lucky so far. I barebacked for years off Grindr/A4A/Manhunt/Etc, stuck to the whole "neg-only!" mantra (mostly got fucked by married guys cheating on their wives, avoided other men who bottomed), and stayed neg. When I started taking loads from vers guys, I tested Poz pretty quickly. Other than that, I apparently had Hep (A or B, forget which) but no idea when, only found out long after when bloodwork showed the antibodies for it in my system. I caught Syph once, get tested about 3-4 times a year, really surprised I haven't had more bugs. Like other guys have said, part of being a bareback (especially a cumdump) bottom is knowing that some of the men fucking you will be giving you dirty loads, accepting that as part of the experience, and giving up your ass to them anyway.

Moving to SF (will be there early August). Was wondering where the best spots are to get cock. Like, active porn shops with buddy booths, best bathhouses, any bars with back-room type areas, or even cruise parks/public bathrooms? Thanks guys.

Might be moving to MI (a bit outside of Detroit) and was wondering if there are any bathhouses in the area. The few I found referenced online don't have active websites so I'm not sure if they are around anymore. Was hoping someone from the area could share info. Thanks guys.

No real preference with tops (as long as they are Masculine), but have zero interest in seeing black bottoms get fucked. Not sure why, just doesn't do anything for me. I have also noticed I am more aroused (both when seeing porn and having sex IRL) when I see that a guy has a nice, pink asshole. Doesn't matter if the guy is a top or a bottom, seeing a pink butthole turns me on.

Several ways to get pozzed other than taking cum in the ass. Danny talks about drug use, rough sex, and having sores in his mouth. HIV transmission through oral sex is almost impossible, UNLESS you have cuts/open sores in your mouth. It's my understanding that even then, it is extremely unlikely (saliva makes a human mouth VERY inhospitable to HIV). However, if his body/immune system was weakened from drug use, AND his mouth had open sores (especially if they were made worse from a rough mouth/throat fucking), AND his mouth was dry enough (I don't know about meth, but I've had dry mouth from smoking pot)... I think his story of getting pozzed from sucking cock is plausible (not sure I believe it, but it is plausible). I'm kind of wondering if he got pozzed through sharing needles. I've talked to people who admitted to using coke or meth, but felt a much deeper shame/reluctance to admit they injected anything. It's sort of like how a lot of gay guys will admit to being a whore, but don't want to admit they are a bareback whore. As far as comments that tops don't get HIV, that's not true. It's pretty rare but it does happen.I know a 100% top who got pozzed. He keeps his pubes shaved, and likes going to bathhouses/sex parties so he can raw fuck cumdumps (he likes fucking holes that are already slick with cum). He believes he knicked his balls while shaving/getting ready to go out, then fucked a cumdump and got another top's poz cum into the wound. So yeah, it happens.

Unless the bottom is bug chasing, I don't see why he'd want his ass to bleed. For a top who's into destroying a hole, you better talk to the bottom about it ahead of time and get his consent. I like pleasing tops, but I'm not a piece of property, and if you try fucking me with the intent of making me bleed/suffer, you're going to regret it.

Bathhouse? No; I'm going to be naked (or wrapped in a towel) for almost all of my time there, so why bother worrying about what I am wearing for the first 5 minutes after I get there/last 5 minutes right before I leave? Bar? Nothing special, though I try to pick out an outfit that goes together and is at least somewhat flattering on me. I'm just not really into fashion, never have been, and unless I'm going to a job interview, I don't care if I'm "dressed to impress" (that said, I don't wear clothes I know are dirty or torn up). It's a bar, you can judge me by my personality, judge me by my hygiene, judge me by my body/fitness level, or judge me by how I suck your cock in the dark-room (or even in the bathroom, if you like putting on a show). That's all fair game, and that's fine with me. But if you're the kind of guy who is gonna judge me by what I'm wearing (or rather, how much $$ I spent on my clothes), you aren't worth my fucking time. Other cruise spot? I tend to wear either a leather bracelet, a t-shirt I got in SF years ago that implies I am gay (but in a way 99% of straight people won't pick up on), or my rainbow belt-buckle. Just a little something to signal "yep, I'm a fag looking to get laid, same as you" to the other guys out cruising.

