NWUSHorny
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Why are flip orgies so hard to find
NWUSHorny replied to muscmtl's topic in Bareback Porn Discussion
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They are definitely fantasist, but I'm not sure voyeur fits when it comes to watching in realtime. There are times when if you start fucking in a group play area of a sex club you get total privacy, the fantasist will spend hours watching 2 guys engage in foreplay but leave if they actual start actually fucking. Where I live this leads to some pretty crazy, and sometimes stupid, behavior by exhibitionists to get noticed while actually fucking.
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Both on the apps and in person. There are a lot of men that identify as "gay" that are really asexual in regard to actually having sex.
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Unfortunately yes, as well as events that aren't explicitly sexual. Unfortunately the events that aren't explicitly sexual can draw large crowds of guys that do not welcome fucking at such events.
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Attention TOPS: what do u think of really tight holes?
NWUSHorny replied to a topic in General Discussion
Loose and tight are relative, I don't generally mind a tight hole so long as he doesn't clamp down on my dick to the point it is painful and can't cum if I want to, I have tried to fuck a few guys that were like that. The only time a loose sloppy hole becomes a priority is at a good orgy after I've already cum a couple of times. -
That is a shame, the slings at both Denver Swim Club and Midtowne saw a lot of fucking. Buddies in Colorado Springs is still open and has slings, and at least in the past has had plenty of customers that understand the purpose of a sling in a sex club, much like Denver.
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Where did you get (or give) your last load?
NWUSHorny replied to rawTOP's topic in General Discussion
I did both give and take a load after spending way to long at the bathhouse last night. I had family visiting this week, and was extremely horny and hoping for some good group action, but unfortunately this is Portland where such things rarely happen. I really need a sexcation or to move to get what I want. -
I'm not really into fisting, but have noticed that a lot where I live now, and it isn't entirely limited to the bottoms. At least locally I'm with your regular top, I try not to give hookups or fuckbuds an option of engaging in penetrative sex acts that don't involve a cock. There are just too many guys that will jump at the chance to have sex that doesn't involve cock.
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I stop if a bottom asks me to, I Don get any pleasure from fucking if the pleasure isn't mutual. That said I've never fully understood not being able to enjoy getting fucked after I cum, as a versatile guy who loves to flip fuck I'm more than happy to give you a go at my hole as soon as I catch my breath and pulling out of a guy I've just bred.
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That is a very decent number, I doubt that I ever have shot more than 350 from fucking in a single year. Living in Portland and not traveling 200 is a major accomplishment.
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Pump right away after sticking it in or allow time?
NWUSHorny replied to miticax's topic in General Discussion
A good rule of thumb, if I'm topping is unless I know the guy was just fucked to at least go slow on the insertion. If I discover he is already loose and wet, there is no need to ease into it, but if he isn't at least loose I need to pause and allow his hole to relax. Since I prefer to fuck guys in sex clubs or at orgies a lot of them will already be loose and ready to take a pounding. I would suspect that quite a few of the amateur porn bottoms are renting a room and filming multiple scenes in a short period of time. I even seem to remember one where Michael Boston told a top he wouldn't need lube since it had only been 20 minutes since his last fuck. -
It's not quite as egregious misuse of a term as guys calling themselves "tops" or "versatile" if they are willing to finger or dildo someone but won't fuck with their cock. I've come across several of those this year. I have had a couple of versatile fuckbuds over the years that enjoyed talking to each other about fucking with their BBC an my BWC, when we were of similar size. So the definition of big can be subjective.
