NWUSHorny

At least immediately following the pandemic there was a pronounced increase in sample rutting as well as one on one hookups, at least in Portland, but unfortunately for me it pretty much returned to normal. I absolutely love sampling multiple holes and poles during a night at the sex club especially big dog pile type orgies with lots of partner switching. I started going to sex clubs when I lived in Denver, and on the weekends I considered it a total failure if I didn't dick and/or get dicked by at least 25 different guys. In almost 9 years of living there I failed at most 10% of the time and I went almost every Friday and Saturday night. to normal. The fact that sex clubs and cruising in general doesn't work that way in every city, is the primary reason I'm sexually incompatible with the PNW. I think I've been to Palm Springs twice since the pandemic but had not noticed a difference in sample rutting there. At least at CCBC, it seems to be expected and I'm more than happy to comply with that expectation. The only time I've ever been to All Worlds was before the pandemic and on a weekday and it was much slower than a weeknight at CCBC has typically been for me. I've been trying to make it to a Cumunion party there, in the hopes that there would be a significant amount of hole and pole sampling happening.

Unfortunately this seems to be a common expectation in Portland, that if you fuck with them you won't fuck with anyone else in the same night. In almost 25 years of going to sex clubs, I've only had this happen once outside of the PNW. It definitely puts a huge damper on trying to get a good group orgy going.

There are a lot of guys that seem to want a somewhat weird form of serial monogamy out there. They aren't really monogamous and know you aren't either, but only have sex with 1 person in the same day. Ironically I more often have this problem with non-cumdump bottoms than tops or versatile guys.

Except for the part about having the fuck instantly step out of a portal, you can mostly achieve this by using the apps at a gay sex mecca, at least on the weekends. I know I've done successfully both ways in Palm Springs. The key is having guys that are actually DTF in a compact geography, which most localities don't have. If we had the instant portal that horn dogs from anywhere in the world could just step through it . . .

I went into one at the beach during rainstorm in Hawaii with several guys in it, I wound up fucking a twink undestall, then stepped out of my stall to see a pair openly fucking in a big shower area as well as a blowjob happening at the urinals. If I had realized we didn't need to be discreet I would have tried to get him out in the open.

University libraries seem to be great places for them. There were at least 2 isolated men's rooms in both the main and undergrad libraries where I went that were active every afternoon. Those weren't the only ones on campus, but we had almost 40K students and had a 2:1 male to female student ratio, so there was a lot of cum flowing.

That is true, the most active ones I'm aware of were mostly isolated at the end of a hallway you could hear people entering or up or down a flight of noisy metal stairs.

My reason for faking both the orgasm and the sex sounds is to encourage the other party. The last thing we need where I live is to discourage guys from becoming sluts, and because there is so little casual sex a lot of them are pretty inexperienced.

That's why I do it, it happened to me the 2nd time I was fucked. It is an amazing feeling.

I always try to give a bottom at least a few seconds advanced warning that they are about to get bred. If it is a new fuck it is always verbal, with repeat fucks it may just be speeding up and grunting. I also make an effort to keep thrusting in hopes a squirt will land directly on the prostate.

I'm envious. Was guy #2 the same guy you rode from under the stall? I love to breed or get bred by the same guy I've just bred or got bred by.

Experience helps in locating these kinds of locations. My most recent encounter was in LA last summer, I was at the beach and just went in to use the facilities for there intended purpose, and wound up exchanging some cock sucking with 1 of the 2 guys who were in there when I entered. Since I can't remember if I've ever found a tearoom encounter here in Portland (I have lucked out a few times at rest areas on I5) and hadn't been traveling much due to COVID, so it must be like riding a bicycle.

You have to make your determination on a variety of factors. In addition to the foot tapping somme combination of, has he been in the stall for a long time, with no obvious signs he is taking a shit, you can also quite often tell from either sound or the shadows on the floor if he is jacking off, which is a great indicator that he is there for sex. He may also initiate the exchange by tapping his foot, or bending down to just above eye level with the bottom of the stall wall repeatedly. Less frequently coughing in a manner that is obviously fake when you have heard it several times. You generally aren't going to know, understall action probably 75% oral, and at least 90% mutual. So the best assumption is you will be both sucking and getting sucked. If you want to negotiate in advance go the toilet paper note route or whisper your intentions if safe to do so. There are almost as many variations as men doing it. It signifies interest in doing something. Generally if you respond in kind he will move his foot towards yours until they are touching or start tapping more enthusiastically. If you have responded he may start subtly running his finger along the bottom of the stall wall or start bending down for a peek. Also look for any of the signals I described for #1. It almost always starts as oral, and usually doesn't move beyond that. If he tries to push your hand towards his hole while you are sucking him, it's a signal he wants fucked or if he is brazen will turn around and present his hole, if he moves his fingers towards your hole while he is sucking you, he is most likely looking to fuck. Typically the facilities that are used have walls that stop at least a foot above the floor, so getting down on your knees and sticking it under or squatting to fuck will suffice. Crawling under the wall does happen, but keep in mind how much time you have to recover before attempting such a move. If someone comes in, you scramble to get back on your throne, and wait until the newcomer leaves or signals he is there for the same purpose, if he is experienced he can usually tell you were engaged in activity and accelerate his signals. If he is there for the same reason give him a show or if he is next to your stall invite him to join. I'm a 53 year old who has several vertebrae fused and can still manage it when I get the opportunity. So I would say no. If you are alone, or everyone in the washroom is confirmed as being there for the same reason there is sometimes verbal communication. I've also mentioned passing toilet paper messages under the wall several times. Your hookup may know of a better location, often somewhere with a locking door, or go home with them, that 2 or 3 of you can go for some real fun, which does require more communication. It depends on the washroom, you do sometimes double up. One of you can squat on the toilet or raise up your feet if someone comes in. It frequently happens in single stall washrooms or anytime both understall and urinal cruising is happening, and can if there is ample warning result in some decent orgies in front of the stalls. This pic looks suspiciously like the one of my favorite tearooms from my undergrad days. It was definitely the best choice ion campus if you wanted to fuck or get fucked. I had a lot of 3 way fucks in that handicap stall, and at least a handful of groups of this size or more in front of the stalls.