My boyfriend knows I'm a barebacker and a huge slut (he's a barebacking pig too and we have an open relationship). Most of my friends are either guys I've dated previously, or guys who were (or still are) fuck buddies so obviously they know I bareback (all know I have bareback hookups with other guys, but some know I am a total slut and others simply never brought it up for discussion). I've been fucked bareback in the dark room of bars, or out in public/shared areas of bathhouses, so the "regulars" that pay any attention at all know I'm a cumdump. Some guys are jerks to me, or shun me because of it, but the guys who like it seem to outnumber the guys who dislike it. I suppose people I know could end up hearing about it, but I think the risk of them finding out is minimal.

I would advise against an alcohol enema. It just seems WAY too risky. If you decide it is something you have to try despite the risks, then dilute, dilute, dilute, dilute, and then dilute the alcohol some more. Multiple sources online (thanks Google) said to dilute the alcohol concentration down to about 5% (or less), and only use a tiny volume for the enema, especially since you have no experience with it. If you're going to do this (and again, I think it is a really bad idea), probably best to use some beer (and even then, dilute it down). Taking alcohol into your body via enema is pretty damn close to just injecting it into your bloodstream. BE EXTREMELY CAREFUL!

I think if a guy has a biohazard tattoo, you are pretty safe in assuming he is poz (even guys who bb don't usually get those unless they test poz). Maybe like 1% chance a guy would get it for other reasons, but really think it is overwhelmingly a tattoo that poz guys get.

Tried gagging/throat fucking several times (a few times consensually, a few times more or less forced into it during what I thought would be a "normal" blowjob), really didn't care for it ANY of the times I tried it. VERY hot to see it in porn, but the times it happened to me, it was not even remotely enjoyable. A primal sense of panic hits me when I can't breathe due to the cock blocking my throat (nothing like when I deep-throat but am in control of the cock going in and out), mucus and spit from my mouth and throat went all over the fucking place (trust me, not in a sexy way like it you see spit flying around in porn), and my nose was dripping with what seemed to be a mix of mucus, spit, and possibly snot (probably a result of my desperate attempts to breathe through my nose), and my eyes watered up to the point tears ran down my face and my vision was blurry. Really did NOT find it enjoyable, and I can't really imagine any guys would have described it as hot, had they been watching. i honestly don't even remember if any of the tops came from doing it. So, getting throat-fucked is on the list of "shit I am horrible at doing and should never attempt", much like trying to make soup, or singing when not in the shower.

I think I would want the tribe/group relationship others mentioned, between like 6 and 10 guys (more than that and I think it's just a "fuck club" and not really a tribe). Group of me and another bottom, 4 or 5 tops, and maybe one or two vers guys (true "either role is great" vers, not "10% top, 90% bottom" vers). I'd prefer the tops to be bears or daddy-types, but not set in stone, and no real preferences for rest of group (race, age, etc), as long as personalities mesh and everyone is sexually compatible enough for group to work. All guys in the group must like bareback sex at the very least, though it's better if everyone is piggy (or if not into piggy sex themselves, don't get bothered if they walk in on something nasty/freaky going on). Tribe doesn't have to share everything, but everyone should contribute and try to take care of others in the group. Make a LOT of money at your job? Help out by covering a big chunk of the household expenses. Broke college student, or just lost your job, or other reason (besides just being lazy lol) that you are broke? Do whatever you can to help with cleaning/maintenance, cooking, laundry, etc for the household. Everyone should feel like everyone cares enough to contribute. Don't need to funnel everyone's money into a joint bank account, but group members should take care of each other. I don't just mean groceries and covering the mortgage/utilities; if someone chips a tooth and can't afford the dentist, the group should pitch in and help him out, stuff like that. Not just a "fuck club", a tribe or "family" type of thing.