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My 1st question is how much time are you spending outside of Seattle and the greater PNW? I know you mentioned going to IML, but wonder how many days you spent in Chicago. Seattle and the greater PNW is known for seasonal affective disorder depression, and my personal observation is that once the sun does come out in the summer sex drive doesn't increase it actually drops to near zero in the bathhouses and cruising spots. I also wonder how much of it was based on frustration, I don't know how many times you went to the bathhouse between 7/22/22 and 12/5/22, but since you are in Seattle I'm not at all surprised they were all sexless. Did thing pick up in December, they usually do here, or had you given up hope by that point? Even with my my hyperactive sex drive an evening of watching a large group of gay men do nothing but parade around naked in a blue ball no mating dance for a few hours can keep me from getting hard and being able to cum for a full day. I'm not sure what to think about the situation with your new boyfriend, but can't help but wonder if he hasn't been suffering from a low sex drive as well. Having sex only twice since February and he is still around either makes me think he is either suffering from a low, but not as low as yours, sex drive or he has been conditioned by the Seattle gay culture to think having sex only a handful of times a year is perfectly normal. For me at least, I find myself not seeking sex when I'm at home in Portland, more from frustration rather than lack of desire, but I do get a big boost to my libido when I travel outside of the PNW, and the longer I'm away the more pronounced it becomes.
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I like changing positions frequently when I fuck or get fucked, and yes the that is one of several positions that would ideally part of every fuck.
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Pump right away after sticking it in or allow time?
NWUSHorny replied to miticax's topic in General Discussion
It depends on how loose the bottom is. If the hole, including my own, has been recently well used there is really no need to ease into the fuck, but if the hole is tight and tense you need to take it easy. It really isn't pleasurable to top a tight tense bottom, so unless you are a sadist there is really no pleasure in hurting a tight fuck hole. -
I've had it happen in sex clubs and adult theaters in several cities, but haven't had it happen in the last 5 years or more. So it doesn't seem like a recent trend.
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Asexuality seems to be an up and coming thing for some reason.
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So that is what they were at the bathhouses for in Portland this weekend. LOL They certainly weren't there to fuck or even suck.
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It's been big in Portland for the entire 16 years I've lived here. I hadn't really encountered it before I moved here, and still haven't seen it much anywhere else in my travels.
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Have CumUnion Parties lost there appeal where you live?
NWUSHorny replied to NWUSHorny's topic in General Discussion
I'm not sure that is helping them here, "Spa Night" parties seem to be the best attended events, and pretty much any fetish event that isn't explicitly about sex is better attended than CumUnion. -
I went to Palm Springs over the 4th of July last year, and it was brutal in both good and bad ways. I've thought a little about moving there, but can't get past the climate, I actually enjoy all 4 seasons and don't deal well with extreme heat, and it looks like it would a little higher cost of living (I may want to retire in the next 10 years). I'm lucky enough to be able to live anywhere with my current job and am probably looking at somewhere back in the Midwest since all of my family lives there and my job is based out of MN, plus both the sex and cost of living would be better there than here. If I don't go to the Midwest, I will probably move back to CO, the sex has always been good for me there, I love the climate, and the cost of living is pretty comparable to here. The sex probably isn't going to be as good as it is in Palm Springs in any of the places I'm considering, but I at least have always had better luck in the cities I'm considering than I do here.
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Sounds like a great time. I need to figure out a summer sexcation too. My biggest problem is limited time, and need to spend it working towards relocating to somewhere I can get more casual sex on a regular basis, and as much Palm Springs has been good to me for sex I don't think it is where I want to live. FYI, thanks for the effort in trying to top to make sex happen.
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At the very least there is a severe shortage of flip fuckers. I've never understood why so few verse guys are up for doing both in the same encounter.
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Another change, not sure it qualifies as a trend, is presence of FTM and more recently MTF that still have their male sexual equipment (I'm not sure why they would want to go to a gay sex club, but Hawks PDX has made an effort to make them feel welcome) in gay sex clubs. To be fair the vast majority of them were not old enough to go to sex clubs 10 years ago.
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Maybe they will go with "power cuddler" instead. Locally that term seems to be more popular than "side". There seem to be many new ways to say "we can have gay sex if you promise not to touch my icky dick and I promise not to touch yours." Who knows, maybe my label "functionally lesbian" will catch on, since for some reason it hasn't made anyone mad yet (I'm not sure how actual lesbians would react to it).
