NWUSHorny
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It looks like he invited the entire team for a free throw contest and every single one of his teammates scored at least once in his cornhole. -
Yes you can fuck me -
Yes, both hole and pole! -
I'm not sure that's a bad thing, maybe they'll come back after they get some experience. It can and does happen. -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
The bathhouse staff have never brought it up as an issue with me, but I have little doubt they had complaints about me at times. Yes I do talk to the guys on the bathhouse staff, sometimes even when we aren't fucking 😜 I have mostly made a point to stay away on those nights. I just wish they would have the same courtesy for more explicitly themed events. In yet another irony the Eagle PDX appears to be hosting a monthly night for Omen members to come hang out naked. I'm told having sex in Portland gay bars is legal at the discretion of the establishment, and the Eagle does allow it, the problem is no one dares to take advantage of it even when they aren't hosting one of these events. I'm headed out for 9 days in Palm Springs tomorrow morning, and will hopefully be in a better frame of mind by tomorrow night. -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
The emphasis is on guys giving each other spa type treatments, there are always massage tables and guys looking to give/receive massages, they frequently also include guys that come to do manicures and pedicures, sometimes a barber, and less often body shaving. Omen [think before following links] [think before following links] https://www.omenpdx.org/events/11949 is the name of the group that hosts them, and it is not a sex centric organization. I see from there website, that they are no longer the host of the events at Steam and a quick check of the Steam website now call the events "Radical Rub Down". The Wednesday night event at Hawks actually contains a warning: "Sensual/Sexual Intent: Sensual things may happen at this public event. It's still a naked gathering but it's at a bath house. There may be both social and sexual activities in the areas of the venue. The consensual sexual activities may happen in all areas of the location, but mainly in the room areas/play areas. Boners OK and allowed in all area and it's ok to play with yours or others with consent." From past experience a lot of attendees are not ok with sexual activities and have no problem letting other patrons know their preference for no sexual activities. Spa night at a bathhouse in PDX is explicitly not a sexual themed event. -
I hope I get one like that in me this weekend -
The one of right is gaping -
Damn, I'd fuck that so hard! -
or lick it up and share it in a kiss -
I would give just about anything to be under them licking and smelling that as they fuck! -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I think you would need to start a new club/organization. The events that bring the most customers in the door at the existing establishments are the opposite of this. It's been a couple of years since I have actually gone in on a Spa which is night, but based on just driving by the parking situation at the weekly Spa nights held on Tuesday at Steam and Wednesday at Hawks bring in 3 times as many customers as the monthly Cumunion parties, currently hosted one Saturday a month at Steam. I don't really blame them for leaning into what the local demand is for, but it's still frustrating. Steam hosts a hugely attended quarterly Saturday night spa party that I often forget about until I'm hunting for a parking space. No one from the staff at either bathhouse has ever warned me that my preferred activities aren't welcome on Spa nights, but the patrons have made it clear in both actions and words. -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I guess we all have our own likes, but for me spending time in a sexually charged environment with nudity and uninhibited conversation, is extremely frustrating. You can easily spend 4 or more hours in a gay bathhouse in the PNW and not see or hear any indication that anyone has actually fucked. I find that there are no bigger boner killers, than spending hours listening to naked guys socialize, watching them kiss, cuddle and engage in foreplay for hours on end without actually fucking. -
I haven't been to Brazil, but would suspect it is a combination of things on your list. Is it possible the darkrooms don't exist at establishments within the "safe" tourist perimeter? At least in the US establishments that host such attractions are forced out of the "acceptable" areas in many cities. I also suspect the cockblocking boyfriend lurking nearby is a significant factor.
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I get approached and have to say no to guys that are into activities that do nothing for me, that I've hooked up and tried to have sex with in the past, fairly regularly. I'm open enough to ask "are we going to fuck this time?" before I say NO, but if the answer to my question is no I'm not interested in just a BJ or cuddling for hours, again.
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I'm guessing it started with a fuck, not a long conversation, and ended in an open relationship. I think the baths are probably great place to look for what you had. -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I think I need to start asking: "Do you do dick IN butt stuff?" Maybe I should incorporate that into my online profiles. -
Good point, I fully agree. I have always used US or US citizen, instead of America and American when I participate in online political forums about the US. America is a place, the United States of America is a country that was founded on an idealism.
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I hope I get some of that kind of action while I'm in Palm Springs next week! -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I just googled it, for gay marriages per capita in the US here are the top 5: 1 San Francisco, CA 2 Portland, OR 3 Seattle, WA 4 Austin. TX 5 Boston, MA There are definitely a lot of guys that claim to be looking for a white picket fence and monogamy, even in the bathhouses. There is less sex and more socializing in PNW bathhouses than most of the world, but it still seems like a strange place to look for a husband. -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
There are definitely regional differences, it smacked me in the face when I moved from Denver, where I had a very active sex life in mostly in bathhouses and outdoor cruising spots to Portland. Guys in Portland to to bathhouses and outdoor cruising areas, but there is less physical contact and a lot less actual penetration. It is so bad that you are likely to offend them by even suggesting you want penetration with a penis. Fingers, fists, toys and tongues are for some reason acceptable to a lot of guys who would never consider sticking their dick in someones ass or letting someone shove a cock up their hole. I travel quite a bit, and haven't seen the extreme bias against fucking with a dick outside the PNW and west coast of Canada anywhere else. I'm not saying there hasn't been a slow decline elsewhere in the US, but we always seem to be well ahead of the trends on it here. The heteronormative aspect is an interesting point, I believe Portland is #1 in the US for gay marriage per capita, and you can even find guys in bathhouses looking for a monogamous LTR. -
It's worth going if you will be in town, but don't set your expectations too high.
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
It's not a recent problem here in Portland, I'm sorry to hear it is spreading to other parts of the US. -
Have you ever taken money to fuck or be fucked ?
NWUSHorny replied to Thedogsbolloxxl2's topic in General Discussion
I've been offered, but other than accepting free admission to a couple of sex clubs where I was fucking the guys that let me in, NO. I wasn't comfortable with even that limited arrangement and had to tell them I couldn't accept and why. I don't have sex for money, or pay for sex. -
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NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I think that's the crux of the problem, some of us only find sexual frustration not sexual enjoyment in sexual situation with people we are not sexually compatible with. While I can definitely hand out socially with someone I like, but I'm not sexually compatible with. I don't get any enjoyment from hanging out with them in a sexually charged environment. I'm bi and fully versatile, so I can sexually satisfy anyone that shares a mutual attraction and is into penetration, however if they aren't into penetration and we are spending time in a sexual situation it is pure sexual frustration. I am coming to understand that there are a lot of people who aren't into penetration, or can't accomplish it for medical reasons. I'm no more sexually compatible and able to find mutual satisfaction with a nonpenetrator than I am a 100% straight cis male. That doesn't mean I can't hang out socially with a straight male, I do it all the time, but we can't have sex with each other.