My boyfriend and I go to the bathhouse and other cruise spots together. We both take cocks bb (he is vers, I am a bottom). He's doesn't quite realize how much of a nasty pig I am as far as other stuff, but the bb thing is a non-issue.

I wrote a story once and had people asking when part 2 would be posted. I appreciated that they liked the story and had positive comments about it, but it sort of annoyed me that they expected it to continue, when I felt it was clearly a "one-off" or "stand-alone" short story. When I originally posted the story, and even after re-reading it several times, I felt the story was completed and there was no need for a continuation. The story had been told, the backstory had been told, and where the characters seemed to be headed was pretty well spelled out by the main character himself (it was kind of an extreme Dom/sub type story so I won't get into it all, but the looming fate of the main character was pretty dark, even though he fully embraced it). It wasn't some massive novel, just a short story I hammered out in a few hours, but I felt I did a solid job (no serious plot holes, characters behavior and motivations were believable, story made sense, had a decent flow to it, etc) so there just wasn't any reason to continue it. I really felt it was unnecessary to write anymore about it, and that doing so would actually take-away from what had already been written (lessen the impact, so to speak). I wasn't willing to add a part 2 just for the sake of having the story be longer. In a situation like that, I'd prefer to start a new story. I can't speak for other authors, but it's possible some of them feel the same way and that's why works don't get continued. Of course, a work that is OBVIOUSLY yet to be completed that is just abandoned is another animal entirely...

You're on a bareback sex site asking if you should fuck without a condom. You knew before asking that you were going to be told to take it bareback, so your mind seems to be made up and you just want affirmation about your choice. If you want it bareback, take it bareback. If you're scared/freaked out, then wrap it up. Really can't have other people make decisions like that for you. Either be an adult and decide for yourself or don't have sex. Period. For what it is worth, I started barebacking years ago and stayed neg for a LONG time. I didn't get pozzed until I started taking cock through gloryholes, bending over for guys at rest stops, and offering my ass to guys at bathhouses. So you CAN bareback and stay healthy, if that is your concern. I don't regret getting pozzed, it was worth accepting the consequences in order to have the sex life I WANTED but denied myself for so long. But I would get on PrEP ASAP if you want to stay neg, and be careful about who you let dump his cum in you if you are scared of other STDs.

I'm curious if other guys have encountered tops or vers guys with cocks so small it made you question how they expected to have sex? (Obviously a bottom with a a tiny cock won't have to worry much about it affecting his performance). I'm really not hung up on cock size unless a guy is just extremely tiny, like so small it makes sex difficult. I've had awesome sex with men with erections that even rock-hard were barely 3" (or less; I didn't measure but I have sucked off, and even been fucked by, guys who I would guess barely cleared 2"). So I don't qualify as a size-queen by any stretch of the imagination. Anyway, I was at a cruise spot the other day and saw a guy looking me over. Soon enough I was on my knees in front of him and he was dropping his pants. I've encountered MANY dicks in my life, some MASSIVE, some tiny. This guy had the smallest cock I have ever seen in my life, including the pics I've seen online of what (I believe) is called "micropenis". Basically, he had balls, a bit of foreskin hanging off his body in the area where a cock should have been, and as far as I could tell, no actual cock (the overall effect was that it looked like he had a saggy 2nd belly-button where his cock should have been). It was awkward because he said "okay boy suck it" as soon as he dropped his pants, and other than licking the foreskin I couldn't really do anything because there just wasn't anything there to work with! I didn't say anything to him about his penis being too small to actually suck, I just said something like "I think someone is walking this way" as an excuse to leave and got out of there. I don't make fun of, or look down on guys for having small cocks (it's not something a man has any control over, risky and expensive surgeries aside). But really, how can you go out to cruise spots looking to get your cock sucked, when you have nothing for the cocksucker to put in his mouth? What do you guys think about this situation? Have you ever encountered cocks so small that you stopped and thought "I don't know if it is even physically possible for us to have sex, that cock is just too small to get inside me"? I don't mean guys with under-average sized cocks, I am talking about Top/Vers men with cocks so small it makes it difficult (impossible?) to have sex.

