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  1. NWUSHorny
    I don't know if they take their clothes off. They are heavily promoted on Twitter and if you Google Portland Cuddle Parties or Groups you get a long list. They have both mixed and single sex events. The only things I noted was that they all seem to forbid sexual contact at their events, and that it is trend that is expanding to other areas and were listing new events in other US and Canadian cities. It doesn't sound like my cup of tea. Not exactly a cuddle party, but one of the baths have massage night every Tuesday night and monthly parties where they take off their clothes and just massage each other, that the other patrons on those nights have let me know are not intended for sexual contact. I haven't received any warnings from the bathhouse employees, but I scrupulously avoid those events. As far as I know that concept has not spread to sex clubs in other cities. I haven't been yet, and am unlikely to ever go, but the other bathhouse has started hosting dildo play parties every Thursday night. I hope that concept doesn't spread.
  2. NWUSHorny
    I'm sorry to hear this is spreading to other parts of the country. I'm pretty sure these are the guys I've been meeting at in person sex venues, since moving to the PNW that know "1001 ways to have really great sex without fucking" or in a lot of cases without even touching anyone else's dick. They are so prevelent here, that it seems like they should be able to find each other and leave the rest of us alone, but I suspect once you taking fucking and in most cases sucking off the table there is little common ground to find a mutually agreed upon hookup activity. Although cuddle groups and events have sprung up in large numbers in large numbers in Portland, and I understand they are spreading to other areas. One of the regular cuddle parties was ground zero for local monkeypox outbreak last summer. So maybe some of them are finding each other.
  3. NWUSHorny
    Others have given nicer definitions than I have. The simplest definition who consider mild foreplay as the main event. I can happily avoid them on the apps, I wish I could say the same about in person.
  4. NWUSHorny
    Maybe he squirted the 1st shot of it directly on your prostate and then pushed all the way in? It is an amazing feeling, it happened to me the 2nd time I ever got fucked, I actually felt it through a condom, I came buckets without touching myself at the same time, despite the fact that it scared the hell out of me since it was 1990. He and I became regular fuck buddies for our final semester of college, he was versatile too and we both got really good at replicating it for each other.
  5. NWUSHorny
    So many places to choose from, I'm going to go with the stairwell of a parking garage that someone, not the guys I was fucking, had obviously been using as a toilet.
  6. NWUSHorny
    I much prefer your version. At least here I don't think the sides engage in blowjobs. I usually just call them functionally lesbian.
  7. NWUSHorny
    My interpretation based on this definition is that the only thing that's off the table with side men is anal play. Some of them will take a lot more than fingers up their ass. Are fisters that don't take or give cock sides? I would classify them that way. Not that it is my thing anyway, but I have run into several guys into fisting that won't take a cock. I had never met a guy into getting fisted that wouldn't jump at the chance to take a cock before moving to Portland. I now know they are fairly common through out the PNW, but still haven't encountered that elsewhere.
  8. NWUSHorny
    I think it is still mostly means cuddling and other light petting activities. The guys that list oral in the list of activities they are interested in rarely seem to list their position as side. It has been a long time problem here that a lot of guys, including the ones in the sex club don't fuck or even suck. They even host events that cater to the guys that prefer other activities, unfortunately for me, more of them all the time. Nearly everyone besides me, lists cuddling as one of their top likes in their online hookup profiles, yet they still come to the sex clubs and beg guys to cuddle with them. On NYE I was in the sling trying to get fucked and a guy tried to cuddle with me and then invited me to go home and cuddle all night with him.
  9. NWUSHorny
    When more guys to join it is definitely the best part of being watched fucking in public. The more the merrier.
  10. NWUSHorny
    The only times I don't is if when I have cum too many times in a short period of time.
  11. NWUSHorny
    I was on Sniffies over the long weekend and noticed that a significant percentage of the profiles are identifying as "sides", which is generally fine in that I know we aren't going to be a match and that meeting up with them for "sex" will do nothing more than increase both of our sexual frustration levels. For me sex has always been about penetration of an orifice below the waist i.e. fucking or getting fucked. I guess my real question is primarily about in person sex venues, I know that the guys now identifying as sides have been present in them for a long time, I frequently get "invited" to participate in what for me are very sexually frustrating activities. What is the situation where you live and how do you deal with invitations to have non-penetrative sex? Unfortunately for me I live in a city where the local gay sex venues host massage, spa, sex toy and other fetish nights where sex isn't expressly forbidden but is strongly looked down on by a majority of patrons on those nights. To my surprise when I moved here, years ago, there is even a fisting community that has no interest in penetrating or being penetrated by a cock. It is also the city where cuddle clubs and events originated, most of which expressly forbid any genital contact at their events. Before moving here, being versatile and bi, I had always thought I could hookup with almost anyone and have a good time.
  12. NWUSHorny
    I am much the same way, my most satisfying orgasms are when my cock is buried in either an ass or a pussy. Even blowjobs are a very poor substitute. Having someone else jack me off or frot on them are no better than jacking off alone, I get a needed physical release but nothing else out of it. Don't even get me started on the people that just want to cuddle, make out or some other form of light petting, the only thing that does is build my frustration and increase my need for a sexual release.
  13. NWUSHorny
    I haven't yet. I'd love to visit, but probably wouldn't move there.
  14. NWUSHorny
    My standard would be somewhere you could get arrested if caught. Sex clubs and bathhouses do not meet that standard, and unless you are a repeat offender in a gay bar that frowns on that behavior that doesn't meet the standard either. I personally love public sex, and engage in it as often as I can and love being caught by people that enjoy catching people in the act, but in a way that minimizes risk for arrest. I don't have a lot of it local to where I live, since the only willing guys seem to be the ones that fetishize the risk of getting arrested rather than enjoying the actual sex act and the showing off primarily for potential voyuers. They engage in more risk than I can tolerate.