It's not just older guys at the venues I frequent. It is mostly what I call "functional lesbians" i.e. they don't fuck or get fucked, most of them don't suck or get sucked, and in quite a few of them won't touch a cock or allow you to touch theirs, but still want you to "hookup", i.e. hang out naked with them for several hours. A few of the "functional lesbians" are fisters or fistees. A lot of them are starting to bring their dildoes to the bathhouse. One of the bathhouses hosts massage and spa events where penetration and sucking are not really welcomed by the attendees, and the other has installed special dildo washing facilities and is hosting toy play parties (I haven't been to a toy play party so I don't know if the attendees object to penetration with a a cock).

I actually think for most it is probably more of a matter of finding an active facility, if you are there actively looking for sex the signals become fairly obvious. If you happened there for the intended use of the facility or you aren't actively looking for sex you are unlikely to notice. I was lucky enough to grow up in an area with an abundance of these "facilities", and I think I could have figured it out without reading a 200 page book.

@408curious I'm curious why you consider yourself "straight" if you enjoy sex with both genders? I had a discussion with a "gay" that had sex with both genders but was adamant that he was gay. I've considered myself bisexual for as long as I've known what that meant, I fantasize and enjoy sex with both genders, I've had a lot more sex with men than women, but have never developed or had any interest in developing a romantic attachment to a man. I'm absolutely certain I'm both bi and fully versatile. I absolutely love MMF 3 ways, but don't think I have ever bottomed in that situation when the other man was more than 25.

I've heard promiscuous men of all sexual persuasions called, and have been called these a few times myself: Horndog Himbo Man ho Salty dog Satyromaniac Scamp Personally I kind of like "salty dog," since I love dogpile group fucks.

I'm versatile, and dislike seeing caged bottoms in the sex clubs. Unfortunately it has become a common sight at baths here in Portland in the last several years, I won't fuck a caged guy, and back when Hawks had a darkroom at the old location, stopped fucking several guys when I reached down and found out they were caged. If I'm having sex with another man, both cocks need to be involved at least minimally.

As someone who has done both, and even before I had done it as a bottom, I considered myself a slut. To my mind, slut merely means promiscuous and uninhibited, nooral arguments aside. I do object to the word whore, since it is indictive of a financial transaction, and for whatever reason maintain a moral standard on paying or being paid for sex. So at least during the hookup, they aren't acting as a whore while they are with me. I have walked out on hookups, that have suggested a financial arrangement. Sex is not how I earn my income, and there is no way in hell I'm going to pay for it.

While I think that is true for bi and "straight" guys under 25, by the time they turn 30 almost all of the "straight" guys and probably a majority of the guys who admit to being bi turn total bottom with other men.

I got interrupted by work, and accidentally hit post, so here is my full answer: Here is my personal take for a newby, if you see a shoe in the stall next to you and see him start subtly moving his foot mimic him and start edging your foot closer if he follows suite it will keep advancing to peeks under the wall, hand gestures, maybe a toilet paper message wrapped around a pen, follow your instincts. If he drops down and presents you with his cock or indicates you should stick yours under the wall for him you did it right. All that said, your biggest challenge will be finding an active bathroom. Where I grew up there were numerous opportunities with plenty of writing and cum splatters on the walls, in parks, department stores, libraries, college buildings and etc. It really would not have occurred to me that it wasn't true everywhere, however for the last 16 years I've lived in a major city where I can find little evidence of such activity, but can still find it when I travel. As to the book "Tearoom Trade", I'm almost certain I found it and read it at my local community college library while I was still in high school. I don't know if the general public can just walk into the CC library anymore, or even if they could then since I was taking classes and would have had a student ID. The mid 1980's were a different time to say the very least. I would still recommend trying to find it in a library. There was understall action to be had at that CC, I was still a couple of years away from finding the courage to act on that knowledge.

Here is my personal take for a newby, if you see a shoe in the stall next to you and see him start subtly moving his foot mimic him and start edging your foot closer if he follows suite it will keep advancing to peeks hand gestures, maybe a toilet paper message wrapped around a pen, follow your instincts.

At the very least, the "quality over quantity" guys tend to be less experienced and have even more inhibitions, which often means it will be a lousy fuck. I go through phases, but I usually fuck them anyway, in the hope that it will somehow turn them into someone who loves the act enough to learn how to make it the focus.

That is very true. The bad behavior isn't limited to any one sexual position, and can be rampant in some venues.

I agree with @topblkmale to read "Tearoom Trade", that was one of the things I did before attempting it. I was also lucky enough to be a student at a University with several obviously very active tearooms, which made figuring it out fairly easy. If you aren't lucky enough to live near an active tearoom or their aren't any in your area, I can see where it would be difficult to figure out.