I have chatted with guys about this but it never moved from online chatting into reality. I think it would be hot to be gang-raped (not really beaten/brutalized, just "forced" to take cocks in my ass). Go over to a top's house when he (refer to him as "Daddy" from now on since I like daddies) has like 5 or more buddies there. Daddy and I have spoken about this ahead of time so he knows I want it, but as far as his buddies know, I am ONLY there so they can take turns getting their cocks sucked, my ass has NOT been offered up for use. I strip naked, and start sucking cocks. After his buddies are horned up (but nobody has cummed yet), Daddy starts talking about wanting my ass. I turn him down and remind him and his buddies I only came over to suck cock, NOT get fucked in the ass. Daddy becomes insistent on getting my ass and I keep refusing to give it up, until finally Daddy grabs me and tells his buddies to help hold me down. They get me into a position where I can't really fight back and my ass is up in the air, ready to be penetrated. I struggle a bit at first but with men holding me down it doesn't do much good, and Daddy both threatens and reassures me that it won't hurt much unless I fight it, so as his cock enters my ass, I end up just whimpering, wincing, and quietly saying things like "No, please no, oh my God please stop, I'm being raped oh God I'm being raped" and then pretend to more or less block out what is happening, zone out (which I have heard is something people often do when getting raped/going through trauma). After Daddy dumps his load in me, the other men take turns fucking my "unwilling" ass. Maybe a few of the meaner/nastier ones piss on me, or even force two cocks up my ass at once. All of them fuck me bareback, all unload in my ass despite knowing I only offered them my mouth. After the last guy dumps his load, Daddy makes up a threat about either hurting me or making sure EVERYONE knows what happened if I ever tell a single person I was raped (so the other men aren't worried about consequences). So Daddy and I knew I wanted it but all the other men leave Daddy's house honestly believing the sex was unwanted, that I was held down and forced to take all their cocks and cum against my will, that I was gang-raped. Maybe I'm crazy for having this fantasy, but I think it is HOT as fuck and I hope to God it ends up happening for me one day. The thought of taking cock from a guy who honestly believes I don't want him inside me, that he is FORCING me to take his cock up my ass, just drives me wild.

I'm not a size queen, as long as a guy is big enough to perform, I'm happy. That said, there is something visually pleasing about seeing either a bottom with a HUGE cock getting fucked in the ass, or seeing a bottom with a teeny-tiny cock getting fucked in the ass. No idea why it just looks better to me than an "average" cock on a bottom. I'm just a little under 8" and have some girth, so most guys consider me hung and some guys have had "Holy shit!" type reactions when they see me fully hard for the first time (I think because I am tall and slender, my "big" cock looks "HOLY SHIT" sized to some guys). However, I just consider myself "big" or "hung" (the 7" to 9" range, in my humble opinion), not "Holy shit!" or "HUGE" (which to me is like the 10 inches or more range, or guys with cocks that are wider/thicker than a beer can). No offense to anyone who disagrees, but I think claiming anything under 8" is small is completely unrealistic. Average is around 6" (a lot of studies put to it closer to 5"). That means anything over 6.5"-7" is actually big, and above 7" should be more than adequate to anyone but the most cock-hungry size queen. Guys have skewed views on penis size because they watch too much porn and porn stars tend to be MUCH larger than average.