  15. NWUSHorny
    If sex clubs count I both fucked and got fucked, last night. My last truly public fuck where a cock was actually inside an ass out in the open was in September in a Minneapolis park. Reading these experiences reminds me I really need a sexcation soon.
  16. NWUSHorny
    They don't do much good in the PNW either, very few guys on BBRT these days, A4A has been completely taken over by guys looking for long term relationships, and Sniffies was fairly popular until recently but very few even list fucking as an activity they are looking for, if you want to cuddle you should have excellent luck, personally I have never had a local successful hookup on Sniffies, but have had in several cities in both the Midwest and Socal. I don't know what they have moved onto now.
  17. NWUSHorny
    I'm versatile and love to flip, which may screw my opinion somewhat. I've worked on regular basis in a lot of different cities, mostly Midwestern an western US as well as central and western Canada. My only real experience with TX was living in Dallas almost 25 years ago, and don't remember any difficulty finding partners. So here is my list that I can easily find willing partners in almost any larger city in the Midwest or central Canada, Denver is where I was living when I became a complete slut, it and Colorado Springs remain great locations for me, I also do really well in Las Vegas, Palm Springs and LA. In the PNW Portland, Seattle, Spokane, Boise, Vancouver and Victoria BC are the cities I almost always strike out, there is a severe shortage of guys who like to participate in casual fucking either as a top or bottom, they are very into kinks, fetishes and cuddling with strangers, just don't ask them to actually fuck. I'm probably headed back to the Midwest since that is where my current job is based and most of my family lives.
  18. NWUSHorny
    Well every guy at the bathhouse had a 1st time at one, including those of us who are total sluts. I would disagree with you to some really extent on their experience with fucking, I was 30 the 1st time I went to a bathhouse, but had my 1st group fucking experience 10 years before that, and would have been considered a slut even by the standards of this site at 20 (tearooms, parks, bookstores). I fucked and got fucked in a 3 way in a group play space within my 1st 15 minutes, before I even had a chance to explore the club on my 1st visit. I have encouraged guys to go to bathhouses the 1st time and even offered to meet them there, my personal experience is that it only works if it is someone you have already hooked up with, and know that they are fairly uninhibited. After living 15 years in the PNW, I probably wouldn't extend the offer to guy that I was just chatting with on the apps, or I had hooked up with but found them to be sexually inhibited or was more interested in a fetish than actually fucking. The last thing we need in the PNW is more guys indulging their sexual inhibitions and fetishes that don't involve fucking at the bathhouses. I'm not really sure why I didn't go to one sooner, I had opportunities, but for what ever reason didn't. What finally put me over the top was meeting an out of town guy in a hotel room who asked me about the local bathhouse scene. By the end of that week I was very familiar with it.
  19. NWUSHorny
    I would/will probably go to Cumunion. It is the PNW so both events will be light on actual fucking compared to a regular night in a bathhouse for most of the world. I went to Steam last night for New Years Eve and was seriously considering leaving and going to Hawks around midnight, but talked to someone who had just come from Hawks that said it was the normal blue ball no mating dance over there too.
  20. NWUSHorny
    I went to one of the baths here last night. I did manage to get fucked by 4 guys and fuck 6 guys. The only one that bred me was the 1st guy, and the only guy I bred was the last. All in all a very frustrating night, I spent 7 hour to get that amount of sex, I had numerous guys try to talk me into other activities besides fucking, the one that really takes the cake is the guy who tried to cuddle with him in the while I was laying in the sling and then invited me to go home with him for a night of cuddling.
  21. NWUSHorny
    To move somewhere with a decent number of like minded guys that like casual fucking. My pole needs more hole and my hole need more pole.
  22. NWUSHorny
    Unfortunately your assumptions about Cumunion in the PNW are pretty accurate. If you find yourself in a city outside the region when there is a Cumunion party scheduled I highly recommend it. If you make a special trip I've found that LA and Denver (currently Colorado Springs) are particularly hot. I haven't actually been to a Cumunion party in the midwest, but based on general experience would guess that they are hot. Palm Springs and Las Vegas are worthwhile, definitely better than the PNW, but don't compare to LA or Denver. The only time I went in Pittsburgh was great. I've only gone once in San Diego, but it is tied with the worst experiences in Seattle, no one was having sex at all. In the PNW, Portland is slightly better than Seattle or Vancouver, BC but not worth a special trip.
  23. NWUSHorny
    I've been lucky enough be fucked by a few guys who keep fucking through their cumming and felt it spraying directly on my prostate as they passed it. Which always makes me cum too, even if I have just bred an ass minutes earlier. I usually try to replicate this when I top. If a top buries himself deep and holds it there, you can sometimes feel the pulses and the wetness if he shoots a big one, which is hot but never causes me to cum spontaneously.
  24. NWUSHorny
    I really think that the inhibitions that so many guys here seem to nurture are an even bigger obstical than the drugs, that and the number of guys that go to the baths to see and be seen. I haven't been to baths or sex clubs in many cities where the underwear model thing would go over.
  25. NWUSHorny
    That is definitely part of the problem, but there aren't better options here. The hookup apps are even worse. I do not party, and have no interest in partying, however an hour or more of watching the blue ball no mating dance can be very effective at killing my hard on. The difference is a little inspiration can cure mine. We also have a lot of interest in fetishes (like the underwear models), which translates to coming to the baths just to show off their gear. As to the partiers, I think sex becomes almost pure fantasy for a lot of them. They may not even realize they aren't physically having sex, in many cases.

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