Just wanted to clarify, in my original post I was NOT talking about a guy shitting on me, sucking on a cock that is completely coated in shit, or any hardcore scat play. I was talking more about a cock coming out of an ass a little messy or with a little brown on it (just enough the top and other guys watching would be able to tell it was dirty) then making me suck it clean. Get verbal about making me suck it clean, not shouting for whole bathhouse to hear, just loud enough that guys around would know that yes, I was cleaning off a dirty cock with my mouth, not just doing some normal/clean ass to mouth. I get some guys think anything involving even a speck of brown qualifies as scat; I consider this to still be just slightly on the raunch side of the line between raunch and scat. I don't think the area would be reeking of shit during/after as some posters seem to believe (few times I've seen a cock come out of an ass dirty, the lube prevented any issues with odors in the vicinity). I appreciate the votes and comments, and it's cool to be able to make a post like this without people freaking out about it or attacking me. Thanks guys.

Rinse out, get loosened up with either a dildo or have a buddy give you an "open me up" butt-fuck before being turned over to the other tops. Poppers can help but don't go crazy. A position you find comfortable and can stay in a long time is important. If you have fast cummers in the group, have them go first; need your ass to stay well lubed when taking a lot of cock, and a few loads in your ass right off the bat will keep your insides slick for the rest of the gangbang.

Just messaged Rawtop about it. Hopefully I'll get access at some point

I have a raunchy Dom Daddy I play with often. Daddy has another sub he plays with (I am somewhat sub, this guy is basically a slave once he's naked), and sometimes we do 3 ways (bb of course). I wait in the bedroom naked, sub arrives and stays in another room with Daddy while they strip and sub puts on a hood (we each have no idea what the other looks like), then they both come into the bedroom so the fun can begin. Daddy makes us take turns sucking his dick to start things off, get him hard and ready to play. Then it's just a nasty pig fest of me and the sub licking each other's assholes (as well as Daddy's asshole and his balls, and anywhere else he wants us to lick), and Daddy's cock going from one hole then into another hole, in any possible order; he's gone back and forth between our asses and we've both sucked the other's ass juice off his cock. The last couple of 3 ways, Daddy has gotten heavy into watersports. He pisses on both of us (to mark his territory), makes us take turns drinking from the tap, and REALLY likes to fill the sub's ass with piss then make the sub squirt it out into my mouth for me to swallow. Sub has swallowed Daddy's piss out of my ass as well, but only once. It's nasty but ranks among the hottest sex I've ever had.

Everyone has their preferences and turn ons, so if a guy isn't into you and is nice (or neutral) towards you in turning you down, I don't see any reason to be upset. If a guy is a jerk about turning you down, that says more about him than you, so just shrug it off; guys like that aren't worth getting upset about. Eventually being a jerk comes back to bite you in the ass, so shrug it off and wait for karma to sort things out.

I am a nasty, raunchy pig bottom. I go to cruise spots and bathhouses for sex, drink piss, and take cock ass to mouth (even from other bottoms' asses). When at cruise spots, it's usually somewhat secluded, like a trail in the woods, where nobody except for the guy (or guys) I am playing with will see or know about what we are doing. So I don't really have any objection to, say, fulfilling a top's request for me to lick his asshole even though he knows his ass is ripe/unshowered (rinse my mouth with water and if needed wipe my face off with a paper towel, always carry one in my back pocket while cruising). I recently met a Top online who goes to the same bathhouses as me, who likes doing raunchy/light scat type play in front of other guys. Stuff like fucking a dirty hole then having another bottom suck his dick clean, in the "open" areas of the bathhouse, where guys can see it (even guys who might not be into that sort of thing, at all). He says he hasn't done it much because it's hard to find bottoms who will do it openly, but that it is a MAJOR turn on for him, and he really wants me to do it for him. I'm ambivalent. I like pleasing tops and have no issue with raunch/light scat, but I feel it's kind of an asshole move to do that in front of people who very likely don't want to see it and might be offended/grossed out. So, here's my question, what do you guys think of men having raunchy sex in open/shared areas of a bathhouse?